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/adv/ i need help, i refused to have sex with my gf 1 time and 1 time only, and now she's costantly angry, saying thigs like "you don't find me attractive" and things like that. How can i calm her?
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Bend her over and angry sex
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She just learned that she can't control you by using sex as the bait. Keep it up until she knows her place OP.
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>>18430559
That seems the solution but i don't feel quite ready, it's my first time ya know
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Inappropriate touching of boobs in public.
Giving someone the middle finger in regular conversation.
Telling someone to 'fuck off' in response to a question.
Calling someone a 'fucking moron'
Bad language in every sentence.
>Does this sound like an abusive relationship?
Tl:dr
I was out with my gf and her friend and her boyfriend. Her friend's bf exhibited all these behaviours. Worst part for me was that MY gf literally pretended not to notice or laughed it off, which I thought was quite shocking. WTF?
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oh yeah, also.. these two people recently got engaged too...! wtf is wrong with the world. I have never seen such disrespect towards a women before.
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>>18430486
What are you doing on 4Chan?
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>>18430481
Not your battle OP but doesn't sound like you made a good choice picking your gf
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Hey, 19 male student here. Recenty moved to a shared flat and there's two girls in. Everything works really well and they're really nice. I get along quite well with one of them: we've gone studying together and have a great time whenever we talk, with laughs all the time. I have only known her for three weeks, yet I already have feelings and nothing has happened, at all. Now here's the problem: 1) she has a boyfriend in town and 2) she is going back to her town for summer in four days, and chances are I won't see her again.
I am fully aware of the fact that she might not even like me, but I can't help but think that maybe, just maybe, she feels slightly attracted to me. I would love to get a deeper connection with her, but I'm not sure how to proceed. Should I just forget about it because she has a boyfriend? At the same time, what could I lose? She's leaving in 4 days.
Any advice is welcome
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Chances are she is a cheating slut, so ask her for a one night stand that "doesn't count as cheating".
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>>18430407
How exactly do I proceed: where do I ask, how, and what might hapoen afterwards?
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How well do you even know them? Have you gone out with them before or do you strictly interact with them at home?
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How do I stop feeling envious of couples? Whenever I see a couple or people talk about their significant other it causes me emotional pain
I'm in my mid twenties and never had a relationship, and I'm a girl which makes it even worse because apparently it's very easy for women to get relationships and yet I've failed.
I just want to walk down the street and not break down and start crying if I see people holding hands
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>>18430337
something is very clearly wrong with you if you're a woman and not getting a relationship... you literally could just toss out you want a relationship and get at least 3 replies of guys desperately wanting to be in a relationship even if you're a horrible dog shit uggo person.
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>>18430353
Ok but how do I stop feeling envious?
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It really is easy for women, just go to your local club and find some Chad that makes your pussy wet. Chances are he will give you a good dicking. Unleash your inner slut and ride the cock carousel until you become a 35 year old roastie with nothing to show for your life but the amount of dick in your mouth. Even then you can easily find a beta provider to marry you. He doesn't make your pussy wet? No problem! Just see Chad on the side, divorce him, take half his money, and get a nice alimony and child support check in the mail every month. Rinse and repeat.
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My uncle isn't respecting my boundaries.
I'm staying with him for college and he repeatedly PULLS on the door to enter even if it's locked, he basically refuses to simply knock and wait patiently for me to answer. It has gotten to the point where my girlfriend refuses to have sex during the day because she fears he's going to rip the door off one day and barge in (which he has done once before i met her but i'm not going to tell her that, he basically wanted to paint the ceiling and ripped the fucking wood strapping off the door like a psychopath because he apparently couldn't wait a couple hours)
He constantly brings up how it's "his house his rules" so what i'm thinking i'll do is if he won't respect my boundaries i'll just sit naked in my room claiming that it's too hot and if he continues his behavior or gets pissed that i'm not decent when he feels entitled to barge into the room of the person staying with him i'll just move back to my father's place even though it would add an extra 4 hours of commute to my schedule if i take transit or 2 hours if i complete my driver's license.
I've gotten to the point where i'm sick and tired of his constant attitude, asking for money even though my father helps him pay for bills, lack of respect for boundaries and the final straw is that now my girlfriend is scared to have sex with me in the privacy of my own fucking room. (or "his" room as he probably sees it in his prick of a mind)
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Are you paying rent? If so, you have a case. If not, it is his house, his rules.
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>>18430310
move you faget
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>>18430314
This. Unless you're paying rent, it IS his room.
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Is there anything wrong with a guy owning a fleshlight? More specifically a tenga?
If girls can own dildos and it can be seen as fine why can't guys own a sex toy?
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nobody ever said guys can't own sex toys. you just made that up because you're too selfconscious to walk into a sex shop and get one.
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In a perfect egalitarian world, no. But in a world plagued by SJWs and feminists, it is "empowering" for a woman to have a dildo and "pathetic" for a man to have his own sex toy. Feel free to buy one for yourself, but don't expect society to be understanding.
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If you only want it because girls are doing it, you'll be on HRT this time next year
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Can you be a trophy husband/wife if you are just average looking?
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If you are a celebrity or something sure I guess. It's a pretty low goal though. What will make you happy if they leave?
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>>18430262
I live in a developing country. Everything is expensive here and there isn't as much social mobility these days
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Melania was able to pull it off.
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Why the fuck is dating so complicated? Why are there so many cues to pick up on, subtle social norms to observe and methods to use in order to simply have a girl answer your texts?
I'm not interested in hookups, casual sex or any of that shit, I want to find a girl I can have a serious relationship with.
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>>18430218
It isn't that complicated tho.
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>>18430219
Obviously it is otherwise PUA shit and even this board wouldn't exist.
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>I want to find a girl I can have a serious relationship with.
Be prepared to be sorely disappointed. The era where you can expect to have a healthy monogamous relationship with a loyal woman is long in the past. Nowadays it is prudent to expect woman to cheat and to monkeybranch to other men, no matter how innocent she may appear on the surface. It is in your best interest to have an exit plan always in place so when that happens you are prepared. Dump her, go no contact, and get back into the dating game. Remember that if you get in a relationship, she isn't yours, it is just your turn.
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I noticed that often when I talk with my friend he acts a bit distant and official. Then somewhere in the middle of our conversation he "drops the mask" and unloads his worries or gets more emotional and opens up to me. But it doesn't last long because after some time he suddenly redirects the conversation and becomes distant again.
Does anyone know why would he act like this? And why he doesn't feel like he can be relaxed and as emotional as he wants around me? I think I'm fairly understanding and really don't mind seeing his sensitive or needy side but I don't want to embarrass by telling him this directly.
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>>18430168
How long have you known him?
How much do you talk about yourself with him?
Are you male or female?
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>>18430190
>How long have you known him?
Over a year
>How much do you talk about yourself with him?
I'm quite open about my life and I tell him a lot of personal things. But I wouldn't say I talk too much about myself.
>Are you male or female?
I'm a cis girl, he is a cis boy
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Friends usually tell me that I act the same way as you friend. I would really lie to open up to some people but it's really scary. There's letting somebody get really close to you to hurt you very much. Sometimes it's insecurities of having someone see an unsightly persona. Sometimes it's as simple as having the thought that it's out of character. Or maybe he just doesn't really talk a lot and just felt the urge.
There's anxiety in doing this but they'll feel better with that small part.
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Should I be worried to talk out against Islam on social media?
As autistic as it sounds, I was having a debate about Islam on FB on an open group and I kind am fearing for my life now.
Pic unrelated.
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>>18430143
If you're having a open debate without calling names and filled with fallacies, why scared?
It's an open group anyway, so all is fair.
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>>18430146
I deleted the discussion, but actual Islamist believers were getting very personal with me, even though I was using sources and facts. I just don't feel as though my country would or does protect me or my free speech.
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>>18430149
If they're already getting personal and shit deleting your discussion would be damaging to you, I think. Because they can twist your words to their liking and frame/persecute you into more shit.
Better keep it intact and if they're really went out to you and try to frame you for hate speech or shit, you'd get lwayer or law to sides with you. That's based on what I've went through. Also most of times they're just using empty threats and bygones will be bygones next days.
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My boyfriends sex drive has dropped significantly. We're working together to try and improve this, but in the meantime it's starting to affect my confidence and our relationship.
I don't want this to happen and although it's somewhat inevitable if it continues, I'm trying to move away from the idea that it's causing damage to our relationship. He can't help this feeling and me putting him under more pressure isn't going to help things.
How do I deal with how this is making me feel about myself? He is still reassuring, he hugs me, kisses me (although not as much as he used to), grabs my ass and tits and touches me - just not in an overtly sexual way anymore.
Most of the time I feel okay, but occasionally I'll start comparing myself to other women and thinking about how they might be more attractive than me, and probably more my boyfriends type. I then feel like a disappointment, like it's all down to me and I'm stopping him from having a successful sex life.
I don't want to look elsewhere for reassurance and I wouldn't ever do this. I just want to be able to hold things together until he is feeling better.
Does anybody have any advice?
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>>18430097
How much weight have you gained since you got into the relationship?
Might seem like a troll question, but for us guys, even a few pounds can make you go from erotically chubby to fat or from perfectly shaped to imperfectly shaped.
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>>18430097
How much have you changed compared to the first time you've got into relationship? Like weight, fashion, face.
I don't intend to put you down, but have tried perhaps change yourself like the old times, the times when you tow at your peak of sexual activities? That would be the easiest way.
The other way is to directly ask him, guy normally will just say the real reason without withholding anything. If by any chance he's still withhold things, try the first one, change yourself like the old times at the peak.
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>>18430101
I've lost a lot. I go to the gym five times a week, cardio and lifting, plus I do additional exercise (swimming, sports, hiking) on the weekend.
I completely understand the impact weight gain can have on a relationship, but in this case it isn't an issue.
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My GF went out clubbing last night and I went to my friends for a few drinks and picked her up around 3am with all her work buddies. When I got there she was pretty drunk and so were her friends, acting like a bunch of degenerates, yelling and screaming nonsense, if that wasn't enough to piss me off her Snapchat story was full of other guys and I heard from her Friends she was dancing like a slut around other guys. She even said in her drunken slur she was shaking her ass teasing someone. Then she said she tried to get away from them but I'm not buying it. I don't want to speak to her, let alone let her stay at my place. What should I do anons. Am I overreacting or should I fuck her off.
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>I let my girlfriend go to a club to go dancing, but I'm offended that dancing involved the opposite sex.
You might want to consider picking up girls at church if you're gonna be such a cuck.
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>>18430094
Shaking her ass for another guy's. Yeah I'd rather her not do that. She went out with 6 girls for a work thing not to fuck with other guys.
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>>18430090
>Am I overreacting or should I fuck her off.
First of all, you're clearly not overreacting.
Second of all, do you really think there's no reason this won't happen again?
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Girl I'm in love with; first girl I've had who I would do anything for. Opinions on this text?
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This is some Indian level of cringe
I wouldn't be surprised if they don't ever message you again lmao
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No no I'm dating her for a year now, saw random text while drinking that was it
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>>18430055
I'm confused as to what this is? Did you take the screenshot? Are these your messages? If so why arent they blue or green like how messages that are sent suppose to look? Is there any context at all to this?
This is a rejection, right?
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No are you fucking stupid
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Well yeah, because she's busy...
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>>18429960
Ask if she's free some other time
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I need some advice (aka it's probably obvious but I'm too emotionally involved to care). I went on a few dates with this guy and thought we were really developing feelings for each other. 2 nights ago, we had sex (twice!), he drops me off in the morning and we tentatively plan to meet up tonight. Radio silence. Then this at 1230. It.....it's just a booty call right? :(
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>>18429790
https://youtu.be/01gDf_Tr6YU
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>>18429796
Damnit
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>>18429790
Try not to be so hard on yourself. You should ask him what he wants to do and see what he says. If you're not comfortable with fucking, just ask to do something else in the mean time, and if he seems like he's only in it for the fuck and you're not comfortable with that sort of thing, cut things off.