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>>18533112
I'm 28
I know the feeling of being stretched out from the people you used to know.

What matters is making a fucking effort.
Find the people you connect with and make that fucking connection.
Board games is what helped me. I knew a buncha cunts who loved it and so did I.
Every week we met up to play and it made me happy.

And lose weight you fat fuck. No one is happy being fat.
No need to work out. Just stop eating.

>>18533112
Are you a NEET? You should try to get yourself some work or classes to alleviate your loneliness.

>>18533112
Your in Scotland Go to some clubs in Edinburgh or Glasgow that's the central point of My social and sex life go to places where people go to hang out and look for sex

It's ogre, find another girl that doesn't pull dumbass mind games.

>She did admit to me she purposefully sabatoged her last relationship because she didn't want to outright break up with him, so she used trickery to distance each other and find a good reason to break up.

You answered your own goddamn question

>>18533092
>>18533099
That's what I'm afraid of. I think I'm in denial, despite actually recognizing I'm in denial. Idk guys

>>18533074
are you swiping regularly?

>>18533074
bumble is alright, but annoying since you have to wait for the women to send you some boring, generic fucking message like "hey, how was your weekend?" or "hi" before you can actually start charming her. it's sort of tiresome how little effort women put into it. but I fuck them them then leave them, so I guess I can't be too mad about it.

>>18533078
All the time. I swipe on anyone who's skinny no matter what league

>>18533063
Honestly if you're using the word "tolerate" I doubt you want to be friends at all.

Regardless of how desperate clingy and persistent they are, do you consider them a good person? Use this to calibrate how polite you are, but don't let the core message be buried. Tell them something like this:

"I'm really put off by your approach"

"Your intensity really made me uncomfortable and I no longer think this is a good idea"

Etc.

>>18533087
Tolerate because we hang out at the same places, so i'm not just going to ignore her.

I think she's just very bluepilled, sjw type, not necessarily bad but just very misguided (and a little arrogant).

These are good lines, but what about the inevitable "so i'll just back off a little/not try as hard?"

>>18533063
"I'm a woman."

buy a drone

>>18533021
What'sApp has encryption. Only way to see it is to have law enforcement contact Facebook, and even that's a gamble.

GPS is easy. Get you and your wife an iPhone. There's literally an app called Find my iPhone. You can both constantly see where the other is.

Why don't you trust your wife?

>>18533011
you're not sexually excited by your girlfriend. it's not brain science, dude.

>>18533025
eh I'm not sure. she's sexy and gets me hard and the other two girls aren't much better. she made me cum once but a long time ago.

>>18533028
your girlfriend has only ever made you cum one single time?

wait, are you not a guy??

>>18532881
Read a whole bunch of regular common shit.
Then read mythology
Then read canon poetry.

Then start at the bottom and work upwards
Like Vonnegut, Hemingway, Steinbeck, Fitzgerald, and all the way up to Joyce.

I'm not saying this is a list of quality. Vonnegut is my favourite author.
But it's a list of complexity in prose.

>>18532889
>Read a whole bunch of regular common shit.
I've been a pretty avid read the past year or 2. I can comprehend what I'm read well most of the time, but I just don't have any grasp of beauty in the writing. so basically I just need to keep reading?

It depends on what you're reading when you say classics. And if you're going immediately back to older stuff, it might be difficult to really grasp the significance when you're trying to wade through another era's vernacular.

Maybe go into more contemporary stuff and then work your way back, if you're finding it difficult to follow. Plenty of good stuff has been written in the last century or so. Maybe you could try poetry as a place to begin to understand the music that can come through words. Even just music. What do you like in the lyrics of your favorite song?

The truth is that it's fairly subjective. There is plenty of disagreement as to what is good. If you're reading looking for the significance of the words, chances are you might not find them. Absorb yourself in the prose. Maybe read once just to soak it all in, and then again to try and analyse. I don't really know your struggle here, but it seems you might be overthinking it.

how much are we talking OP?

>>18532869
about 2-3 times a day every day

>>18532883
how old are you

that really blows dude. never agree to meet someone so far dude, especially after doing her that kind of favor of $100 off.

bitches...

what camera?

>>18532817
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHAHAHHAAH he has only lost 500 usd give or take. My father bough a car a month ago that he has to sell it with a loss of 5k euro due to legal reasons and he literally has to drive through 2 country borders to do so and waist 3 days. Get on the level of being a fuck up of my family and then maybe we will talk.

>>18532793

when i was 4 my brother made me touch him sexually.

but if you mean the consensual side of things, I once let a fat ugly old man convince me to fuck him. i was freshly 18 and he kept making it out like I owed him and had to.

probably my biggest regret.

>>18532801

>bt if you mean the consensual side of things, I once let a fat ugly old man convince me to fuck him. i was freshly 18 and he kept making it out like I owed him and had to

Really? Could you green text or explain this?

Also, how old are you?

>>18532815

about to turn 25.

>18
>fresh in la
>starting to have sex wtih other men for the first time
>some guy starts messaging me on grindr
>he has no pictures
>keeps promising it'll be 'worth it'
>this goes on for hours
>he gives me his stats, but at 18 im not sure what the height and weight look like. the weight sounds high but he promises hes good looking nad it'll be worth it
>he comes over and i try to send him away but he makes a big scene and i dont want him to wake up my landlord.
>finally I let him in and he rides my cock
>its disgusting and he smells and he keeps asking if i wanna make out
>its over fast thankfully
>finally make him leave
>he says he wnats to do it again
>im clearly not into this at all but he keeps going
>finally he leaves

never talked to him again. regretted it. entirely my fault for letting it happen. but definitely hate it. iveh ad a lot of gross disgusting sex, but thats the only time i regret it.

>>18532765
Hell

>>18532926
How can I adapt/deal with this?

>>18533276
Whatever you do don't overload classes. If you get too much on your plate drop something. Prioritize sleep unless you have assignments due. Caffine is your best friend.

When I was working and going to school full time I found it difficult to work more than 30 hours with 12 credit hours, but people do it all the time. You'll be surprised at how you adapt.

>>18532597
Okay? Just buy a new one? They're like $2.

Cost me $20 bpa leak free with filter

>>18532649
It's... a plastic bottle. One you fill with regular tap water, right?
You don't need anything else. Literally buy a bottle with coke or something, drink that up, clean it once and fill it with water. Same shit, same freshness, infinitely better value. Don't be a retard.

Recieved an accident snap from my gf in bed with another guy.

So like any man with dignity, I'll off myself. The question is, literally where do I stick the blade?

My question to women: what do older women (upper 20s-30) prefer sexually older or younger men?

How many times would you let your partner hurt you emotionally before you stopped forgiving them.

My GF has hurt me 3 times now, one of which was quite badly. I know that she's a good person, and I understand the reasoning behind all of her decisions. However, when she gets stressed she's prone to making decisions that hurt the people around her. I'm really in love with her and want to believe that she'll learn from her mistakes but I'm starting to worry that she could be a lost cause.

I can't help being a serial cheater. I'm broken and I enjoy the attention. But more than that it makes me forget about all the things going south in my life. It's a nice confidence boost and a perfect distraction.

It's easier to be a bad person like I am now than change. Sometimes I want to curl up and just will myself out of existence.

If only I could live in a quiet town and live my life domestically without any worries or pain.

>>18532495
Have you considered suicide, lad?

>>18532501
> assuming I'm a lad
Often.

>>18532467
It sounds like she could use a friend, be a nice friend with no expectations

>>18532467
this op >>18532492
the worst thing you could do is expect it to turn into a relationship

>>18532467
being in a relationship with her would probably suck, because if you're waiting now for a response that might not come, she has no phone, etc. just imagine what it would be like to set up a date with her...

it sounds like you're just attracted to her cuteness, and you two having anything in common or similar values isn't even on the forefront.