how do you meet new people and hold conversations?
>>17987097
>how do you meet people
by going up and talking to people wherever you may find them.
>and hold conversations
by first realizing that the point of an interaction is not to hold a conversation, but rahter to see if they are worth holding a conversation with. some of them aren't. and as a result, they wont. just becuase you initiate doesn't mean you are there to be judged. its just two people talking. if it doesn't go anywhere it doesn't mean anything.
for anything more specific, you will also have to be specific
But what do you talk about?
>>17987141
again, you'd have to be more specific.
you wont talk to someone at the bank about the same things you talk to someone about at the beach.
Someone needs to make a socialization version of one of these.
>Day 1: Say hello to random person on the street
>Day 2: Ask a random person on the street for the time
>Day 3: Ask a random person on the street for directions
>>17987171
>Say hello to random person on the street
uuh
>>17987097
focus on their shoes, not your shoes
>>17987175
>uuh
and thats why you will fail
>>17987192
Not OP, don't have the same problem. Normal people don't just say hello to random person on the street unless there's something else that needs to be said. Are you a robot trying to simulate humans?
>>17987201
just because normal people don't doesn't mean normal people can't. the point here is to work your way up to an actual conversation, and saying hi to someone wont have any consequences unless you go up to the biggest baddest looking tyrone and wave in their face.