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Women, please be sincere:
How do you feel about a guy's height? I have never had a problem with my height, because I am above avarage. However, I have a weird tendency to be atracted to girls that are about my height or a little taller. I really like that kind of girl but I don't think I ever dated one or went out with one.
How are my chances with girls like that? I am about 179cm tall. Is height a big deal?
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>>18590440
In my opinion, short stature is a huge turnoff and I think 179 cm is on the short side. Also unless you're asian or hispanic 179 cm is well below average.
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>>18590459
what the fuck? average is 177cm tall for a white male, stop believing that 6' is AT LEAST needed height for being a normal guy, it's a fucking meme. females are around 164, even being under average is still fucking tall to them, I've even seen guys dating taller girls so please shut the fuck up man. Altho you have people that are obsessed with guys being 20 feet taller but there are needy cunts about every other single thing so hey, in reality nobody gives a fuck about your height man.
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>>18590567
It sems you did not want an honest answer
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I'm debating doing this long distance shit.
Background info: I'm 23, have a career, finishing up a higher degree next year, have things going for me, like where I live, 8/10, still live with parents. She's 18, going to university 3000 miles away. She has a lot of friends who are males and I dislike it to the point of where it's a huge issue, her parents are very strict and we resort to her sneaking out most of the time to spend time (being the reason she's going to school far away), we have access to each others location, social media, and texts. We get along very well.
I've dealt with long distance before with 300 miles to cover for a year, but this is more than ever before. She's 18, I feel like she will want to spend her time in university doing stupid shit people that age do. I'm just considering ending it right before she leaves. What do you think?
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18 and 23 is enough of an age difference to fuck up a relationship (at your age), long distance and your insecurity are just going to make it worse
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Shit's lame dude
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>>18590441
More details? What do you mean by the first part
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How do i get better at messaging girls?
there is a qt that asnwered one of my initial messages but ikeep overthinking what i should say and if im not too boring. or that maybe i waste an opportunity to say something funny or flirty.
On the other hand it seems dishonest and manipulative to try and craft the perfect sentence instead of being spontaneous.
So how do i git gut at texting and not be boring?
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>>18590295
>ikeep overthinking what i should say
So stop overthinking it and send the first response you think of.
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>>18590297
im always afraid it will be too boring
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>>18590297
>mmmm baby show me them tits you stupid slut mmmmm i just wanna cut you up and hang you to dry god damn im about to cum ok bye
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I just fucked my gf's twin sister last night because she lied that she was my gf. This isn't fucking fair. My gf has no idea and I'm panicking like crazy. Help, what do I do?
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If they look/sound similar enough for you to be tricked, I don't think your gf will be mad at you. She'll probably hate her sister, but that's deserved.
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>>18590292
Top kek, ask for a threesome lad. Tell them that you've already slept with both of them, so it's no big deal. Btw, you must be a fucking brainlet if you can't tell the personality of each of them apart
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>>18590292
>having the audacity to call someone your GF when you can't even tell the difference between her and a completely different person who just looks similar.
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When can I take alcohol after mononucleosis?
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>>18590080
They told me for one month afterwards. I drank that week though and was fine. I didnt get shit faced, jusy mild to moderate drinkng.
I have a question for you too op. When I had mono I was incredibly itchy all over for days. Did you get that too?
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If when you are saying "itchy" you are talking about scratching no i wasn't itchy. But if you are talking about mentally i mean like sicking of everything yes i was itchy. And thank you for replying my question.
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>>18590498
If when you are saying "itchy" you are talking about scratching no i wasn't itchy. But if you are talking about mentally i mean like sicking of everything yes i was itchy. And thank you for replying my question.
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How do I learn to relax around black people?
>Go on daily run
>Two black guys walking the opposite way
>Look straight fucking ahead
>They could easily kill me but I think I can outrun them both
>Run by them avoiding ehe contact >waiting for the "HOLD UP" that means they've decided I look jumpable
>It never comes
>They probably live just a few apartments down from me
I literally think like this all the time. I even went to public school.
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>>18589702
Around blacks, never relax.
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wow another thread to report
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>>18589709
SJW CANCER
Go back to Tumblr
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>We have an argument about her bad habits and imply that if she keeps doing it I'll have to leave her
>She comes out telling me she doesn't like relationships all that much (had abusive bf in past, has very low self esteem) and would rather be single
>I tell her we can do this
>She says she cant
>My heart breaks
>I ask if she still likes/loves me
>She says "not in that way"
>Have the most peaceful ending to relationship and still talk minutes later about random shit
>Give her advice about learning to love yourself before loving others
>She accepts it surprisingly well.
>Got 2 hours sleep that night
>Keep googling for answers to why someone would fall out of love like that.
>Reading countless web forum posts about relationships ending but none of them match the one we had
>Decide to stop talking to her (been 2 days so far)
>Heart ache, still asking questions to myself
I love her so much. I keep thinking her self esteem made her say the things she said, maybe it made her not love me anymore. I wonder whether her issues contributed to her wanting to quit relationships for a while. I ask myself if I should have not threatened her that day, or if I could have been more lenient knowing her mental health.
I feel there's nothing i can do, like it's one of those things in life that cannot be explained.
Deep down I have this narcissistic fantasy that it was her mental issues that made her say the things she did. I imagine myself as the little kid called Wander in pic related, risking my life to defeat giants so that I may learn how to "wake" her back up again. I'm like a doomed Don Quixote, delusional and off track.
I feel I need to move on and find other girls, but she's too friendly with me, the breakup was way too peaceful to be called a "breakup", it feels like a temporary split and i hope it is so badly but something tells me i'm wrong.
What do i do?
For those who read all that I thank you, i really needed to get that out my system.
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Don't beat yourself up, OP. If you really love her, let her go. She doesn't love you enough to fix her bad habits. That makes her a piece of lazy shit really. I'm sure you can find someone who is worth your time and effort.
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i mean, it sounds like this was the best possible scenario based on what you say.
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>>18589611
in some ways peaceful breakups are the worst for the male because the affection and feelings linger and you constantly feel like things aren't over
I don't know what to tell you man, I've been in the same spot for a couple weeks now and I'm just thinking it's best to move on. life sucks and relationships are hard.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros: https://imgur.com/a/y6BF2
>my first time was shitty and now I don't want to have sex anymore. Wat do?
Become a pope.
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should you always ask her or no matter what the circumstances are? there always seems to be an excuse not to.
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women, how do you feel about mid 20s living with family? 24, living with my mom and sister. i pay 50% of the rent and its in my name so i'm not some neet nigga. it's just awkward to invite people over because my mom is home 24/7. sister doesn't care tho. feel like i should have my own pad though, and that it's perhaps more fashionable to have room mates of the same gender and age range
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ignore the excuses. if you are interested, go go go. unless it's a co-worker or something
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If a girl keeps taking a long time to respond to anything I send, does that mean anything?
It's just happened recently, but everything she'll respond to is positive to what I'm saying. As an example, I asked her to go do something with me, and she said yes but after the first message she replied with, it took her like 50 minutes to respond again even though she had sent one just prior. This has happened multiple times with her so I'm thinking it's not just because she was doing something else.
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>tfw Poorfag
>Live in a super rural area where you can only find work during summer
>tfw working my ass for for fucking 7$ and hour
>tfw all my friends have a shit on of money from drug dealing
>I have to drive a fucking Twingo, yet they are driving Skyline and Porsches
>They want to teach me how to get in
>But I don't want to because I don't want to end up in jail
Would you guys do it? I hate being poor, I want a fucking RX-7. How am I ever save for a business like this?
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>>18589476
If they're driving nice cars and buying expensive everything it's obvious they're selling OP if you start selling buy a car that's nice but not super flashy
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>>18589476
I would do it. But be sensible about it. Like don't start spending big obvious cash right away, save a lot away. Maybe invest some of it, small amounts, sensible amounts, pocket change from a guy with a budget.
After saving up for a while to be really comfortable you back off and never return. You use the money you earn in a way that makes sure you don't have to do it again. The lazy people are the ones that end up in jail.
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>tfw working my ass for for fucking 7$ and hour
have you ever been in Russia? people often working full day there and get less than you in an hour
kys faggot cyka blyat
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Good Profile Pic or bad Profile Pic?
Be honest.
Also rate if you want.
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>>18589469
Profile pic for what?
Actually, doesn't matter.
>Not even looking at the camera
>Not smiling
>Apparently shirtless
It would be a bad profile pic for any purpose.
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deal with your chapped lips, put on a shirt, quit looking like an owl, and don't take pictures with yourself backlit.
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>>18589482
Okay will keep in mind. Thanks. Any other advice?
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Guys, help. I'm scared my boyfriend will break up with my because of my employment situation.
I've been unemployed since January since I was laid off from my job. I've been trying to find a similar job but have had no luck. My boyfriend is currently finishing up his Masters in Athletic Training.
I didn't go to a traditional college. 7 years ago I graduated from a trade school that focused on comic book art and illustration. While I had freelance jobs, it was few and far between. I finally had my first full time job at a game company in New York 3 years after graduating. I still pursued freelance work and did comic art on the side, and my boyfriend has been very supportive.
3.5 years later I get laid off, and I'm stuck in the same position. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. Although hes supportive of me, he doesn't have faith in the industry I decided to go into, and he's asked me if I have a backup plan and suggested maybe I go back to college to earn a degree in another field.
I'm worried because I don't have a backup or didn't think of one. My plan was to just keep working on my art, maybe open a shop to sell prints for extra income, take freelance jobs, learn new skills like 3d modeling, until a new full time job comes along.
For some reason my boyfriend doesn't think this is a steady plan, and he's asked me what do I plan to do for the future if we get married and have kids together, because it won't be enough for us to live on his income.
I got so frustrated at this argument that I just walked of out of his house and drove home. This happened 3 days ago and I haven't heard from him.
I'm scared guys. I love him so much, and he's told me numerous times over the years how much he loves me. But I'm afraid he's going to break it off with me because I don't have a backup plan.
All of this has made me horribly depressed for the past few days. I've been crying every morning and night.
What should I do?
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>>18589414
>I got so frustrated at this argument that I just walked of out of his house and drove home. This happened 3 days ago and I haven't heard from him.
this is where you fucked up. you just rendered yourself emotionally unavailable to him. So he is confused about what you want.
Do you want a real relationship with a pretty high degree of honesty? Because if you do, unless he was being actively hurtful to you, you had no reason to just walk off. How the hell are you going to deal with problem in the future?
If you needed some fucking time to think about it, you should have just told him that in the moment. "i'm getting frustrated right now, can you let me think some more about this on my own before we talk about this anymore?" How simple would that have been?
your problem isn't that you don't have a backup employment plan in the relationship.
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lol did you go to joe kubert?
you're so screwed. go find a fucking retail job for part time work like every other artist out there.
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>>18589434
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If you needed some fucking time to think about it, you should have just told him that in the moment. "i'm getting frustrated right now, can you let me think some more about this on my own before we talk about this anymore?"
I did say that. He just gave me a "whatever" and stayed quiet while we watched tv.
I asked him 30 minutes later if he was still upset with me and he just went "yep".
At that point it just felt uncomfortable to stay so that's when I said I was going home and he just said "ok go ahead"
We've also had this conversation more than once. The past two times it ended with him saying "do what you have to do, I won't ask again"
And yet he asked again.
I cheated on my bf.
I didn't bang but I kissed and jerked someone off. I honestly had barely any guilty feelings while doing it after a couple mins, but I have nightmares about him finding out and I fear him finding out.
Idk what to do. I know it's my fault, but the motives were Bc of my own problems w our relationship. He's gone to Kansas, Las Vegas, New Jersey, Ireland, New York, all without me in the past 6 months.(there's probably a chance he's cheated on me). Mostly with his friends, and I just think it's weird to go visit his family in Ireland and not want me to come etc. I feel like I'm not important to him at all. But I reeally love him, but I don't think my needs are met in our relationship. He never texts/calls me enough, he's not there for me, when I have emotional problems and stuff the person I go to is the guy I cheated on him with.. He's always there for me, texts me, calls me, etc and my bf is not. But I love him so much
Idk what to do. I know im not a good person.npls don't judge me Bc no one is perfect. I honestly like both of them for different reasons and idk if I should leave my bf or
Stop talking to this guy and treat to fix thinfs w my bf, but I fear I will be unfulfilled and feel alone again like that. With this other guy I feel happy and not alone.. My Bf makes me feel alone we been together 2 and 1/2 years, he even said we could move
In together soon and maybe move to Cali where I wanna live
Pls help with serious nonjudgemenral advice
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>>18589394
Break up. Its clear you wasn't to date this other guy and cheating is gross.
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Leave your boyfriend. The relationship is dead. It would be better for both of you, and its not because you cheated (though it doesn't help).
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>>18589394
Also,
I
Do realy like the other guy a lot. Bc of
His morals, principles, loyalty as a friend, etc which I don't feel like the same about my Bf. I'm not eeven realy physically attracted to him like he's two inches taller than me and kinda short, (my Bf is tall), my bf has money and he doesn't, he's just there for me.im pretty sure he doesn't want a relationship though I'm not trying to leave my bf for him, I just think I guesss my
Needs aren't met in our relationship and yes I've talked about how him travelling alll the time makes me feel, he said recently he was done going places without me and invited me
To
Go to Bermuda with his dad and sister in a couple months and said we could move in together. But its always a cycle of trying to make things perfect and then the tape falls off and it's back to what it really is
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I need to soundproof a door up to at least 130 db
What do?
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>>18589184
Not sure how well this'll work, but I hear that fixing egg cartons (the foamy kind) to a wall (in your case the door) deadens the sound and soundproofs to a certain degree. Its the same idea behind soundproofing in recors studios.
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>>18589184
most interior doors look like this and are basically impossible to 'shore up stronger.'
you need to replace it with a solid core door.
and even then, that makes the door deaden, but it means nothing if the walls are cheap. Sound can even carry through light fixtures at the dB levels you're talking about.
wtf are you trying to do?
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The problem is how to get it up to 130.
I actually meant "make a soundproof door", not "make a door soundproof"
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Picking up women at music festivals
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Long story short, I broke up with my long time girlfriend due to incompatibilities. I don't feel bad yet because I'm at a huge music festival in europe and I want to feel good.
Thing is that I don't know how to pick up women at festivals like this. How do I talk to them with loud music around, pick up lines, everything. I just sit around, dance and look around for some mutual looks then I want to go close but I can't think of anything to say.
Another thing is that I have this strange comception that at festivals you can hook up easy and make out easy even if you are not a 10/10 guy. I dont know why. I just want to have fun and even though I have a big group of friends around me, I think that something misses. Help me adv
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>>18588939
Get on MDMA
Make out
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>>18588943
Except for weed, I pussy out on everything
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Girls on MDMA tend to be more... accepting...
But I'll give you tips here about approaching at festivals, then:
1- The loud music is good. It's a reason for you to speak near her ear, it's reason for her to lean in to you in order to hear you. It pretty much makes physicallity easier. If you know how, you can even use your lungs to amplify your voice in a low tonality, so she'll hear a strong deep voice break through the loud music.
2- There's no need for a magic opener or something. "Great music!" will open. "You look great dancing" will open. If you see a girl sit down, and after a while she stands up and dances, you can say "That's better, you were looking so bored sitting there." and so on.
3- Loud music is a great excuse to lead her away from her group, speccially at festivals. "Let's grab us a drink" and take her by the hand. "Here is too loud, let's talk by the bar" and take her hand.
4- Her friends are important on that place, they are her anchor (even more if it's a camp and party kind of festival), so it's important to be nice to them. You don't need to spend time talking to them, but say "hello" to all of them (as if noticing their presence and showing you are polite), then you can just shift back to the girl you want.
Do have in mind that her friends must allow her to be with you so she won't feel slutty (most women are like that on fests, but not all, the free spirited ones care shit about this), so don't shake them off or treat them bad or anything.
5- This one is important: A major attraction trick is to actually enjoy the festival in a carefree way. If a girl sees you dancing freely on the floor, enjoying the music and the place, it's attractive to her. You might not even see her, and still attract. So enjoy the place, eventhough you don't feel your best, try to put those feelings away for a moment. Smile, dance, play around... Good luck, bro!
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My gf is fat and im no longer sexually attracted to her....weve been together 6 years and have a 3 year old son together... She was thin when we met, but i knew there was potential to inflate. I adore my son and i used to adore his mother. But after 6 years she has gained 100 pounds easily putting her in the 200 plus range and it shows no sign of stopping. She complains, nags and generally disagrees with every idea/thought i have. Her mother and father are/were thin. I want to stay together for the childs sake. But i cant stand being with a fat nagging bitch. I work my ass off to help support them and she still isnt happy. What would you do or suggest i do in detail to cure this situation. Pic for comparison not actually her....
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>>18587717
>gf
>no longer sexually attracted to her
>weve been together 6 years and have a 3 year old son together.
You dun goofed. Shouldn't have had a kid out of wedlock. Now the little bastard will resent his fat mom and shallow dad.
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>>18587724
truth nigga
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>>18587724
Yea i notice the obvious goof. And hes not technically a bastard if his father is in his life. Were talking post goof damage control at this point. What csn be done to help remedy the situation