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>>18234218
I don't know what to say other than you're not alone. But you should use your friends telling you that to build some self-esteem. Just focus on that they think you're good enough for the girls.

>>18234218
In the same boat. Have even been approached by girls at bars and I can't help but shrug them off. I think it's because i'm so frustrated with most girls my age that I don't even give them a chance anymore. Can you think of a reason why you would act the way you do towards women? Once you figure that out you may be able to reverse engineer some kind of solution.

I feel same way. Sometimes it seems girls really fall for me, and I fall for them too, but something inside tells me it's not to be trusted or isn't real. I tell myself not to invest any time or effort or trust into anyone, especially women (thanks migtow :/ ), because I know how easy people can just throw you away like a bit of rubbish.

she says yes when you ask her out

Women are whores, they are incapable of love

>>18234370
I love 4chan. They complain about how women don't have sex with them, but at the same time, women are whores.

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>>18234093

Firstly, I have no idea what you mean by "high quality women". If by "high quality" you mean hot, then I'm gonna have to say no because being attractive is not at all indicative of overall character and if you mean "high quality" in any other sense I don't get that either because you've never met these women before so you don't really know anything about them.

I think one of the major "donts" for any reasonable person of the female persuasion is treating them and speaking about them in terms of "quality", like you're grading a head of cattle. Believe it or not, women are a little sensitive about being treated like prize pigs so putting down other women as a way of complimenting her is an immediate red flag for any semi-intelligent woman.

Try treating them like individuals whose worth isn't based on a set of standards that can be determined before even meeting or speaking with her. Not only will that kind of mindset immediately turn off any decent girl but focusing on judging people based on such simple metrics is not how to achieve healthy relationships.

The long and the short of it is if you meet a girl who you view as a 10, if you start treating her like she's this great prize that you've won that needs to be treated according to her market value she will leave you immediately if she has any brains in her head

>tinder
>high quality women

don't expect anything more than an "open" relatioinship

>>18234093

Have any of them replied back to your messages?

Matching doesn't mean shit. That's just step one.

It's a bit step one, but the slope only gets steeper.

Also don't forget bots exist

>>18234081
Our not are.

>>18234088
Oops didn't even notice that

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And the Jews... the fact that the Jews, being a small percentage of society, control almost all of the media. How does one ignore such a probabilisticly unlikely outcome??

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>>18234070
>>18234066
You cant anon, im sorry.
At most you can try indulge on small pleasures and vices then try to not think much about it.

>>18234070
You know that the 5 Jew bankers is another words for illuminati and la ley lu ly lo etc. Consider the 5 large Jewish families around during the crash such as the rothchilds. All becomes clear. Haha were fucked.

As someone who's SO has pulled this several times, I'm really tempted to call him on his bluff next time.
You're not a horrible person just be careful what you wish for.

>>18233989
You should actually brake up. It's not normal or healthy to be with someone you fight with. Relationship success is only going to happen if you are with someone you get along with easily. My husband and I have literally never fought or raised our voices at each other. Save yourself the fighting and find someone your are more compatible with

>>18233997
Yes, I'm aware and working on reacting too soon to words said in the heat of an argument.

>>18234000
We are very compatible, just sometimes we have some disagreements which turn into fights. It's not like we fight daily/weekly/monthly. It's quite rare.

>>18233883
As long as you realize that the most likely reason that he's inviting you is because he wants to fuck you and you're 100% sure you can control yourself

Then yes you can go

>>18233883
Yeah it's wrong. You know damn well why this guy asked you to come with him.

You're either planning on cheating, or you're using someone else to get to go to a concert for free.

That being said, yes. Your SO should be upset.

>>18233883
>A guy asked if I wanted to go to a concert with him this weekend. Is it wrong for me to say yes when I'm already committed to someone else, or for my SO to act weird if I do?

Does he know you have a boyfriend?
Did he ask other people (either as a group, or everyone else just didn't want to go)
What is your relationship with him?

>over the past 24 years no girl has approached me
Then it must be you who approaches them, young padawan.

>>18233796
Get fit.

>>18233796
>>18233818
Exactly this. How many girls have you approached?

>>18233790
Don't expect it to be amazing

The hole is way lower than you think it is. To avoid jamming your dick against her pubic bone, slide the tip of your dick from the top down until you hit an opening.

Make cool sound effects like "SKADOSH!", randomly scream "YAHOO!", squeeze her titties, spank her butt, chew on her hair.

If I liked the person and it wouldn't be very noticable then sure. But not extreme scoliosis, sorry. Post some real pictures maybe?

Hm I mean it's not ideal but doesn't sound like a deal breaker to me.

if you have it that badly you shoudl try to fix it anyway and girls should be your last problem

>>18233339
>What are the chances she will fuck another dude?
If she is going out to drink often, I'd say very high.

>>18233339
If she's a good girlfriend, she won't cheat on you, so you have nothing to worry about.

If she's a shitty girlfriend, she'll probably cheat on you, but that means she's a shitty girlfriend and your relationship was never going to work in the first place.

Either way, nothing to stress out about.

>>18233339
Extremely high, given her weekend habits. It never works out in the army unless you live together on base and raise a litter of brats. But even then it can go bad. I had a buddy who's wife was banging some specialist while he was deployed. They had 5 kids together.

It goes to show that distance is a killer for sure. Never date while in the military. If you do date a girl, make sure she's a homebody that doesn't go out, except for church.

Dude, she's trying to entice you to make a move.

If you visit her and don't make a move you're making a mistake. Never pass up a good thing.

>I don't want a girlfriend
>I just see this girl as a friend
Are you secure enough in your sexuality to have some no strings attached fun? Can you have some physical pleasure without making a big deal out of it?

Unless she's hideous you should consider being intimate with her. Just wear a condom.

>>18233312

>Are you secure enough in your sexuality to have some no strings attached fun?

Honestly, no I'm not.

>>18233316
There's only one cure for that and she's trying to give it to you.

Don't be afraid of your own body. Let someone give you pleasure. It will help you, man, I promise.

Normal people don't spend months building crushes. If they like someone, they ask him/her out immediately. If rejected, move on. Your mistake was investing far far too much emotion into this one person before doing anything concrete.

>>18232954

its kinda like stubbing your toe. it sucks, and you admit it sucks, and maybe you do something like rub your toe or swear for a second, but then after that you go back to life. its a small pain, not something that defines you or takes awayfrom who you are.

>>18232954
So here is what 'normal' people do
>like someone
>never act on it
>chad just knock her up at party
Life is great

How can you tell what piss tastes like, tho...?

personally i started with hard liquor first and then moved down so maybe try that? When I first started I mixed tequila with sprite or 7-up.

Like coffee, beer is an acquired taste. So acquire it.

Start with light stuff. I prefer mead over anything though

>>18231724
Some people are just naturally good at shit. Maybe you're just naturally good at fucking things, like the government.

I also don't really know if what I have with this girl is special or not. I really feel like I'm on molly when I'm with her.. and I have taken molly about a dozen times in my life. She described it that way to me too and she's never done it... she described it to me exactly how I'd describe molly.

I feel no anxieties around her, like she truly likes me for me, and since I don't hide a thing, I know she likes me. I don't know guys... this is my first love, but it's hard to know if I'm making a mistake getting attached.She leaves for school across the country soon.. which is a big deal.

>>18231726

I think about sex constantly like every other human, so I just did what I thought would feel good for both of us and took total control. God, hearing her moan and seeing how wet she got... it was the most validating thing ever for me. But she's a virgin just like I was. She said she had no idea what she was doing. Someone with more expierence might know better and realize I'm also winging it