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My boyfriend, the father of our 16 month old daughter and love of my life... has trapped me.
When I got pregnant (he was 19 i was 18) he freaked out and got blind drunk in the bathtub, and ended up fucking his (sober) 14 year old biological little sister. His family dealt with it and chose to never tellet anyone. He didn't tell me until our daughter was 6 months old, and for 9 months I had been trying to accept and heal like his family wanted. I even took his sister out for coffee and to the gym. But he let her in our house while I was at work and I freaked out, kicking his family out of our lives. His family is fucked up beyond measure. But he doesn't believe it, he wants our baby to have them in his life, he's just trying to get me to go to councilling to change my mind. I can't live like this anymore.
My friends are telling me I should just call the police and tell them. I am afraid to because he is a good dad, and it happened 2 years ago, and I love him. I want us to have a good life. I'm afraid the police wouldn't let him see her.
I don't know what to do. Please help me. I just want my baby and me to be safe.
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>>17981410
Well first off you sound perfectly safe and I have no idea what sort of danger you're assuming you're in. Secondly calling the police won't do anything but damage your boyfriend's life even further, if his family has gotten over it then just let them deal with it their way. You sound emotionally erratic, one sentence saying you love him and the other saying you should call the cops. There's more to this situation than these extreme choices.
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>>17981410
Won't do any good to tell the police and it isn't the sisters fault but you made a horrible choice in guys to knock you up. Things may be manageable now but at some point this guy will go off the rail again.
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>>17981410
Your boyfriend raped his little sister and you want him to be around your child?
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>take my gf to the movies yesterday
>we have a great day, watch the film, everything's normal
>suddenly, literally out of nowhere, when we're going back, she gets really sad and starts staring at me
>then says she wants to break up
>we get off the bus, start the talk, she's adamant
>I feel like I don't even know her anymore
>we break up, but she agrees to sleep over one last time
>in my house, she says she's not completely sure if she wants to break up and wants some time
>we agree to not speak for one month, and to NOT involve other people under any circumstances
>she says the reason for all this is that I seem constantly unhappy and never satisfied
And she is right. I have been like that. I don't mean to use it as an excuse, but my mother was recently hospitalized and nearly lost body movement and I've recently discovered I have a big hormonal imbalance which alters my mood heavily, I started taking medication for it two days ago. I realize it was mostly me who fucked up, and don't blame her.
How can I use this month to come back a better person and convince her it's all worth it?
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bitch be cheatin
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>>17981031
take your meds, help your mom get better, work out, eat healthy, get a nice schedule, send her a letter explaining some shit and well wishes even though you're not suppose to speak.
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>we agree to not speak for one month, and to NOT involve other people under any circumstances.
Do you really believe on this?
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I have a friend/coworker who's older who I'm very close with. We're best friends, he's like a father. We say I love you to each other and hug all the time.
Thing is, I'm super attracted to him now, and sometimes I get the sense that he's playfully into me. We're both straight (he just split from his wife). How can I best move forward if I want us to start fucking?
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>>17979942
Age difference?
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>>17979951
17 yrs
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>>17979952
How old are you?
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I need help deciding between two women
Woman A:
>early 30s
>professionally successful, earns good money
>decent looks
>smart
>kind of stubborn
>has a few sisters who are all bitchy towards me, parents don't like me much either
>has some feminist / liberal leaning views
Woman B:
>early 20s
>a little less mature that Woman A
>better looks
>not as successful professionally, in a career that doesn't pay well
>not as intelligent / bright as Woman A
>more traditionalist / conservative views
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A
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Some more data points:
Woman A:
>Can have intellectually stimulating conversations but is a bit of a homebody ... enjoys spending time with family the most
>has been on her own for a long time so knows the value of a day's work
>seems to always have schedule conflicts with family events... seldom time to do fun stuff together
Woman B:
>More simple conversations, is more adventurous, always down for something new
>a little spoiled, doesn't really know the value of a hard day's work
>very nice body, inside and out
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Please help
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How important are political views in a relationship?
I'm a far right guy and well most girls are lefties
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>>17978076
What is important is respect.
If you and your girl can respect each other even if you have a different view, and can have a discussion about politics that doesn't lead to a crazy argument, then you can have a relationship with someone with a different political view easily.
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>>17978076
IDK. My girlfriend's pretty left of me, but she's grown a lot more to the left since we first started dating six years ago. Usually we get along well enough and understand each other, but I still worry that our fundamental disagreement on certain issues is a time bomb waiting to go off.
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Dont talk politics. When the topic comes up keep your far right opinions inside. Only let them out when you are married. Thats what I did. Bet my wife never imagined her getting married to a far right neo nazi. Jokes on her.
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The "I don't have the proper OP" edition
Hey /adv/ lets get this going, you know the drill....
Turning 30 today.... Family sends theirs cherishes, but all my friends are ignoring me
its not like facebook doesn't let everyone know it already....
on the life side
> still living with farther
> no job
> finishing my first degree this semester
> broke up with 4 year gf last year
> not socially awkward, but girls flake on me all the time
beat it!
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>>17975346
I'm 35 and have a crush on a man I play boardgames / DnD with twice a week at the LGS but haven't been able to work up the courage to ask him to go out with me. It sucks, I feel like a teenager again. My last break up really did a number on me, I guess.
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>>17975346
I'm 35. At 30 I was broken up with, and jobless. After a few years I reconstructed my life. Now I'm literally swimming in pussy, and have a great paying job. Things will get better OP, just navigate through the flow
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>>17975346
Happy birthday, OP
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Hello 4chan, i think i need advice (no shit right?) on a sexual matter, i am afraid i might be gay or bisexual. Me and a friend fucked a former classmate this weekend at a class reunion, he was a little shit back in high school and i always used to pick on him back in the days, especially for his feminine looks and light build.
Thing is that he has had surgery to "become" a girl and i fucking loved slamming his new pussy all night with a friend so yeah, am i gay since i liked it or is it not gay since he is a woman in all but genetics?
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Nigga you gay. You fucked a guys fleshwound.
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>>17984246
Ok thank's for the input, i was unsure myself but still good to hear other people's input.
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You are the only one who can define your sexual orientation. Being gay is when you are arroused by men, being bisexual is when you are arroused by both men and women. So, about your question, it is about what do you love about your friend : do you love him as a woman or as a man, what do you like in him/her ?
Or maybe you just like her/him as the person he is, and this is not forced to be related to your sexual orientation.
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I've got a weird issue I guess - I hardly feel anything from my body.
This is very uncomfortable if my partner caresses me - I caught myself looking several times if he's still at it or doing something else.
Any ideas ?
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>>17984200
Did you ever feel something ? Or is it just now that you don't feel anymore ?
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Whale
Poor circulation
Mental issues
CNS issues
Could be anything. Go to a doctor.
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Stroke.
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>20
>from cali
>go to utah for trade school
>meet girl, she is everything i look for in a girl from her hair to her voice to her love for music
>once we meet we spend literally every single day together, i pawn my guitar, bass, keyboard, and everything i own so we can take trips to the city and get hotel rooms
>she goes home back to cali
>i cant come back, move to nevada
>lease ends in april
>i last saw her in august. we still talk every single day. idc about nevada, id be willing to pack all my shit and move to vegas to be with her.
>she is passionately straightedge and mormon
>im agnostic and enjoy recreational drugs near daily
>our differences cause a lot of misunderstanding and arguments, to the point im not sure if we are sustainable
>i have never before in my life been so happy to hold someone or felt so much like someone gave a fuck about me until now
do i need to change? does she need to change? do you think shes worth it? i have until april to decide to move or stay.
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>>17984154
no its never goin to work out, sorry but plenty o fish yadda yadda.
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whoops, OP here, if its not obvious i meant to say id be willing ot move to cali to be with her, i currently live in vegas
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>>17984154
I don't think she is worth it desu you just have a crush on her. What had she sacraficed for you? You gave away all your shit.
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So I got a career tier job, 45k salary.
I wanna invest maybe 15k a year, what's the best way to get the most return?
I know nothing about investing.
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put it in an index fund. Anything else is a waste of time.
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Risk vs return. The higher you set your target return, the more risky it will be.
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S&P index fund at Vanguard for 10 to 15 years and you'll never need to touch it again until retirement
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Hi annons, need your advices here :
> I'm a girl
> Often when I like a guy and he likes me back I can't control my feelings and seems really quickly attached to him.
> And guy starts being affraid of that
> What should I do ?
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Me too... I need help with this
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i think this is a common thing for everyone whose desperate for love. its rose tinted lenses. regardless of how bad or good the person is you want to love them and you start to hype them up. you gotta remember its not that serious and that as sad as it sounds, its doubtful the relationship will become a serious one. take it easy, dont push or try to force it into a serious relationship, focus on having fun together and being happy. enjoy it for what it is. hope that helps
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>tfw no yandere qt gf
I have a really hard time stomaching that animals kill other animals.
No idea, but thinking of something like a rabbit being killed just rips me apart.
Yet it's literally how life works - I'm not even vegetarian. I eat so much meat. I just never really considered it came from a cute animal.
I dont know why I care now. I dont know why I cant stomach it.
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>>17984069
So you can't eat meat anymore ?
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>>17984085
I can, but I feel pretty damn guilty about it. And I have a lot of trouble rationalizing it like I used to. I know a chicken is just a chicken, and the fact people even have an option of choosing to not consume meat at all is only because of how convenient our society is.
I just feel bad about animals dying. Elephants, bears, chickens, lamb. Moose. Anything. I feel a shit ton of guilt.
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>>17984125
My friend, it is time you learnt to source your own food and learn to put to use the supplies your food has to offer. Pelt for warmth and shelter, bones for handles charms and chimes, meat to eat and survive.
Learn to honor your food and the laws of nature and this guilt will soon disappear.
That or just drink and smoke it away
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Does it matter?
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yes
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>>17983978
No, all cats are perfect
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you can make it to the bedroom without being big, so no.
also if your woman is so shallow as to not want to be with you because you have a small dick, she wasn't worth it in the first place and don't beat yourself up. let the chad accidentally get her pregnant and be forced into alimony instead of you.
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Okay, posting this again because it got deleted last time for some reason.
>really want to fuck a black girl
>talking to this hot black girl I know on the phone
>she's kind of ghetto but only dates white guys
>she tells me she wants to fuck
>I am stoked
>about 10 mins later she tells me she recently tried to commit suicide and went to the hospital
>also tells me she recently had an abortion
>I get creeped/freaked out
>ghost her
Did I do the right thing? I can't really trust a woman who is that mentally unstable. She is like super pro-Black lives matter and all that shit too, so I didn't know what she would try to pull.
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The whole suicide and abortion thing is definitely a valid reason to run for the hills. I've definitely met some cute black gals, but every time they're so invested in identity politics I never want to go through with it. To a lesser extent that's also a reason I'd dip out on someone.
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>>17983976
She knows I'm a Trump supporter and seemed to be alright with it.
But then I saw on Facebook she's sharing all of these articles talking about how we shouldn't feel bad for that kid who got kidnapped and tortured. That, plus the suicide + abortion thing freaked me out.
But she has a really big ass/big tits and a cute face. Like it's definitely quite the opportunity, but I guess if she got pregnant I would end up ruining my life.
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Even if she were white still stay away.
Try dating websites. I get messages from black females (young teachers) all the time there. I would hide the fact that you're a Trump supporter though.
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So I'm almost 21 and I still haven't chosen a career path I wanna take. I should be in my last year of school by now, I know. I've tried career quiz websites and tons of reading about different jobs and asking people around me and I've narrowed it down to what I like and dislike but choosing an actual career is the trouble.
Without giving too many boring details about something that would fit for me...
I like computers, have interests in programming or developing. I'm also creative and like making art, but having a job that depends on solely artistic talent scares me. I hate people directly but working in a project is alright though.
I've been suggested to do stuff from 3d modeling, graphic design, multimedia bullshit, web development, programming, "Game design" and others.
I was wondering if anyone has any ideas of similar careers that would be good or even better, if anyone who has experience in those things or similar could give me some advice? I try and read as much as I can but it would be really nice to actually talk to someone about it. Thank you so much.
tl;dr
>Choosing career
>I like computers and being creative
>Looking for suggestions for jobs that could work well or advice from people in similar fields.
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This is going to sound weird but do you like architecture? There a re a couple of guys at work that design buildings, offices, open spaces. It requires using a computer and lots of concentration and imagination.
In my case I went for a degree in mechanical engineering plus administration since I couldn't figure out what I wanted in life. So far things are alright, been working in maintenance
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>>17983871
That's a really great idea, I would of never thought of that. I've played around with sketchup in high school to make model houses but I always found that they looked generic and I have no passion to make something great. I like looking at beautiful houses and buildings, but not designing them.
That seems like a good degree with a lot of possibilities. How was school for you? I'm afraid to go to university because I try and stick to more hands on education but I think doing any type of computer science/engineering course would be lovely.
(I'm Canadian by the way, so our education system might be different.)
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>I like computers and being creative
UX Designer. I'm surprised this wasn't the first post.