>In my 30s
>Married, with two kids. I love my wife, and my life. 90% of the time, I'd even say I'm happy with my marriage
>Don't watch porn or get bothered by pictures of attractive women on the internet
>Whenever I'm in public, if I see a woman that's attractive but also has a curvaceous or "THICC" figure, something inside me is triggered.
>It only happens with women of a specific build. It's like some deep seeded conquerer's Gene takes effect
>For days after, I can only fantasize about forcing myself upon her and impregnating her.
>For days after, I will look at my wife, who is otherwise a beautiful, toned, and thin woman, and just be sad that I can't have more than one woman.
>The hardest thing I've ever had to do was turn down a stacked, THICC, twenty-something waitress while I was on a fishing trip. But I've always been faithful to my wife.
>She knows I struggle with this, and it makes her feel like shit
How do I rid myself of this desire?
>>18126224
>How do I rid myself of this desire?
sorry bro, but you deserved this one...
>>18126252
Kek. Thanks m8.
Give me SOME credit! I haven't physically done anything too terrible, yet. I wish there were some sort of pill or something to make my wife thicker. She's tried gaining weight for me, but that was a complete failure.
>>18126224
>I can only fantasize about forcing myself upon her and impregnating her.
I'd say your literal rape fantasies are a bigger problem than your thicc fetish but okay
Talk your feelings out with a shrink or go through rigorous excercise whenever those thoughts enter your head
>>18126268
Op why the fuck do you want a fat wife? Come on.. If there's anything I've learned its that the grass is almost never greener on the other side. Its just not worth destroying your relationship with your wife. Because of the human condition you will always want more and always want to get the next thing that's slightly out of reach. Learn to be happy with what you have and accept where you are in life or your entire life will be chasing with small pauses to enjoy what you acquired before getting bored and starting the chase again.
when guys say these things I have trouble believing they really love their wives.
I'm curious as to why you married someone who has the opposite body type of the women you are clearly interested in.
>>18126224
Your ugly wife is not attractive. Whatever fuck off you stupid cuck.
>>18126224
>attractive but also has a curvaceous or "THICC" figure, something inside me is triggered
That's because that body shape is what you're primally attracted to
>>18126485
There's no such thing as love
>>18126224
Jerk off until your libido dies.
>>18126224
Take it from an old man.
You will ALWAYS notice the pretty girls. Being a grown up involves not doing anything about it.
>>18126658
le bait and tackle man
>>18126224
You can't get rid of it. It's your natural desire. We're hardwired to want either fit women or thicc, baby-ready women. I prefer the latter.
The best thing you can do is stay faithful. That's all that matters at this point. If you honestly think your wife hasn't looked at hot ethnic guys and thought the same thing, you're dead wrong. It's just how our brains work. It's not as big a deal as you'd think.
I'm a few years younger, having my first child soon and I can understand what you mean. It's purely a sexual desire though, I know I'd never act out on it because it's not worth it.
Maybe spice things up a bit, or on the other hand... learn to control your desires? There are many things you can do, it's not that bad, it's just how we as humans are.
>>18126224
Holy shit sorry your thread got hijacked by the hyper sensitive.
Anyways, don't sweat it you're doing everything right with the no porn and no games on the side. What you're feeling is just basic lust and it's just part of the human condition. Remember, monogamy wouldn't mean anything if it was easy.
OP, unfortunately, you will only get rid of it when you're dead. Just think about it, is it really worth having sex with a stranger over someone your share a deep emotional bond with? Because the sex is usually tremendously better in the latter, only the texture and shape is different in the former.
When you hit midlife crisis the desire becomes even worse. But hey, at least you can openly talk with your wife about it, it's more precious than you think.
If it really is as uncontrollable as stated, and need even help from a chinese cartoon board full of autistic retards ... well, tough shit, better pull the trigger then.
>>18126224
watch strip club videos on public access tv and jizz to them
>>18126224
testing
also
>married peoples problems
lel
>>18126224
Grass is always greener
I was married for 8 years
Divorced my wife because I never "sewed my oats"
Devastated her
Have been woth dozens of women since the divorce
Literally have been with models and actresses, including women on Americas Next Top Model. Not gonna name names
Only wish to be married and have one person to talk to and hold every night.
I try not to think about it but having that warmth to hold every night... goddamnit it has to be instinctive. I know we weren't perfect for each other but something inside me tells me I had what I needed. I'll find it again but holy shit is it hard sometimes.
When my wife was skinny I was all about >thicc
Now my wife's >THICCand I'm drooling over /fit grills.
You want what you don't have. Blame your need for varied pussy on consumerism.
Plus the older we get, the better I look and she looks like the wall hit her.
It's not our fault femanons. It really feels like I should be able to dip my dick in any snatch I can catch.
Thanks guys.
I'm glad to get some honest responses from both sides of this topic. I know it's a shallow scenario, and in a lot of people's eyes, a comedic one. But at least I think it warrants me seeking help. Most of the time, this isn't something I struggle with. And actually, it's very rare that I see a woman out in public that "sets me off" the way I described above.
I also get the impression that even if I did leave my wife for a THICC Amazonian princess with gargantuan tits and an ass for days, that I would then not be satisfied by just one.
What countries have legalized polygomy?
>>18128000
muslims, certain sects of jews, some places in africa. you could try your luck in utah, but it is still technically illegal there
pretty much nowhere that youd want to be
Mfw ops inner alpha activates causing him to abandon thin to get thicc birthing hipped women
Sorry OP, you need to accept that no one is going to find a partner that fills absolutely 100% of their needs and desires.
Be a fucking adult. Seek help if you need it that badly.
Just imagine if you had an average penis and your wife desired for someone more endowed that could please her better, how mad would you be?