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Any Advice to weld perfectly
first Picture is what i want.
second is what I welded
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this the One that i Want to weld
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>>18212998
It takes 10,000 hours to master a skill
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>>18212998
christ thats awful

I recently got a GF who appears to be madly in love with me-
I love her too, she's great, she's thicc, but she isn't my ideal girl necessarily.
The problem is- I'm constantly put face to face with these 3 girls who are all 9-10/10s in my book

I'm faithful, I won't cheat, like ever, but I feel really unfulfilled, and also like a douche.

What's the best course of action?
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I'm sure she has ripped guys she's lusting over too. It happens.
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So because you interact with these other girls you feel like you're missing something? Bit unfair to her. I'd feel like shit if I were her.
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Dump her. You don't sound like you're ready for a long term thing. There's no such thing as a 100% ideal soul mate. Until you figure that out, you will always jump from girl to girl, thinking you will find someone even better. The girl you're with shouldn't have to waste her time.

Good evening /adv/, me and my gf have been on couple since 2015.. but online, I'm now living in France and she lives in Russia (We knew each other in elementary school long time ago). It has been 2 years that we're together and we're planning to meet for the first time (since we're together). For the moment everything is alright but I'm afraid that things in reality may be different (she not liking me, etc...) I don't really know if it's going to work or not, I hope so. Now tell me, /adv/, what do you think about it? what should I do and will everything will be fine or not? If you had similar stories you can share too!
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Do you guys video chat, or is it just by text
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>>18213010
We do both
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>>18213014
I don't see how it can go wrong, the best way to ensure the relationship becomes established is to become intimate through intercourse, that pretty much will determine whether or not she or you made the right choice and will continue to stay committed.

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I've almost finished first year of college in medicine and I don't really like it. Almost every day I stumble upon videos/posts/articles with one common line : "Follow your passion, it's your life". Still, I'm pretty sure if I stay here I will succeed and be better-than-average doctor. People around me mostly aren't very smart.

Should I then start studying IT? Currently I'm very interested(and always have been, since when I remember myself), but have only superficial knowledge in math, programming, machine learning and AI.

And if I should, here's the pile of shit: I don't want to attend any uni I can pay for.I mean, I would like to attend any of the good ones, but I barely can afford myself anything above 10k$ and even this may not be an option.
These are why I don't want to attend local college:
1. I honestly think colleges in my country are soviet-style shit. Maybe that's wrong for technical ones, because I have friends who study there and they seem to like it.
2. I can't attend it unless I pass a special test together with highschool students(spring 2018!) because by the next year my own certificate will be outdated(valid only for 2 years)
3. I will have to study what I don't need. Also exams and so on .

Also one of the reasons I want to get in IT because I want to get out of this shithole. There are good and smart people, but they are by far a minority. My "dream" is US.

Am I retarded for even thinking I could handle all the studying myself? Will I get btfo by asians and indians? Will I work in cubicle for the rest of my life?

Here goes meme tier information about me:
blue-eyed white male
136 IQ in online test
top 5% score when attending my current uni.
doctor family
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I was told that I should first get a degree in medicine which will take 7 years and then I can do whatever I want.

But this means I will be 25. It can be too late. And by this time i would have spent 7 most productive years of my life, a lot of money and potential to emigrate, because as far as I know old people are not accepted and I won't be able to work as a doctor anywhere except my country.
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read Serg lang "Basic Mathematics" if u liked it,
then yeah from my POV u have a potential to be a someone great in the future.
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>>18212900
>blue-eyed white male
>136 IQ in online test
>top 5% score when attending my current uni.
>doctor family

Oh my thats a lot of priviledge..
Technically you can't fail, even if you do.

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My 11yo brother is starting to take my dad's /pol/-shit too seriously. He spouts "kafir" on the regular and has developed a superiority complex to other races. I know I'll have to distance myself from most of my family for their shit worldview, but I don't want to lose him too.
Please help
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If niggers are low quality, explain Ben Carson. If women are weak, explain Margaret Thatcher.

The individual is a better outcome predictor than their group membership, any group membership, any individual.

If white people are genetically superior, explain Michael Moore. I could just go on and on and on like this. Prejudice is a very lazy way of predicting outcomes.
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>>18212883
How did your what sounds like based dad raise suck a cuck like you when your brother is turning out normal
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>>18212896
Outliers that prove the rule.

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Do online and/or overseas relationship always work?
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>>18212873

>always work

have you literally never heard of an online relationship failing?
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>>18212873
sorry, your computer auto corrected the word "fail", and yep, they always fail, 100% of the time.
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Always? Nope. It's very rare for it to work. Personally, I'm not a fan of dating a girl I'll never see while she bangs a new guy each month.

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Be me
>Excited about majoring in CS
>Look at the internet for stuff about the major
>See shitty stories of people dropping out because it was "hard"
>Math anxiety strikes

I feel like a complete brainlet whenever math is mentioned, I want to try to learn all that I can as far as math but I don't know where to start
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>>18212841
Repetition, repetition, repetition. That's all there is to math for required credits. Obviously you need brain power, and a mathematically orientated outlook to be a math major. But if you're just taking stat/trig/calc, really anyone can do it with repetition.
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>>18212841
CS is a math degree masquerading as a programming degree

If you don't like math or at least just good at it you won't make it in CS

>professor_crossing_out_science_and_computer.gif
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>calculus and linear algebra
>hard
Comp sci majors everyone. Come back when you've learned some differential geometry or algebraic topologym

Hey /adv/, my bf and I are having a ridiculous argument about semantics. We were playing twenty questions and I asked if his subject was "made to contain things". He said "in a manner of speaking". His subject was a FUCKING trash can.

So now we're arguing about whether a trash can is made to contain things. PLEASE HELP!!!!

Thanks.
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>>18212839

yes, a garbage can is made to contain trash, he should have said yes. that being said, you are a woman, so you are probably wrong, perhaps even lying about being semantic-raped.

please divorce before you shit up the board any further.
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>>18212839
I can't believe I'm going to get drawn into this horse shit....

If not to contain things, what the fuck is the purpose of a trash can? Can your piece of shit, lying boyfriend answer that?

You know what, fuck it, I don't care. Break up with that stupid, dishonest, piece of human waste right now. Seriously. Right now. He is the lowest form of humanity, and his mere existence makes the world a worse place for everyone else, and he deserves to die alone.
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>>18212839

you must nev er break up with him. Your boyfriend is human scum, the worst of the worst, the kind of man who's children will be the end of our society.

but no one else will realize this OP. you are in a unique position, the only way to stop him from destroying our world as we know it, is to stay with him until the day he dies, and simply never bear him a child.

do it for earth OP.

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Is it worth approaching women when they probably have tons of better options?
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>>18212819

Yes. Because you might be someone's best option. There are plenty of different women who are looking for different things. Someone might be looking for someone like you and if you quit without trying you'll never know for sure. Work on your self-esteem first, though.
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>>18212819

depends on if your value is within 2 points of their value (for instance, if a woman is an 8, and you're a 6). you have to play to win, and even the ugliest people are finding romance and dates.

girls are fortunately not very objective. as long as you are within 2 points of their attractiveness level (although this blurs a bit the closer to 5 you or her get) then it doesn't really matter. girls dont say 'WELL THIS OTHER ANON IS SLIGHTLY HOTTER, SO IM GOING TO GO WITH HIM'.

lets put it this way, you have an ideal woman, right? but you would gladly settle for women who look nothing like her, so long as she has some baseline of attractiveness and of course a good personality, right?

women work the same way, honestly. if they have SO MANY options of men who are all reasonably attractive, then it makes sense to go with who they actually like to be with.

so as long as you aren't shooting out of your league too consistently, you can eventually find a romantic partner.
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>>18212827
Trying is always the first step towards failure.

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I just found out that my boyfriend spend procrastinating the last two weeks a really important thing for his future. He told me to not talk too much to him, because he needs the time and needs to concentrate. I myself was in a really rough place, because depression started hitting again. But because of respect I tried to keep it as low as possible and be a supportive girlfriend.

So, now I found out that he didn't get shit done, because he spend his time differently. He went to some rape fetish forums and was on such subreddits trying to hook up girls on there for "us". Always stating it would be for a threesome. Now, we are rather kinky, but he knows that rape stuff is something that really grinds my gears. Also other things like bestiality and even sexting with some asian girl that was into raceplay, calling her a gook-whore and shit like this on kik.

Now, even though he texted those girls that there is intention of meeting IRL, he told me that wasn't actually the case. And that he doesn't count it as cheating because he involved me. And no, I didn't know about any of this.

And so much stuff, that I found outright disgusting. I can't deal with any of this. He even send a nude pic he took of me to them, cropping out my face. And a full nude of him.

Is this now cheating? Because he always stated that I would be there, too.
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>>18212812

kinda, yeah. you act as if there has to be some legal definition in order to act upon your feelings, but there's not.

there was a betrayal of trust here, and whether he absolutely knew it or not isn't super relevant, because at the very least you are allowed to say 'i do not want to be with someone who's natural instinct is to do this'. and thats okay. it doesn't make you or him any naturally evil people, it just means that you aren't a match.

relationships are not legal documents, you do not need to have some pre-defined legalese reason to break up with someone or be upset with them. as long as you aren't rude or agressive in how you intend to approach this, do what you want, break up or talk to him. you dont have to say 'WELL IT WASN'T TECHNICALLY CHEATING SO IM STUCK HERE DOING NOTHING'
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>>18212812
not cheating, not to be a dick but you two clearly have no future together.

he, likes sexual fantasies that you don't. He's not going to change, you're not going to change.

he, likes time to himself, you're co-dependent on him for your mental health issues.

he, wants a threesome, you don't appear to.

he, enjoys polygamous pursuits, you want monogamous pursuits.
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>>18212812
>Is this now cheating?

Who gives a shit what the label is you daft bint. If you don't like it, and feel like it's a violation of your trust, THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS.

Are you really going to stay in a relationship with a guy that does things you don't agree with because of a technicality?

Anyone that would be that stupid deserves nothing but bad shit to happen to them.

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All the other male athletes at this college are confident around women and shit

I hold the bench press record among all of them and it's like I don't even want to be seen

I'm tired of letting girls that like me slip away just because I'm too shy reee
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>>18212786
You see, it is because other athlethes doesnt roid as hard as you, so their balls are still somewhat working and giving them confidence.

Literally man up or go fap in gym showers to find your alpha guy.
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who is she op?
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>>18213023
>roids
Nah cunt I don't have that money

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What does it mean when a girl in my class looks at me like this? She did that for like 10 seconds, repeated during the whole lesson.
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Either she likes you or you're really getting on her nerves somehow
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>>18212699
That person looks annoyed. Real resting bitch face.
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I'm sitting like 10 meters behind her. She did not seem to have any emotion in that look. I started to be so fucking nervous I almost had a heart attack.

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Why am I a hopeless romantic and how can I stop
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>>18212653
Don't stop, man.
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>>18212653
If you're an extrovert, don't stop. Someone will find it appealing and romance will ensue.
If you're an introvert, stop immediately, you'll bring yourself nothing but pain and longing due to not being able to express yourself openly. Hope to god someone see's the beauty in you and saves you from that suffering.
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>>18212653
Don't stop and don't let 4chan ruin you.

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I'm a guy who never gets addicted to nothing, i tried cigarettes, alcohol, weed, but nothing compares to a woman. I'm not addicted to every woman, in fact there are women that i don't care at all, but when i'm with a woman i like i become seriously addicted, i want to be with them all the time, i want to have sex all the time, i become really dependant and if i don't get it i become really upset. I did all kind of crazy things for women, not going to work, quitting a job, fight with friends, convince her to quit things in order to spend more time together. I know it's not good, but i cannot help myself.
I also prefer to be surrounded by women than by men, i feel ten times more comfortable. With women it's like they just want to have a good time, and even if they're not in the mood to talk, it's not hard for me to make friends with them and eventually fuck them.
Any advice? How can i stop being so obsessed about them?
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Mommy Issues: The Post
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sup with girls on /adv/ being obsessed with guys wanting to fuck their own mother? Projecting much, or? You get turned on by your dad? wtf is this shit.
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>>18212648
Women want you for a social status, security or financial gain. It's very rarely these days for you to find a genuine connection with a woman that won't want these things from you, and want you for who you are on the inside.
The moment you come to terms with that, and you feel like you want to settle down, dread will start creeping up on you, and you won't look at women the same.

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>be me
>be 19 y/o girl
>insecure as eff
Tips on how to boost confidence??
(instead of over face-doxxing or medication)
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>>18212629
>be me
See that's where you went wrong, try being someone else.
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>>18212629
Try not being ugly
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>>18212629
Start looking people in the eyes, especially when talking/listening, and everyone you pass on the street - never be the first one to look away, you'll notice how overwhelmingly many people are insecure, and it'll automatically shift your own esteem. Also ask/greet/compliment strangers, anyone in normal interactions. The more people you've talked to during the day, the more natural it becomes once you run in to qt3.14

>inb4 creepy
No. Confident. Remember to nod/smile/whatever to whoever's not looking away after a few seconds.

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