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So this girl I really like has broken up with her bf. They live together still but are not intimate anymore. We have been hanging out and we really get along but I told her how I feel and she said "Things are to complicated atm, don't waste your time". She has told me she only wants to have "fun" and has told me she would sleep with me. My question is, should I do it? Or is it a really bad idea because I have feelings for her? Any one had similar experience?
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>>17984783
Sounds like a whore
Why'd they break up
She could be a crazy
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>>17984820
He tried to sleep with her best friend who happens to be my ex.. She doesn't talk to her anymore tho
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>Or is it a really bad idea because I have feelings for her?
Idk if it's a bad idea but you're definitely going to get your fucking heart broken if you go into it like that dude
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Is it judgemental to have preferences? 2017-01-23 03:57:35 Post No.17984745
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Is it judgemental to have preferences?
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Not just racial but about socio-economics, age, personality, appearance. etc?
And not just in romantic relationships but in friendships.
Assuming you don't act like an asshole and share them with others in public.
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No. "Judgemental" is a meme. Our fundamental right as human beings is to make judgements. It's GOOD to be judgmental. And if someone tells you that you are being "judgmental" like it's a bad thing -- what are they doing? They are being judgmental.
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>>17984745
Depends on how much you let your choice be controlled by those preferences. Having them is unavoidable, but absolutely refusing to be friends with someone because they fall into a certain group even though you click together amazingly well is silly
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>>17984814
but refusing to date someone because of personal preferences is totally fine?
Had very rough consensual sex with my ex girlfriend last night. I found out she was cheating on me this morning and I ended the relationship. She is now declaring that I raped her and there's marks on both of our body's from the rough sex. She is contacting the police as i'm writing this thread. What can I do to not go to prison?
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>>17984725
>What can I do to not go to prison
Simply resuming the relationship
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You're fucked. Hope she was worth it!
In future, try to go out with women who aren't total bitch whores.
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>>17984725
>sticking your dick in crazy
GG op. Lube up
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How do you deal with envy?
There's this guy in my social circles who's perfect in every way that I'm not and I fucking hate his ass.
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>>17984697
fuck him right in the ass
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>>17984697
>perfect in every way I'm not
Explain.
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>>17984697
Get to know him and realize he's fucked up somehow because no one is perfect.
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>be me
>hate high school, get expelled because of provocative behaviour despite excellent grades
>new school, still hate school (but not the lessons), receive best possible A-levels
>move into new town, start studying international relations
>realize after 2 months it bores me, I don't know why I started it and I hate most of the students and the city
>quit
>be NEET for half a year and live by my parents (who don't have a lot of money)
>think every day about the future and what I should do with myself (daily change in thoughts about medicine, law or economics+informatics) and that I want to support my family
>move to another city, start studying economics+informatics (because it's a safe bet)
>again realize i fucking hate the subjects, the people etc.
>now want to quit and study law in 2 months
I really don't know what to do anymore. I fear the exact same thing happens in another town and with the new subject (even though I think being a lawyer would make me happy). It's not that I'm not trying. I went to every lecture and excercise. But it drains my energy so much. Now I'm only going to the gym 3 times a week for 3 hours, browse /his/, /tv/, /pol/ and Youtube, read and visit my girlfriend at the weekend. Studying history would be my dream honestly but I don't think it would be a secure option. Don't know what is wrong with me, I liked so many subjects in school like history, German, English, biology, sociology, geography. What can I do? I don't want to waste more time...
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Help
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>>17984688
this isn't even sissyphus.
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>>17985903
Well yeah, it's a joke
Anyone got any tips for organizing a folder of about 10,000 grab bag images? I have this one folder I just shove shit in
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put all the images in a rar file and give it to us.
Please!!
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My advice is not to use a preview icon based file manager. Use a text based tool. Loading and or generating all those icons might make things slow.
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>>17984684
Delete and start over, organising as you save. Look at it this way: if you can't tell where something is, apparently you never use it
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I had an interview at Publix a couple weeks ago but have not heard back. Should I give them a call asking what my status is or is that poor interview etiquette?
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>>17984676
Of course you can call or email.
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dude fugin luv publix brah mafuggin tenders n macaroni with potato wedges, out control
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>>17984676
they might just be very busy
yes call them back if they say no openings ask about a different location
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Is asking for space from a friend bad? My friend has been getting on my nerves lately and she is so stingy and never wants to spend any money to actually go do things. It doesn't help I'm incredibly stressed out and I question if she is a part of that stress. There's nothing romantic between us or anything, so that's why I question if needing space is okay.
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>>17984663
Just say you're busy in the next few weeks and don't initiate contact, if they message you just be nice but brief. Asking for space is probably going to cause more drama then its worth, you can force the space without asking.
And when you're done you can just come back like nothing happened, saying you're free to hang again or whatever.
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Why would you need to ask? Just get your space; it's not as though she just walks into your house uninvited, correct?
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>>17984675
Yeah, it's we made it a routine to hangout weekly for awhile is all. She said she totally understands if I do need it.
I hate my life. I'm 25 and I'm just so disappointed in myself. I have somehow managed to fall short in everything because I am so volatile emotionally and prone to depression. It all stems from the same issue; lack of "support". I've never had any, from anyone. Never had a girlfriend. Lots of "close" friends, but only one who listens and cares. 7 classes until I've graduated, but no passion or direction despite this.
I'm a decent looking guy but I'm fed up with the world. I can't live like this anymore. I told myself ages ago that if I can't find happiness by 26, I'm going to just live like there's nothing to lose. I want to tattoo chest, back, arms, lots of places... and basically just start taking steroids and start giving no fucks about the world or what it or anyone else expects of me. I'll stop being a "good" person and just take what I want. No more helping people just because they are my friends. Basically, I just want to say "fuck you" to the world and live fast so I can die fast.
Does anyone know anyone who has done this, failed, succeeded, or just any words of wisdom or advice before my 26th birthday arrives in 4 months?
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bro 26, your not going to die jet, life is life and it is always whit falling and standing up. fuck pp just do what u want. it will probably make u an inspiration. just don't follow the sheep's
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>>17984640
If you're going to do this then do it right faggot.
>finish whatever bs you have in college
>get a decent job, stick with it for 4 years
>meanwhile become swole af
>like uber /fit/ autism
>learn how to guns
>save up money, weapons, etc
>go to Africa or Southeast Asia or some shit
> rampage and/or become king of the niggers
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>>17984656
I have always worked out off and on for the last 5 years. I'm very fit already, just not "big". This summer I lifted hardcore for 3 months. Everyone I know THOUGHT and seriously asked me if I was on steroids. I have good genetics for this. It's obvious. My metabolism is absolutely absurd; likely in the top 1% in the world. I already have steroids and everything ready. I even have money put aside for tattoos. The only thing that stops me from moving is the thought that I will lose what I already have, is one or two good friends who actually care.
I have some kind of issue mentally. I can't stop thinking. My thoughts are like a train that runs at 10000 miles an hour, and it often comes to forks in the rode, and those forks are like different emotions and thoughts... that that "train" of thought just keeps going and going. One moment I'll be happy and entertaining everyone around me, then I'll think of something else, and I because filled with anger inside or filled with sadness. I used to be able to hold it back, but recently, I can't anymore. I don't care enough to act in any way but how I truly feel inside.
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Is he still seeing her? 2017-01-23 02:55:08 Post No.17984629
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I recently stayed over my boyfriends house and had a bit of a problem with him. He lets me go through his phone so sometimes i like to read his messages with his friends because he likes to talk about me a lot. This particular time i saw his exes last name in one of the contacts and decided to read the texts. the messages were short and what stood out to me the most was his message that said "dont ask me to hang out with you again if you're going to invite your friends and im going to be a literally who". I asked him if he hung out with her, and he told me that the number was her brothers. Being suspicious i sent myself the number and texted it. She later replied to me saying it was her (the ex). I confronted him about it and he said he really thought it was her brother. He sent her a message saying "dont talk to me again, i have a girlfriend now and i love her" in front of me and she replied saying she just wants to be friends. idk the whole thing is fishy to me, what do you think? What should i do?
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>>17984629
It... sound like you have trust issues.
Work on them.
You either trust him or you don't. If you don't trust him, don't be in this relationship
By allowing you access to his phone, it SOUNDS like he's trying to be accommodating and transparent with you (we have no way of knowing if he really is nor not) but you're STILL suspicious of him.
This ever present suspicion is not healthy for your own sake.
This situation is also VERY one sided in your favor. It's fine for him to give you access in the short run, but if you're never going to trust him, all it's doing is feeding in to YOUR bad habits. You are not making the same compromises he is making for you. This imbalance will hurt you in the future and harm your ability to hold healthy relationships.
Decide to trust him or do not.
If you feel he's not the type you can trust, move on.
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>she just wants to be friends
no. just no. exclusive or nothing.
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>>17984650
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9aofoBrFNdg
just a friend man
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Hello /adv/. Need serious help here, please.
I took 10 mg a day of Abilify for about two months under medical prescription. I had some bad side effects (including akathisia, nausea, dizziness, blurred vision, etc); when the prescription time ended I stopped taking it cold-turkey, without titration (don't know why pdoc ended it this way, but that's how it ended).
After I stopped Abilify, I became very depressed and without energy, something which I had never been before. Three weeks after stopping it I still get bouts of depression and peaks of anxiety. I'm afraid this drug has affected my memory. I have lost interest in things that used to interest me. The world seems flat, I feel extremely tired.
I am very concerned that the Abilify has caused permanent damage to my brain and I am going to be stuck this
way for the rest of my life. Does this sound familiar to anyone? Will this condition eventually go away?
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>>17984550
hmmmn why do you think it caused permanent brain damage? it just a chemical bruh...
I took it too and me me super anxious like I couldnt stay calm and shit so my pdoc made me quit cold turkey too...
You see, there is no magical concoction for everyone, talk to your doctor to get some methylphenidate or something else that can give you a boost. It worked for me at least, it also undermined ADD in adulthood so yeah the chemical roller coaster I was in gave some good results.
MY ADVICE IS: if you are not having good results with your currend pdoc then swap him, it took me 3 tries to get to know someone more open minded and willing to take things more personal so DON´T YOU DARE QUIT MAN KEEP FIGHTING
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self-bump
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>>17984550
you had plenty of decent answers yesterday.
stop.
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How do I get started in programming. 2017-01-23 01:35:32 Post No.17984508
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How do I get started in programming.
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So I am on a working holyday in Japan for 2 Months now and decided to study IT when I get back home.Since I have a lot of free time, I searched up a lot of good stuff to learn, but I don't really know where to start. I don't have any particular skills yet. If you have any Tipps on how to get started or what helped you in your studies I would really appreciate them.
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Go to codeacademy.com learn java or some other common language. Then go to fiverr or some website like that and start taking up projects. Don't expect to get paid a lot for your beginning work. Or even your middle tier.
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>>17984514
Currently I just wanna learn. Codeacademy sound interesting though, thanks a lot!
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>>17984508
play with javascript, it is freebie available on windows computers
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I'm 18 and I've never dated or kissed a girl. Next year I'll be going to college, how can I ensure I get married by the time I'm 25?
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>>17984434
Is that a life goal to be married at 25 ? Did I missed something ?
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u probably end up wanking in your parents house at the age of 45, bro ur not alone.
Wav"-
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>>17984434
Why are you making that the goal? Odds are, every date you get you'll be too intense and serious about it and women will be put off.
Just relax, don't put a time frame on stuff like that.
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Is there a way to unequivocally tell if a girl is interested in you? I got this co-worker's number after asking her for it, and we've been texting each other for the past week.
As far as I can tell she's single. She initiates conversations, and has done so late at night. We tell each other bits and pieces of how our day is going. I just can't shake this feeling that she's just being really friendly and I'm reading too much into it, and this is holding me back from asking her out. Fuck, I wish there was an easier way. This is suffering. Help me out from robot hell.
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Yes : ask her.
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>>17984421
>Is there a way to unequivocally tell if a girl is interested in you?
No.
Not ever.
Even if she agrees to marry you, that is no guarantee. There are people who DO get married for the money.
I'm not even saying this as /r9k/ redpill bullshit. I'm saying there is ABSOLUTELY NO WAY of knowing if someone is truly interested in you, at any point.
There is ALWAYS risk, and all you can EVER do is take a chance.
If you don't, you will never get anywhere.
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>>17984421
Anon, just ask her out in a not too datey way. Like, wanna go for some drinks tonight?
Hi /adv/
I never are getting horny by ass or tits, only by face and makeup. How to fix it ?
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>>17984420
Hi anon, that is not a problem, nothing to fix here.
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>>17984420
Stop watching so much porn
Masturbate less
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>>17984457
I don't watch that much