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So, /adv/, first time poster here.
Any of you can tell me how a univeristy in economics is like? Does it have a good future? How hard is it?
A little background, I'm a 21y male from italy, wasted 2 years doing CTF (chemistry and pharmacy) with little to none exam passed.
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>>18129660
Economics in principle are logic based. If you can handle logic, you should be able to handle economics.
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Not terrible, but it doesn't necessarily lead to many post-graduate jobs. Realistically you become an economist and work for the government or a consulting firm, or you work somewhere that may need economics advice e.g. Video game companies, supermarket management, etc.
If you're open for suggestions, I'd suggest Data Science / Business Analytics.
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>>18129669
I can handle logic pretty well, it's mnemonic study that bores me
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Why those 2?
Recently I have been pursuing a girl, I asked her to hang out and the first time she responded she was unsure, so I proceeded to have a normal conversation, a couple of days later i asked again and she responded very curtly, so I asked her how her day was and she just ignored the message. I know I have been rejected and she is not interested. But I feel the way she handled it was kind of disrespectful to me.
My question is, should I try to be friends with her (we are a part of the same club). Or should I just be civil and polite whenever I see her at the club and in class
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>>18129653
Don't speak to her unless she says something to you first, and if she asks you to do something for the club that isn't your responsibility then tell her off. If she doesn't want to be friends you can't make her.
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>>18129663
Also, did I come off as creepy, or was it the right move to ask again for clarity, especially after I was left with an unsure response and then we had a good conversation. The second time, she said she wasn't sure, I just said "ok, we can talk about it in person, how've you been though" and she never responded.
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>>18129653
Dude, she tried letting you down gently... Do you honestly have zero self respect to even want to date a girl who "is unsure" about dating you?
She's annoyed and doesn't want to be chased by you, leave her alone and only interact with her when you absolutely must due to the club.
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How do I stop being so fucking ugly
I thought losing weight would solve something but I'm 140 lbs at 5'9 (yes I am also a fucking manlet) and my face still looks fat as fuck
I have no chin, no cheekbones and my face is just round all around. How do I somehow camouflage this
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>>18129648
Your problem is not your face. You want to fix your face, your weight, your stature... don't you see? You are the one making yourself feel miserable.
Like this, you'll never be satisfied. You'll just want to change more and more.
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>>18129665
Those are the minimum qualities to be considered average, anon.
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>>18129699
Why care? Plenty of non-average people live everywhere and do just fine.
Let me guess, your problem is girls, right? Well, next time ypu walk down the street, check out all the fatasses with girls on thier arms.
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I think all my problems stem from my erectile dysfunction and it runs very deep. I lost my virginity at 12 to another 12 year old and had only seen porn a few times. From then until I quit at about 24 (and have relapsed a few times) I've probably been beating it to porn 3 times a day on average. During all that time I've had some girl friends and have tried to have sex, and most of the time I couldn't get hard. If I did get hard enough to put my dick in, it wasn't very fun, because the whole time I would worry about losing my boner and eventually would.
Then I quit porn, started trying to exercise and eat healthy. I've had some great sex with rock hard boners since then. The problem still remains mentally though. I still feel like I'm incapable of pleasing a woman because of growing up feeling inadequate and having relationships ruined because of it. It makes me very insecure about a woman's previous experiences because I feel I'll never compare, and if we date she'll just cheat on me so that she can be satisfied. It's crippling both mentally and emotionally.
I feel like I know the root of the problem, and even though I've been able to have some great sex recently I don't know how to overcome this deep seated insecurity/issue. Some help/advice would be fantastic. Thanks!
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>>18129608
Ladies and gentlemen...
Why We Need to Protect Children from Porn, The Thread
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>>18129608
>I still feel like I'm incapable of pleasing a woman because of growing up feeling inadequate and having relationships ruined because of it.
Fact is most women don't orgasm from PiV sex. If your mouth and fingers still work, you'll do fine. Get her off a few times. Listen to her moan and twitch and you be and stay harder than something that is really hard.
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Go and talk to a therapist
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Hello Annons,
Do you think it is a good idea to contact my ex for sex? We broke up around 6 months ago, and there was 4 months no contact. She unblocked me from FB around 1 month ago (misses me?). I don't want to get back to her (LDR), but sex would be cool.
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>>18129581
If she's up for it, sure
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>>18129583
Well, idk... This is a thing, I would have to contact her first.
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>>18129590
If you have nothing to lose by contacting her, do it. If there would be some sort of repercussion, think twice about it. It usually depends on how the relationship ended.
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This guy pumped and dumped me (was nice before fucking me, ignores me/is rude to me after) I want to hang out with a group that hes a part of
I dont really have anyone to hang out with apart from that group, although I havent shown my face there for years
Is it a bad idea to hang out with that crowd seeing as that guy is a major person in it?
Hah Im such a loser
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>>18129570
Yes
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>>18129570
You decided to spread your legs and ride the cock carousel so you get the repercussion that you deserve
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>>18129570
you know what happens if you do this? he will continue to ignore you and you end up fucking a few of the other guys in the group.
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Who else
>unending incoherent rage
while in the privacy of their own home? I literally shout at 2 am about shit that happened to me almost 4 years ago. While I agree this is some form of mental illness or turrets, I cannot help but wonder if other anons also experience this.
tl;dr i mad; u mad 2?
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>>18129565
I feel mad often, not that serious, O just deliberately watch stuff I despise on yt or tv, like big bang theory and those compilation videos of 'new exciting technology' and kickstarter projects, it fills me with rage but I cant stop doing it
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>>18129629
>big bang theory
Why would you do that to yourself
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>>18129640
I think I like feeling angry deep down, the worst is actually the tech and food gadgets compilations, every time I hear someone talk about the 'new way to drink water' or 'the new way to walk your dog' and its just a cup or a leash with some retarded app integrated in it my blood boils
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>21 old, studying abroad, graduating in june
>met a 17 old girl in january during my holiday, she is still in high school
>real good fit for my character, great looking imo and into me a lot
>we fell in love and decided to go for a long distance
>We live 3 hours apart by plane but I have stuff to do for uni so I cannot really skip that much
>have plans on meeting up every 2-3 weeks for about a week at a time
>she is suffering from clinical depression
>said I was the thing keeping her feeling happy atm
>it's all perfect when I am with her but once I am abroad she struggles a lot
>she seems loyal, tells me everything about her day without me asking
>very interested in me so I really want that to work out
>However, she said that when I am away she does not feel me like a real person, just a voice in her phone.
>I've send her flowers, letters but what else can I do to make her feel better about the time that we are not together?
>Also, knowing each other for less than 2 months I feel a huge guilt that I give her such a hard time.
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>>18129558
I don't know man, regardless of your current situation, she has 4 years of college to go and you're about to start your full time job. That's 4 more years of LDR, and you'll be working 40 hours a week
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>>18129588
I could easily find a job in her city since I am originally from there. I went abroad for my education.
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>>18129605
Sure, then do that. Tell her to hold out for 2.5 months. All you can do is wait.
Is it normal for people to generally feel satisfied with their life?
Listening to other people talk about themselves, it sounds like most people are content with what they've got and that they have hobbies and stuff that makes them happy, things they look forward to and enjoy.
Is that normal?
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>>18129523
Yes, it's normal to like the things you have and do
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It's definitely normal to have hobbies you like and things you look forward to.
Whether or not you are usually happy depends a lot on the person. Personally, I'm usually content with just sitting around existing. Just living seems pretty fun to me. At other times I start to feel quite lonely and unhappy, but its usually if I haven't interacted with anyone else for a few days.
But yeah, I'd say satisfaction is pretty normal. If I wasn't satisfied with something in my life I would change it.
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self-satisfaction is a meme and the only way to live happily is through other people
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What direction should I push my career in?
I'm a 25 year old women with an arts undergraduate and a science masters. I have 3+ years of administrative/receptionist work, I get by just fine by wearing lipstick and kissing ass as a receptionist however this isn't a lifelong career. Honestly, I think I only get decent work feedback because I'm young and thin and act submissive at work, the kind of men in charge here tend to just objectively hate older women by default. I can't stay in this kind of position forever.
I want to work in something where I can pick up part time hours instead and continue in that field for the rest of my life. I don't have grand ambitions, I just want to continue to feel secure that I can pay my rent and have enough spare time for my cheap hobbies.
Suggestions for careers suitable for this?
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>>18129477
You would be hard pressed to find skilled labor that offers a part time position.
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>>18129487
God dammit.
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I recently read a conversation between my girlfriend and another man through her Facebook account. Sadly I don't know how to bring it up to her because it would mean basically telling her I used her account without her knowing. I probably shouldn't have done that but I need advice.
She didn't outright cuck me because they started talking like casual friends once her and I started dating, but I'm uncomfortable with the two of them talking to each other still (especially since he's just an internet friend so he's an easy cut-off)
What do I do, friends.
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>>18129475
keep your mouth shut and continue to monitor. they will say or do something that will give you a legitimate reason to inquire. be patient.
how did they speak before you started dating and is there a possibility of them ever meeting in real life
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>>18129475
Do nothing and don't invade her privacy again.
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>>18129489
Before we got together she was basically flirting with this guy on and off. It's a little disheartening to see that she initiated it before he did.
Once we started dating they basically just talked about a few small talk topics and that's about it. I did at one point bring him up and she screenshotted it and sent it to him being all like ''help lmao". He lives in the furthest part of the country so they won't be meeting irl.
I'm basically torn between being OK with this since it happened before we dated, or being mad because they're still friends.
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Help me understand something /adv/. Why do I enjoy the company of younger people better (Year 7 - 8/11 - 14 years old) than that of my peers? I have this inert desire to befriend them and hang out with them, especially shy and diffident individuals, and I'll make it clear I have no sexual desire for them whatsoever, purely friendship is what I'm after. I find my peers are quite banal and none of them share any of my interests which I can understand not many would (Philosophy, Parkour, Classic Films, etc.) but neither do 12 year olds yet I prefer their company nonetheless. I don't get it /adv/.
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>>18129455
Assuming this isn't b8...
Because people your age don't want to be your friend and kids younger than you are willing to hang out with you just because you're older.
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>>18129458
but people my age do like me, all of them think I'm nice, charismatic and funny.
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>>18129455
You probably like to teach and enjoy the attention/satisfaction of having people learn new things.
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Someone I know killed themselves over what I said, now people are looking at me as the culprit, expecting me to feel sorry for what happened. I don't, but I obviously need to if I don't want to be shunned.
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>>18129433
What did you say?
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>>18129434
That they were pathetic, stupid and that they were just wasting everyone's time. I never told them to kill themselves, but given that I was the last one they talked to, and given what I said, people just take that as me driving the person to suicide, even though I think that's absolute bullshit.
It was a co-worker, if it matters.
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>>18129437
Wow you should kill yourself
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I'm having a bit of trouble understanding what's happening I was hoping someone on here could clear things up.
I have some friends who are in a band and they were shooting a video for it, I was there to help out and do a bit of background acting. The shooting took two days. There was this girl there who was a photographer that I kind of knew from before, and I thought she was a lesbian (well I saw her with girls all the time and my friend told me). She's 18 still in HS, I'm 21. Anyway during the shoot my car got towed away because I was a bumblefuck so we went to pick it up. She rode with me back from the compound and she was really nice and cheered me up as I was a bit down and was kinda nice and flirty but I thought nothing of it. As the day progressed she was getting way more flirty and touchy. She was hanging exclusively with me this whole time. She was supposed to shoot the "behind the scenes footage", but she was filming me most of the time. While we were waiting for the others alone at one point she said loud and clear, let God be my witness "I'm not some lesbian." We got way more touchy and huggy and flirty throughout the day, some of her friends came over and I heard them saying something like "teehee yeah he's cute". I didn't want to do anything more even though I felt I had the chance because it felt too soon but we were still messing around and smiling. I had to leave earlier.
The next day of the shooting she was kinda down at first but then got to her old self. Same as yesterday, touching, hugging smiling and so on. She leaned on my shoulder while we were riding in the back of the car and kind of leaned her head towards mine and closed her eyes. I wanted to kiss her so bad, it felt like she wanted to go for a kiss but the car was full of people. I walked her home at the end of the day. We hugged and I finally went for a kiss. She said no, I don't want this now I just got out of a hard relationship...
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She then started to put profile pictures with her ex girlfriend (??) on viber. I texted her the next day said I'm sorry if I rushed things and so on, she replied like 5 hours later "It's fine, I mean we barely know eachother for two days."
I kind of got mad that she was ignoring me and replying so sparsely because we got along so fucking well and it felt true so this is what I wrote a long-ish reply, something along the lines of "I understand you got out of a hard relationship, I know how it feels, I want to give you space, and i think you're an amazing girl and I like to hang out with you." She just replied with "thanks for understanding".
Like a fucking bank teller. Didn't reply to that.
Sorry for the long ass post. Why did she suddenly become so cold towards me? It really felt real, we even made plans to hang out and everything. It really hurts because it seems like every time something nice like this happens
it goes tits up and throws me back in the depression pit. I'm so tired of these emotional highs and then all of it crashing and burning.
I think I should give her a couple of weeks and ask her out for a drink if she feels like it.. Should I maybe just let her get back to me when she got over the whatever's bothering her?
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>>18129420
Perhaps she thought u are gay too and just wanted a friend.
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>>18129420
But more likely she felt guilty, kinda like cheating, cause she is still loving her ex. You better talk to her and don't use some messengers, read her expression in person
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Hello,
Like a month ago I got matched with girl on tinder. After some talk she said she remembers me from visiting her work like 3 months before (I couldnt remenver her tho, which was surprising, coz she is totally ny type).
However she said she got a boyfriend and they both agrees to just swipe on tinder and not talk to anyone (I call bullshit about this bot talking part but whatever). And she did delete her tibder like a week after and after another month we got matched again. This time I decided that I gotta do something. Im not the player type and I usually hate such things, but could you give me any advice on how to act, what to tell to take her on date?
Cheers!
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>>18129380
Message her and see if she messages back
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A)
She is a shitty girl. She is talking to other dudes behind her boyfriends back. I don't know what "your type" is, but think long amd hard about if that's it.
B) despite what 4chan might lead you to believe most girls will just flat out not want to cheat on their bf.
C) even if they do, if you have to ask on 4chan you don't have the game.
D) fucking someone's whore of s girlfriend knowing they have a bf is shitty.
E) it's fucking tinder just match someone else.
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>>18129385
I did. We talked some then she just said she had a lot of stress lately and didnt say a word after I asked her whats going on. It was like 2 days ago. I messaged her asking if everything is better, now I gotta wait and see if she will reply to this