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study something useful and read your history books in your freetime as a hobby

>>18424847
If your degree is math, maybe it wont be as useful.
Try something very related to math, like for example physiscs or any kind of science that includes mathematics. Normally, a career that has very broad opportunities is better, but math is just way too broad. I would suggest you choose an engineering or something of the sorts.
Well, thats what I believe, I don't know how things work out in your country regarding jobs. It would be nice to know some more if it would help

>>18424862
Listen to this

No, you fucking retard, because you consented. This isn't like sex, where you can take it back whenever you feel like it. Once you consent, then can search you however long and extensively as they want. The cop legally searched you. She isn't a bitch. Get over it.

>>18424837
This is why people hate stoners.

No, you cant. You consented. Don't smoke in public next time.

Count yourself lucky and don't draw attention to yourself. Don't park in that area again, because you're on the radar.

Had no luck on tinder. The one that I had luck on was this girl who just wanted someone to talk to and she was in a relationship, wouldnt even go out to meet at a public place. Fuck her, and besides I have much more luck the old fashion way going to bars and have much more enjoyment there too.

The chick you are talking to seems a lil warning. She loves to find exes on tinder but why the hell she bothering with them if they are exes? I dislike psychotic chicks like that who cant leave a nigga alone.

>>18424778
She sounds well up for it. Birds who immediately want to hang at yours obvi are dtf.
Just get in some kings and make sure she knows it's casual. Send her a nice text the next day, but non-committal.

>>18424778
Sounds like she wants a fling too. You know this new girl isn't gf material, so just enjoy and decompress.

Go to 4chan and observe people's horrible lifestyles and mindsets. Realize that life could be much better, but at the same time it could be much worse. Find content in that realization.

Or, much simpler, realize that reality is where you are and when you are at and who you are with right now. Simply stop fantasizing all the time and get back to working on bettering yourself like you'd have done anyway anywhere.

Save, prepare, and move; say in 5 years (or less) instead of wasting it on vacation. Do what you want in life, human race is about immigration. Many of my friends and school mates did or are doing this, moving to the other side of the world alone or with their families. Best of lucks! ;)

Unless you're from the UK lad than everything you said is just the normal "honeymoon" illusion

>>18424677

Things are going badly with her new boyfriend and she's trying to sow the seeds so she can return to you if it does fuck up. Keep answers short, sharp and to the point. Do not play her games and do not, under any circumstances, reassure or compliment her.

Or cut contact all together...but we all know you won't do that.

>>18424683

Thanks for the insight. I'll keep that in mind.

Hehe, well I can fuck her yet again and trash her then. She's a good girl, though.

>>18424683
Honestly, I think you're paranoid. It sounds to me like she probably just wants attention or have sex, but probably not get back into a relationship.

As long as you can separate the two I don't see the harm in staying friends afterwards or becoming friends with benefits. Just because you don't want a relationship with her anymore doesn't mean you "do not, under any circumstances, reassure or compliment her."

If you're an adrenaline junkie it is best not to let yourself dry out. But in your case you need to artificially limit yourself for your fix.
For example, buy a bike with a much lower speed limit for safety sake, it would probably be more affordable to you as well. Or maybe get your dream bike but only use it during trips on long empty freeway every few months or so.

>>18424285
I have a slow bike and it's part of the problem. It's why I have to ride twice as hard in the corners to keep up with the big guys.

>>18424226
there are loads of other things that can get you a rush, but if you love riding that much then why not. My dad is a para from a bike accident in his 20's and now he rides a three-wheeler and enjoys himself. My homie who was 23 didn't fare to well and got decapitated from a crash last year, RIP. Gotta decide if the rush is worth the risk for you.

you can easily chance the "not dress well" part. and you can also change the "skinnyfat" issue.
so do that for starters.
then you whould keep in mind that girls really arent as visual as guys, so she might genuinely give more fucks about your character and intelligence than your looks.

all in all, she has her reasons for dating you, give her the benefit of the doubt.

THroughout the history of mankind many beautiful women have been with less than attractive men.

Personality does in fact matter, also you can always improve your fashion sense.

How long have you guys been together? I'm sure she doesn't care at all, although like >>18424171
said, dressing better and doing some exercise is good and it will benefit you as well.

>>18423627
Cheaper to go and get it done right then have to pay for the emergency room bills when something goes wrong (and it probably will since it's already rotten and likely going to get infected and fuck you over).


Come to think of it, no fucking joke, I'm not trying to scare you or anything, but my best friend lost her father getting a rotten wisdom tooth pulled out.

They pulled it out, it dumped a bunch of toxins in to his bloodstream, and she lost her father at the age of 8.

And this was at a hospital. Granted, they were vacationing in Mexico, and weren't allowed back in to the states because of his fever, but still... a hospital in Mexico is safer than you doing this shit on your own.

Don't fuck around with your health,

Usually in most countries there are charities that look after destitute people's health. If you tell us where you live we could probably find a paupers dentist for you

>>18423627
dental tourism anon

It's a bit strong to be prescribing for a first time sleep problem.

Ask for something lighter like Trazadone.

>>18422780

Thanks I'll make note of it. Can that one make you gain weight?

>>18422783
Yes. Weight gain is going to be a common side affect of a lot of sleep medications though. Trazadone itself is an old anti-depressant that they now prescribe for sleep.

>>18420570
Give him the P

you cant, unless stacy hurts him

First step is to talk with him.

It doesn't mean it will work, but if you don't do it, nothing will happen.

Question is, why do we think so much on preparing ourselves for these things? There is a risk it won't work out, no lie, but take that risk. Don't sit around trying to minimize the risk before making a move, otherwise it will become harder and harder for you to do so as you'll be aware of all those things you think that might go wrong.

>I want to be one of those people

Stop trying to be someone you're not

>>18425988
I want to change, then. I want to be busy and have something to do every day, because I thrive in that environment.

In high school I had shit to do constantly, and I was happy.

At college I have shit ti do constantly and I was happy.

Now I barely have anything and I'm not UNHAPPY, but unsatisfied.

I need to be around people anon!

>>18425993

Pick up some activities? Join classes? Volunteer? Go to a club?

I mean, what's the problem here? If you want to be busy, just do stuff.

One can only hope so. Not only that but McDonald's video tapes. Between the video, the time stamp on the receipt, the stolen credit card, you should be an easy catch.

>>18426039
Sounds like the person whose card it is contacted the CC company to have it blocked. This is going to be an open and shut case.

>>18425878
You're pretty fucked dude. If this is your first offense the judge might be lenient with you.

Lel, just text her and tell her how you feel faget

Stop thinking about her move on

Go on another one

Fear of the dark is usually not fear of darkness itself, but fear of possible or imagined dangers concealed by darkness.

Something traumatic must had happened to her when she was a toddler. If she couldn't recall what event it was, there's no way to consult about it and thus impossible to overcome.

>>18425551
That´s what I said her, she said me that she didn´t remind any traumatic event happened ever in the dark, she literaly said me "can´t see makes me feel like sick".

>>18425567
There was definitely something happened, she was probably too young to remember it.
Unless you're willing to spend big money on hypnosis therapy, there really is no way to fix her fear.

No-one is going to see them for 5+ months so it doesn't fucking matter m8

HAHAHA

>>18425392
Don't shave them but keep them trimmed until you have a gf. Then let her decide.