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What does /adv/ think of this advice?
>Start caring about yourself
>Start believing in yourself
>If you are sad, let it out.
>If you are mad, go tell them.
>Cry, frown, let it all come out
>Curse, yell, say everything is unfair
>Say it all out loud. Stop holding it in.
>Express what is inside you.
>Then
>Start working to fix yourself
>Fix how you eat. Go outside every day,
>Maybe go to the gym. Make some friends there.
>Start saying what you think. A guy's shoes look cool?
>"Nice shoes bro"
>A girl's skirt look nice?
>"That's a lovely skirt!"
>Start making a quick opinion about everything you see.
>"The weather is nice today"
>"I love the way the trees sway in the wind"
>Say what you think. Let it all out.
>Talk to everyone. Eventually, things will be good.
>Because you are good. Let all that good out.
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Is solid advice but doing it and staying consistent with it is were we go wrong. I tryed doing this and i started to feel confident. I even met a girl. Didnt work out. She told me im to soft on her. That shit Hurt me in the hart. That was 3 months ago. Funny hoe zich small thing can break you easy. I realy started to care about my actions and vision about the world around me. Now im back to not doing anything. I feel shit, im skipping school, dont know what to do bro. ( Btw im not so retarded as a lot of people on 4chan. Atleast not /b/ level. Im 23. Im Just not that confident
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>If you are mad go tell them
This has never ended positively for me
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i dont like the part about thinking things are unfair or about commenting on the weather like a complete chode, but basically its saying be genuine and open with people and i agree with that
i like the part about crying and not holding things in especially, i think guys arent allowed to do that and it fucks you up if you bottle things up too much
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playing some vidya when this girl I matched with on tinder randomly asked me to be her baby daddy.
>freak out, try to steer towards normal sex yadda yadda
> says I get to fuck her till she's pregnant and don't have to take care of the kid
>haven't gotten laid in 2 years, was hoping for a nice break soon
>girl is kinda cute, pretty chubby but I don't mind that
>side bonus of furthering my conquest of spreading my genetic material to as many people and places as possible with the end goal of world conquest long after my passing
wat do
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You will nut in the first 30 seconds anyway.
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You fucking nigger, she's just gonna milk your ass for child support.
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>>18131117
>baby daddy
Anybody who uses this term should be spayed/neutered.
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Which path do I take?
I studied animation and it used to be my sole ambition in life. After I graduated my Dad tried to commit suicide and I suffered a wrist injury. Those combined events triggered my depression and I've barely drawn since.
My therapist is encouraging me to work this year, maybe in a tech support centre or something similarly easy but still requires talking to people daily.
My Mum is encouraging me to talk to these guys who studied web design and have created a successful startup with the hopes that I could take the same course they did.
There's a part of me that wants to apply to animation studios and not give up on my lifelong ambitions.
I know that I will have to make this decision myself but what's your point of view /adv/?
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>>18131114
Art is a tough career and very unstable. Same with actors, musicians, painters, animators, 3d modelers.
Dont put your eggs into one basket. Have a tech career and see if you can manage animation in your freetime. Is this 3d or 2d, btw?
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>>18131127
2D. I know! What was I thinking?
There are actually several studios in my country that produce 2D animation, some studios do 3D and 2D, but I haven't applied. My therapist says I have a 'fear of success'.
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>>18131143
You need to spark up your creativity for animation and drawing. Do you still watch animation? You need to take depression seriously, so maybe that social work suggested by your therapist is a good start to start healing.
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I am at my parents for spring break. My mother wasw always extremely bipolar, screaming and yelling at me throughout most of my life. I'm rather sure she's the reason i have sucha cynical view on women since she was such a hypocrite and maniac. Today however, I accidentally left food in the sink and forgot about it, and she freaked out and started screaming again. This hadn't happened in a long while, and I told her to calm down and that I'd take care of it. However, she just continued to scream about it and tell me that I am so careless and disrespectful. At that moment, I had the strongest urge to punch her in the face and scream back at her. It took a lot to not do it, and I never have this urge nor am I ever violent.
Is this bad? This is my own mother. I find it very hard to love her, but that was extreme.
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I really feel for you anon. It's hard stuff dealing with someone like that, especially a family member. Don't feel bad for what you felt. Everyone gets angry, and it wasn't unreasonable. Just don't forget that you are dealing with someone who is ill, and not in full control of her emotions. I would doubt she'd want to be like this is she had a choice.
In short, stay strong anon, but know you're allowed to have feeling too
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Bottom line OP you should get a good therapist with who you can relate and work on it. Get a female therapist as you need a strong stable role model. Getting in touch with your own anger is the key to your recovery.....
Read: Healing developmental trauma : how early trauma affects self-regulation, self-image, and the capacity for relationship by Heller, Laurence
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>>18131085
Shit no.
I have a mom exactly similar to yours. I genuinely thought after every one of those moments how little I'd care if she died. Looking back at it I still don't know how I'd feel. I had a lot of moments similar to yours where minor scenarios would stir shit and she'd become crazy (though some were far more serious than those you speak of here).
Trust me, it's human. You're fine. Good luck with your mother, I know exactly how you feel.
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I had found a letter my ex girlfriend had written to me when we first started dating. They really meant a lot to me then and during our time together.
I didn't want to throw them in the trash so I sent it to her about a month ago, for her to do it I guess
Last week she texted me asking why I had sent it and that its been weighing on her mind as to why I did
I told her the reason but she's been questioning it since.
Do I just maintain cordial contact?
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Sending an ex an old love letter is a fucked-up thing to do.
I also don't understand why you sent it to her. You say you sent it "for her to do it I guess" but I have no idea what that means.
Also, what kind of relationship have you had with her since you've broken up? Are you on speaking terms? Why did the relationship end?
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>>18131107
Speaking terms but seldom. No need to text or chat much anymore that we're not together
I sent it because I didn't want to be the one to throw it out. She spent time and emotion on it. It just didn't feel right if I'd done so
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>>18131081
Sounds like a fucked up way to get her back or at least get her attention again.
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>23 years old
>no social media, ever in my entire life
>been playing video games my entire life
>always have been a social outcast, been bullied, known as the "mute"
>puberty hit me really late, noticed I look a bit better, just a bit
>suddenly people are starting to talk to me, always asking for my social media
>scared so avoid social situations and spazz out when people confront me
>girl in my class asked me if I can give a ride to her house
>pretend to be her friend, listening to her for two months know, notice she keeps touching me
>scared to tell her I'm a loner with no friends who played video games for his entire life
What do I do?
How do I make a Snapchat or an Instagram?
What is trending as social media?
Do people still use twitter?
Is Steam considered social media? I have a Steam account.
How do I make friends?
Does having no friends make you seem creepy? What about having no friends on your social media accounts, is there a way to hide this? What do I do?
The questions seem so easy but I get anxiety just thinking about it.
Anyone go through the same thing (specifically)?
Like from becoming a super loner with no friends for 10 years who stays in his room all day to a social acolyte?
Thanks!
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Not having social media is uncommon but there's nothing wrong with it. She's not going to drop you because of something ridiculous like that. Or, if she does, she clearly wasn't that interested in the first place.
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>>18131025
I just told her I deleted everything and she only has my number, but she texts me everyday.
So people don't really care if you don't have social media?
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>>18131020
>falling for the social media meme
>What do I do?
Hide your friends on plebbook, start adding people.
>Does having no friends make you seem creepy?
No it's just considered sad. Just be open to new relationship. Stop analyzing your relation to people. Just get to know them and avoid scumbags.
>Anyone go through the same thing (specifically)?
Yeah I go through it, having no really close friends. But Im handling it different than you. Stop worrying. Take what you get in life.
Alright lads, Having to move away from fembot gf for a month, but recently she's been trying to force herself to be a normie by wanting to go to clubs until I moan at her enough not to go... How do I keep this in action while I'm away? Should I trust her not to?
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you are going to be gone for a month?
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fembot?
if she wants to go to clubs let her, do you trust her not? idk if you should trust her the fuck, she's YOUR girlfriend..or robot whatever.
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No, you need to recognise that she's an autonomous person and she has every right to go to clubs. If you don't want to date someone who goes to clubs, break up with her.
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In my eyes it was like watching porn but interactive, am i just a fucking creep or not that bad? Do i need help>? + i have a girlfriend
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There's nothing wrong with webcam sex, it's a perfectly normal & common thing to do. Except when you say you have a girlfriend (I assume an IRL girlfriend), because webcam sex is cheating by almost everyone's standards.
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>>18130991
So do you think watching a girl on chaturbate for exemple, is cheating?
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>>18130976
You cheated, OP. When you have sex with another woman, maybe that's just ultra-realistic interactive porn for you. OP, you sorry frogposting cheater.
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Can I live vicariously through you? 2017-03-15 11:21:26 Post No.18130924
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Can I live vicariously through you?
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I just wonder about so many feelings that I would never get to feel. Can you help me? Just tell me what its like.
>1
What is it like to actually have a woman like you back and like text you first. What is it like to actually be on someones mind and have them think about it or do nice for you because they want to?
>2
what is it like sleeping with another person? Every time I imagine it.. I imagine sleeping the best sleep I have ever slept.
>3
What is it like waking up with actual energy? I go to sleep for 8 hours and wake up feeling like shit still. I wake up every morning and contemplate just going back to bed and jerking off. I have called out of work just to lay in bed and jerk off all day and sleep and still not feel good.
>4
What does it feel like to want to do things or try new things rather? My friends will ask me shit like "Hey want to come camping in the summer!?" and I will say no because I just have no drive to do shit like that. A vacation to me is laying in bed, maybe some new video games come out and I just lay in bed and play them and jerk off and sleep a bunch. You know you are fucked when you wake up in the morning and the first thing you think is "wow! I can't wait to go back to bed tonight!"
Help me /adv/.
Just let me live a little through you.
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It's pretty awesome. Boosts my self image and gives me much needed affection
>2
If you're just talking about sleeping it's just okay. Being overheated, battling for the covers, accidental hitting, snoring and noises are annoying as fuck if you're a light sleeper like me. Sure waking up with them is awesome but during the night if you can't sleep it's really annoying/sometimes infuriating
>3
Got me on that one. I wake up feeling like death every morning, coffee helps
>4
It broadens my perspective, breaking my routine helps me fight depression and lets me discover new things I never new I liked. Sometimes you just need to just say yes to things even if your mind is telling you no. Living in a loop is just wasting your life away
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>1
Well that's nice I guess, but the feeling vanish with daily routine. It starts strong, like euphoria, you're so happy, just to know that someone thinks of you. But after a month or two it just becomes "normal".
>2
It depends. Sometims it's really comfy, sometimes... Well, you're girlfriend is waking you up because you're snoring too loudly, or she takes all the blankets, or you take too much place, etc... But when you have to sleep alone, after knowing that, it's hard. It's like something is missing...
>3
Well most of the time I still wake up as shitty as you. But strangely (and I can't really understand why yet) sometimes, when I had lots of beers or alcohol befor going to bed, I wake up like at 6 or 7 A.M. full of energy and really happy with no hangover. And I jsut want to go out do some random stuff, going for a good walk in a park, go see a movie with friends etc... Luckily, it doesn't happen everytime I drink because I would have been an alcoholic if that was the case !
>4
It will sound pretty stupid, but sometimes you have to force yourself to do something to actually enjoy it. Really you have to do this. A friend call you to go to a party, to just hang out or anything ? Accept. It will sound like a pain in the ass, but once you'll do it, well it will usually turn out to be not that bad.
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>1
It's great at first, but eventually it's just a normal occurrences, you don't really think about it.
>2
It all depends on you and the other person. With some people you really will get the best sleep if your life, others just wake you up every hour with an elbow to the face and stealing the cover. The girlfriends I've slept with have been a mix, but a lot of the latter. The best sleep I've ever had was with my kid sister back when she used to come to me after having nightmares
>3
I can't help you there, I'm a chronic insomniac and I feel like death warmed over pretty much every morning.
>4
I don't have drive as much as I have curiosity. I do new things because I'm bored with the things I've already done.
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OK lads, I'm truly awful when it comes to lasses, like unbelievable. It's not like I get no attention from girls it's just I handle it terribly. I'll not waste your time with the background to this but here goes.
>UK
>I'd say my fashion sense is a good 7/10. I dress in nice, clean clothes and decent shoes. Not a huge fan of labels so I dress in not too flashy, plain(ish) complimentary clothes, current trends but not faggy or hipster.
>Face is 6/10 in my mind, but I have no confidence. Girls seem to like me but I can't take a nice looking photo which seems to come so easily to other blokes.
>Body could be an 8/10. I'm 22, tall, broad, not fat though if I lost a stone I'd be underwear model material, well proportioned. Good jawline.
>Late bloomer to say the least. Only just getting facial/chest hair. Lost my chub, not cut out of marble, though you can tell I'm strong. 6'1 and still growing. Not a virgin, never had a girlfriend. Not afraid to talk to people but very shy emotionally.
>Jobs are an office job, pays 25k with limitless prospects, army reservist as armoured recce.
I've started talking to this girl. Mutual friends. Known her since last Oct though she had a lad at the time. She's young, just gone 17. We share common interests in cars/vidya. Insanely pretty, like, 9/10. Anyways, I've been quite reserved, though we've spoken daily since she added me on fb, we snapchat a lot and we're arranging a movie/meal/drink date(?) when she's free. She seems interested, her friends must be in the know as they hijacked her phone and sent me kiss emoji filled messages.
What do? I don't want to fuck this up. Any genuine advice lads? I reckon I'm a catch.
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>>18130918
>(age / 2) + 7
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>>18130918
Just got a first date yesterday as well. Things went great, just make her laugh and be confident when you talk. Always try to keep the conversation alive.
The only thing that is bothering me is the feeling that I should've kissed her. Does anybody know a way to go easily for a kiss and not make it awkward?
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>>18130940
I'm not 22 yet, like a month or so, I'm fine with this.
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Is it okay to date handicapped girls? 2017-03-15 11:17:20 Post No.18130912
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Is it okay to date handicapped girls?
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So there's this one girl I'm talking to, and I'm not sure exactly what disability she has, but she's obviously a little slow (think forest gump). She can drive and go to school like any other normal person, but she needs slower classes in school. Anyways, is it taking advantage of her if I (a completely enabled person) want to date her? Will I get looks of disapproval from her family?
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>>18130912
Mental handicaps are one of those things that make it weird for some people. If she can drive and go to school it might be fine though. If she were simply physically handicapped, blind, or deaf then no one would have a problem with it. People tend to treat those with intellectual disabilities as children though.
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depends on if she is able to consent. if she gets the idea of sex and can understand sexual situations and engage them herself, youre good. if not, its like hitting on a 14 yr old
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>>18130958
She's 19 so yeah she can, the social stigma is more of my worry. I want to know if any anons have had the same dilemma or have a handicapped family member to draw commentary from.
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>been working mcdonald's for a month and a half
>had to grab a ton of shit out of freezer in a hurry
>left freezer a mess and forgot about it
>go home and see manager post picture in facebook group calling it pathetic someone did that
>mentions he'll also check the security cameras to see who it is and "if anything like this happens again, the consequences will be much more severe"
>message them telling them I'm sorry and it won't happen again
>it hasn't been marked as seen and he hasn't replied
On a scale of 1-10, how fucked am I when I go into work tomorrow?
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Just own up to what you did and they will probably just give you a warning. No big deal.
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stop working at mcdonalds problem solved
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>>18130902
>On a scale of 1-10, how fucked am I
Look, your worst-case scenario is getting fired, and if we're being totally honest here, getting fired from McD's is only like a 2 on that scale.
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Here's the story so far
>be me be 17
>go to party get drunk talk to girl
>end up getting her number
>talk to her over text over the following days
>get to know her a little bit as well
>ask her if she would like to grab a coffee sometime
>"Yeah sure sounds good."
>Never felt more happy in my life
>Arrange date
That date is tomorrow and I'm shitting brinks only ever talked to this girl face to face once while drunk. How do I suppress my autism in person possible drinking a small amount before hand? Also at this age is good idea to offer to pay for coffee or is that dumb. No clue what I'm doing
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>>18130880
Even if she's a HUGE feminist still offer to pay. It's generally accepted that the men pay for food or drinks on dates, and I doubt she'd turn it down anyway. Doesn't hurt to offer.
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>>18130880
Where you meeting her, OP?
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>>18130891
Costa
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Guys I just found this sticky note on my desk. It's in my handwriting, but I don't remember writing it and I have no idea what it means. Its kinda creepy.
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Wait now I remember nvm
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>>18130877
whats the story? you've piqued my intetest
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>>18130877
So what is it? Don't leave us hanging OP
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britfag here, I need advice.
She constantly drinks alcohol and constantly victimises herself or somehow makes it about her, she constantly says she "cannot handle it" and goes into a meltdown every few days to the point where she will use any excuse it seems to have one.
She has had a hard upbringing however so has her sisters and they are not like her at all in the sense of constant almost insane anger and crying about every little problem. She does have depression and anxiety but there is more too it that I think hasn't been diagnosed.
Basically I need advice on if this is a good idea to best get her mentally corrected, how to go about making sure they do their jobs and admit her for more than 28 days and the consequences of her being sectioned if there is any.
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Bump please help she has already attempted suicide 3 times.
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Please lads I want her to be her old self again
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>>18130841
im not familiar with sectioning.
that said, it may or may not be good for her. get counsel, from a doctor, addiction specialist, therapist, etc. for her if possible, for you at least if not.
drastic action (physical restraint) can have drastic reactions, get professional advice first.