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IMAC OR ROGUE GYM?

hey ADV.

I've been saving for my next big purchase. I'm a pro photographer; using an macbook pro for all my work. the 15" screen is taxing on my eyes after a while.

I'm looking at the new 27' @ $2299

ALSO,

I workout every day and can afford a rogue power rack for my garage.

I've been using one of those doorway pullup bars and it sucks. I'm too tall for it. Also, I plan to have it for bench press, squats and olympic rings.

Major fitness upgrade. @ $2100

They can both be a write off as I also model part time & it's normal to write off gym memberships etc.


WHAT DO?

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How can I get counselling for depression when I barely have the money to cover my living costs and aren't entitled to free healthcare where I live because I'm a foreigner?

For the past few months I haven't stopped thinking about suicide, I feel like I can only pussy out a certain number of times.

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>be 20
>super horny
>too young for bars and clubs
>everyone I've met on tinder is looking for dating and not hookups

guys help
what do I do my nuts are going to explode

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Okay.... so.....

how the hell do you get your gf/wife to act slutty? seriously...
I'm dating the love of my life, amazing girl, big Tits, big ass, little chubby but we're workin on it. great smile, she cooks cleans and smokes with me, BUT SHE IS SO GOD DAMN VANILLA.
4 years dating and I swear I've only ever gotten 5ish blowjobs (start to finish) and that is bullshit. I've talked to her and had fights about being sexually frustrated, I've showed her the BadGirlBible, I've explained that guys are on a different end of the spectrum, I Romance the absolute shit out of her (used to more but she sucked the romance outta me instead of my dick).
we're 27years old and I don't want to waste the rest of my 20s having plain missionary and doggy style sex. I can always ask her to blow me, and most of the time she will, but it is absolutely not the same when the chick does it just cause you asked rather than her axtually WANTING to.
the only thing I haven't told her is that right up till a few weeks before we stared dating was that I was having the best sex of the god damn universe with my FWB chick. we had great sexual chemistry, and it just seems that me and my gf do not.... :(


any advice from people with similar situations?

anybody??

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Can a girl fall in love with you the second time ?
I know this might be a dumb question but i dont know if i should leave her or not

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Is it ok to sleep with more than one person in your social group? Was fwb with one person then they moved away. Theyd be salty (bitter, unhappy) if they knew i slept with another person in our circle. I also wish to continue to be peacfully social. My fwb is coming back whereas the person im interested in is leaving.

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I live with my mom, her bf, and my two bros. The bf and my brothers have a habit of constantly berating or making fun of me.
BF usually targets me about my future job and how I'll never be able to hold one down with how weak I am physically and stupid I am academically. He just turned 22 and tells me not to share my opinion because I don't know anything about the world, and then starts on the job thing.
My brothers appear to hate me for how determined I am about certain topics. (mostly when I go on sort of mini-rants about them being sexist, racist, or homophobic. or when they make really offensive and hurtful comments. i know i come off obnoxious and annoying when i do this but i really can't just sit and do nothing because they are my goddamn brothers and it irks me to hear them say things like that).
I once asked my mom what she found annoying about me. She told me politely what she did, but didn't try and use it to hurt me like they do. She seems to be the only sensitive person I know and while she's amazing and I wouldn't trade her for anything, she also never stands up for me because she isn't the aggressive type. (i understand though and don't blame her)
Recently the guys ganged up on me, talking about me in the living room while I was literally sitting a meter away with mom. They said so much and it hurt so bad. I managed to keep some kind of dignity while I walked away to my room, and then proceeded to break down. I need help because I can't move out and my mom isn't assertive enough to kick her bf out (she has told him multiple times to leave but he convinces her otherwise, somehow). He's the main problem.
I just need someone to tell me something. Anything. I don't give a fuck if it's bad or good. Please help me.
(and as for why it's so hard for me to stand up for myself or plain move out, I'm 14. I don't care if I'm banned from 4chan anymore. I'm desperate.)

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Hey /adv/!
Today I licked a girl's pussy and we kissed and everything but after that she felt guilty because he has another bf (Im not her bf im just her friend) and idk what does she think about me now or what should I do. Btw she only knows her bf thru facebook and lives 120 miles away.

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How do I become a straight A student as a freshman in college?

I had around a 3.5 in high school but my studying consisted of 10 minutes max of looking over class handouts and that's about it. I'm worried that I don't have the work ethic in me to keep up with the more intense curriculum of college so I'm trying to adjust my habits before school starts.

Any tips?

Also, what study tools do you use to help you out the most as far as websites, software, etc.?

Thanks.

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I have no hope or happiness in life. I'm 20, in education and employed. Yet, I seem to feel no happiness or fulfillment. I don't belong to any group of friends and I have not been in a relationship for almost a year now. I don't feel like a normie and even despise people for being too simple-minded from time to time. I feel like there is no happy ending for me. Just getting into some soulless corporation and then just drowning in alcohol. I don't want that, I want to do more and improve. I want to meet people and feel love for someone. It all just seems fucked anons. Why can't some of us just have the basic things in life.

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I've been in a relationship with this girl for 5 years. She was like my best friend and i've loved her to much. I would have literally took a bullet for her. But she was cold. She didn't seem to care for me. Thinking back, that would have been the main source of our daily fights. I ve worked my ass of to impress her. Working and studying. She would just chill all day make me pay for everything. Getting a child became a daily topic and i've made the biggest mistake of my life. Thinking it would work out. I was blind of love and she used that very well. After she gave birth to our child she completely changed. She acted even colder than before. Making every choice by herself. Even gave him (my son) the name I hated so much. We had agreed not to. She and her family would collectivly meet up in front of me and make me look like a bad person cuz we we were fighting so much. I had to leave. I was getting suicidial. 2 month after the break up (3 month after she gave birth) she fucked another dude. I was her first. I couldn't believe it. It almost killed me bros. Long story short. After all the court shit i've been through i gave up. I haven't seen my child in 4 months. Because i developed huge hate towards her. I'm afraid that her new lover would be there. I'm afraid that i would snap and getting everything in danger that i've tried so hard to built the last years. What should i do?
Not see my son? See him and her and feel sick for the following weeks because it nags me mentally.
Any experience on your sides on this topic?

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I've been suffering from hemorrhoids for at least 6 months now. I recently got a rubber band ligation procedure done, three days ago.


I'm young and this is the worst thing that's ever happened to me. My diet consists of fruits, vegetables and nuts with the only unhealthy aspects being some popcorn and chicken sometimes.

I do sitz baths and use witch hazel products and take my Tylenol as prescribed. I do most everything that is recommended and I've tried so many methods, but they keep recurring and they get real bad, to the point where I'm in pain.

Has anyone else dealt with hemorrhoids? How do you find your way out of this hellish maze?

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I learned my lesson about sending nudes. I really need help to erase saved message's from the other user. Apparently blocking won't do the trick.
I tried downloading snap eraser but it keeps having me download other applications to prove I'm human.
I'm on a android phone as well.
Please help I'm very heart broken and full of regret so please no rude comments I know I fucked up.

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>be 21 y/o guy
>hooked up with 19 y/o hot girl after snapchatting her for 1.5 months
>had sex at my place for 3 hours, it was really nice but i couldn't cum because phimosis
>couldn't make her cum from anything. she barely even felt my oral
>she's coming over tomorrow again

I want to give her an orgasm (or many) so she really enjoys the sex and we end up as fuckbuddies, but I don't know how to.
Last time we fucked she gasped for air when I buried all of my 7 inches inside of her. Maybe because my cock poked her cervix. (Does that feel good or is it just painful? I never asked her...)
What other things can I do to make her enjoy sex? I'm at a loss and I really want her to be mine.

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I'm still in love with my ex even though a year has passed. He still loves me too, as evidenced by the fact that he avoids me like the plague. Yet we can't be together and I'm sure he's got a life of his own by now. It's hard to cope.