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any thoughts?

I get it's not a very exciting post but I'd just like advice if possible

The thing is she could say yes, but would that even be good?
Personally, I think LDR are all bullshit and one of the two will eventually have sex with someone else because that's just how things are. People have their needs. So if you can live with the thought that she is probably fucking someone else while she is in university, go for it. Otherwise, if I were you I would just leave it at the break up, date around and when she comes back again I would re-initiate a relationship with her again.
That's what I would do.

Itll suck for a couple of months then youll feel fine. Spend time doing things you enjoy, hang out with friends, and better yourself.

>>18593324
Lay down
Try not to cry
Cry a lot

Genuinely helps desu

Just feel the feels. For real. Try to get this stuff get right into your heart.

Then if you are done crying. Take it as a lesson and move on. Cry your heart out and dont think your life about some lost love. Because it was not ment to be. Dont try to compensate with shot that might make everything longer and harder than it is supposed to be

>>18593321
They brought the dunkirk on themselves. If they didn't betray Poland and actually attacked Germany in late 1939, it wouldn't have happened.

Different strokes for different folks, nigga.

I bet there's a movie/book/thing with a deep meaning for her that you don't give a flying fuck about.

She's a woman, anon. She doesn't understand self sacrifice and valor.

>>18593308
Get on MDMA then you wont worry

Don't get wasted, dance, no one cares about you you're one of the crowd, and do try and pick up chicks.

Clubs are pretty shitty but just enjoy yourself man, if you're with your buddies it'll be fine.

>>18593308
>What must I do to survive this night without showing my autism?
get drunk at least a little bit. enjoy yourself.

IL has decent schools but moving here permanently is a very, VERY bad idea.

t. lived in il my whole life

IL. We're full here in CO and unless you like the smell of cow shit (UNC), dirty hippies (CU boulder ), sjws and assholes (CSU), or a nice campus with a brutally hard engineering program (school of mines) you're going to hate it.

>>18593302
It depends a lot on your school. If you're going to be in Chicago then it's a nice place to live as a college student for the experience alone.

>>18593260
y o u k i l l me f i r s t

I have resolved to stop asking to be killed and instead asking to be allowed to actually live since all I am really doing is existing.

l e t m e l i v e

I F D U B S M E F I R S T

Get the fuck off the internet. Seriously these problems never existed before the internet was commonplace.

>>18593258
I'm constantly outside though.
I'm just never around the opposite sex.

>>18593252
Just remind yourself that just because she's cute doesn't mean she's the girl you want. She could be a slut for all you know. Don't get caught up in appearances unless that's literally all you want.

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Nothing's fucked here, dude.

>he gives a girl drugs

I hope you and her both realize now she deserves better?

>>18593245

Basing judgement on just one instance is stretching it.
Try two more times and if it doesn't work out, move on.

it's an easy way to keep your thoughts clear

*a wild guess*
Perhaps getting higher levels of oxygen than regular automatic breathing gets into your body.

>>18593139
this. It doesnt have to be your breathing but you have to focus on something to stop your mind from wandering.

I hear some people focus on the tip of their nose.

>>18593050
It's a tumor. My condolences, anon.

>>18593050
Cancer, probably got it from walking too close to a sjw rallie.
Ask /out

>>18593050
i've seen this before. Someone's been injecting frog eggs in your leg during your sleep.

Sue the owner of the dog. Wendy's did nothing and they don't owe you food.

>service dog
Sounds implausible. They're extremely well-trained. How did it happen?

>>18592991
I bet it was one of those tumblrinas with a fake service dog.
If so you can definitely sue the owner.

So if she's into you, why would you be rejected?

Going to be upfront with you, unless you are out and everyone in your life knows about your sexuality, I would save coming on to a friend for when you are away from the highschool setting.

There is a big mentality of gossip and bullying in high school, your fear of rejection in this situation is quite reasonable. The stakes are much lower once you get out into the real world...high school is this macabre fantasy realm where people act insane.

Good luck with things, I know how much unrequited love hurts.

>>18592994
She's a pretty affectionate person and I'm not sure to take it as friendly or romantic

>>18592987

Absolutely not a good idea.

>>18593643
why?

Go for it.

>>18592978
you're depressed.

Welcome to the club bro, enjoy your worthless stay

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>>18592978

Depression is a meme.

Think about it, who decides if you are happy or not? The obvious answer its you right? Now, ask yourself what price are you giving to your happiness? You dont know? You most certainly do, in fact you mention one

>i'm never going to reach anything

I am going to guess there is more than that into it. No gf, no money, anxiety, social awkwardness (just mentioning the common ones). Now i ask you, have you ever seen a kid depressed? They dont overthink happiness nor put requirements to it like you are doing when thinking that you are a failure, you compare yourself to some expectation or ideal that its not real and only established by external influence.

In short, the key to happiness and contempt is found within, we can not control outside influences in our lifes. In fact more often than not things are not going to work the way we want them to work and that is ok. Learn about yourself, try to think more on what makes you happy rather that sad and you will soon start figuring out your path.

Good luck anon.

>>18592974
Spoonfeed context?