Girls and guys
So im friends with a girl who lives in France, and we plan to meet up for a few days when I go there for vacation in June. Anyways, we talk a lot. Infact, every single day the past 3 months. She texts me in a very flirtatious way, and keeps counting down the days until we meet. She texts me "good morning :) and "goodnight :D" every single day. There was even one day we didn't talk at all, and later that evening I got a text saying she hopes I sleep great... I don't really understand what this all is Tbh. I mean, I've clearly clearly told her that I don't want a girlfriend. She even asked me about "past girlfriends" before and I told her I've never had one, she was surprised and asked a lot of follow up questions but I just told her I didn't feel comfortable talking about it. I just see this girl as a friend. That's all, but I've never had a girl talk to me the way she does. So I'm confused
Are girls in France actually this friendly? Or, what's going on?
Dude, she's trying to entice you to make a move.
If you visit her and don't make a move you're making a mistake. Never pass up a good thing.
>I don't want a girlfriend
>I just see this girl as a friend
Are you secure enough in your sexuality to have some no strings attached fun? Can you have some physical pleasure without making a big deal out of it?
Unless she's hideous you should consider being intimate with her. Just wear a condom.
>>18233312
>Are you secure enough in your sexuality to have some no strings attached fun?
Honestly, no I'm not.
>>18233316
There's only one cure for that and she's trying to give it to you.
Don't be afraid of your own body. Let someone give you pleasure. It will help you, man, I promise.
>>18233401
I really don't feel comfortable with that. That's only something I'd do with a girlfriend I really was in to.
>>18233401
>>18233418
Step outside of your comfort zone. I'm not saying it's wrong to feel that way, but all of us should do things that makes us uncomfortable/afraid especially if you're going on a vacation. Step outside of your own head a little bit and try a different perspective.
>>18233426
I've tried that before. I lost my virginity to a random girl 5 years ago which was a awful experience. A few years later, I tried again with a girl from tinder which was another bad experience.
I've tried to step outside of my comfort zone. But was left with bad memories
I'm sorry for my own question but how does one find a person that he could chat with online and that topics would be simple as you described. After quiting games only people online I could chat with in PM were obsessed with technologies and politics, that's tiring topic to me.
>>18233512
www.interpals.net
>>18233295
Don't do it
>>18233295
Bumping OP's post out of curiosity
>>18233295
We can't know do sure. Maybe she's into you and still has some hopes (girls can be desperate too). Maybe she's just like that, being like that with everyone (I know a girl who did). Maybe you're her closest friend so she does that because she enjoys it. We just can't know.
I'm French, and my best friend and I usually flirt but always in a humorous way, she knows it, I know this and it stops there. But does your French girl feels the same about you, we can't be sure until you see her. (and even then, maybe she'll wait for a move from you)
>>18234627
Well I hope she's just being friendly