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Nah you're just a hippy you'll find someone anon

Being into music and stuff is a pretty good way to meet people. Do you ever go to shows?

I don't know. It sounds to me like you have enough interests to be able to find someone.

>>17989326
>>I'm not concerned with trivial shit like social media drama between celebrities, I'm not interested in reality shows, or many sports.
Also, most straight dudes are like this, sans the sports part. But most girls aren't very interested in talking about sports anyway.

>>17989325

go beyond the team leader and explain that oyu arent being trained and its going to bite the company in the ass.

>>17989510
He's worked there for 8 years and the owner likes the guy.

>>17989518

so if you go to the owner and say 'the team leader refuses to train me, please make him train me' is the owner just going to say 'NAH I LIKE THE GUY, YOU'RE FIRED TROLOLOLOL I DONT CARE IF MY BUSINESS FAILS'.

you literally have no other choice other htan just quitting anon

Sounds like he is lazy and going to get fired

If he was afraid of you finding out he was fired he'd be doing a better job of hiding it like actually going out etc

You should probably just ask him about it

>>17989262
>being so shit you get fired from a fast food restaurant

Get a better boyfriend

>>17989281
No, because I love him for other reasons. His motivation and conscientiousness is just really low.

>>17989256
That is a weird proposition, and quite honestly if one of my friends asked me that I would think he was joking.

Obviously, it doesn't seem to be the case in your situation.
So yeah, it's pretty weird to ask someone who doesn't work at the same place to cover your shift at work.

>>17989270
Thanks, that's pretty much what I thought. I'd understand if we worked at the same place

>>17989256

that is a weird proposition. i mean do you e ven have any restaurant experience? let alone working here for a day would slow down the crew more than it woudl help him. it is a weird request imo

>>17989219

Why tell us?

Sex is fun and it feels good.

>>17989219

rejecting sex doesn't really make you better than anyone who has sex.

the problem here isn't that sex is everywhere so much as you think you're above it.

i get your basic sentiment i have a similar issue with romance, because people act like romance and dating are the end goals of life.

>>17989219

>Boohoo people enjoy their right to live how the fuck they want

Aren't you a special little snowflake, all pissed off that people do what their biology has wired them to do. You've made your choice, good for you, but what other people choose to do isn't really your concern.

>>17989200
You might have bedbugs. Wash everything and vacuum and preferably steam clean your whole house. Keep cleaning and washing everything for a few months. New eggs will hatch, the goal is to kill all bugs before they reach sexual maturity, thus killing the entire population.

>>17989222
I wish it was bedbugs, but unfortunately it happens wherever I go, even after moving to a new house with a brand new mattress and brand new sheets

>>17989244
I had similar symptoms and almost a year into it, one night, i suddenly woke up and felt an itch on my arm. I quickly turned around, pressed my hand onto the bed, and stroke it, until i felt a small hard lump, like a breadcrumb. i held it there, switched on the light, and saw a bedbug. I took my glass of water, tossed the water out of it on the floor and put it over the bug. I lifted the sheet around the glass, maneuvering the bug into the glass, and got up. I kept the bug in the glass, got some clear tape from a drawer in the next room, and dumped the bug onto the table. trapped it with some tape and stuck it on a piece of paper. Then I went online and found out from photos what it was. I had no idea i had bedbugs, and it was the only one i ever found.

>>17989185

depends. in most cases its neither parties fault, its usually both to some degree. someone might have started the fight but others escalated. it alldepends on what happened.

your mother is worrisome but im the same with my father (though he left us for a year then lied about why). as for friends, it kinda depends. you sound young, possible in college, basically in a big transitional period and you might find that people you were close to ebfore was only because of convenience.

we'd have to dissect each issue seperately and even if you explained it to us, we can't be sure you're telling the whole story.

the best advice is to just talk about why you arent talking out loud. your brain will hear it instead of just thinking it. then you ask yourself. is this petty? are you ignoring people over minor arguments that you take seriously? or are tehy real issues caused by them being bad people?

>>17989213

I'm actually 30, which is what makes this real contentious. I'll try to touch on some of them...

>Mother
I got a new job, she called me a disappointment and a failure because she didn't like the new job, told me I was squandering my future, and kicked my dad out of his house for three days, threatening to divorce him unless he forced me to take my old job back.

>Close Friend 1
I've known this guy 20 years - he and I have always had our squabbles, but he told me I was an awful person and not a trustworthy friend because I was friends with someone he didn't like, and couldn't make it to his girlfriend's kid's rescheduled birthday party. We didn't talk for two years, but he's fallen on some sickness/alcohol related issues and we're at least on speaking terms again.

>Close Friend 2
Actually the guy that #1 didn't like, he's got alcohol problems ever since his dad shot himself while they were on the phone together. He and his brother both fly off the rails when drinking sometimes, but are otherwise good dudes. His brother got a DUI, and I had taken a cab home, so he blamed me for "abandoning him and his brother," since I guess he expected me to get them home safe.

He ended up telling me this while drunk and screaming at 4 AM in a hotel room while we were on vacation. He dropped his pants and pissed on the floor, saying it was a way to pay me back for what his brother has to pay. Security came and I decided just to leave. Haven't talked to him since.

The last isn't as extreme and we're kind of okay again, maybe, but she's struggling with alcoholism and is mad I'm still friends with her ex.

>>17989252

>mom

what was the job that you had before? what job did you take.

try not to polish it, cuzi ts not looking good for your mom regardless.

>>17989174

no way to stop it really. if you are close to him at wokr, like buddy buddy your brain might just be interpreting it that way because it doesn't know how to handle someone that close.

some people have gay dreams because they feel so close to their friends that even if there's no lust, there is love. sometimes people even have sex dreams abotu their parents because of how close they will feel.

>>17989216
We're not even close. He's just a guy.

>>17989220

weird. dunno then

>>17989153

You are a virgin by matter of appearance.

>I'm a virgin not by matter of appearance
Top kek

>and I think I can now act out a fuckable persona
Top fucking kek

>where do I go to find partners with whom to have sex?
Go to some piece of shit city and find some prostitutes.

>>17989170
No I'm a virgin by matter of turning half the girls at school off by acting autistic around them and turning the other half away because i was autistically chasing some random other autist. If I had a location and watched my demeanor i guarantee you I'll lose it within a week.

Be born a woman. I'm 28 and only had 2 girlfriends. Feels inadequate and miserable. And there are dudes out there much worse off than us.

>>17989147

post a pic of yourself. we cant trust your skewed rating of yourself. show us what you're working with or delete thread

>>17989147
Keep trying. Or dont try and let it come to you.

Go to literally any place of business and ask about their application process. Go to any unemployment office and ask about job fairs, temp agencies etc.

>>17989121
I'm thinking of working at Target, so do I just go into the store and ask any employee about applying?

>>17989107

A job your family or friends can get you is the best option you have without experience.

Any other job that would take you won't pay you much, but at least you get exp to move on to better stuff.

>>17989106
Accept she won't reciprocate and let it take it's course.

Start looking at other girls who would be interested in you

>>17989106

Meet more girls. Talk to more girls. Hang out with more girls.

>>17989109
>Accept she won't reciprocate and let it take its course

I know this has to happen but I feel like I'm waitin for shit that isn't going to happen. Does completely blocking her out speed this up?

>tfw 24 year old Virgin

Fuck off

Masturbate, obviously.

I'm from brazil. Where are you going? Depending on your destination the bitches are so ugly you'll forget sex is a thing lol

There's a thing I did a few occasions that might help keeping your urges in control. As you start to cum, force your muscles like you are peeing. This will make your cum come out in a steady stream and you can drain your balls that way. Not as good as a regular orgasm, but an efficient ball drainer

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>>17989066
take the money and kick their ass if they try to take it back from you

>>17989066
>Even though we both are owners of the account, would it be legal for me to withdraw the money that is owed to me, even though I wasn't the one who put it in the account?
Yes, because it's a joint account. If you used their information to withdraw money from an account you aren't apart of, then it would be illegal.

>>17989066
What's significant?

its 100 days, id wait it out.

>>17989049
This

Don't be a faggot anon
Be a man
People respect that

Take it from a fellow army guy

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I feel ya, it does suck a lot of the time. Just wait it out and it'll be over with woth the sick benefits