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Girl I lost my virginity to got engaged
Even though I haven't had feelings for her in that way for years and have dated other girls since, I felt compelled to make this thread.
Whats up with that?
We never even dated. we were just friends with benefits at the time, where I fucked up because I developed feelings and when I told her she basically said that it probably isn't a good idea to date in case it doesn't work out and things get awkward between our families. (Our dads are best friends)
I mean before we started hooking up she told me that she always had a crush on me but she always thought I was never interested cos I would always be going for other girls.
Anyways her fiance is a great dude. has his shit together way more than me. owns his own business. they bought a house together and travel together a fair bit.
I'm happy for them and theyve been together for years and it never bothered me and knew they were eventually going to get engaged and it's finally happen.
but yeah. why the fuck am I making this thread lol
is it just because she was the girl I lost my virginity to and that we still remain in contact with each other and still see each other a few times a year?
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>>18427360
>Girl I lost my virginity to got engaged
And the worst part is, you're not even supposed to be here today
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>>18427360
Well I got dumped last week and started smoking again so that emotion heartache would be more of a physically heart tightness
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>>18427360
>hi /comfort me/
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I identify as homosexual but want to try fucking women. How do I go about getting a woman?
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>>18427316
Write on scantily clad women's instagram that you would like to. Be very explicit and kind of rude, they love that.
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Stop being a faggot for starters.
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>>18427316
learn to dance. Go to nightclub. Easier than being rich and more effective. 99% of men in the club setting dont know what the fuck theyre doing with their body and in comparison will be no competition. Buy a mirror.
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Please help me...
Im in love with this guy
We met on a groupchat and he is the best guy I have ever met
He is so sweet and funny andd all I ever wanted...
But he doesnt live in my country. I dont know what to do. I cry all the time because I miss him so much. Im sure he doesnt like me back and I dont know what to do.
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try not being gay
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Save up some money, then ask him out when you have a free weekend. Make sure he likes you back before you spend a few hundred on a ticket.
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>>18427118
Im not..
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I've been thinking about death a lot lately and how hard it is to get a modest gf. Im tired of porn, I'm completely addicted fuck. I want to die cause no one fucking cares so why should I? I want a girl who I can just talk to, you know. I don't want a fucking slut who's gonna end up cheating on me. I'm a spastic all over the place and come off as annoying cause I'm socially autistic as fuck. I don't know what to do. Is it all meaningless? Is it just a quick bit of pain then endless darkness? Is there a god? help someone please
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Why would a girl want to date someone who is considering killing themselves because they don't have a girlfriend?
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Bro you should get some friends before you get a gf. People can be mean and uncaring you need to stand your ground and make a space for yourself in the world.
Slowly but surely op, start socializing with other people.
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>>18427130
They don't know that though
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"Just be confident bro"
"Just bee urself"
How does one actually become confident? "Just fake it lol" Thats like saying I can become taller if I think I am.
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>>18427109
Be energetic, try to see what faults on yourself you can improve, find something good about yourself and convince yourself that you're good.
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By pain and struggle. Get rejected, laughed at and shit on enough so you don't give a shit while taking it and striking back with cool.
I'm in the process, shit's tough, I can't sleep at night from all the stress and people around think I'm a psychopath.
But I will get rid of this anxiety, nothing's gonna stop me.
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Pick some fictional, or non-fictional person/character and try to be more like them. Yeah, it'll feel a bit like "just fake it lol" at first, but you'd be suprised how easily the mind can manipulate itself into acting differently. After you feel you've changed yourself for the better, confidence will come along.
And then you can start "being yourself" whatever that may be.
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Has anyone here, who struggled with depression at some point in the past and overcome it, truly felt deeply, deeply happy again afterwards? Or is it that if you have a predisposition towards depression you will never be entirely happy and just feel "okay" or "so-so" once you overcome it?
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Did you actually feel "deeply, deeply happy" before your depression?
In my experience nobody is "happy" for an infinite period of time, and it's rather about being content with your situation and who you are. Everyone will feel "okay" and "so-so" from time to time, and now and then feel happy.
Don't be too obsessed with happiness, the irony of it is that it will likely make you miserable.
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I'm not sure if it was depression because I was never suicidal but I went from insecure angst loser crybaby depressive teen to disturbed but confident and happy adult.
I sometimes get the depressive moods but I just don't give a shit and go on.
I'm basically in a ubermensh mode: no vidya or nerd shit, 1 fap a week, working out hard, training boxing, climbing, reading books, finishing my PHD, finding a little time to have social life outside of my work, going to some various sports/hobby social events with people I don't know (doing it instead of clubbing, I hate clubbing), trying to date but shit's hard after getting used and cheated on lately - still not giving up to shitty moods.
The worst shit still are neurosomatic symptoms of stress. Like, I'm hitting on a girl, getting rejected, keeping it cool and having fun till the rest of the night, then I can't sleep after that, or getting dizzy, dry throat, getting nervous ticks, wanting to puke and so on.
Still. I can take this on so I pretty much went from super neurotic to closet neurotic hiding all the worst shit inside and keeping it at bay.
Life is pain and struggle, but we can take it brah. It's still fun.
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I used to feel "Depressed" or "k" not so long ago. But I wasn't "Happy" or "Fine". I tried not feeling anything, and I shrugged anything off. I also lost empathy & sympathy for other human beings. I was hollow. All because I was repressed as hell (At least I hope so, else I'm probably just a sociopath).
But the more I allow myself to say "Yeah I'm depressed as shit" and actually express myself to a friend, the better I feel and the more black and white (depressed or happy) it gets, instead of black and grey (depressed or meh).
Just don't try to repress anything. I believe it's a big obstacle to happiness and not something that will help you achieve it. And as the other anon said - Don't obsess over it. Let it naturally come to ya.
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I am a stay at home mom with two kids. Husband walked out on me after I found out he was cheating.
He has been sexually violent and abusive towards me. Gaslighting me and making me think our problems are all my fault.
He told me he was sleeping in his office but I put my phone in his car and tracked it. He was been going to the same apt building
His girlfriend has no idea that I exist he is terrified that I will tell her but I don't know her name or apartment.
He did the same thing to me he, he didn't tell me he was married to his first wife until I was pregnant. We had a religious marriage ceremony and signed a contract before he was officially divorced which is common in my culture.
He is a green card holder and used his first wife to get a green card after we had our ceremony so he was practicing polygamy and did not put it on his application.
He has stolen computer equipment from his job
He has been omitting income from his taxes
He is a college professor and is under investigation for sexually harassing and assulting a student.
He took my car, laptop, and locked me out all accounts.
She lives in a large apartment building. He has isolated me from my community and i don't have any friends that can follow him. I want to destroy his soft place to land.
He convinced/strong armed me into having an abortion 3 months ago. We were still having sex until the day he walked out. He took my daughter to meet her twice.
1) I want to tell his girlfriend everything but don't know how to find her.
2) want to destroy him but not get him deported bc my kids love him.
He keeps telling me to get a job but I have the baby at home, no computer, no car, no money no phone. I'm only typing this bc he forgot to change the wifi password.
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How old are your kids? Do you really think a person like him is going to be a good influence on them, anyway? Get him deported if you can manage it.
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He honestly sounds like a complete asshole, and both your kids and every other woman in your country would be better off if he got deported.
As for finding his current gf, don't you have the apartment she lives in from leaving your phone in his car?
Seriously, if he's harassing young vulnerable women you'd be doing everyone a huge favour by getting him kicked out of the country.
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>>18427048
I swear some people never use brain.
Have you lived together for 1+ year before marriage?
Still this post will be bait.
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How do you get in the mood to study something you don't like? My parent are making me take a graphic design course that features stuff like indesign, and watching the course material is just so boring to me, its making it hard for me to pay attention and get motivated to study on my own. I'd rather learn how to actually design or draw stuff, but programs like indesign are mostly used to make layouts and get stuff ready for print, and very little actual designing stuff so far. So how do people study stuff that they aren't really that invested or interested in?
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Ritalin
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>>18427032
I'd rather not resort to something like that.
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>>18427029
You either want to do something, or you dont. Easy as that.
If you cant force yourself watch some crap, i think you will end up as majority uni students: drop out.
And remember it is better to drop out sooner and save time and money than later.
Cheers!
>>18427032
Great way how to get hooked up and destroy your attention span in the long run.
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I need help controlling my jealousy. 2017-06-17 08:13:57 Post No.18426954
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I need help controlling my jealousy.
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I generally have a pretty good grasp over my emotions, except in one instance, the thought of my girlfriend with another man. Earlier tonight I was smoking some herb with my girlfriend and she mentioned wanting to hang out with an old fuck buddy later on in the evening and I got really bothered by the fact that she's still in touch with old fuck buddies, especially when I ghosted all of mine (who were my only friends up until this point) when we agreed to be exclusive. And the worst part is tonight I figured out that she lied about her number of sexual partners and it's really eating away at my trust in her. Is it the bud playing with my head? Am I justified in being annoyed by the fact that my gf is basically hanging out with and talking to people that are essentially ex's? If I'm not justified in my frustration do you have any tips on controlling it? Is she someone that can't be trusted and should I just move on?
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Any girl who does drugs is going to cheat because she has no impulse control and only does what makes her feel good at the moment.
Drop the bitch then kill yourself pothead.
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>>18426974
Its actually a good suggestion.
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>>18426954
In a similar situation
Depends entirely on the girl m8
How else does she act in other situations?
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I'm coming here cause I literally can't talk about this with real people, so here's my story... about a year ago my dad left my mom, he's cause a bunch of money problems for us now and I don't think I will have a house much longer, not to mention my dad is now in $37k debt and is knee deep in hookers and drugs, and my brother is a pcychopath who constantly acts like movie characters "uninterntionally and/or doesn't act like them he is just like them through his personality" he constantly threatens my family, and is destroying our house (figuratively and literally) causing damages that we can't afford as of now, he recently got out of juvy (yeah he's a minor) and has blamed us all for it. I'm currently stressed out because I have to start college classes this coming semsester and I doubt I can afford it (I'm inbetween jobs and no one is hiring) and I doubt I'll do any good in school, to top that all off I am going to have to fight a guy in less than 24 hours, and I'm not afraid of getting in fights, but this low life douche is sending nudes to and harassing young girls (some of which out my friends) granted he's an anime nerd but he's a little bigger than me, I'm not afraid of losing, I'm afraid of letting those girls down. My whole family hates me, and I know everyone says that, and they say it when it's totally untrue, but my family has gone out of their way not just to show it but to prove it to everyone (and by saying it to my face) I honestly don't know where I went wrong with my life, I've been an ok kid, pretty popular, average grades, and I go to church every week, so where did I go wrong, anyone have any advice whatsoever for me?
Cause I honestly wish I could be making all this up right now, I wish this could be a story just to get attention like every other kid I know
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What are you feeling?
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>>18426910
Who elected you savior of the world?
Avoid the fight. Delay starting school (Tell them your story and they'll hold a space for you next semester or year). Support your mother emotionally and practically. Get a job. Deal with one issue at a time.
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>>18427026
>who elected you saviour of the world
The number of people that need to hear this
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>have female best friend who's 30
>she's been married for 12 years now
>they married because she got pregnant at age 17
>havenmt really asked her, why she has decided to keep the baby, but i suspect it was her mother's influence
>her husband's parents forced them to get married for their family to save face
>after they got the baby, her husband, let's call him M, fell into a really bad depression (would only smoke weed and sleep anymore, all day. no job for about 4 years and so on)
>they pulled trough and a few years ago he started to get his education back on track
> they once were my neighbours and they really don't have their shit together, they never learned to communicate and how to lead a relationship
>this led to a lot of frustration, pent up anger, passive agressive behaviour and resentment
>my suspicion is that especially M would have never signed up for this willingly and feels extremely trapped
>he cheated atleast once (with a girl from work, he slept over frequently, even after my friend (R) found out)
>they now have baby nr. 4 on the way and their relationship is worse than ever
>he has burried himself in work and when he comes home, he goes straight to the bedroom and spends the whole evening on his phone
>he refuses to talk and R doesn't really make it any better by nagging him and piling on the pressure
>it looks like they will soon break up because he's very fed up with all that family stuff he never wanted in the first place
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Cool blog post
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atm the only solution i see is to let him go and finally experience the freedom he never got a taste off. maybe he will realize that that's not all there is and will come back. then he would have choosen his family on his own and not under pressure. and if he doesn't, then atleast they don't fight infront of the kids anymore all day. i just don't see any benefit in staying together if your relationship is THAT fucked up, not even when you have kids.
and yeah, the 3 other kids all were her idea. she just kept nagging till he was fed up and gave in.
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>>18426866
yeah, give me a second.
post got too long
the question is, how can she get trough to him if he has completely shut down like that?
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I'm a 21 year old guy who has bi-polar disorder, and because of this, my life is a wreck. My depressive stages consist of me being holed up in my room not talking to anyone and contemplating suicide, while in my manic stages I say hurtful things and piss people off.
I was a hardcore drug addict for 3.5 years with doing weed, X, Mcatz, cocaine, hashish and the occasional LSD and N-Bome. I had a psychotic episode a year back and my family came to know about my addiction. I was in engineering college and was 2.5 years in when I dropped out.
This was back in India.
Now I'm in Dubai in a new college and I tried to be social, but people never took interest in me, so I gave up.
Till a year ago, I was too terrified to talk to girls, but now I can say hi without stuttering (don't know how I got better, probably the social anxiety medicine I'm taking)
Now my issue is, I can't make friends as they all lose interest in me after a while.
I'm hated by my classmates for what I've done during my manic stages.
My depression stages are too extreme I always end up thinking about suicide.
I have no one to talk to about my feelings.
I'm an alcoholic now.
Girls have called me cute, but my insecurities don't allow me to acknowledge that.
So I was thinking getting a girl would help me ease my mind, what do I do?
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Glad to see no one gives a fuck about me.
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>>18426936
I give a fuck about you op, you will be okay sometime soon
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>>18426861
getting a girl would be hella stupid when you're fucked up as an individual. so dont bother unless you like ruining other people right now.
2nd, bi-polar people from what i understand need some pretty heavy handed structure to maintain order in their life as they swing.
I mean the kind of structure that even when manic must be satisfied and will keep you on track till the mania passes.
sounds like a professional would be helpful.
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Fuck.
So got drunk yesterday, called a friend/co-worker and told him that his wife tried to fuck me..
Its true, but i want to unfuck this situation without them getting a divorce since they have a bunch of kids etc.
What the fuck do i do to salvage this?!
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Be more specific. Did she come on to you a little? Went 'baby u want som fuk'?
Give us the details.
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Don't panic, I think you've done the right thing. The reality is that the situation in their relationship was fucked long before this even happened. This is just one of the ways it has manifested.
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>>18426858
Okay, went to their christmas party last year. Got blind drunk and dont remember the last several hours. Woke up smelling like a whore. Assumed someone sprayed me with female perfume. Went home.
She added me on facebook, we started chatting, she said we fucked. Now, i have no idea if thats true or an attempt from her to entrap me. She carries on flirting for several months, me being a weak asshole lets it happen because i enjoy hearing that i'm a stud. But it gets boring and i fucking snap telling her she's a fucking whore and she should stop playing fast and lose with her family over some loser like me and that she's too old for fucking around. That was about 2 months ago.
So i get drunk at a party, she sends me an emoticon, which she claims is by mistake, i call her and tells her to stop and hang up. I confide in a buddy whats been going on, he also knows the husband, he spergs out like a knight in shining armour and calls him up and tells him this shit. Now i'm up shits creek, and i spill the beans because it feels so fucking good to finally get it off my chest.
Now i regret it because it'll mean a whole family tearing apart.
>>18426859
I know its fucked, but i'm prone to depression and i dont need to be the final nail in the coffin to something like that..
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Serial killer thoughts
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I feel like taking lives. I am quite normal and hide my power level well. I make a decent living and quite good at trading so money und power is not an issue. When I was young I used to murder animals and insects and this almost always gave me a raging boner. I also have a nose for weaklings and gradually moved on from friendship to bullying/manipulation. I fantasised about torturing those around me and routinely engage in consensual rough sex with my girlfriends and/or assorted Eastern European prostitutes. The thing is of late, I've been wondering about how taking a life could feel...I mean, the power of being a little god. How I block these thoughts, order more prostitutes, make more money?
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Commit yourself.
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>>18426802
If you really want to take a life, take yours you weeb fag
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Kys, hurensohn
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I am pretty sad /adv/
Everyone is constantly putting limitations on me because of being disabled. Its easy to say not to listen to them but when its constant it makes it hard.
I feel like my life has no meaning to it other than to merely exist.
I want to do something with science but I do not have the money to go to university and quite frankly I am scared because if I fail I know I will just end up stuck in retail the rest of my life like most people with my conditions.
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>I want to do something with science but I do not have the money to go to university and quite frankly I am scared because if I fail I know I will just end up stuck in retail the rest of my life like most people with my conditions.
Um, that's not people putting limits on you because you're disabled. That's you being too fucking poor to go to university. Not everything is centered around your disability, you moron.
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>>18426699
I may of worded it wrong. When I bring up to my parents university they do not bring up money but my disabilities and state that I would not be able to do it with it.
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>>18426706
Do your parents wipe your ass for you too?