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I've just come to realize that I don't hold anyone's attention. I think I'm a fairly cultured person, I have a broad amount of interests and hobbies and I take a vested interest in others. Am I just boring? "Being myself" results in me being alone a lot. I know that's life, but it feels like I'm disconnected from people.
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>>18432134
How old are you?
Are you introvert or extrovert?
School? Work?
Gf?
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it's because you're socially awkward maybe, best option is to say outrageous shit.
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>>18432134
maybe, I just prefer to be quite, if I try to talk to people I just bore them so I usually remain silent for the most part, you get used to it after a while and for some reason people think your mysterious when in reality your just socially retarded.

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I was at a party last night. The group was playing one of those spin the bottle truth or dare games. When it was my gf's turn, the guy dared her to kiss one of the girls in the circle.

I immediately stepped in and said that's going too far. My gf said it's okay and the girl, as well as her bf, agreed to it. I eventually agreed, which I shouldn't have, as long as it was a quick smack on the lips.

It wasn't. They made out for at least 10 seconds. I kept quiet until we got home where I exploded. She and the people at the party are saying it's not cheating because it's a girl and everyone was already a bit drunk, could have happened to anyone. No excuse, I said. Gay, straight, bi, it's cheating, she went against what I agreed was okay and enjoyed herself doing it.

I wanna dump her but my friends think I'm overreacting, am I? We've been together for a year and she's never done something like this before but this is always how it starts.
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>>18431997
dump her
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>>18431997
>I eventually agreed
>she went against what I agreed was okay
pick one
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So your girlfriend said it was okay even though you said beforehand you weren't okay with this? Dumb that bitch.

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Topic - Face skin

Hey, I'm 20 male and having big trouble with my skin. Picture related. Is it caused purely by hormonal waves? What can I do to control/treat it? I had late puberty (doesn't seem like it's over at all) but when I thought my face is terrible it gets to the next level... Also my face (whole skin) is usually red, when I was 16 it wasn't red. These white things appear over day/night and disappear usually after few days but bit blood is involved. I assume my skin is dry and oily (it's oily for sure!) but things I do don't change anything.

Things I do (Reddit format for easier read):

Wash my face with cold water, use some cleaner (it has salycil) and then moisturer. In the mornings and evenings usually.

Don't touch my face (atleast I try to)

Change pillow covers quite often

Take 50mg Zinc a day

Only dairy product I use is Greek yogurt 400mg and Whey protein (drink it with water)

No junk food, candies, sodas at all


Don't want to get involved with KETO as it would hit my pocket too much that I can allow (my base food is rices and chicken breasts+vegetables such as mushrooms, broccoli, carrots).
I don't leave my basement, heard tan helps to hide and dry but not sure it will be so easy. Again, hormones fault?
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Try benzoyl peroxide, or go to the doctor/dermo and get accutane
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I had acne worse than that this time last year, when I was 20. Tried a ton of different shit from when I was 16, finally accutane was the only thing that worked. Have you been pescribed anything?
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>>18431902
I had face like you.

My routine was to pop them in the morning and before going to sleep. Used some thing with alcohol to dezinfect it after popping.

>of course it doesnt help at all
But it was fun.

And yes, mom forced me to go to 3 diffetent doctors and dermatologists. All prescribed stuff and remedies, nothing worked.

In few years it will pass. Very slowly pass.

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Im in love with my best friend but he is straight, he is constanly writing with girls/trying to get a gf because he never had one. It drives me crazy, hurts a lot and makes me wanna kill myself (also having big depression but not only bc of that). What should i do? Should i tell him and maybe destroy the whole friendship (which would destroy me) or should i never say him and maybe missing something and regret forever (which would also destroy me) idc what to....

I just wana give up so badly
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Go a a gay bar dude, it's so fucking easy for guys to get other guys it's not even funny.
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>>18431659
Keep your feelings to yourself and let him be happy with his girls
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>>18431666
>satan speaks reason
huh

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Strangest thing happened today /adv/;

My GF of 5 years, who I deadly love has been angry and actually physically abused me today because she had found out I've been having sex with her cousin, despite having an open relationship from the start, which was one of her conditions of getting into this relationship by the way.

I've always been a bit suspicious of this part of our relationship from the start, but in the past three years, I've fully embraced it and even actively go out to hook up with other women when she's out and about by herself and her friends.

Lately though, her cousin that just turned 21 last year and recently transferred to a local university has been really into me and we've been regularly sleeping with each other for about 3 weeks.

GF has just recently discovered what has been going on and she has been on a rampage for the past couple of hours now.

I've removed myself from her as to prevent myself or herself from getting hurt. I'm about to call the police now but I'm a little hesitant, though again, I want her safe.

We're both 24 years old and I want to save this relationship. Anyone in a similar situation with tely advice?

I've use Google Translate just in case my syntax doesn't make 100% sense.
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Women who want open relationships typically bank on the fact that they can get all the dick they want without trying while the man in the relationship will have a much harder time to find anyone to fuck, if he even wants to do so. Your GF's gambit failed and she is now taking it out on you. Dump her, don't ever contact her again, and move on with your life.
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>>18431597
typically "open relationship" doesn't mena "go and fuck your girlfrends family member(s)"
Just saying. Just don't fuck her cousin, or any one related to her again. Imagine how you would feel if your gf went ahead and banged your brother or your dad.
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>>18431607
>>18431609
There was any conditions to our open relationship. Her explicit words where; "We should be allowed to enjoy other sexual partners without judgement."

It's was a hard pill to swallow but she is one of the most beautiful person I know.

Maybe the cousin was a step too far, but she is like a younger, more fun and an even more beautiful version of her.

Title says it all, its Sunday and I want to teach you noobs how to make a girl get attached to you like a baby chimp to its momma, you know, for good karma for the rest of the week

>Hook up with a girl
>Ghost them
>?????
>Text "hey" after a couple of weeks

I dont know why it works, but it does. Happy Hunting. Discuss why it works, because I have no idea.
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>>18431477
It's a combination of connecting with them emotionally, fucking them well, and having a degree of attainability, in my experience. It's pretty straight forward.
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>>18431477
Ok

How do I make a boy fall in love with me? We have only online contact

t. clueless girl
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>>18431477
>Hook up with a girl
How do I get to this phase?

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Friends from high school have invited me on a summer break vacation in Greece.

The problem is they are all four hot girls. I am afraid that if I go, I'll end up hooking up with one of them. I'm trying to start a family with my girlfriend.

Should I go?
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>>18431384
They'll probably fuck some European dudes who will be much more fun and attractive than you. Honestly you probably don't have much to worry about if you're all American. Odds may change depending on your nationality.
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>>18431384
>I'll end up hooking up with one of them.
Sounds like that's what you are hoping for, but you don't wanna get caught.
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>>18431391
I'm European too. They are mostly American,

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>gf bitches because I dont call or text her daily
>say I never did it and dont intend of starting it
>this becomes bigger and bigger problem for her
>have plans with her for yesterday
>call her to ask where and when she flakes
>fine.jpg
>later she texts me to do something today
>yesterday went out with guys and got drunk
>today hangover dont feel like hanging out with gf
>cancel plans
>she bitches
>call her, she threatens to dump me because I dont ever call and now I'm flaking out
>just ended it right there as I dont negotiate with terrorists. Either she ment it or was trying to coerce me with blackmail.

did good guys?
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>>18431358
You sound like a shitty boyfriend.
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>>18431358
Only a Sith deals an absolute. You did good. That last line was perfect. Don't put up with threats. Anyone who tells you otherwise is an entitled cunt or a literal cuck.
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>>18431358
Honestly dude you make it sound like you're alpha but really you're just not putting in any effort. Relationships are a two way street and you're acting like you don't care.

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I mean literally where do I go looking?
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You might as well ask us how to bring 2Pac back from the dead.
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>>18431174
wait, 2Pac's dead?
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>>18431164
3rd world countries, where feminism hasn't been allowed to take hold.

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Like in title.
>How to text a guy to make him interested in the convo >How to know when he feels bothered or bored?
>Or not trxt and wait for his move first?
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>>18431161
>fapped in my bathroom
Fucking lost it, kek.
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>>18431161
You know what conveys more information than a text? A human voice, ask if you can call him in a text.
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>>18431178
I'm way to shy for that

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>be me
>be straight
>be white
>be male
>only physically attracted to asian women
How do I ween myself off the yellow pill? I don't like anime or manga. I'm not interested in different cultures. I only find myself physically attracted to/dating asian women and want to stop. How do I do it?
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>>18431028
if you are only attractsd to asians let it be then. Who cares? Get an asian girl then. You dont see people forcing themselves to like things they dont find attractive, so dont do the opposite.
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>>18431028
I was never solely attracted to Asian girls, but I did have a profound attraction towards them at one point. It vanished after jerking off to Asian porn for a few weeks. Perhaps it can be the same for you.
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>>18431028
>I don't like anime or manga.
You have a niche now, I'm sure there's asian women out there that fucking hate anime.

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I've recently heard my name being called everywhere, by a voice that sounds like a girl every time. I looked it up and people say it's just someone calling for someone else, but I've heard it in my house and I don't have a "normal" name. Is it normal like everyone else is saying?
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i had that as a kid. i frequently yelled "WHAT?" to my mom but she insisted that she hasn't called me. it happened most often when i was listening to music or was alone in my room. was pretty freaky, but idk what exactly it was.
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>>18430974
A lot of the time it does sound like my mom, so it's weird that you'd say that.
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>>18430974
>>18430980
Classical conditioning, friendos. You eventually grew up hearing your mother calling you every now and then in numerous occasions, and as such, you're likely to assimilate either actual voices or noises that sound vaguely like voices with that same noise that's deeply embedded into your brain. It's a normal thing.

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21. Kisses virgin. Never had a girlfriend.

Throughout high school I was literally terrified to talk to girls.
I went to engineering college thinking this would change but ended up just staring at the hot girls scared to approach them.

Due to some other shit, I dropped out and joined a different college. I've been taking anxiety medication and that helped a bit.
So I started talking to girls and went out of my way to be social.

But NO ONE took an interest in me.
I see girls and guys hanging out together being all touchy-touchy and couples together in campus and Im like why can't I have that?

There's this 8/10 girl in my class who hugs all my guy classmates. I befriended her. She seemed chill.
One day while talking I casually put my arm around her shoulder.
She just pushed it away and gave me a disgusting look.

I've never hugged a girl outside my family.

What am I doing wrong?
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*kissless virgin.
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>>18430944
>What am I doing wrong?

You are ugly. Look for girls on your level instead of hitting on the hottest girls at uni.
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>>18430944
what do you look like

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I recently broke up with the person I thought would finally make me happy. I have BPD and my plan was to get help abd be more stable in other to be with this person, they decided to break up with me because of their incapacity to make me happy (basically 'cause I'm depressed which I always made clear was something just to do with me). How do I forget about relationships and love? Has someone achieve that?
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>BPD
You mean that thing that doesn't exist?
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>>18430705
Other people can't make you happy. You know this if you've spent one day in therapy. You may have been happy spending time with this person which is normal. If your BPD is causing enough issues to get in the way of your relationships, you need to get that under control. It sounds harsh or mean but you can't expect a normal person to sacrifice a normal life just because you have issues. It's different if you acquire an illness after you are married to someone but this is not the case here. I'm not bipolar but I do suffer from clinical depression. When it flairs up unexpectedly, I do my best to insulate my wife from it. It's not her problem it's mine.
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>>18430705
>BPD
Yeah, you can forget about love.

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What's up with young people looking so mature? I keep getting tricked into thinking that those that look almost or over 30 are actually under 25. Will they look like shite after they actually reach 30?

pic related how the fuck is she only 18? Are men into this?
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>>18430685
I love it when I'm talking to a girl, thinking she's 25ish, only to found put she's still 18-19. It's hot.
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>>18430685
I think your statement is a generalization however some girls and guys do this to look older. They want to be viewed as more mature and not look like a teenager. Then when they're 30, they'll try to look 20. It's also used to get into bars or clubs without getting carded but that doesn't always work. Just be careful, if they're phony on the outside they're probably phony on the inside.
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they look like that thanks to shit health.
i'm 29 and i get mistaken for a school girl pretty often. i take that over looking old every day.

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