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guilt after embarrassing sexual encounter
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2017-07-18 01:43:51
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lost my virginity today to someone I meant on Tinder. They were a lot fatter than their profile pic made them seem, but we fucked anyways.
Didn't use a condom because I fucked up putting it on and broke it, but she was on birth control (felt it in her arm) and was to stupid to do anything that moment.
I feel gross right now and I hate myself for acting like that. I especially feel shitty about fucking up the condom thing. I should have practiced before I guess.
I don't know what to do now I just want to convert to Christianity or Islam and spend the rest of my life never having sex again.
What should I do? How do I not feel like shit? I feel really dirty and I just sorta want to die.
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Convert to Christianity. Confess to a priest. Live a celibate life within the Benedict option.
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>>18529024
W....T.....F....
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I remember this fat chick on /adv/ with a great face. It was the pinnacle of catfish.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-07-18 01:09:31 Post No.18528894
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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2017-07-18 01:09:31
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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Girls,
Can you describe what it feels like when menstruating. I've heard some women are horny 24/7. Some are bitchy 24/7. What about you?
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>>18528904
I don't really experience any mood changes, if that's what you're asking about. Otherwise, sometimes I get cramps, but other than that, it's nothing more than an inconvenience, really.
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>>18528909
Ok. So women gping crazy on their periods is exaggerated? What happens to your sex drive
I hate how I look (specifically my skin). That's normal for girls--yet this extent? I'm paralyzed! I can't live!
I know about the "halo effect". I know that perfectly good people will judge ugly people, they just don't know it. I know that wearing foundation and cover-up is just lying and a girl's face is literally everything, so I reject anyone because I know they only like me because of my make-up. It's weird. Really weird. I used to be the one who genuinely never thought of anyone as ugly (nor was I attracted to anyone, to be honest). I even got annoyed at my friends who make fun of someone for their looks--"there's more important things...some people just can't help it!" and stuff like that. Now, I look in the mirror and beat myself up even though I've never been outwardly called ugly in my life. I wish to die. I think I'm doing the world good for staying in...and it's always on myself. I wouldn't think this way about anyone else.
In grade school I genuinely didn't care that much about how I looked. But then I went through this traumatic experience at prom and ever since then my social anxiety and obsession with how I look has gotten worse. I've trust issues for miles. And, no, the person that caused me all that pain wasn't what you'd call a bitch or an an asshole--so, the experience was something beyond bullying. Add in a few minor jabs and spending a shit ton of money trying to fix my issues...and you've a recipe for a wretch of a human being.
Because of that one experience along with a few others, I've been boiled past flattery, security, and satisfaction, and into bitterness. I'm afraid of going out. Weary of others, weary of them possibly being two-faced and just acting nice to me.
Not too long ago I found out what I wanted to do with my life and I need to forge my way towards it. But, but...I just can't stop worrying about how I look. I'm so frustrated. What should I even do to get the fuck over this? Assume that it's a fact that I am a 2/10.
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Girls cant lose at life. You may very well be a 2/10 but thanks to poligamy theres always gonna be a 100 guys who still wanna fuck you. Then again youre just attention whoring when your biggest problem is your skin lmfao
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>>18528565
I think whatever happened really fucked you up and it's manifesting in strange ways- like this obsession with your skin.
If you have the means, I'd get a therapist and try to work through this ASAP before you keep spiraling in this direction.
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>>18528577
>assuming that all there is to life is fucking
As Trump would say: Sad!
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Im female and my youngest sibling is 13/m, and He is getting really sexually aggressive towards me. He always asks to see my boobs or Ill catch him waiting outside my door after I shower. He makes horribly gross jokes towards me and even my bf. I tried explaining to my parents why this bothers me so much and I want him to stop it entirely. They just say to ignore him or hes possibly joking. I know hes not joking and they arent taking this seriously. I feel stalked in my own home. What should I do about this or how do I go about this??
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Talk to your parents, if you can. If you think they'll react negatively towards you/blame you - then seek professional help.
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>>18528662
This it's really all you can do.
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>>18528453
avoidance of pain is an excellent motivator
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>sleeping over with friends
>been chilling and talking with cute friend all night
>jokingly text cute friend that I'm going to sleep in her room tonight
>says she'll lock the door
>walk past her room a minute later
>door is still wide open
>she's laying in bed with her underwear
>walk in
>she tells me to lock the door
>tell her goodnight and walk out the room
>she tells me to leave the door open when I try to close it
Did I fuck up my chance to cuddle with a cute girl?
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>>18520592
You're a fucking fool
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1. Why are you concerned about not getting to cuddle her when you missed an opportunity to put your penis inside her?
3. Why did you put your penis inside her?
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>>18520597
I thought she meant she didn't want me in there when she said she'd lock the door. I thought "maybe she forgot to close it" and didn't even think she meant to lock the door behind me.
>>18520598
>Why are you concerned about not getting to cuddle her when you missed an opportunity to put your penis inside her?
I don't think she'd go that far. Although she was joking with her friends that she "got some nice dick last night" when they asked her what she was doing. I was with her the all night yesterday.
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Am I unattractive, or is it just the autism?
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>>18531527
Fuck off cunt, I'm Indian and I wish I was white and attractive like you.
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>>18531527
You look normal, so probably just autism. Or otherwise shitty personality. Either way you're fucked.
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>>18531527
I think you look really handsome, you even have an adorable head shape. What autism traits do you have that you think are turning people off?
What should I reply to this text from my gf?
2017-07-18 06:42:01 Post No.18531461
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What should I reply to this text from my gf?
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My girlfriend is in Africa for charity trip with church project which will last 1 month, they're 4 more girls and 1 guy in a group. She is really into me and I'm more dominant in relationship. I don't think she will cheat on me because of this, but there's always a possibility with any girl. She wanted to catch up on skype while there. She said that there's some problem with internet connection though. I replied on facebook and said that she should hit me up when she plans to call so we can arrange plans.
She texted me this today (after 1 day).
Is 8am tomorrow good for you?:)
Because in the evening it's really spontaneous and I can't tell you in advance when I'll have wifi:)
I'm fucking angry and I know that I can't reply while under control of emotions. I would break up with her right now, but I need to cool down my mind. She will be gone for 1 month already and I don't need more drama desu. But I really don't like her text. It reads to me like they will be having a party or something but I could be just overthinking it and it could just mean that they won't have access to wifi.
What should I do?
Should I agree to chat with her at 8 am?
I was thinking about texting this:
I'm working tomorrow morning:) If it's so spontaneous in the evening then enjoy and we can catch up later
Does it sound angry or offended? Am I just overthinking it? What would you do in my situation? Thanks.
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Please calm down OP. Your suspicions could be true, but there is a fair chance they are not, and you can fuck this up, big time. I think you need to calm down, big time, and go into detail to ask what she's been doing. If it sounds flakey, then you can flat out ask if she's been partying or something.
In relationship, you cannot afford to break the thing with trust issues. Please be considerate towards her and don't raise your voice until you are completely sure that your suspicions are confirmed. Try and distract yourself with something or do breathing exercises, whatever it takes, but don't enter this conversation while frustrated. Even if you are not that much into her, don't deliberately hurt her like this.
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>>18531484
Yeah, as I said myself I know I can't reply while being under control of emotions so I'm gonna wait a couple of hours.
But my question is:
What do I reply? It needs to be only 1 text. I was thinking about not replying anything at all and reply tomorrow in the afternoon saying that I only saw it. I somehow need to show her that I'm not okay with this but I can't come off mad or sad. I don't like her choice of words mostly. Spontaneous for me means partying in shit and not not having a wifi
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So when will the clip be uploaded?
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Advice on rent and housing 2017-07-18 05:00:59 Post No.18531178
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Advice on rent and housing
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2017-07-18 05:00:59
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I make about 2000 dollars month. The apartment I'm set to move into is 785 buckaroos a month. Internet+insurance+gym membership+phone bill runs me 300+. Food and misc would probably be another $100.
Is this sustainable you think? Anyone have experience with living alone? Give me tips
Also feel free to ask related questions here
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>>18531178
it's doable but try to reduce costs
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>>18531178
You're setting 100 dollars a month for food? You'll starve.
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will be living in the us soon, can i live in an apartment alone working just one (entry level/min wage) job or should i buy a camper and live in that?
is the city, suburb or countryside generally the cheapest in the us when you accout for the commute?
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honest opinions guys. what would you do
> tuesday
> maske date with gf for saturday 2 pm
> thursday
> gf wants to change it to 1 pm or even earlier
> friday
> gf cancels date saying it is too cold and she doesn't want to get sick (and yes it is cold)
> saturday 6pm
> gf texts me shes going out and gonna be back online later
> gf not online that day
she went to a bar with her best guy friend and came back home late that night. she told me she only had tea.
i am furious because i think she got the invite from him after we set up the date and canceled it to go 1 on 1 with this dude.
am i paranoid ?
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>>18531170
why isn't all that important. i mean it is, but the fact that she did this at all is pretty fucked up. Either she screwed you over to be with this guy or she just doesn't care to hang out with you. either way thats not good.
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>>18531170
Is she really your gf or just some girl you went on a date with?
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>>18531187
exclusive gf. we talked about this.
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When people say "don't make the date an interview" do they just mean:
>1. don't make the date an endless series of quesitons
or
>2. ask almost zero questions
Because the former makes perfect sense, the latter makes little sense to me.
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>>18531002
1) Don't overdress
2) Act natural
3) when talking don't just drone on about the same thing the whole time
4) smile, laugh act happy, don't make it anything too serious or you'll scare her off
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>>18531002
Ask a question and branch a conversation off of that. Dont shoot out questions one after another.
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>>18531002
dont just ask questions one by one so it looks forced
make the conversation flow
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Guide to becoming a NEET? 2017-07-18 03:17:12 Post No.18530944
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Guide to becoming a NEET?
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Poorfag here, I just want to be an independent NEET/Hermit.
How do I secure a permanent living solution, with internet, and food/water/necessities, so that I can play video games in peace?
No parents or anything.
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>>18530944
Employed taxpayer here.
Give me one good reason why I should support you.
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>>18531026
because otherwise the state will make you to
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I'm NEET in spirit. I'm receiving SSI/Disability for mental illness. But I've been attending college half time. I'm about 2/3 to my degree. I intend on finishing it as an insurance policy if for nothing else. I've yet to make a determination on whether or not I want to continue a semi-NEET life that I've been living. Why am I sharing this?
Oh. Well, it's actually rather depressing being a NEET. I don't know if you really understand what you're wishing for. You'll never be self-actualized as a NEET.
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I sent a full body nude with my face in it, to a girl i met on tinder. now that girl wants to blackmail me and post the picture on social media. what do i do???
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>>18530418
Contact police.
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but will they help, i've deleted everything from my phone and blocked and deleted the number
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I would contact the police and see if there are any ngo/helplines you can contact in your country for this situation. See what professional advice you can get. Do you still have her contact details? Try see if you can trace her so that you may give the authorities and helpline enough info so that they can help you more effectively.
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Hey /soc/,
I have a question. How have y'all gotten over a relationship? My relationship ended with my ex about four months ago now, and I believe I cannot find any other girl just as perfect as she was. How long does this heartbreak usually go on? I try to get her off my mind, but everyday, even back in the relationship, I think about her. There is zero absolute chance of a reconciliation with her, not even friends. We were really good friends before we got into the relationship as well. We had it all going for us. I would really appreciate some help.
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>>18530375
idk. It took me 4 years to get over my oneitis and we never even dated, there was just some sexual tension. Get ready for that, I guess
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>>18530376
Thanks for the input, I guess.
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>>18530377
why can't you guys be friends? not that you should be friends with her, just curious
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When is it acceptable touch my girlfriends's butt? We already hugged, I kissed her head, wrapped my arm around her waist and held hands. I also laid my head on her chest and lap, so we already made some physical contact.
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Touch her butt. If she says stop, do t listen, keep TOUCHING her butt and proceed to undress her. If she puts up a fight, use your dominate male strength to hold her down and force it upon her. She will eventually give up on trying to escape and let you have your way with her. This works out in your favor about .08% of the time. Good luck
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>>18529693
Don't ask. Just go for it. If she stops you without saying a word, just respect it.
If she says, "I'm not a slut," or "I'm not that easy," just look her dead in the eyes, and say: "Well, I am." Then smile and say, "So whenever you're ready." Then don't try it again for another couple of dates.
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>>18529693
I usually give the girl's butt a little squeeze when we are kissing. lots of girls actually love being touched there as long as it's not a gross stranger.
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So, everyone talks about my penis size in and outside my social circle (people gossip.. a lot). Now, my penis is 2.7 ish in. soft which is small so yeah sucks and 6 in hard (just shy of an i phone 6 plus). Now, I do not get directly ridiculed but it sucks when people talk about it as an inside joke and think i cannot tell. Ive overheard it many times and it's lame. Also, the prejudice that comes with the rep sucks as it causes a lot of anxiety... what do i do?
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Get a hardon and whip it out to show everyone you are average.
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Try making your dick bigger
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B-brandon?