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Navy Basic Training Advice 2017-04-18 06:31:23 Post No.18234777
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U.S. Navy Basic Training starts within 48 hours for me. I'm attempting to turn my life around after being a NEET for 2 years under my parents home. I'm not particularly fit and I tend to spaghetti a lot around people, but I'm kinda smart. I think.
Any tips? Not the normal stuff like memorizing information to spit out at the barking officers. Recruiters keep telling me I'm joining a big family, but I'm pretty that's total bullshit. Is it really every man for themselves? We have to work together to survive on these stupid boats.
Also, people are telling me Navy Basic is a cakewalk, while others are saying its more intense in different ways. Should I just go blind and hope for the best?
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I'm Army, but from what I understand Navy and Army are pretty close, especially big Navy and big Army.
Be able to pass your bullshit pt, it's not as difficult as Army and Army is shit, so don't be a fat disgusting fuck and you'll be fine.
Some bros are chill man but otherwise don't expect everybody to look out for you. Other enlisted and even officers will fuck you over. Most of my advice would be for when you get in the Navy. Like don't sign for anything that you don't know is actually there, don't sign for things you don't have to, etc. Don't seem too fucking smart. Do the bitch work, and people will like you and think you're a hard worker if you bust your ass on small shit, and nobody will call you for when real shit goes down. If you seem too smart you get too much responsibility.
I don't know man. Military is horrible. I want out so bad. People want to fuck you over anything.
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You ARE joining a family. But you have to acknowledge that, being a part of the military means giving up a lot of self-proclaimed autonomy. You have to listen to your superiors no matter how fucking stupid it seems.
It's generally the hardest part for people to get through.
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MY LOVE FOR YOU IS LIKE A TRUCK BERSERKERRRR
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>seems like my boyfriend doesn't care as much as he used to when I really struggle with my mental illnesses
>he used to stop whatever he was doing to help calm me down and talk to me about it until I felt better
>now when I tell him that I'm not doing well he either says "oh I'm sorry" or sometimes says nothing at all
I understand that it's got to be annoying to have to put up with my mental illnesses but I'm really struggling right now and it just seems like he doesn't really care. This is when I most need someone to care. I need to feel like he supports me and understands but lately I don't.
I'm scared to say any of this to him because what if it is my mental illnesses making me feel like he doesn't care as much? What if he does care but it's in my head that he doesn't? I don't know what to do.
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This may not be the best answer, but be happy with what you have. In this day and age most people won't want to have a girlfriend that is mentally ill and that needs help. There are only a few cases of goodies trying to help girls out and rare cases of people going in relationships with them. Think now, if you leave him, it will take you much more time to find a new one that you can not be sure is good. Maybe you can find a better one, but what are the risks of being alone?
On the other hand, what mental illness are we talking about? It is also important.
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this just happened:
>tell him "I'm really not doing well with food again, I don't know what to do. I don't want to have dinner."
>he doesn't look away from his video game and says blankly, "Just have dinner."
I have an eating disorder and he knows it isn't a simple "just eat". He's never once said that to me in the year and a half we've been together because he knows that isn't how it works. I just feel weird and confused because he just feels cold compared to how he used to be? Maybe I'm too needy, I don't know. That's why I'm here.
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>>18234732
Depression, bipolar, anxiety, ocd, eating disorder. I'm a handful but he's always been so good about it. I don't know why it's changed.
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>Parents hand me property
>See Houston with dad for 2 years
>Find out about other human beings
>Now know more than I want to
>Have no intention of moving out of parents house
>Going to stay inside and become an incredible internet animator
>Will likely die alone if I walk this path
I don't intend to bring more children into this world, but is love worth anything at all?
I feel like it's a good meaning to this world, but I can't see it as anything more than illusory phantom that can ruin your life.
I'm torn between deriving life satisfaction from being a cartoonist and living a horrible life for the sake of very close human contact.
I may get a part time job at Wal-mart down the road, but that's about it.
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>>18234720
I'm also currently 20 years old.
I've no experience with the opposite sex, but that could easily be a positive factor for the life style I may choose.
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How old are you?
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>>18234720
I dont understand your post at all. Rewrite ur first 2 green texts
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Should I report this? 2017-04-18 05:53:10 Post No.18234696
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>work for a certain board of education
>get work related email sent to entire group from group 'leader'
>everyone's name is listed
>my name is listed next to my email as "neo-nazi dipshit"
>everyone in the email group saw it, about 15 people
>the sender has said nothing about it since
Should I tell my boss about this? I don't think she meant for everyone to see she had labled me a neo nazi dipshit, but honestly its made me worried about what untrue things she is telling to people in the department behind my back.
I honestly can't fathom how I got that label either. The only argument I've ever had with her was regarding what email server to use and that took all of 30 seconds to solve.
Ps, not a nazi.
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>>18234696
Fuck yeah report that shit. The Bitch is basically talking shit and you just gonna take that shit?? Deal with it now before it becomes a bigger mess than what it already is.
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>>18234696
yes report it directly to HR, skip your boss.
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>>18234699
Done and done. I have prinouts and shit. Honestly im just shocked. Like, why someone would do that.
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ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything 2017-04-18 05:24:37 Post No.18234638
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ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>*NEW* How do I ask a friend out without it being awkward, ruining our friendship or putting them on the spot?
You don't. Ask them out or don't ask them out, it's up to you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, and fart guy
Fuck off
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Girls,
>Have you been "madly" in love? Why, why did you found so attractive in the other person that, despite the difficulties, you wanted to be with him/her?
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Girls: Your boyfriend wants you to peg him and play with his nipples. What's your reaction.
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I kind of have a small dick but love to eat my girlfriend out and make her orgasm quite a bit by doing so.
is this a cop out? I just get insecure and it takes her a while to cum via penetration but I have some issues with cumming to quick.
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How does one deal with the world and all the fucked up shit that exists? I'm trying really hard to change my old hermit ways by getting a decent job that has career potential. During my lunch break, I decided to people watch instead of actually eating.
Within 10 minutes, I concluded that it would be best if the earth was stricken with a meteor to end the suffering of the common person, as to put them out of their misery of grinding and having to continue living in such deplorable means. I by no means live in an ivory tower, because, I, too, don't even have a car or service for an old iPhone I've had since 2012.
I know this is how the world is and always will be, but how do I cope with how shitty this world is? I spend too much time on /b/ as it is, and confront the worst of the worst in rekt threads. I'm just convinced the world is a bad place, and that I'll become the victim of my circumstance or someone else's.
I often find myself thinking suicide is a viable answer to this, but I'm too chickenshit to actually go through with it.
TL;DR: The world is fucked and I don't know how to deal with it. Wat do?
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Realize that everything continues regardless of your judgment. Do things you enjoy until you die.
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I was having a panic attack when I wrote this. After calming down and going over some thoughts, I've considered that I'm not in a secure life position at the moment, and it's freaking me out. This new job would barely cover rent, car and insurance. Yearly, I make just enough to apply for foodstamps, but I've been told by SNAP reps that owning a car is considered a luxury, therefore, even if I made under what would qualify, I'd still be fucked. Things I genuinely need to replace or update can't immediately be dealt with due to lack of funds. I live in a house that just got out of a bankruptcy, which means the bank can effectively kick me out and force me to be homeless(Obviously I'm living with parents who suck ass at financial responsibility).
I'm basically trying to go solo as quick as possible, but I get caught up in how I'm going to do this, and convince myself I'm fucked, regardless of what I do.
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>>18234569
Try to carve yourself a small bubble of "less shit" people and places, live in it; When energy permits try to expand and improve your small bubble.
Elsewise:
>>18234616
If you can't fix it, ignore it
If you can't ignore it, mix in enough good things to make it worth it
If you can't make it worth it... well... there are ways...
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So, I've found some men that are completely irresistible to women. Not talking sexually (but we all know under the hood it is), but the kind of guy that a girl wants to say hi, to be with him, to get in touch. That kind of men that girls love to see, to be with. I know you know some of that type of men. Let's say in social media: girls posting in his facebook "HI :3" out from nowhere, multiple times. But not one, but many girls. The dude that has a lot of female "friends", a lot, and he acts like a fantastic friend with them. And he's a lot likeable by many men too.
So, how does he do it?
I've found traits:
-He smiles a lot.
-He is indeed likeable in many ways. ¿being himself?
-I've seen he's quite open about sharing his life, successes and failures.
So, tl;dr, how can a man become so likeable for girls that many, secretly, want more with him?
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>>18234539
The kind of guy you're talking about is generally physically attractive to begin with.
It's easy for a guy to have lots of female friends if he's nice that but if they want more than friendship he's probably a nice 8/10+
Another factor would be that some guys give out more powerful pheramones than others. There are pheramone enhancing sprays you can get that supposedly make others notice you more.
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>>18234566
Yeah, I too believe you have to be quite "physically" attractive already, but I know men that are not lower than 7 that still got it.
Also, I've heard about those sprays, though I always called bullshit. I'll find one and test if actually works.
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>>18234566
Other thing to note: he's not unattractive.
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I'm dying to ask her out even when I know she will refuse, possibly reject me or that she was fooling me the whole time.
Why is that?
Can anyone tell me why I can't seem to let her go, I know what a oneitis is, but I don't even think its what it is.
There has been no sign she doesn't like me, she is quite friendly with me but that is it, no talk no hang out, no online chat.
I mean we have seen each other for three times in a month and nothing out of the ordinary happened.
She was sitting in my contacts this whole time but I didn't text her a word in fear she wouldn't answer or because I'm afraid showing her interest might drive her far from me.
My story goes far worse than this, there are like two girls I want, even if it was just being friends I wish they would simply say yes and come with me for drinks.
But I realize that I'm so unattractive girls simply avoid me in fear I get attached to them.
My chad coworker would tell me about how he dates girls the same day he meets them.
This is pathetic.
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because her possibly rejecting you obviously isn't a factor that influences your emotions
you keep going at it until you got it
you being relentless is actually a good thing given that you aren't attractive
so what
they don't go out to drink with you
you can spend your time on someone to try and change their mind
or keep rolling until you find one that doesn't need some mental gymnastics
or understand that a relationship isn't what you want right now, or at all
or come to terms that you will have to wait and it's not worth pursuing given your situation
etc etc
a million outcomes
but you're not pathetic unless you call yourself that
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I'm having what you're having. In my case, oneitis doesn't seem interested at all, but won't actually tell me to go fuck myself either. Shold I treat this situation like map toons would?
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>>18234530
Jap*, thanks ac
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Hey /adv/, I'm looking at going back to school for another degree in a field that would allow me to continue pursuing acting, but let me eat more than table scraps and afford more than a cardboard box to live in. Any suggestions?
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>>18234455
U need a degree to become an actor? Wtf
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>>18234455
Absolutely none if it's still related to acting, it's your own fault for wasting a fuckton of money on something you could have just took a few classes instead of wasting 4 years of your life fucking shit up and not learning anything useful for yourself or society.
You should change your career and think of something you may like that is useful so you could major on that or minor if it's CS OR do a trade.
But be serious about this.
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>>18235099
not OP, but choke on a thousand cocks.
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Any tips on texting girls? I'm fine with talking in person, bit I just suck texting. The only thing I need help with. Btw just add your favorite dragon ball character for the hell of it, mine is perfect cell
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I use smiley faces.
Perfect Cell aswell my friend.
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Don't overthink and ovreranalyze things
Vegeta
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don't text and drive
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I'm afraid of becoming a monster 2017-04-18 03:28:08 Post No.18234386
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I'm afraid of becoming a monster
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I'm 18 and for the past 3 years I've had intermittent thoughts that most woudl consider disturbing. I tried to if pre them , thinking they would just subside...but they didn't . It think about it too much now. It makes me feel like a freak. Yes I have a GF who's 1 year younger than me ( I'm sure that shocks many of you ) but I'm still the same. Most of the time I want these thoughts to stop but sometimes I kinda indulge in the idea , thinking about it very in depth. I get a huge sexual release from the thought of it. I just sometimes have these bursts of little to no empathy for others , or really just disregarding others . I'll just do something that will get me in deep shit and destroy strong relationships. All in all, I'm lost right now .
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Also the terrible is grammar is cause I'm on a cell phone , I'm awful at typing . The basic idea is still there though .
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>>18234386
And you want advice with/for.....?
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I've been in therapy for awhile now and I think I've hit a wall.
I feel like there's still stuff I want to talk about but I can never get it out during sessions, I feel like I'm talking in circles. What do?
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Honestly. Just tell them you need to speak without being interrupted and say it.
You're wasting your time and you'll regret it down the road if you don't. I've been there and I'm still there.
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>>18234366
The problem isn't that I'm being talked over, the problem is no matter how much I talk I can never get to all the things I want to say.
My therapist says I need to "speak with intent" but I'm not sure how.
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>>18234663
Ur anonymous here mate tell us what it is exactly you cant talk to ur therapist about. My dad used to beat me and my brother and he would try suffocating me when i was younger, a real sick fuck. Let it out mate ull feel a lot better trust me
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>get a gf
>she ends up wanting to try anal
Every time. Why does it seem like all women want to do anal? I don't want to stick my dick in a pooper. That's pretty disgusting. Yet all women seem to want it. Why do you all seem to be so interested in anal?
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I'm not interested at all so I have no idea what you're talking about. I always figured anal was something women did to please men. That's the only reason I tried it in the first place and it was pretty bad. No idea what other women think though.
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>>18234331
They arnt, I hate it and haven't done it in like a year. I will do it if my guy really wants to but it's not something I'd ever ask for
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>>18234347
Same this exactly, it hurts
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If I have sex with a virgin, will they then expect me to be in a relationship with them, or is there a way to keep it casual?
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>>18234309
>If I have sex with a virgin, will they then expect me to be in a relationship with them
As a virgin, yea I'd fall for you. But I would've already fallen for you
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>>18234309
If the person is willing to let you be their first they already want a relationship with you
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I mean, I'm really into her, relationships just stress the shit out of me.
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Where would I go to get as many copies of Paul Blart: Mall Cop as possible? I want to give my dad a bunch for Xmas.
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>>18234291
Amazon.
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>>18234364
They want $5 a pop.
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>>18234387
Then pick a less terrible gift that will be appreciated by someone who isn't autistic.