death and gfs

Why would a girl want to date someone who is considering killing themselves because they don't have a girlfriend?

Bro you should get some friends before you get a gf. People can be mean and uncaring you need to stand your ground and make a space for yourself in the world.

Slowly but surely op, start socializing with other people.

>>18427130
They don't know that though

>>18427140
I got 2 pretty good friends but they're both depressed as fuck too.

>>18427153
They don't have to know specifically. It'll show in your attitude, demeanour and general behaviour. If you're actually that pathetic, it's going to manifest itself in different ways, even if you don't realise it.

>>18427161
Dude you dont get it. Im like 2 completely different people in public vs in private.

>>18427168
If you're such a great guy when you're around people, then why can't you land yourself a girlfriend?

>>18427173
I did but both of them were slutty as fuck. Even after I told them I wasn't comfortable with that shit they kept sending pics. That's fake love to me

Alright, first thing before you read further.

Breathe. Don't fuck with me here. 3 deep breaths.

Relax. There are so many ways to meet girls, guys, and everything in between, even if you're super shy. Tinder is surprisingly decent, or that Bumble thingy that seems to have replaced it. Don't stress if you get catfished, happens (happened to me twice, but then I met someone awesome).

Next, you're not socially autistic or any of that crap. You ever see the endless green texts of people buying it when some anon fakes being confident and then something crazy happens? It's because being confident is literally about acting confident. It sounds so dumb, but it 100% works. I went from recluse to comfortable with winging important speeches just by faking it - it's not really fake, it's more just a concentrated effort.

In the meantime, get into some cool hobbies. Learn a language, pick up programming, art, whatever suits. It'll fill up your life and you'll probably end up putting getting a GF on the backburner while you do other cool stuff.

You can renovate your life if you stick at it. You're an awesome person, anon - a girl would be lucky to have you, and you'll find her with time and effort. Relax, and go kick ass

Enjoy your week.

>>18427240
Thanks man I needed that. God bless

>>18427130

Not OP, but there's so many girls who stay in physical abusive relationships with guys and won't leave them because they'll get suicidal.
How do I even find such a girl? I'm not even that type, im just that hopeless

>>18427250
OP here. You don't want a girl like that trust me, they're crazy as fuck. Get a normal, modest gf who respects and loves you. That's what I'm trying to do anyways

>>18427249
No man, God bless you. You had the balls to come on here instead of sulk about. You're gonna make it, anon. You already made my week with that reply

>>18427111
Hello anon what do you want to talk about aside from death?

look op
I was an addicted pornbater and a lonely virgin fag till 2 yrs ago when I met my gf online
after 2 weeks of talking we finally met

and desu I had long hair and wore all black, had a stye just below my eye, so basically looked like a fucking creep especially that I used to keep my hood up all the time which made it look worse

but she seen different and got to know me and now it's nearly been 2 yr anniversary and I don't have a stye and I don't look creepy or have long hair

so what I'm trying to say is, don't worry, if I can get someone then so can you just push yourself a little without thinking about it and put a bit of faith in it.