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>>18213485

sounds like you want generic office work, you'd still interact with customers but not in the way a retail employee does.

>>18213500
I guess? What kind of degree then?
If I don't have an impressive job I could at least finally get a degree.

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holy fuck this freaked me out for a second

>>18213476
Add is addictive. You are experiencing symptoms of withdrawal. It will get only worse in future, fuck up your attention span and slowly but surely fry your brain to the point where nothing will be exciting anymore.

Drop that shit off and never touch it again since you obviously lack self control.

Google what people do when they are on heroin and how they all inevitably end up. Add addiction is good start in your drug addiction carrer.

>>18213476
some experienced ones told me to smoke weed on comedown. they do help on molly comedown. but definitely not the cure... I love amphetamines and stimulants over any other drugs but gotta keep it safe bro. don't take too much at same time and don't do it too frequently.

>>18213476
i had to quit taking them. started getting panic attacks during comedowns that i mistook as heart attacks.

>>18213457
You let her go. She rejected you, so you have to learn to let the idea of being romantically involved with her go.

I know that sucks, but it's important. Do some other shit. Find some hobbies. Meet other girls. Stop thinking about her all the time.

>>18213533
But she didn't reject me, at least not on purpose. I don't even think she knows I feel anything for her. Is giving up really my best bet at this point?

>>18213546
You just said you will "likely never get a chance with her". She sounds like she's discovering she's aromantic and/or asexual.

If confessing and getting rejected will give you the closure you need, by all means do it. But you can't change her feelings, there isn't some trick to it.

>>18213410
>are going long distance a few months
This is why i dont like english. From this fucked ip grammar sentence we dont know if you
>already are in ldr
>are planning to do ldr in future

Also ldr never works. You have been warned. One of many reasons why is your "radio silence".

He can be dead. He can be in jail. He can be fucking stacy for 4 days straight. He could lost his phone. He could have been kidnapped. And since
>i dont know his family
You werent that deep in relationship anyway. Stay cool and prepare mentaly for finding new bf.

Cheer femanon.

>>18213410

not really. theres the off chance that someone he knows died or some serious emergency or that his phone simply got broken and he doesn't have your contact info memorized.

buttruth is he probably realized that this was a bad idea and ghosted ya.

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>>18213518
>Also ldr never works

6 years LDR and goin strong
But yeah 95% of the time they don't work

>>18213397

define 'acceptable'.

everyone has different opinions.

some will say yes because relationships are about trust, and why should you date her if you don't trust her.

others will say no, because girls can't actually be friends with guys, and girls like to cheat, or girls are more likely to cheat if X or Y and Z.

so there is no actual answer. so its netiher acceptable or unacceptable. its whatever makes you feel most comfortable.

if breaking up with her makes you feel more comfortable, by all means.

Don't allow it. When you fight, she'll go to him for advice or consolation which may lead to a slip up. You obviously can't go straight out and say "I looked through your shit, stop talking to him" but if it comes up in conversation mention you don't have contact with your exes. If you did, she would likely feel a certain way. It's just not healthy for your relationship. She has other friends.

>>18213397
youre being cucked and you deserve it for being so stupid

>>18213389

well you own your music, so they cant use it without your permission, which is generally written. and with that written permission comes stipulations, as in they need to pay you certain amounts in order to use these songs.

as a general rule they are one time fees on this level, not ongoing contracts. but you'd need to get a lawyer for this.

if i were you (and I am, from the future) id recommend not letting them do this. if the songs are good enough record them your self and put them out there. if you're in the la area ill even make you a music video.

>>18213393
Yes but do I technically own my music if I haven't recorded/published it yet? We just jammed them out in the studio and from there a bunch of things happened and I was dropped but they're going to continue to use them and are set to record this august. I have like phone recordings of them and stuff going back over a year so the proof is there.
I just don't know what course of action I need to ensure I'd get some royalties or to at least prove I own the songs if you know what I mean?
Sorry, I'm finding this difficult to explain. Thank you for your reply.

>>18213494

well it depends, did you write the songs first? cuz you'd still own the sheet music. you dont need a recording to say the song is yours, they can't copy your sheet music and especially not your lyrics even if they made some changes.

if its yours, talk to a lawyer, and get him to send a notice that they can't use it without your permission. chances are they will not bother a legal battle over music they dont actually own.

but if it was a joint thing, you're probably out of luck. for instance if i write a script and other people give me ideas on what to do with it, then its still my script.

>>18213354
Did it half assed for like 3 weeks and gained like 1/4 inch in lenth and some thickness but I didn't measure that

>>18213354
ehh sorta. its hard to keep up with it when you dont even have faith it will work. the people who claim it ""works"" say you wont see results until at leat a month, and very little. but tons of doctors say it dont work so I dont know what to believe

>>18213376
if you didnt measure than its all in your head

>>18213237
killing yourself is the best way
hell is full of people like that

"outcasts" don't go to places to "hang out" and I doubt they'd be appreciative of you finding them "interesting like a case study".

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This site is your best bet, but there's a reason we don't like to exchange info.

Shit, I don't wanna know anything about you other than what you post here. Dont want to know your name, your age, where you live, what you do.

>>18213211

Determination and self-discipline should work.

>>18213211
hard candy, lollipops, chewing gum. keep something in your mouth all day.

>>18213216
listen, I 've been trying to quit for about 2 years now and I just can't do it without something to push me past a couple days without it.

Don't see the problem. I mean, you just find them attractive, right? You're supposed to date people you're attracted to.

It might be an issue if you want to do deviant things like sticking your penis in their fat rolls or masturbating while watching them eat. But if there's nothing like that, there shouldn't ge an issue.

I like chubby girls so I can somewhat relate, but do you really consider girl in your photo atttactive? Imo thats too much

>>18213162
Yeah I definitely agree, although I do think there's a taboo over dating fat girls. I wouldn't want to do anything quite so deviant, but I'm worried she'd think I was just attracted to her fat rather than her as a person. A lot of the time these girls have lower self-esteem, so I wouldn't want to cause her to think I'm just some lust-driven fetishist who would bang any fat girl just because she's fat.

>>18213131
its time to become the Batman OP

>>18213131
Call the cops?

>>18213136
but how to i remain anonymous. this person is involved in gang life and i dont need anything coming back to me. If im being honest i want him dead

Why would I want to convince you that?

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You're already gone. Go and enjoy yourself, you don't need our opinions.

if it's just sex then why the fuck not?

I would advise you to focus on being a better person before you start looking for "letting go" advice.
I mean the way you described yourself as a boyfriend is pretty bad. I wouldn't take you back either. We all know once you got mad again you would call her a slut again. I would work on that first and then worry about being "alright" because you never will be if you're gonna continue acting like you did.

Relationships end, it's natural. Learn from your mistakes and move on.

If you were charming enough to get this gf you can find another. You won't be alone forever.

>>18213122
Welcome to dating and women. Never ever put your entire life into a girl unless you're financially set, have a career, etc. And even then, never go all in. You never know when she'll leave you and it will *always* be your fault. No matter how trivial a thing it may be or your desire to try and work things out, the moment a girl feels that she's done with you; no amount of discussion or acts will change that. She may even sleep with you after the breakup a few times, but that's only if the new guy or guys she's eyeing aren't working out. Is that what you want? To be relegated to a backup?

Let me put it this way. We are all human, we all make mistakes and we all hurt. If your partner, guy or girl says "You fucked up" and then proceeds to not try and work those things through with you when you ask, they're not someone worth being in a relationship with. What happens the next time you have a problem or crisis? What your'e describing(apart from the sexual history thing) is what all relationships go through after the first six months to a year when the honeymoon phase ends and you start to see the monotony of a relationship. If you don't have anything holding it together other than "That guy or girl was hot" or "We have good times together", it will fall apart like so many relationships. I've had three different friends go through breakups this past month; one a two year relationship, one a half year relationship and the other a three month relationship. They all treated their girls wonderfully and still got dumped in the end.

This is what you do: Learn from your mistakes. Accept the bad things that you did/said, but also remember the good things and start improving yourself. Girls/guys will come and go in your life. They'll whisper sweet nothings, tell you they love you, etc and one day they'll be gone. This is just life and how people are. It always feels "right" until it all goes wrong. I highly recommend you take 3-6 months and do you.

>>18213088
cuck

>>18213088
>OP Here. I believe in love, yes; but I also believe in human nature and not making the same mistakes over and over. I don't really want to date a girl from work or get close to one again(The 19 y/o is quitting soon though) and secondly I feel like I need time to deal with this 24 y/o and the bullshit she just finished putting me through emotionally and mentally. Should I be polite and let the other girl go? I don't want to date for the sake of dating or because I'm lonely. I want to date someone because I actually like them and want to build with them.

>>18213088

New situation: 19 y/0 girl at work is crushing on me for the past year. I keep side stepping it, she's attractive, but I'm 28 and it feels weird. Plus she's a virgin and while I am as well(Waiting for the right girl), I worry that because of her age, she'll want to explore sooner or later and I'd be wasting my time building with her. What do I do? I still think about the other girl(24 y/o)

Plus she's a virgin and while I am as well(Waiting for the right girl),

Plus she's a virgin and while I am as well(Waiting for the right girl),

Plus she's a virgin and while I am as well(Waiting for the right girl),

Plus she's a virgin and while I am as well(Waiting for the right girl),

Plus she's a virgin and while I am as well(Waiting for the right girl),

Plus she's a virgin and while I am as well(Waiting for the right girl),

kill yourself

>>18213030
how did you end uo crushing on a catholic priest6

>>18213035
Well he was actually another teacher, technically. I went to a Catholic school and he was the religion teacher as well as involved in a lot of different things. I also used to sing in a band and one time we performed in front of the school and we had him, the priest, play the violin for it (long story), so we were at practices and stuff a lot. And it just escalated. (This priest is only, like, 30. I'm 19.)