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I need to get a girlf friend. I'm sick of feeling shit about

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I need to get a girlf friend. I'm sick of feeling shit about myself and wanking to porn every night. I don't want to feel terrible about myself anymore.
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"Wahh wahhh I'm such a piece of shit that I can't even ask for specific advice let alone put effort into not being a piece of shit irl. I want a mommy fucktoy to validate my empty existence"
OP, 2017
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>girlf friend
You need a GIRLFRERF!?
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>>18126751
If you are seeking a girlfriend to not feel terrible about yourself, you are not ready for a girlfriend.
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just be yourself man
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>>18126751
That film is an absolute piece of shit and if you liked it please kill yourself.
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just posted this thread over here
>>>18127781

Sometimes I feel like you do, anon but I think the struggle is false. Like the people in this thread said, if you feel inferior for not having a gf then you need to fix that feeling before you can make any progress. Maybe I need to keep that in mind for my own benefit.

You're probably a guy like me who feels like they need to validate their own life to other people. Isn't that just sad? We get so jealous of the people that live and have fun just for the sake of it, we want to be just like them but we can't it's impossible. The reason it's impossible is we have a greater need for our place in the world to makes sense. Every time I try to talk to a girl, the feeling that bites me in the ass says "why are you doing this? You don't need this. You need to be building your future and she can only hold you back."

Nobody wants to date a guy who has an existential crisis from small talk. I guess we need to make something of ourselves before we try to meet our basic human needs.
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>>18127831
I think what I just said might be a little bit extreme. We don't need to have achievement to be happy but it still isn't easy. The psyche is a constantly shifting emotional web that we can't directly manipulate but I have faith that it is possible for us to fix ourselves.
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>>18126751

>I don't want to feel terrible about myself anymore.

So don't. Reality begins and ends inside your skull.
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Why are you watching porn? No wonder your mind is screwed
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So why would a girl want to date someone who feels terrible about himself?
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>>18126751
>tfw a real girl might end up making you feel just as bad

I'll say it anon
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>>18127873
Because females are beautiful, you're right though anon...too much of a good thing can really screw up a person
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>>18126751

>get girlfriend
>to stop feeling shit about myself

It won't work like that. You'll be taking on her problems as well as dealing with your own, making for twice the load to bear. Fix yourself first bro.
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>>18128065

>Pornstars
>beautiful

It would seem you're a bit simple, lad
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>>18127790
This
If you want real depressioncore watch Before I Disappear
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Well, first off put the Yaoi down and listen up fag.

You gotta be a fagot worth liking and being near. You want a great social life, then go out and be social, you want a love life, go out and be worth loving.

Existing by default is the weak man's way.
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>>18126751
> I need to get a girlfriend
No you don't.

NEXT.
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