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This isn't about weapons, fuck it, ban me. I know some of you are vets, do you struggle with suicidal thoughts? Things you can't get over? It's been almost 3 years now and I feel like I'm losing the fight.
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>>18588606
Hey man, think of your friends, and people who you care about. You'll get some shitty answers from the niggers on here, but you know that the crap on here is enjoyable. Power through this.
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>>18588607
>You'll get some shitty answers from the niggers on here

this op

i believe in you and thank you for your service,
i hope you get through this
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>>18588606

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How can I write a good CV for university application?
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Why do you need a CV for a university application?
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It's in germany I'm not entering with any exam scores.
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>>18588762
I'm a foreign student they only check whether If my eligibility to enter a university corresponds to their standards then they want our applications with cv and stuff

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I have problems with death and that's preventing me from ever having a pet. Every time I think about getting a dog or cat I throw the idea away after thinking because I just imagine their death and how sad it makes me. What's something I can do to alleviate this?
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Everything must die but theres the afterlife
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ciYPWQMzwR4
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Btw if you don't like that video, idk what to say... time is better spent together than never meeting because you're afraid of separating. Life is here so spend it with them now, then when one lifetime ends and you must separate from eachother, you'll both have lived a nicer more fulfilled life.
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>>18588566
Adopt an animal that would've died or lived a shitty life without you so whenever your best bud passes you will realize what a great life you gave it and how you gave it a second chance. This a reason why people create animal sanctuaries, you get so many good feelings not just the fact that you are having fun playing fetch or rubbing his/her belly but the fact that you know that she/he is happy with you.

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I suspect I might suffer from a gaming addiction and depression. If I get diagnosed and the authorities find out, I am losing my license and about 5000€.
I am afraid. I want to turn my life around after dropping out of university and losing my girlfriend because of gaming. But I really enjoy shooting as a hobby and don't have any thoughts of suicide anymore.
In theory the authorities would not get notified.
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>>18588561
Next time ask question.

Get gf?
Get job?
Get friends?
What games?
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>>18588561
funny about this. I sorta might be losing a friend (long-distance relationship) due to my actions in gaming. Makes we wanna give up gaming.
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>>18588786
>I might lose a friend due to my actions in gaming
I'm sorry for your loss, but how does that happen?>>18588786

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Haven't been on 4chan in a long time. I'm 31 and have been with my wife for 13 years since we were 18. We had a fight on Monday while we were at her mom's watching her dogs while her mom was out of state. It wasn't even really that bad. I wanted to turn around several times on the way home. Well, she was supposed to be home on Tuesday. I called her when she was off work and she said she had to stay another day and she'd be home Wednesday. Wednesday came and she wouldn't answer my calls or return texts. Finally, this morning she said she's staying at her mom's and "needs time" and "she doesn't think we make each other happy or better" and "this is the hardest thing she's ever had to do". She's leaving tomorrow after work for a conference in Texas and said she let me know when she gets back Sunday which sounds to me like she's going back to her mom's house. The awful thing is that she won't talk to me on the phone, only through texts.
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Things have been getting rockier for the past couple years. We haven't slept together in the last 2 years. It's actually because of me contrary to what you might think. In fact over the weekend I came home and she tried to initiate activities and I declined. She asked me if I was ok and I just BSed "yeah, I'm fine, I'm just not in the mood" and "I'd need to shower and all that". It's awful but she gave me an opening to address the elephant in the room and I backed out. This is so embarrassing but the last time we started to have sex I couldn't perform. It was so awkward it obviously hadn't come up in nearly 2 years. I've been having trouble getting and or maintaining erections. It's not that I'm not attracted to her, I can't even do it "alone".
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I've avoided brining it up to my doctor because I'd like to keep avoiding reality I guess. And for obvious reasons I've never told her. I don't want her to think it's because of her when it's not. The last 2 years we've just been going through the motions, eating dinner, Netflix, or GoT, what have you all the meanwhile an unspeakable distance has been growing between us and she doesn't even know why. I completely understand it from her point of view as well as how much this is my fault. I planned to tell her everything when she came home but that never happened and now I'm afraid that anything I say is going to look like desperation just to "salvage" something so I don't "lose". I love her so much and I'm fucking lost. What do I do?
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Dude, go to get medical attention, even if she walks away from your life, you need to have a better sexual life, it isn't fair for you. Most of the time erectile disfunction can be treated. Also, focus on other things while she isn't home, thinking about her all the time will make you feel sick.

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I hit the federal loan aggregate limit because of switching majors, neither me or my parents can afford to pay out of pocket, I can't get approved for a private student loan because I don't have enough income, and I can't get my parents to cosign because they filed bankruptcy a few years ago.

I don't know what the fuck to do... I'd need at least another $16,000 to pay for the rest of the classes that I need to graduate...

Any advice?
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Drop out
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1. Look for some shady looking mofos around your town and ask them. They will probably get you a job for dealing or give you a loan that they might want to get back or you will get your knees broken.

2. Drop out. Earn enough money. Attend university, its nearly never tolate desu.
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>>18588533
Go find a job. Save up enough money to finish. Come back and finish the shit.

What other option do you have?

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I legitimately want to leave my partner for the 2D life

I don't feel fulfilled in sex or conversation
My partner is a really great person and I think they're nice, but this relationship isn't making me happy

I just want to buy figures and make friends

We've only been together for 3 months and I've never left anyone that didn't deserve it before

Help?
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>>18588542
>invite her
What does this even mean?
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>>18588532
show her your image folders of half naked 7 year old anime girls and she'll leave you. win/win
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>>18588532
Just break up, use standard phrase
>you are too good for me
>it wouldnt work between us in the long run
Everybody knows 2D > 3D.

I have an embarrassing problem:
>24, Female
>Average weight, healthy diet
>Works out 2-3 times a week on average
>Quit smoking recently but I vape
>Marijuana and other drug usage confined to maybe 1 or 2 weekends a month sporadically
>Lightweight with alcohol, never drink during the week
>No known medical issues

I have great difficulty waking up early- this is even when I sleep 6-8 hours a night and my sleep schedule is regular- and frequently fall asleep at work. This has been a problem with me throughout high school and college, but in recent years (since I started working office jobs) has gotten even worse. (Side note: People at some of my more active jobs where I moved around all day always said I looked tired.) Caffeine barely helps, and I've had days where I tried sipping coffee all morning / afternoon and soda at lunch. I got let go from one prior job for this reason- 95% sure they thought I was on hard drugs unfortunately- and can't figure out what to do. Interestingly enough this doesn't happen to me on weekends when I stay home.

Any ideas on what this is or how to fix it?
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Go see a doctor and have bloodwork done, hell you could be a diabetic or something along those lines.
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On days you don't have work or don't need to get up early, don't drink coffee. Period. This might make it a little easier, as continuous coffee consumption just makes you more resistant to it.
Get more sleep on days off too.
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Fatigue is one of the first signs of vitamin b12 deficiency. See a doctor.

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I fucking hate my libido
I fucking hate that I constantly get hard and need to watch porn, jerk off and shit
I fucking hate how it makes me wanna fuck almost every girl I meet but never will be able to.
I fucking hate how its making me angry, anxious, depressed.

I wanna lower my libido heavily or completely remove it. Is there something you can get from doctors if you say that you are a potential rapist or something?

I just fucking hate being like this, I was way more happier before puberty. what do I do?

I need to something or I will go full Elliot Rodgers at some point.
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>get a gf
>fuck gf
>no problem
I know, "its harder than it sounds" trust me I'm fucking aware. shut the fuck up and do it.

also stop being frustrated by a good thing, and if you go elliot rodgers... well frankly I don't remember what that faggot did entirely... but just know there's a special place in hell.
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>>18588540
i dont like girls, i just wanna fuck them.

i am not going to some escort, im not a degenerate.
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Have sex

Or become a eunuch

Up to you

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How do I leave a small town and move to la? It's so expensive and far away.
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This is clearly an issue of being unwilling to actually do hard work to reach a goal. Please do not feed OP's fantasy of moving by replying. He'll act it out and make "plans" in this thread, then proceed to do Nothing. Don't be an enabler. Sage and ignore.
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Why would you want to move to a shit hope like LA?
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>>18588525
Shit hole *

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Is it rude or autistic to ask that my photographs be removed from the internet?

A few months back I won a short story competition. At the ceremony I was pressured into having my photo taken both by myself and in a larger group. I look absolutely fucking retarded in the photographs and some of them are now hosted on the website of the people who run the competition and also on their twitter account. They've posted them on facebook too but I think it's a closed group.

Would it be rude or autistic if I email them asking them to remove my photos and include the links to the pages where I can see them?

As for the group photo, it's a little trickier but I am standing at the very end of the group, would it be autistic for me to crop myself out and ask them to tweet that instead?

I've always avoided social media like the plague and guard my privacy, so the fact the handful of photos of me now available to all are absolutely retarded I'd rather they took them down.
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>>18588510
You should feel welcome to send them a cheery, polite email asking for the photos to be removed.
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>>18588510
Ask them to remove it, you will thank yourself later.
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>>18588510
If you do it, (and hell - I don't know your compulsions. Maybe this means a lot to you), then be self aware about it.

"I'm aware this is a super wierd request, but I'm really uncomfortable with public photographs. Would you guys mind taking down the photo of me from your site and using this cropped group photo instead? I'd be so grateful,

Regards,

SpazzyMcGee

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A girl I randomly started talking to online just told me she loves me and idk what to do
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Put things in perspective

Sometimes love is just a word
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>>18588467
To be honest anon I have no idea what you're talking about.
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>>18588465
"thank you"

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My cock doesn't get hard unless I jerk it off. I also masturbate 5 or 6 times a day. Is it because of over masturbation or do I have ed? I'm 21.
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>>18588344
it's over masturbation. there's a reason I'm stopping entirely. though over masturbation and another couple factors may mean that I'm not jacking off for no reason.
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>>18588344
>masturbate 5 or 6 times a day

dude.
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>>18588344
>5 or 6 times a day
Makes me feel good about 3 or 4 times a day

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I'm considering dropping out of college and going on disability. I finished my junior year not to long ago, I'm in pre-med majoring in Biology. The upcoming year is very important because it's when I would take the MCAT and apply to medical school.

A couple months ago I was in a bad car accident with my older brother. He was driving us somewhere at 2AM and he was driving very recklessly and we ended up crashing, we both got pretty badly injured. I got pretty messed up. When I came to I was in the hospital and my right leg was gone. My right arm/hand also received severe nerve damage but they still work, albeit my hand feels like 20% as capable as before.

I'm kind of at a loss. I don't feel like I can be a doctor anymore when I'm missing a leg and my dominant hand is severely impaired, I find it difficult to even write and walking is a painful slow experience. I've wanted to be a doctor since I was a kid but I feel like I just can't anymore.

Should I still try and go for it? I've invested 3 years into my major already so suddenly changing it just doesn't seem worth it, I don't what to do at this point. I'm not sure if a medical school will even take me now, I'm extremely discouraged. Maybe I should get my degree first then drop out so I can least say I have a degree? What do you guys think?
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Idk about the medical field but I think that being a doctor in most cases is out of the question but like I said I do t know, if you can find something I that field that Dosnt require both arms I think you'd be ok. We have two nurses on staff at the assisted living facility I live in and for the most part they tall to our disabled residents and help them manage doses of medication they have. Maybe you could do something likw that? I don't think you'll be able to be a surgeon or anything but I don't think you should rule out the idea of being in the medical field. 3ven if you can't be exactly what you wanted I'm sure you can find a job in the medical field you'll find rewarding. I can gauruntee you that being on disability will k to at all fulfill your life and make you happy. I'm sorry if this is a half ass post but I am drunk
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There's no chance OP. Doctor life itself isn't too bad depending on your specialty and place of work, you can probably find a niche that doesn't require being on your feet too much. The problem is medical school and your residency are torturous even when you're not disabled. I don't like to discourage people but it's a harsh reality, you'd be a liability.
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>>18588335
if anyone deserves disability its you

get a different vocation too (vocation is better than a job, you focus on helping others or doing something you enjoy not worrying about lots of money like a doctor.)

21 here. Most girls I interact with already has a boyfriend.
Why is it so hard
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When a girl is single, she behaves a certain way, like hits on you a little bit or small things like that which basically let you know that she is "open to your suggestions" and stuff.
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>>18588321
Find girl who no have the boyfriend

they probably wont talk to you like you friend
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>>18588328
so I don't initiate first and let the girls do it so I know if they are interested?

Something like this: https://www.quora.com/Why-are-almost-all-of-us-single-when-every-girl-has-a-boyfriend

>>18588329
I wish it was that simple finding haha. But I have to keep trying huh

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