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Recently i caught the feels for a girl, im around her around once a week, we get along well as friends even though we have only known each other for around a month.
I just don't know how to tell her how i feel/ask her out. I see her tomorrow for drinks at a mutual friends place, i will have an opportunity then but i just don't know what to say, how to start that conversation, etc.
Ive never asked a girl out before, and not a social person at all, so any advice would be great.
Ask any questions and i will answer.
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>>18211840
Be confident! You have nothing to loose. Worst case she politely declines.
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>>18211851
Yea man, im going for it. I just don't know what to say, like how i get into that conversation and how exactly to tell her how i feel.
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>>18211840
Don't ever let yourself have feelings for a girl you haven't even fucked yet.
You are setting yourself up for disappointment and loss.
When a chick proves that she treats you well and the sex is good then allow yourself to develop feelings.
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>>18211895
Anon, i don't care about the sex. I like the girl for her personality, its the best ive ever met out of all my friends (male or female), shes super interesting and has a lot of common interests.
I developed sexual feelings for her, yes, but more often than not when i think about her its not about sex, its about the fun times we have had, and more than we could, her hugging me, the funny shit she does etc.
Ive made my mind up that i want to give romance a shot with her, i have no idea if she will want to or not but i don't know how to tell her my feelings//what to say, and ask her to be in a romantic / sexual relationship with me
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>>18211910
t. someone who hasn't had sex much
Sex is half a relationship amigo, the other half is comprised of respect and communication.
Half fun when this blows up in your face because you've completely romanticized and blown this chick up yo be better than she is. You don't even know if she likes you, let alone how she's going to treat you.
Watch 500 Days of Summer immediately.
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>>18211926
It might blow up, so might any relationship.
Shes not the person that would fuck before dating, so im going to have to date her.
I want to date her, me dating her will let me see these things, and let both of us decide if that's the kind of relationship we want. That's the point of dating.
I just don't know how to ask her on date, or tell her my feels. I know that im going to do it in person, one on one. but i don't know what to say, i cant find words and i just need help with that
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>>18211944
Oh my god dude, please retract your feelings.
Ask her to get coffee with you and do it casually. Please preted that you don't think this is a big deal.
Stop blowing her up dude. You should have made that mistake at 15 and learned from it.
Like I'm anxious for you because of what you're doing to yourself.
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