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I know the following examples are purely anecdotal, but has anyone just not gone to the dentist and has been fine (despite 'cavities'), or conversely, wishes that they went?

I carry out all the recommended hygienic procedures, primarily drink water/don't eat many sweets, and yet I'm still cavity prone.

Examples:
1) I received a filling and the tooth just became more sensitive after (didnt ever hurt before). One year later, the same tooth has a cavity in the same spot because the filling wasnt done correctly. I feel like they genuinely just made things worst, but I get to pay the bill for it.

2) Additionally I have a slightly discolored tooth (discoloration is from porcelain filling way back) and I kept asking what to do to prevent it from worsening (starting a year and a half prior), was told to keep up good hygiene every time, and now it's a cavity too... seems like they knew it would become a cavity and literally just waited for it to actually become one.

The dentist I go to has good reviews on Google, so idk if it's just my dentist or the dentistry industry in general.
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>>18532915
I go to the dentist every 6 months for a cleaning because my parents make me. I brush twice a day and feel like going to the dentist is a waste of time and money. Just brush thoroughly everyday.
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>>18532915
dental assistant here.

some people are prone to cavaties no matter how well they care for their teeth. I have a lot of knowledge about dentistry yet the majority of my teeth have fillings. This is because my teeth have deep grooves and I have a chronically dry mouth.

Tooth decay can be caused by diet as well, all carbs will rot your teeth eventually. plaque forms within 24 hours which is the first step towards tooth decay.


I will answer some of your other questions as well

>I received a filling and the tooth just became more sensitive after

fillings typically DO make teeth more sensitive. This is caused by the material of the filling conducting heat and cold while you eat hot or cold things. Your teeth can also be "shocked" if you chew on something metalic if you have metal fillings. My teeth are all very sensitive because I have many metal fillings. The doctor did not make your teeth worse, if you didnt fill your cavities you could be at risk for heart disease and death believe it or not.


>Additionally I have a slightly discolored tooth

Not sure why they told you that a filling could get a better color over time.. this is false. There are different 'shades' of fillings that can match your tooth structure but it is not fool proof and you cannot change the color by brushing. Do you mean that there was decay under your filling that they neglected to treat right away? That would be bad. Sometimes fillings get further decay under them as time goes on, this is inevitable.

Dentistry is not a perfect science by any means, but it is necessary to keep getting your teeth checked out at LEAST once a year because having poor oral health can actually kill you because infections in the mouth go directly into the blood stream which can travel to the heart and infect it.
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>>18534135
I appreciate your response. I wish the dentist I went to would have explained these things to me.

As for the discoloration (guess I shouldve explained better) it wasnt the color in itself was problematic - it was that they had to keep a watch on the filling in case it cracked, etc. I wanted to prevent it from getting to the point of needing another filling (asked "how do I prevent it from getting worst so I dont need a filling?" and got the take care of your teeth response, but they just kept putting a watch on it until the last appt., said it was a cavity).

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How should I lose my virginity? Any recommendations/suggestions?
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Prostitutes are always a safe bet.
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Rape your mother
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These are all valid options so far

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Does going Chad-mode work for getting a long term gf?
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>>18537328
not unless you marry quickly and trap her
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No, because you have no idea what Chad mode is.
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>>18537339
What is chad mode to you?

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I'm about to start college this year but there have been some complications, and as it turns out, I can't really rent a studio apartment for myself in this city, even though it's pretty cheap heh.

Now, I know some three people from high school that will be going to the city that might want to have a roommate, though I doubt that they would accept me.

The list of options goes as follows:

Edgy thot
fat only-non vigrin because he paid for it dude who is pretty popular and tries to come off as a nice person
skinny manlet who I really don't even know. not even sure what his first name is

My relationship with the third one is obviously on existent, so I will just explain the first two.
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They both claimed to want absolutely to live alone, but I know that they haven't secured their apartments in the beginning of june this year. They don't really have a lot of money so I think that there's a chance that they will also have to settle for living with a roommate.

The thing is, I was never good friends with these people. The fat dude seemed to kind of like me but it always felt like a polite act, and I haven't heard from him for two months so contacting him now would be unpleasant.

It's even worse with the edgy thot, while I did kind of get along with her the semi-friendship that I had with her was never outside class, and was always filled with anxiety on her part because of my social fuck ups I guess.

I ended this "friendship" with her like most high school friendships end, high school was over. The last time I saw her was one one of the standardized test that are taken during the school year, I couldn't really make small talk with her during the test because I was right on time and just entered the classroom, which turned into not speaking to her at all in the hallway. A few days before that I sent her something inappropriate, not a dick pic just some rude bullshit.

I know that they both are less well of than me, but I'm honestly not even sure if they are lying about them being able to secure an apartment for themselves.

Please help.
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>>18537225
If you're doing apartment style dorms (everyone has their own tiny room, and there's a bigger living area), it really doesn't matter.

If you're doing the 2 people crammed into a 12x12 room, what matters more than anything is the following 2 things: how often they bathe and how much stuff they have.

Personally, I've found rooming with people who are strangers or barely acquaintances to be better than rooming with friends in the normal types of dorms. Everyone starts off tip-toeing around each other, and slowly becomes comfortable with one another, learning what's acceptable and what isn't. Friends tend to assume you'll be cool with whatever they are doing, and get on each other's nerves.
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sounds bad on all three

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Should I finally come out to my friend? I'm really nervous , especially in this day and age.
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>>18537217
Faggots are celebrated now, who fucking cares? You're placing too much significance on your life.
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>in this day
>and age

bitch, you live in the most accepting times. Hell, people became so accepting they started forcing their children to become trans / gay.

Do it you pussy.
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>>18537217
Being a furry is a mental disorder

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Just talk to me
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but we're all fuckboys here
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Exactly how can get u to love me forever
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there's no way

especially for fuckboys

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>been talking to guy online
>mix of lewd stuff and flirting
>we say we really like each other
>he's waiting to get into an actual relationship
>one day he acts casual and no affection at any given point
>next day is a bit more talkative
>really lewd stuff happens
>sexual exchange
>i say I'm doing this because I really like him
>he says "not romantically because it's too soon for that", describing his feelings
>despite literally admitting he likes me
>all is done, he goes to bed
>not even a good night
I swear. He was acting so nice before this happened. Am I being used? Or what?
Shame on me for even trying to get close to someone attractive...
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>>18537017
Sounds like you're being used.
Also
>lewd
Fucking weebs
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Oh and he said "idk about romantically", not "not".
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Yep ya being used.
>i rly liek u pls giv cummies
Would you have slept with him if he didnt say he liked you? Probably not. Thats why he said it. Him then saying "i really like you **BUT** not romantically" is so he can get the P and have a clean conscious when he moves on.

Just drop him. And when he starts chasing, say hes really nice but he wasnt that great in bed and that you arent interested. I promise you nothing will get under his skin more than being called nice. Saying he sucks in bed ontop of that is a slap to the face.

Some people just dont care. He is doing you because he has nothing else lined up. Which is also why he keeps you at arms reach, so he can keep things unofficial and move on with minimal drama. Dont feel bad, its not your fault. Just be more wary of guys like that in the future. We will say ANYTHING to get pussy. Dont judge by words, judge by actions.

Please help. Ive been having constant suicidal thoughts. My only friend hurt me really bad and I still can't get over what he did to me. Because of my depression and anxiety I can't work. I have no friends. I start my next semester in college soon and Im scared to run into him since we go to the same college.
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>>18536989
Suicide hotlines, free/cheap counseling and medication from local counselors/therapists/psychologists, talking to a priest (who should help and not push religion regardless of their church), or just spend the money on a doctor or psychologist if you can't find a charity or free one.

I've been in your position before. Shit, I'm in it right now. I just had to pay $90 to go to a clinic and up my Prozac because I kept wanting to die. It's possible, but it's hard. Try to find someone who can support you through it, irl or online. I could give you my skype or something if it helps to just vent.

Good luck and don't off yourself despite how nice it might sound.
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>>18536989
I love you anon.
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>>18537063
Thank you anon. I'm in love with this guy and he really fucked me up. He says he loves me too but I know its not enough that hed ever want to be with me. I really thought I might had a chance with him since were so close and since I gave him my body.

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How do I get my dad's respect?
All I ever wanted was to be half the man he is. And he seems to think i'm a loser.
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>>18536873
The best you can do is pretend he's tough on you because he wants you to improve. And he drinks so much because he's celebrating your progress.
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>>18536873

find out what he considers respectable and do that.

if you arent going to be specific than we literally can't be specific either.

that being said, some people are just assholes.
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>>18536873
Stop thinking about what you're dad thinks of you. You're your own damn person. You don't think about what other random people think of you, why is your dad any more important?

Woke up to bed bugs and cockroaches in my home. I am extremely clean and I know i didn't cause them to come. I've been up for 3 days now, paranoid I'm losing my mind. I am about to just burn all my clothes. What the fuck do I do omg.
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Call the exterminators?
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>>18536760
I don't have enough money, I'm paranoid they're just going to make it worse.
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>>18536760
also call some for your neighbors too, which is most likely where they are coming from

I cheated on my girlfriend, and I know that she'll take me back because this has happened before. Been on and off for the past couple of years. How do I completely cut contact off so I can work on myself?
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What kind of person takes back someone who has cheated multiple times?
Does she not have self respect?
0/10 bait
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>>18536744
I guess you answered that question yourself, she doesn't have much of a high self-esteem.
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>>18536744
Silly kid. Shit like that happens all the time. Dudes have done some dastardly shit to women and they still take them back, it works the other way around too. Some people literally have no self esteem. Don't be so naive to believe that people like this exist. There's some dum dums out there....

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>applied for job that pays 19/hr
>they email me back
>yay.gif
>read the email
>they ask me how much i'm expecting
what do?
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Ditch those fags and look for a different job. Everything you said so far points to them fucking you over with either not giving you the job, even when you say 19/hr, or you get the job and they fuck you even harder and pay you less than advertised but demand 133% workload out of you
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19/hr? Whats the question here? If thats what the job pays, then obviously that is what you expect. Im really not understanding what the issue is.
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>>18536580
They're checking to make sure you read that it pays $19/hr before they bother bringing you in for the interview process/waste their time.

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I'm bad at having conversations. I'm in a relationship where there's about a 2 hour drive to see eachother. We see eachother around once a week still, but I fuckin suck at making conversation when it's not in person. How often and how long should convos be lasting? How do I make them seem meaningful and not like a waste of both of our time just to check the box that we talked?
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>>18536578
This is mostly relating to texting. Sorry for not being clear.
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I find snapchat helps bc it takes so long for people to go back and forth which kinda gives you time to think about bullshit. Also you shouldn't worry about how often and long convos last, it just kinda depends on if you get like a really good one going, and then you'll just never stop talking.

Provided you aren't like me and are constantly paranoid about whther or not this person is still into you when you aren't speaking all the time, just relax and don't try to force conversations. Most of the time I feel like your S.O will also be trying to make convo with you so if you're getting tired, let them start something off
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>>18536635
She's like that but I'm not. She's always wondering if people in her life really care for her (she's had really bad luck with friends in the past, one tried to convince her to suduko) so I feel like I need to provide her with a lot of positive reinforcement but without being annoying. I feel like she's kind of tired of hearing me say "you look great!!" And "you're good" or gay shit like that.

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So my boyfriend always goes on these business trips and well he had invited me on his next one well I couldn't help but read more into it when he had asked me over the phone he had kinda hestitated to ask me well on the day before he is about to leave he doesn't remind me or ask me if I had gotten a babysitter so I could go with him so I bring it up to him the night before and we got into a huge argument made up then when the morning came the next day when he's getting ready and packing I told him I gotten a babysitter and he gives out an annoyed expression so I automatically felt like he didn't want me to join him soo I ended up not going with him cause I didn't want to feel like a burden and I know how guys aren't completely honest about things... I guess it was kinda childish of me? Idk...anyway it's a special occasion of his and I wanted to be with him but it didn't happen and it seems like every time I FaceTime him he doesn't seem that interested to be chatting with me and he seems depressed most of the time. I can't help but feel like he doesn't care and feel hurt. We've been living together for 6 months now and it's just been really rocky between us,
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And the question is?
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Yes, he's cheating. He's comparing you to some other pair of breasts that haven't been suckled on by a baby and because he either hasn't fucked her yet or because he's just a shitty human being, he deems her more worthy of his cock. Which is really what this is about. His life revolves around it, every guy's life revolves around it. If your life doesn't revolve around it he'll try to find some idiot who will, until he dies. Dump him sis.
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>>18536507
who's gonna read this shit lmao I'm out of breathe

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my tail bone really hurts today (slouch too much). I can't even walk normally. What's the best way to take care of it myself? I don't have health insurance.

PS I have a ton of weed.
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Shove the weed up your ass and then "tailbone" it out of there if you catch my drift Brotendo64.
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anybody here ever deal with coccyx pain?
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My friend told me he stopped smoking bc it made his physical pains worse when he did. Maybe try stopping for a bit and see if that has any effect?

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