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I need to get a girlf friend. I'm sick of feeling shit about myself and wanking to porn every night. I don't want to feel terrible about myself anymore.
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"Wahh wahhh I'm such a piece of shit that I can't even ask for specific advice let alone put effort into not being a piece of shit irl. I want a mommy fucktoy to validate my empty existence"
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>girlf friend
You need a GIRLFRERF!?
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Girlfriend dumped me on Friday, came out of nowhere and she did it through text. Wouldn't even talk to me on the phone or explain anything other than that she couldn't continue the relationship. We seemed to be perfect for each other and I thought she felt the same but she is a very closed off person. All I want from her is to know what the fuck happened, I don't want her back if she can do something like this. She refuses to talk to me, thinking about threatening her with the nudes I have to get an answer. Someone talk me down
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>She refuses to talk to me, thinking about threatening her with the nudes I have to get an answer.
And when she still refuses, will releasing her nudes make you feel better? I don't think so. You'll just feel even more shit for doing that to someone you love
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I wouldn't actually put them online, I'm just going insane trying to figure out why this happened and what I did wrong. I just wanted to threaten her, if that doesn't get a response nothing will. Can you get in trouble just for the threat?
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>>18126594
>Can you get in trouble just for the threat?
Probably not, but again, it's shit behaviour. Especially against someone who you claim to care about.
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Coping with the Machinations of a Sociopath 2017-03-14 07:52:22 Post No.18126459
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Coping with the Machinations of a Sociopath
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The full story is pretty long so I'll try to keep only the important details. It starts out innocently enough.
A friend of mine introduces me to a friend of his. She and I get along great and we go out for dinner, easily the best date I've ever been on. A few weeks later, she ghosts me, mutual friend tells me he doesn't really know what's going on with her but she's probably getting serious with another friend of his she's been pining after (I hadn't asked him about her he'd told me out of the blue). I made my peace with it and moved on.
Through a series of freaky coincidences, she and I end up reconnecting weeks later, and I learn, slowly, that our mutual friend had been manipulating and lying to both of us the entire time. What we both thought was an innocent set-up was actually this sociopath using me to draw this girl in, so he could then manipulate her into seeing a weak-minded friend (gentle guy, severe depression and massive insecurities. I liked him until it was evident he knew what was going on) of his with the intention of, in case his own relationship failed, swooping in on her and impregnating her so she wouldn't leave him.
Incredibly fucked up, and pretty insane, pieced it together slowly and with the help of a lot of people, including my therapist. It was difficult to get through let alone convince her what was going on and to get away from it, but it worked out. That sociopath and his friend are out of both of our lives.
What I'm having trouble dealing with is the damage done to my relationship with this girl. I think she's a beautiful person and I wish we'd gotten to know each other under better circumstances, but the last time we talked we projected a lot of the damage done onto one another. It's been about two months but she's on my mind often. We've had a few pleasant conversations since, when bumping into each other.
What can I do to put all of this behind me? I feel like I've nearly lost myself and miss her.
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So this guy gets you and a girl to go on a date so he could get the girl to downgrade to a more pathetic guy so he can cuck the pathetic guy easily.
Am I getting this right?
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Yeah that's it in a nutshell.
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>In my 30s
>Married, with two kids. I love my wife, and my life. 90% of the time, I'd even say I'm happy with my marriage
>Don't watch porn or get bothered by pictures of attractive women on the internet
>Whenever I'm in public, if I see a woman that's attractive but also has a curvaceous or "THICC" figure, something inside me is triggered.
>It only happens with women of a specific build. It's like some deep seeded conquerer's Gene takes effect
>For days after, I can only fantasize about forcing myself upon her and impregnating her.
>For days after, I will look at my wife, who is otherwise a beautiful, toned, and thin woman, and just be sad that I can't have more than one woman.
>The hardest thing I've ever had to do was turn down a stacked, THICC, twenty-something waitress while I was on a fishing trip. But I've always been faithful to my wife.
>She knows I struggle with this, and it makes her feel like shit
How do I rid myself of this desire?
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>How do I rid myself of this desire?
sorry bro, but you deserved this one...
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>>18126252
Kek. Thanks m8.
Give me SOME credit! I haven't physically done anything too terrible, yet. I wish there were some sort of pill or something to make my wife thicker. She's tried gaining weight for me, but that was a complete failure.
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>>18126224
>I can only fantasize about forcing myself upon her and impregnating her.
I'd say your literal rape fantasies are a bigger problem than your thicc fetish but okay
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Friends With Friend's Girlfriend 2017-03-14 03:23:32 Post No.18126001
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Is it weird for me to be actual friends with my male friend's girlfriend?
I met them both a few years ago around the same time (they were already dating). He was obviously my "primary" friend, but over time I've started to really warm up to his girlfriend. I was always kind of worried about angering him somehow, but over the past few months I've slowly started interacting with her one-on-one. Now we're at the point where we snapchat all the time and shoot at least a few messages back and forth every day. I consider her a legitimate friend now independent of him.
Is this weird? Before anyone asks, yes I'd date her in a second if my friend was out of the picture. They have a really strong relationship though and I'm not getting ANY signals that she wants to move away from him or anything. She always seems pretty flirty, but I think that's just a friendly thing.
Am I violating some kind of unwritten code? The one thing I'm worried about is "pushing the limit" so to speak.
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You are treading in dangerous water. I bet you'd cheat with her if she was open.
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She's just being friendly. It'd be okay if you weren't interested in dating her. But you are. So yes, it's pretty disrespectful and I suggest you lower your contact with her.
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>>18126001
It's not weird as long as you hang out with them together enough to not seem like you're stealing her. I had this with one of my friends and it was only awkward once they broke up. It probably helped that his gf was crazy loyal despite being very flirty.
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Where am I body-wise? for females and males? dateable or not, what should be improved, what looks good etc.
Stats are 180cm, 70kg.
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Start with a tan.
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>>18125271
Alright set of shoulders, need to work on chest tho
First time poster on this board. Might as well give it a try.
I'm 28 have been in a relationship for around 5 years now. I love her to bits, but the last 2-3 years she's had several burnouts related to work. We're both very career-minded people but we still make sure we spend enough time with eachother. However, sex-wise, it's been near zero for years now. Kind of lead to me being a large sack of hormones and when I'm out it's quite hard to stay loyal. So far it had worked out though.
The thing is that people seem to have found out that things aren't going too well and instead of helping me out, they're pretty much trying to tempt me to do the opposite. There's this girl who used to be a bartender at a place I'd go often when I was still in university. I always thought of her as the most beautiful girl I have ever seen but asking out a bartender is a 99/100 failure so I never acted upon those feelings. Other than that I also thought she'd be all looks and no ambition or intelligence.
Last Saturday however I got invited by a bunch of female friends to celebrate my birthday at a club. I thought it'd be fun since I've known all of them for years and there's no risk or anything. However, they kind of knew from way back how much I liked that one girl and suddenly invited her as well.
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The rest went really fast. I talked to her for about 3 hours straight, found out she ran her own company abroad for 4 years and now has a high-end headhunting job. Became even prettier than she used to be. Alcohol did the rest and we ended up kissing like 14 year old teens in love. We all slept at the same place but luckily I just fell asleep in the couch so things didn't run completely out of hand.
I of course feel bad for what happened, but I'm also at a complete loss now. I haven't felt like this for years and it's keeping my from work. What do you think I should do? Go have a drink with her this week and try to figure out whether its really worth risking my relationship for? Or should I somehow try to stay away as far as possible and ignore the problem as long as possible?
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>>18124028
It sounds like you are looking for the closest path to run away either way so who really cares here?
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I might have misworded then. I have never had any intention to leave my girlfriend as aside from her problems and the lack of sex we do really enjoy spending time together.
It's just that due to the lack of intimacy, it starts to feel like she's less of a lover and more of a "partner/best friend", hard to pinpoint it.
I'm just wondering what the safest bet would be for my relationship. If i just ignore this problem I doubt it is going to go away on its own.
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Tell me about him/her and how you/how to cope with having one?
Because not matter what I try, coping simply doesn't work for me.
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She broke up with me yesterday, after 4 years. She is doing an internship at Disney, about 8 hours from me. She said that there's too much "distance" between us, and all she sees in the future is distance.
Even though we have been in a LDR for most of our relationship.
It frustrates me even more because when we lived further apart (Her in Boston, me in New Orleans) I was the one to fly or drive to her. She never once came to see me. I visited her four times.
Anyway, she broke up with me yesterday. I'm listening to lots of Modern Baseball and Front Bottoms because I just woke up and don't have a lot else to do today
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I love him but he drives me crazy. He makes me laugh and smile and cares about me like no one else has really. But He is too caught up in his ex, he's gone back to her so many times that I'm realizing I'll never measure up to her. I know he has feelings for me, but it'll never measure up to how much he wants her. I've swallowed being his second choice for years and only being important to him when they're "off" and all but disappearing when they're "on". It hurts. It hurts so much. He can make me feel so amazing and loved, then the second she decides to stop fucking randoms and give him the time of day he goes crawling back and just essentially tells me "sorry, but we have history". I know I sound bitter, but fuck. I feel used. I feel sad. It feels so unfair. Last time this happened I tried killing my feelings by completely cutting him out for a year, but it still didn't work. I still think about him all the time. I still want him so much. This fucking hurts. I want this to be done but I'm too pathetic and needy to end it. ive been drinking a lot more but I know that's not healthy. I don't want another manic episode. Maybe I just need to throw myself into working out instead
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You guys should be grateful that you're at least able to love. I think I have some untreated mental illness that's somewhere on the psychopath's spectrum because I'm literally unable to love. No matter how hard I try, I just can't.
The closest I feel to love is a little bit of butterflies when I see an attractive stranger. Or what I feel when I don't know people. But as soon as I get close to them, all I feel is a neutral feel and slight disgust. Might be projected self-hate whatever.
What I'm trying to say is that even when it all went to horrid shit with you guys, you should be glad for the great memories you have and the general knowledge that you're able to feel this again.
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My only regret is that I never found all of Prince's lost songs. Sure, I found some, but I know that this quest is neverending.
It only gets worse knowing there are one-of-a-kind vinyl records going everywhere in the wild. It upsets me deeply knowing there's something I'll never obtain unless I'm a fucking god of money.
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5 years. Still crushing hard on you. Fuck is wrong with me.
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i'm so in love with this girl it hurts. we're literally made for each other. we like the same stuff, we have similar music tastes, we have the same sense of humor, we can have long lengthy conversations, hell even our zodiac signs are the most compatible together.
but she's got an academic career and i don't. and she says she's not interested in romance. but she has a crush on her professor. and she's asexual. and she's almost 2 years older than me. and i'm just some moron she used to hang out with and now just have conversations with on skype. all i want is to be with her forever but i'm not sure if she would want that at all. i'm still alive for her and for her only and i don't know how to cope with it at all.
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Like, dude, I require *a lot* of space. Give me space... You're cash in the sense we have a great time together but what's killing me is: I like fitness and bettering myself so much more than you ever will. You're lazy and make so many excuses not to hit the gym with me and have 0 motivation to go by yourself..... It's such a downgrade from my last even if he was an abusive pos. I need time to think and consider "our future together"..... please workout. I'm so unattracted to you and you can whip yourself into shape quickly if you tried. I know you can. Fuck, man.
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Girlfriend with low self esteem 2017-03-15 05:06:33 Post No.18128855
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Help me guys, my girlfriend is constantly saying me she feels like shit and that shes worthless.
She keeps ask me the reasons im in love with her.
Obviously everything I tell her doesn't change her views on the matter, it almost feels as if she wants me to tell her that she is actually shit.
She's also mentioning suicide and how shes too afraid to actually do it.
How do I deal with it? It's really frustrating
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Telling someone with low self esteem that they arent as bad as they think they are isnt going to help them sadly. If shes having thoughts of suicide, get her to a therapist or group counseling.
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the only thing you can do is keep loving her. and if in the end your love wasn't enough for her then so be it ...Also I agree with anon about her seeing a therapist or group counseling
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She's need to seek professional help. It's good to reassure her but it's only a temporary fix. Her asking can become almost like a habit at some point. There is a root to the problem, chances are it's more than what meets the surface.
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In one of my courses we were asked this: "Sinbad the pirate offered to give Wendy a ride across the river in his boat, but only if she slept with him. What's Sinbad's likability?"
All of the women in my class vilified Sinbad saying how he coerced her and forced her to do it and elevated Wendy saying how "strong" she was. I asked my mates if they'd still vilify Sinbad if he made that same offer to young George saying if George gave him a blowjob he'd take him across the river? I was shocked to hear them say that no, it'd be "different" if it was a guy and not that bad! Wtf??
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what is Sinbad only offered a ride if Wendy introduced Sinbad to her mom so he could try and fuck Wendy's mom? Is this villainous? Of course they are being hypocrites by the way. In their minds Sinbad would be using his manly "power" over Wendy whereas with George is a strong man who wouldn't be bothered as much with Sinbad's request. Point this out to them and see if they agree/disagree. It's a double edged sword for them.
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>>18128817
To add to other anon's point.
Make Wendy a 9 year old and George a 9 year old.
People will probably be equally pissed at horrified at sinbad.
Now make Wendy a 90 year old and George a 90 year old.
People will still be horrified and disgusted at Sinbad.
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Yeah I asked them point blank why it was different to them and they didn't know.
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Yeah. Exactly. I did point these other things out to them and they were still adamant that it was different if it was a guy instead of a woman. And when I pressed for their reasoning again, they were confused and admitted they didn't know why. The male classmates agreed with me but the females were confused. Wtf??
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Girl I like is neglecting to text back. I didn't ask her out, she just doesn't want to talk to me. What do I do?
>I'm a high school kid, virgin, not the best
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>>18128811
find another girl to text
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>>18128811
Do you actually like her or do you just want to put your pee pee in her butt
Don't put up with girls' bullshit. Find someone else.
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If she is ignoring u, she most likely isnt interested. its easier to just find someone else. dont waste your time
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I'll try and keep this short.
>Opportunity to volunteer overseas in June
>Cost is covered by donations and fundraising
>Except for $150 due this weekend.
How do I get that kind of money before this weekend? I have no job and I'd rather my folks not know about it right now.
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You have some months to make money. Ask for money to a friend or sell/pawn some stuff you don't use. Are you american? I bet you have a lot of useless stuff you could sell. It would be hard to sell before the weekend, but you can figure this out if, and only if, you are really interested in going.
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>>18128714
This faggotry is why I hated the pacifist ending
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I need some help on some issues. 2017-03-15 03:43:10 Post No.18128706
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I need some help on some issues.
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I have this girl in my English 101 class that I had a history with.
Quick summary:
>Meet girl and her friends through childhood friend in middle school
>Have crush on her friend and then fuck it up because never knew how to ask a girl out
>Girl I am referring to in this main problem with said i was too attached to her and made her dislike me for some reason.
>Apologize for no reason at all to her and she apologizes for being an ass hat.
That's how it ended off. The main problem is that I can't move on and I really want to start out fresh with her, but she doesn't acknowledge my existence at all. I just don't know what to do at all except obviously respect that she doesn't want to talk anymore.
Can you guys give me some advice on what I should do in this situation? Like, should I try to slowly talk to her or just try my hardest to move on and see if she comes to me one day?
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>just try my hardest to move on and see if she comes to me one day?
That's not moving on... that's PRETENDING to move on....
You know when people say they want to talk to their ex/crush/the person who rejected them one last time so that they can try to get some "closure"?
Bullshit. They don't want "closure". What they want is to somehow magically convince/trick the other person to be with them. They are just making excuses and deluding themselves in to using "closure" as a justification--lying not only to others, but to them selves.
That is the path you are threatening to follow. Do not live in delusion. You will not come out better for it.
Shove off.
Live your life.
Stop giving a fuck about her.
That is what moving on is.
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That's true. Thanks for the eye opener anon. I really appreciate it.
22 and never really had a girlfriend. I have hooked up with several women throughout college though, and I would say I’m a moderately socially active person who tries to go out every weekend. So I have dated this girl for 4 months however the relationship never went beyond hand holding. Looking back, it was definitely because I was too afraid to fuck up my chances which obviously made me appear weak. She made it obvious that she was interested by the way she would hug me, lock hands, run her hands across my body in public, etc. but I was too much of a jackass to reciprocate.
Come valentine’s day I go over to her house and it’s probably one of the most awkward situations I had ever been in. She had made me some baked goods and I got her a couple presents which she seemed to really like. However, the whole night she sat on her phone texting giving me one word replies to all my questions. 2 hours later she tells me that I have to leave her place since she has to go to the gym. I made the horrible mistake of kissing her on the forehead for the first and she just looked at me and smiled a little.
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>Cont.
Two days later she sends me a wall of text telling me that she’s going to cancel the tickets to the trip we were planning for a month instead to pay for a marathon she wanted to run and how sorry she was. I told her I was looking forward to the trip but to have fun with the marathon. Two days later I ask her when the marathon was and if she wanted to go for a run and didn’t get a reply.
Here we are a month later and neither I nor her have contacted each other since. I feel like she basically lost all attraction she had for me. She blocked me from Snapchat even though I never contacted her on any social media during this month long period? I’ve been bettering myself and have begun to focus on graduation and getting a job, however her blocking me for no reason completely threw me off. I still do want to make this work but I have no idea whether this “no contact” period we’ve been in is healthy. Any ideas?
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>>18128702
move on. this one is over.
but really you need to learn what you want from a relationship instead of expecting your partner to do that for you. thats not her job. you tell her the kind of day you want to have or the kind of life you want to have and you do that, and if she wants to join you then she does. you dont just walk in with no plan staring at her while shes texting.
when im dating a girl and she's on the phone i tell her to get off. im more important than the phone. if she doesnt feel that way then i just leave. always works.
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>>18128739
Man, really not what I wanted to hear but makes sense. I just don't see why she would block me today for no reason.