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>>18208448
Get a job, if you run out of money just walk into places and ask if they're hiring. You have two legs, so you can preserve gas via walking. It's easier said than done, but I reckon there must be several dozen businesses in your area so someone has to be hiring. Doesn't hurt to ask every business that you think you're capable of working at, job doesn't need to be pretty either.

Tons are hiring. Nothing more than 8 an hour. I don't even care if a job is manual labor. I do walk and try my best to preserve gas. I have food but I can only eat carbs for so long before i feel sick. I have my A+ cert but very little around here that both ask for that AND are hiring
Its silly..
Its been a month..

>>18208448
Make looking for work your second job. Put in 20 hours a week hustling for a new job until you get one.

Also make sure you keep your work/interview clothes clean, and make sure you are able to take showers and shave. Are you able to do all that?

You could also look into a group living home. Most of them are sober livings and you'll be required to stay sober while you live there and get drug tested periodically, but they'll give you a bed (even if only a bunk), hot shower, ironing board, phone number, internet connection and address to use. When I went to one I was loaned dress clothes by a resident for an interview at a job another resident of the house got set up for me. They're meant for drug addicts, but they'll most likely take you because they want to get paid.

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i feel paralyzed by laziness sometimes, like, i could just sit on my ass and be content

im not super passionate about anything, i don't have one career goal in mind like when people are like "i want to be a police officer, so i took the blah blah test and im doing xyz in order to do it" or like, "i want to be a teacher so i studied a teachable major in college and got really good grades and signed up here and met this person" or whatever

the only thing i like doing really is smoking pot and playing vidya, watching movies, hiking in the woods... i taught english abroad one year, that was fun i guess

god, i feel so fucking pathetic...

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it's like i can picture stuff i want to do in my mind, but i just can't motivate to do anything "adult" like and start working/paying bills/planning a career

shit i can't even find the discipline to work out and lose this fucking weight

>>18207878
I don't have any advice but I'll be lurking

>>18207886

How do you feel? Tell us about yourself

I do avoid it, everyone says it's overrated and so I prefer to keep up the fantasy of it being the greatest thing ever in my head.

I lost mine when I was 21. That was 4 years ago.

>>18206307
Was 21 when I got my first kiss and lost my vcard. I think a better question would be at any point after 25 or 30.

>>18206311
>>18206316
How did you do it?

>>18212379
Yes

Yes sir

>>18212379
Also. Try stop being a nigger. It really helps senpai.

Lots of foreplay, lube and start slowly with fingering her with one finger

Should do the trick

>>18212276
In the ass

>>18212276

Do it from behind. Ram it in.

>>18212086
Why won't you see a doctor that will check if you're really okay?

>>18212086
What I would do to fight an unreasonable fear is to fighting fire with fire. I'd drink as much as I can with big gulps, even if my brain doesn't want to. But that needs a lot of willpower.

>>18212091
cuz im scared to get my blood drawn. but its probably worth it to go

>>18212072

Sorry, I think you're looking for Tumblr.com.

>>18212072
Your family's opinion counts for nothing. All that matters is how you feel, fuck what anyone else thinks. If you like guys and girls, then more power to you. Just do what you want, and fuck the rest.

>>18212083
This...

What you are saying makes no sense whatsoever

What exactly is your genetic disorder?

I myself have a thyroid hypofunction and have to take L-thyroxin every morning. It helps a bit, but it's more about attitude and dedication.
Think of it like you're a body drifting in outer space. It requires energy to change your current course and pick up movement (in your case, energy for work), but once you're going, you can go a near-infinite way.

Start planning out your life, calculate 20% more time than you would actually need for everything etc.

>>18212089
I have a severe case of Pyroluria and have been having a lot of trouble with the supplements I am supposed to take. The brand's quality keeps changing and it's making things worse. I used to have a lot more energy before the quality changed. I've tried many different brands too.

I don't know about any type of medication to help you but I can suggest you try matcha green tea and/or yerba mate.

These both give you energy similar to coffee but do not cause you to crash afterwards.

>>18211840
Be confident! You have nothing to loose. Worst case she politely declines.

>>18211851
Yea man, im going for it. I just don't know what to say, like how i get into that conversation and how exactly to tell her how i feel.

>>18211840
Don't ever let yourself have feelings for a girl you haven't even fucked yet.

You are setting yourself up for disappointment and loss.

When a chick proves that she treats you well and the sex is good then allow yourself to develop feelings.

>>18211838
>Any suggestions on where to do so?
With the police.

Already has they said they couldnt do anything due to lack of evidence

>>18211846
What do you mean, lack of evidence? Did she go to the police the morning after, where they would have sent her to the hospital to gather evidence?

Realize that 3DPD women get old.
Imagine a hot girl, then look at her grandma, make sure she's not somewhat attractive - this is what all women end up to be. Essentially women are sacks of flesh like all life on earth.
That girl you like, there is nothing special about that girl besides the circumstances in which she has interacted with others, there has been thousands of girl with the exact same personality that have existed since the span of the beginning of humanity in different points of time - from the past, present, and the coming future; there are billions of girls superior to her, more inferior to her, but there is nothing special about any of them, they live, breathe, eat, fuck, then die.

Then realize that 2D girls are just colors and linework, that every thing that a cute anime girl said was written by a fat starving virgin animator or story writer who would probably molest your little sister if you had one. They will never be real, the voice actors for the girls are getting fucked by chads, and millions of others have had imaginary sex with them - they are not pure, in fact 2D girls are turbo sluts who have slept with millions of people everyday - from fat disgusting socially inept weebs to super chad closet weebs. Any 2D girl you post probably cheated on you a billion times, and she'll never tell you because you only imagine what she's saying, 2D girls are turbosluts and have been cummed on, killed, raped, and emotionally manipulated millions of men and women.

All women are inferior, live a celibate life and stop thinking about vaginas and pussies and finding a girl and do something to improve the world, or improve yourself for only yourself.

>I want to keep being an embarrassment to my parents until I finally snap and marry some Chinese mail order bride that scams me out of everything I own

>mfw having exact opposite problem
>cant like 3dpd even if I try to play mind tricks with myself
>I did this to myself without even knowing what 3dpd meant since childhood
Be happy youre normal

>>18211678
Don't go after shallow women you meet at nightclubs.

Why don't you try dating black/latina women?
>They are pig disgusting! Dog people bring shame upon my family!!!
Well, now you know how everyone else feels about Asian men.

>>18211729
I'm only interested in white girls

Holy shit you're beta af, just Fuck her. Prove you're a male or castrate yourself

>>18211661
It wouldn't be weird to just add her, but dude. Why did you fucking wait so long on this?

You're a fuckup, dude. Prove that you won't always be one by nailing this snailslut

I literally do not know where to find her. The question I'm asking is if it's chill to just randomly add her on Facebook after not having seen her in like 3 months and never having exchanged phone numbers

>>18211634
>I got beat up and bullied and verbally abused

You need to talk about your trauma in a supportive setting.

>what can I do to overcome this bad habit?

Bodybuild.

Spend time with a dog when you feel apathetic.

Set a schedule for yourself with incremental work goals.

>I have a problem, but I don't want to do any of the best 3 things to solve it
Yeah, you're not actually looking for an answer. Just more excuses about why you're a shitlord.

Justifying your laziness with a bullshit childhood trauma is what women do in a Lifetime movie. I'm sure you have a pair of testicles between your legs, so act like it. Get your shit done.

>>18211730
I already lift and I can't afford a dog and my schedule is shit, I think I'm just fucked in life.
>>18211748
I'm not lazy I work two jobs and have to pay for "my own" shared one bedroom apartment, "lol just do it", nice fucking advice.