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simple question: can I double message a girl on Tinder if she super liked me?
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No. There's a dozen reasons she could have super liked you that aren't "she super likes you"
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>>18127716
You can double messsge anyone you fucking want, are you a retard?
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>>18127727
ok, it's a girl I talked to briefly like 6-8 months ago for a couple days but then had to delete tinder off my phone.
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Ok I need military advice
I lied at MEPS about having a suspension. Not even my recruiter knows (I know I should have told him but that's not the point here)
I haven't done the swearing in yet, and in fact they haven't finished going over my last information yet before sending it off and signing me into a contract.
The question is, do I just still don't tell them? Can they even check my school suspension record, and would they care about that one little lie? Or do I come clean now and tell them? Wouldn't that get me kicked out if I come clean since I admit to lying at meps?
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LOL you're fucked
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>>18127718
Can't tell if typical 4chan troll or serious. Other people on the internet say it's not too bad and they won't care, but follow the name of the forum and give actual advice
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everyone lies atmeps ur good i failed the drug test for pot so ur better then me
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I have almost unlimited willpower for enduring physical and mental pain be it exercising, fighting in the ring, fighting on the street, running up a 290+ sets of stairs just to show off or just cutting myself with a knife infront of my family to troll them. I am 18 and a half. What should I do with this ability?
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>>18127705
Git jacked and start a youtube channel. Stay safe anon.
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>>18127705
Get drunk. You'll have some mighty adventures
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>>18127705
Study medicine and science for 20 hours a day until you find a better cure for cancer.
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>3000 word essay on how modern was early modern europe
>1800 words in and out of ideas
Im fucked. Its due on thursday and I cant get anymore ideas outta my brain
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Then don't use your brain, do more research.
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>How modern was early modern Europe.
What a queer topic. But also, it's a history paper, and presumably doesn't have to be original, so I don't understand the problem. I could give you 3000 words on women's rights in early modern Europe. Or compare tech innovation between the periods.
Or more likely spend 3000 words just talking about how the premise of this essay is illogical, because people are just people, whether they were born today, or a thousand years ago. So the idea of going "wow, look how modern they were" is just condescending and stupid.
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>>18127721
No there are actual hard definitions of the words.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Early_modern_Europe
The hard part is having to continually define modern europe in our context with the headings i chose.
Hey /adv/ i need your help on this one. I'm going in a few days to a doctor cuz' of this i can't take it no more.
Ever since I can remember ive always changed my mind so much. Wither it's a relationship or a job, I become almost obsessed with an idea one day then next I have completely changed my mind. Its made it hard to keep a healthy relationship or keep a job. I feel like I have no direction in life because of it.
Not only do I change my mind often I also change my feelings and emotion all the time, In one day I could be angry then Happy, then sad, then optimistic, then hopeless... then normal It really puts me down.
I think i may be depressed slightly and anxious which I know would not help but this has been going on for years now.
Its made me have real bad trust issues and I find it hard to keep a friendships because of it. I always think the grass is greener on the other side and I over think everything. I feel like losing my mind !!!
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>>18127666
Wish I had some advice, but I'm going through my own version of your troubles. Sounds like I'm in the same boat. If it's of any comfort, you're not alone.
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>>18127674
Thanks anon, for being there. I really don't know what to do with myself and all of this shit in my head
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Talking to this hot blonde she at least a 9/10 asked her what she's on here for, she said "nothing special, you?" How can I play something off as cool because this girl looks like a model
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number 1 advice: dont do online dating
but that aside, just tell her honestly what youre looking for, and if she doesnt like that then she wasnt for you anyway so who gives a shit?
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Yeah seriously, don't beat around the bush. Be up front (without being a chauvinist) and hopefully you'll get what you want. If not, move on.
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How do you make your hair thicker?
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stop masturbating
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>>18127638
Nonchemically:
Brush more, use less harsh shampoo
use volumizing mousse or equivalent
Wait
Chemically:
Rogaine is the only consumer product that works, and that only works sometimes
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Eat protein, as hair is made of keratin, a protein.
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So I think I fucked up my friendship with a girl. I hangout with her alot but its just me asking her all the time to do it. Sometimes its yes sometimes its no. So I asked her if she is getting annoyed by me constantly asking her regardless of my answer. She told me she rather wait until she wants to hangout instead of always asking. So I brought up a question
I said I dont really get what that means because you never asked as much as me, but when i do ask sometimes its a yes, does that mean you just said it to shut me up or felt obligated or something?
Now I said that and wasnt angry, wasn't coming at her but after looking at it I can see how it came off that way, I got an answer that I didnt expect
She said when I ask she doesnt think she has the energy to do hangout all night like we do but when it does happen its fine. Then she said im not gonna placate you.
I told her I wasnt trying to bring this up to make me feel better, I was doing it to just see how she felt about it and I wanted to prevent her from being annoyed or pissed at me but I made it happen anyway, I told her sorry from bringing it up and I should of left it alone.
She's depressed, on meds and all and has a down mood most of the times, but when she opens up shes amazing honestly. Now I think she'll never hangout with me alone again after what happened. By me bringing it up and now knowing she wants to wait until she is ready to do it, but never has asked me at all cept like 2 times I have a feeling its all over. We used to hangout like 1-2 times a week but it was only from me asking. I have no idea what to do here to fix this. Do I just wait it out with a small hope of her randomly saying she wants to hangout?
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>>18127629
Bump
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>>18127629
Continue to take charge. She needs you in her life. Maybe she doesnt like to iniate. Some ppl have that personality type. But it sounds like your dumbass went ahead and fucked it up. Congrats.
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>>18127819
What even makes you close to thinking she needs me in her life...
Also yeah I know I fucked it up alot, maybe forever honestly.
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How do I introduce an inexperienced dude to kinky shit?
A little background: he's never done anything kinky or seen porn that includes it. I wasn't into the kind of stuff he leans towards (he has a general idea of what he might like) before him so I don't know what the fuck I'm doing either. Neither of us do.
I was looking through some tumblr blogs but I think I'd feel silly as fuck using some idea the internet gave me.
What do?
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Please help
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What sort of kink are you talking about(light, dangerous, domination, ect)?
And do you know about SSC (safe, sane, and consensual)?
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>>18127620
Saving this pic. Looks like something from a Miyazaki film
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I've been feeling really sad lately and I don't have any idea why. How do I go about figuring it out?
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Check your diet, meditate, exercise. That sorted my incoherent bouts of depression out
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>>18127621
Hmm. Is the exercising necessary?
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volunteer, it helps others and it also makes you feel good about yourself. It gives you something to do instead of sitting around all day.
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I just discovered Jelquing and i wanted to have tips from you ! Redpill me
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Don't do it.
The only change it makes is destroying your sponge tissue. Which means you won't get a boner that's as hard.
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Your dick size will never be important unless you make it to be as such. Stop now.
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>>18127612
Read this: http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/article/jelqing
Note: your penis size doesn't define you as a person.
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I live in the UK where the Brexit bill was just approved by the House of Lords. I have to do something with my money (I have about £13k savings) before sterling plummets in value. What's the best thing to do? Convert to another currency? Buy stocks? Keep it in sterling?
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>>18127602
Give it to me
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>>18127602
Unironically go to reddit.
4chan is a terrible place for financial advice, reddit is slightly better.
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>>18127653
I'd post a merchant if I had one :^)
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How do I stop being a fucking faggot? I keep getting signs from girls but never act on them, most of the time because they are either in my stupid ass classes or because we have mutual friends, and don't want to fuck anything up/make anything awkward. I also convince myself "no they're just being nice" but in hindsight it is always completely obvious it was more than that
But even AFTER I know this, I still justify to myself not doing anything about it, because "might have gotten laughed at/made fun of/looked desperate" "what if i was wrong" (even though i know im not) "might make things awkward theyre in my class/have mutual friends/whatever"
i just never do shit and regret it while making that kind of bullshit up about it
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Have a shot at a girl you'll never meet again afterwards, this could be various situations. It's way easier because if you fuck up, at least you won't see them again ever. Then when you've built some confidence you can return to this scenario
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>>18127613
i go to a small college which contributes to this, i think only 2k people or so... so everyone basically at least "knows" everyone even barely
also it is so bad that one time i literally made a fucking girl, who i had a crush on, who also had a crush on me cry because i was an asshole to her to make her stop trying
then after a while she says hi to me in a hallway all cheerfully and i just say hey and keep walking
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Been living w/ my bf almost 3 yrs. Don't know what I'm more sick of, being angry together or sad apart. I'm living far from home. Don't even have a means of transportation, let alone friends nearby to blow off some steam w/ or clear my head. I'm big on friendship/companionship, so it sucks being stranded like this. Whenever I want to do anything outside of the house w/ bf, suddenly he's too anxious to go anywhere, but constantly getting caught up w/ friends while I'm not around or available. I know everyone needs alone time, but sometimes it seems as if I'm fighting for us while he only fights for his own gain. He's not a cheater, but he does have a bad drug problem. He's unemployed, has been for a long time, I'm going broke trying to keep us both afloat. I have a hectic schedule, & when my free time comes around he spoils a good time w/ his piss poor attitude. My health's declining too & this stress can't be helping it one bit. He's an ungrateful piece of shit. I don't want revenge so much as I want to leave this place & never look back. I've spoken to everyone imaginable for help. I don't make a ton of $ so I'm not sure where I could go. My only choice is saving up over a period of time, while still having to tolerate this guy going ballistic on me and going through mood swings when he's sober and having no way of getting away from him even for a little while. He's abusive, selfish & manipulative. One day he hates me, the next he's sorry & he'll never do it again. His family doesn't give a shit about it & the fact that he has yet to outgrow this bullshit will be my demise if I never leave him. Wish I knew this about him before getting attached. I hate that caring makes me weak even though I have to be strong enough for the both of us. What would some of you do between a rock and a hard place like this? Please show some mercy, I'm in a vulnerable position in more ways than I can even say here. I feel very lost and need to regain my footing somehow. (Pic related)
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You haven't made it very clear what exactly is stopping you from leaving. Do you still have remnants of care left for this guy? If you can't identify why you do, then please, go ahead with your plans before spending more time with him makes it more difficult to do so.
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>>18127608
Limited resources, no car, not a ton of money for first, last and security. Paying my way through school and not getting any financial help even from him. Thus the fact I need to wait it out before I can go anywhere. I am unable to do anything immediate and it's driving me insane.
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>>18127595
what about your family?
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So I started to workout at the gym at the end of 2015. I was doing very well and lost like 40 pounds, gained some muscle, people noticed and said stuff whatever. My problem with it was I did it for the wrong reason. I had a girl in my friend group who I wanted to catch her eye because I honestly felt like she was perfect for me. Well turns out I was taking too long and she got a bf at the start of 2016. I kept going to the gym but it became harder and harder on my body because I felt horrible about it. I lost motivation to do it because I lost her. Well overtime I started to change the mindset from I need the gym now more then ever because if im lucky enough to meet a girl like her again in my life then I wont lose her like I did my friend. Now that worked for a little bit but my mind kept going back to the girl I already met not the one I might meet. She broke up with the guy a few months in and I started to just kinda remember all the reasons me and her couldnt be together. I came to reality that she was my best friends ex and I wouldnt want to do that to him, also im not good enough for her and I dont want her to downgrade to me. Well the end result is I went from the gym 6 days a week to now im at nothing. I've been at a stable weight but I want to lose it and get in shape. I just cant muster up the motivation which translates into me have no energy to workout at all and I just sit him. I really do want to lose like another 30 pounds but I just can't stay focused anymore.
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>>18127533
Bump
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>>18127533
Just fucking ask her out, dude. Christ.
It's not backstabbing your friend, just don't do it like an asshole. He only dated her for a few months. They weren't soul mates. Tell him that you're going to ask her out, that you've had a crush on her since before the two of them started dating and you hope he's OK with it. If you want to really want to go for sympathy points you can tell him that she's why you started going to the gym and working on yourself originally. I wouldn't, but you can.
Then man the fuck up and one way or another go get some closure.
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>>18127611
Not the guys she dated when I was at the gym wasnt my best friend. She dated him before that guy for about 2 years.