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hi guys, i need help to improve on my new facebook page... someone have any idea to grow faster?

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why the fuck am i shy when writing in groups chat too. its ridiculous. and if i can't write properly in a group chat, without thinking a lot about what to post, its not hard to think about the things i go trough in real life. i wasn't this autistic before, I'm getting worse. other people might scare me. i don't know. got this problem since i was a really lil kid, thought about it a lot, still can't figure out why i can't talk to people properly. id like to have friends. sometimes i think i don't even like people, and i need really a lot of time for me alone. now I'm thinking i might do not want friends. I'm so stupid and pity when interacting with others. in real life, I'm the shy one who is always treated like the victim. i bet you know the type. i do not want to be like this anymore. please help

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How can I find out what health insurance I have? My mom keeps saying im under hers but she doesn't know exactly herself and keeps saying she'll check which she wont.

I want to see a therapist and maybe go to the doctor for a check up on my own soon but I need to know what I have. 20 year old.

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Its gotten to the point where I am seeing a counsellor in order to combat the urges. There truly is no meaning to life and the only real free choice you have is whether or not you kill yourself. Why must it be so debilitating to be a free thinker? I was at bar meetinf some friends i havent seen in months. I changed my wardrobe to reflect my mindset and all my friends did was ask if i was goth now. They werent laughing when I made out with the new girl. Leggy. Nursing student. I told her about the absurdity of life and how nothing and no one matters. She told me to prove it. Later that night on the side of the road i drove off as i threw her clothes out of the window. The mere concept of synthetic connection felt so fake and empty. Dejected and still languishing on the falseness of our reality i went home to make this thread.
Now i am deathly afraid of what i might do with these bars of Xanax. $uicideboy$ have been on repeat and Im starting to crave the Benzos fleeting embrace again, if only for a moment, until I fade into the ether.
Has philosophy made anyone else depressed?

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>tfw i used to be extroverted but now im introverted
>be me
>8th grade
>talked to anyone, sometimes bullied but friend got my back
>interested in computers so is friend
>friend and i have time of our lives
>then i find out im moving to another state to start freshmen year
>parents think its a great idea since all the kids would 'be as new as me'
>they were dead fucking wrong
>all freshmen were already dating someone or had defned social group
>first day
>sitting in homeroom staring at the floor, people ask me who i am they never saw me before
>fuckoffredneck.gif
>go down to an assembly since first day always chill
>ginger introduces me to her and her friends
>say hi but too autistic to keep convo going, look down again
>pretty sure i fucked up looking back on that moment
>never spoke to anyone, not because of fear of people (id talk to random people)
>everyday just went though the motions
>middle of the year, kid sits at my table (i was alone there)
>start talking, talks about how he got a girl with a bf to fuck him in a truck over the weekend
>then he mentions that his table thinks he's doing a good thing by sitting with me
>look at him and just stop talking
>i dont want to be a pity case to help a kid get his dick wet
>ignore him, he doesnt return
>summer comes, glad and leave school
>break down over the summer because i make myself alone all the time
>do computer shit rather than try and make friends
>cry because im without a gf, have virginity and never kissed
>built mistrust for almost every person
>ff to now, introverted and angry all the time
>never dating, kissed or had sex
>major trust issues with everyone i meet
>frustrated
anyone else been broken like this?

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Help me get rid of my bad breath. :C

Literal dogshit stench resonating from my oral regions and it's super embarrassing. Especially cause I notice people cringe or turn away when I talk... I've tried Therabreath/saltwater/upping my brushing game and drinking lots of water.

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>i'm 100%positive i can be a better director than Barry Jenkins, and many other
>might not be a genius but head and shoulders above 60%-70% i guess
>23
>^wish i knew a tangible answer for that
>need to talk, in a somewhat manic phase

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I cannot count how many times I have wished to "just get cancer" or something a bit less horrible in my breasts or ovaries to have a reason to have them removed. I know how retarded and disgusting this is and how much of a ridiculous brat I sound like, but I've never talked to anyone about this (nor do I plan to) and I wonder if anyone ever had such thoughts and if anyone knows what might be the cause of this? I'm not overweight, I'm average attractive, I'm proportionaly built, I have no reason to think like this, but I do. I'm also ok with being female, I've had doubts about being transgender or something like that but I don't feel trapped in my body at all. I really really don't to have biological children of my own (I love kids) because I can't imagine a thing worse than being pregnant, childbirth is something you get over with, but pregnancy seems like the most vile thing, having something live in you like that.

I've also thought of having my tubes tied etc. but I'm only 20 and I don't know what I'll be like at 30, it's the only reason.

I don't have these thoughts all the time and I don't focus on them when they come, they just come very loudly and seem to be the ultimate truth in my head and I get very disgusted and disappointed in myself. Just writing this makes me anxious like I'm gonna jinx myself with this etc. It's a mess.

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>English Literature graduate
>it's nearly been a year since I graduated
>worked at a bar for a while
>left to move somewhere with better job opportunities
>been jobless for 2 months now

So I've been rejected from two assessments in b2b sales due to autism, and I'm wondering what to do. I'm learning how to code, and I'd like a job as a junior web developer, but it's going to take some time until I get a certificate/experience.

Should I just go back to working at a bar, or is there something else that I can do with my degree in the meantime?

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I'm joining a design company as a "sales executive". This company have no sales department, I'll be the first one working on sales. Also this will be my first time working as employee (I'm 21 YO).

any advice? is there anything I need to be aware of?

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Help anons, I'm a mess with a schedule, I don't really do that much but still can barely find time for things that really should be done...

here is a quick snap of my daily schedule
> wake up at 10ish, depending on how sleepy I am,
> 1h to take morning supplements, coffee, honey, waking up
> ~11h go to the gym, hard workout, takes about hour and a half with moving
> ~13h, lunch time, usually restaurants, this is best opportunity eat a lot healthy
> from lunch till ~15h, be brain dead as I'm digesting food
> remaining of the afternoon, from 15~18h, perhaps only useful time for work,
> that is if I simply don't waste it browsing the chans and youtube, and of course if I don't have to go out for chores
> 18~23h, college classes, it takes an hour on public trans each way, I'm usually late too
> after coming back, dinner if there is something or just crap eating
> stay awake until 2h am, catching up on the internet, playing or watching series
> usually stay up past 2 because I have no tracking of time, sleep badly and be a zombie the next day
> rinse and repeat

how you do it anon?

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Be me: years of anxiety and depression symptoms. Crippling panic attacks, get through them over a year. Still feel depressed, go to emergency clinic, get prescribed a month of meds. See doctor, say I'm going to beat it on my own without relying on meds, escpecially since the goal is to get off the medication eventually anyway. Take medication over the past several days, all good. Terrible drowsiness and swimming head last night forcing me to go home. Scared to continue, not sure if it's worth it. Thoughts?

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Alright, /adv/

I'm at my wit's end. I want to improve my singing so badly, but everytime I think I got it somebody comes along and tells me I'm still off-pitch and shit.

I come from a death-metal/guttural vocal background, so hypothetically I should have the air-volume to be able to hold notes, and I have a fairly good understanding of my body and how reverberations in my throat and palate feel.

Why can't I sing good?

I'm btw also trying to figure how to be consistent without having to "hear" myself, as I know that more often than not you just can't hear yourself on stage when you got drums and electric guitars blasting in the background.

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Hey, I'd like some advice but I wanna give you all some backstory first.

In my first year at University, I met a girl and I started crushing on her, still do a fair bit. We spoke very frequently and eventually I ended up asking her to the movies. At the time, I guess I was so nervous totally I forgot to pay for her ticket. The night was pleasant, but it wasn't anything amazing. Timing was bad because we had a test coming up in a few days so we left fairly quickly, too.

Afterwards, we both became too bogged down with Uni work, but I also feel like she might've wanted to distance herself. Maybe because I didn't pay, or maybe because I did something else? I don't think I'll ever truly know. Regardless, we were still friendly but spoke far less than before.

During my second year, we still spoke but not as much as before, until towards the end of the year, where for some reason or the other we started speaking a fair amount more. It's still nowhere near that initial first year level but we talk a fair amount, and even ended up talking on the phone for 4 hours till 2am while she was overseas.

I'm in my third year now, and earlier tonight, she randomly brought up a movie she wanted to go and see, and I thought she might've been hinting at me. I asked if she wanted to go and she responded 'ofc, I have no one else to go with'.

Maybe I'm being pessimistic but I'm pretty sure there isn't anything special going on, especially given her reply. But I'm confused (and hopeful I guess) as to why she didn't ask anyone else because I'm fairly sure she could've gone with someone else.

Regardless, we'll be seeing the movie sometime soon. Should I pay for her? Should I treat this as a date or just hanging out? Any thoughts you might have on this whole thing? I'd like some advice.

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So ive been having this problem for a while now, I don't know who to turn to
I've been dating this girl(she moved from california) for a few months now and for a while, things were going great. Until I find out that her dad wants to go back to california. She also wants to go back as she has alot of leftover family she misses. She tells me it's best to break up as she's most likely moving back and she doesn't like long distance relationships as they didn't work out for her in the past. Not to mention, I'll be moving to college next year, so even if she were to stay, I'd be 3 hours away at least for a year if she decides to attend the same college as me the year after.. The problem is that I fell deeply in love with her, especially after she tells me she also loves me and we had sex after the fact. I understand that she misses her friends and family in california but I really want to be with her. She does have a choice to stay or go with her dad but unfortunately her dad seems to wanna leave so she'll most likely go with him. She's told me that she wants me and her to move on as this will be the best thing to do. She even told me later that she didn't think she loved me as she said that we havent dated for too long. She said she doesnt regret being with me ,tells me that I'm a great guy but wants us to move on. She even suggested I go find someone else, even though she said it'll hurt a bit but she'll understand. The problem is that I doubt I'll find someone like her, I always thought she was perfect, better than the bitches I usually see, she was cute, smart, funny, had her shit together. And I might lose all of that. At this point, she told me she wants to be distant so that she can move on easier. I tell her she doesnt need to do that, that i was done crying about it and that after all she doesnt like me anymore. She tells me she just needs time to figure this out and understanding our situation. I havent texted her in 3 days. Is there anything I can?