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>>18425290

dude its a con not a singles night you dont need to lie, if a girl wants to bang you shes not going to be like 'WELL HE NEEDS TO AMKE LOTS OF MONEY IN CASE I GET PREGNANT FROM THIS ONE NIGHT STAND'

its a con. no ones looking to date.

t. someone who got laid at comic con

>>18425290
Wear high heels under your wizard robe so they think you are tall. It's guaranteed to get you laid

>>18425290

Getting laid at a Con is the same as anywhere else. You mingle, meet people, find someone that's into you, and then make your move.

Just a heads up: Planning to get laid ANYWHERE is a bad idea. You'll probably leave as a very disappointed man.

>>18425278

no matter what path you take in life people will always complain. you cant stop it. so just keep those things to your self to minimize confrontation and continue doing what you're doing anyway.

>>18425278
>I am just confused about masculinity.

Stop hanging out with the people you are hanging out right now.

You are not hurting anyone by behaving this way, so you are not doing anything wrong. Live your life on your terms. That's the manly thing to do.

Chasing and dominating women is some bullshit that has been perpetuated by online betas and irl douchebags. Once you get a bit older and gather more life experience you realize that most things you hear are complete and utter bullshit. There are alot of women out there that respond well to being respected. There is a line between being respectful and being a doormat, but it is up to you to find that line. Strong beautiful relationships are built when two people are on the same level, not when one has the upper hand. You sound like a good dude OP don't let the internet second guess who you are deep down.

You need to live in the moment.

>>18425218

Just act before you think. If you think, you sperg out. If you act, you'll just have to get your shit together. Practice makes it easier too.

>>18425218

Sorry, there's something I don't get here. Do you actually do the green text or not?

Do you ask them out and then it doesn't work, or do you never ask them out?

You realize that person doesn't give a damn and grow your skin a bit thicker because of it.

>>18425199

by moving on.

>>18425199
Move on. I did it once. Never again.

>>18425164

When it starts making your life hell and makes you miserable instead of giving you hope. What's your dream?

>>18425169
making games.

When you realize it isn't possible. Tell us your dream op and wiser people than you may be able to give you insight.

>>18425141
Why are you desirous of being "fixed"?

>>18425141

There's no "normal". You'll never be perfect. You can try to connect better with people, though.

Step 1) Stop blaming your mental health. Sure, that plays against you, but the questions here is "What can I do?" not "What am I unable to do?"

Step 2) Social Cues. You can clearly tell you bother people in some way, don't you? Else, you wouldn't be asking here. So try to pick up when and how you are being unpleasant.

Step 3) Work on yourself.

>>18425141

therapy.

>>18425132
No. Don't kill yourself. You've now learned what the problem is. Now fix it.

>>18425151

I don't think it's something that can be fixed.

Resuming education would be a wonderful start.

what the fuck are "normal ingredients"? Veggies? Meats? Pasta???

Wtf is normal ingredients fag, we don't even know where in the world you are.

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Voila, these are my ingredients.

Be frank. Tell her that you had a knee jerk reflex and upon thinking about it for longer, you don't think you can make the switch to see her that way and be an actual friend to her.

If she throws a fit, ignore her.

>>18425098

say you were just being nice and you're not really interested. you can go further by saying that 'if i actually made the effort to be in the lives of women who dont want to date me then id have no time to pursue girls for actual dating, and they would all be put off by the fact that im surrounded by girls who rejected me, plus lets be real women who know you liked them romantically make you 'work' for friendship itsn ot like with dudes where you just do what you want.

>>18425101
That´s a good idea, but I don´t want to hurt her. She´s sensitive, not mental issues, but she cries easily. I´d felt bad.

>>18425066
I wouldn't, but I'm also not a dependent child living with his parents. You kinda don't have much choice, do you?

If the animal isn't in pain, it's mostly just killing it for your/her convenience, to put it bluntly, which doesn't jive well with me, but my pets are family, especially after living with me for over a decade, closer than family.

you nailed it, your mom is a bitch. Ask her if she wants you to put her down if she needs diapers one day too.

If he isn't suffering, you don't need to put him down. Putting him down for convenience is just selfish. It's not a home appliance, if your mother does that, forbid her from even getting a dog again.

>>18425066
Does your dog still play or just lie down looking depressed all day? If it's the latter, just put him out of his misery. If it's the former, like >>18425073 said, it's not your choice unless you move out and take the dog with you.

>>18424929
Sounds like a fucking disaster. You should give your real girlfriend another sporting chance instead of this rebound fantasy of yours that'll probably go cold as soon as she gets her fill of you.

>>18424929

My real girlfriend who was abusive that wouldn't take any help thrown at her?

She's amazing because she's a new conquest and you haven't had to deal with any of her shit yet (and I promise, this new girl will have plenty if she's a 10/10 fucking men from Tinder who live 5hrs away).

You need to remove yourself from your current relationship and recover from it before embarking on anything else. If not, you will view this new girl as some kind of saviour and risk fucking it up before it has even started.

This happens to most people after they've been in a shit relationship - they meet someone who is the polar opposite very quickly, romanticize them and treat them as the person who is going to make all the bad feelings go away, when really all you're doing is temporarily covering them up. As soon as you have to deal with the every day shit, you'll realise how it was never that different and it will probably fail because you'll still have the residual sadness from your previous relationship.

Find a slut and cum in her.

Bar/club girl, prostitute, doesn't make a difference.

Let's talk in 2 weeks time..

I don't get it, how does no fap relate to being happier? When I don't fap I feel like depressed as fuck and also horny as fuck. Then I fap and everything is cool... for a while.

>>18424904
Hmm I don't know. If I were you I'd go to the cinema maybe? Get some kings on the way and maybe some Jack McGraw on the way back if you can and have a chill one.

>>18424904
back in the day people would take "rides" They would ride around their community, usually drinking and smoking, and just kind of see neighbors and friends on the way.

Then they made driving and drinking illegal and people kept doing it anyway for decades, lol, but you could do that. I mean take a ride (not drink and drive) and enjoy the night air or whatever, and maybe get a snack somewhere, like just enjoy the night. Or walk in the park, or just, you know, sit down at a park.

I mean if you've really got money to burn you could do whatever you wanted, Fly to Paris for the weekend or whatever fanciful thing, but let's face it, we're all on a budget.

>>18425055
you shouldn't even be on 4chan

There are a lot from web developer to airline pilot but you have to show considerable talents. What kind of skill sets do you have?

Most union jobs. Hard to get it, but once you're in, you're set.

>>18424871
I don't know...
>>18424905
What are some examples of Union jobs?

>>18424803

message people anyways. stop making this thread.

Gotta risk it for the biscuit, my man.

>>18424804
But I have no clue how to carry a conversation without it turning into a self pity party or a therapy session.