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a shitty thread
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someone with a really shitty beard
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Looks bad, if i had pubic hair instead of a beard i'd be worried too
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me and girlfriend have been dating a year now, things started off strong. we began to fuss and bicker about 6-7 months in. recently i just had an uneasiness about her so i asked if i could see her phone. i saw that she had been talking to her ex of 4 years and a guy she had sex with twice a while back (he live out of state, but she is close with his parents) she had screenshotted their facetime (one night she was on phone with me but hung up because she was tired, and turned out she was facetiming the guy she had sex with) and been texting. we argued and i tried to cut her off but she begged and pleaded with me, so i made her block them both. but now i don't trust her. not one bit. i constantly wonder what she's doing or if she's talking to someone, when i bring it up she gets frustrated and says that i'm the only one. is this toxic? should i leave?
shes helped me a lot got me in to college and working.
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You can't have a relationship without some degree of trust.
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trust is really hard to repair but it's possible. But there also might be a reason you're struggling to believe her, a gut feeling yknow? It kinda comes down to whether you'd be happier with or without her, and making work whatever option you pick
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>>18232230
You have to sit her down, and communicate ask her why she did it, tell her how it made you feel and so on.
You're taking a risk op, she's doing this 1 year in,
Ask her 'If we've only been together a year how can I trust you 5 years into the relationship?'
Ignore how she reacts emotionally and analyze her body language, is she maintaining eye contact when she says she won't do it?
She might be lying to herself. And it'll only end up wasting your time if you lost her 3 years in.
She legit cheated on you emotionally.
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How do I deal with someone who seems determined to take their own life? My little sister, who just got back from the hospital after overdosing on antidepressants, says she no longer wants to get better, that she's given up and just wants us to let her die peacefully. No matter how many times we tell her we love her and that it'll get better in the future (she's only 14), she doesn't believe us and thinks we'll be happier without her because we have to pay so many medical bills due to her mental illness. She won't listen to any positive encouragement or any advice, and she doesn't care when we say her death would devastate the family. What can I even do to help?
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Give her a gun. She never asked to be born with mental illness, and it was cruel of your parents to create her. You would deny her the right to choose to end it now?
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>>18232188
gr8 b8 m8
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>>18232181
I assume she's seeing a shrink?
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my heart is destroyed 2017-04-17 02:05:06 Post No.18232160
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My girlfriend of 3 year split with me 7 weeks ago. told me she needed time to decide if she could do long distance anymore. for 3 years told me i was her soul mate and her everything. she wanted to marry me and have children with me. We were the only people we had ever had sex with. I was a late bloomer the only person i had ever dated, kissed with slept with etc when we started dating when i was 22. i came home to see her this week. she told me she would never do one night stands or sleep with someone else. she told me 2 weeks ago we werent getting back together. i came home to see her to try and be friends. i found out the guy she started dating she fucked on the 2nd date. she told me when i came home she wants to still be with me. at first i couldnt say yes i was too hurt. i thought about it and decided it didnt matter. I asked her to marry me. that i would do what i needed to so it wasnt long distance any more. she told me no. she loved me but she has changed already. she had been telling me that she really thinks one day we will get back together. today she told me she doesnt want to see me and she wants to date this guy she barely knows more. she then told me to leave and never speak to her again. now she knows im going to my uni city today or else i will hurt myself she is telling me she doesnt want to go and she still thinks we will always be on the cards. what do i do /adv/ ive started cutting myself because the despair and pain is too much and the physical pain hurts less. id crawl over fire and glass even after this for her. I want her i dont want anyone else. i cant eat, i cant sleep. i feel like i want to jump into traffic. she says those last 3 years she loved me more than anything but how can she have when she has moved on so quickly from me and is acting against everything she ever told me about herself, about us.
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>>18232160
I can tell you how you can get her back if you listen to me carefully.
I'll help you, but I doubt you'll listen.
What's your email, we'll be penpals.
My girlfriend split from me 6 months ago, I cut myself too but it was because I was homeless for awhile.
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>>18232168
Are you trying too hook up with op ?
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>>18232179
No, I'm still missing my girlfriend too, we were each others firsts too
She was my bestie, she wanted to be friends after the split, 100% serious about being friends.
But she was after that honeymoon feeling, the feeling you get from falling in love.
So we split up, I can relate to OP.
She has 0 feelings for me now, feelsbad.
At 7 weeks after the split I was sleeping on a floor googling helium tanks, it sucks.
The trick about a relationship is you need to give your partner that little spark of excitement or they get bored, that's where I fucked up, I think I can help OP
Any other parents, I'd love some advice. Been very frustrated with my oldest kido lately. She is 9 and has become so hard to deal with. Refuses to listen to anyone, even at school. Will not fallow directions at all. Like getting her to do anything even get dressed or brush her hair is a fight. If you ask her to do stuff she will just ignore you and refuse to do it. Just can't stand always having to tell her to do things over and over and have her not listen. She dosen't appreciate anything anyone dose for her and is really disrespectful to everyone. We didn't raise her to act like this and I am really worried about her attitude perticulaly with school and stuff. Any advice on how to help her would be very appreciated.
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It's hard for a child so young to really understand what "appreciate" even means. Certain words don't gain their full connotation until the right experience. She would probably have to lose something she really loves and can't buy another of in order to get that sense for inherent value and without that, talking isn't going to do much.
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>>18232115
Combination of carrot and stick. When she DOES do something right make sure you give her lots of praise. When she refuses to do something, take something away (TV, computer, phone, etc...)
Also sometimes peer pressure works better. If she doesn't want to brush her hair before school, just tell her that's fine and that most of her friends won't notice anyway. A few "what's the matter with your hair" from peers will get her brushing again.
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>>18232163
No she just played the victim and says other kids are being mean to her, nothing is ever her problem. She acts like everything is so unfair, like your being an ass hole by even asking her to do things in the first place. She thinks she should just be able to do what she wants all the time and that rolls don't apply to her. No matter how much we try to explain that everyone has to get dressed, or that everyone has to do homework, she thinks she's some how above having to do those things and that anyone who asks her to is just mean. She won't clean her room or do school work or even brush her teeth. It's so hard to deal with, I'm so worried about her. She's getting so behind in school they are talking about holding her back.
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She doesnt respond anymore
Should i ask her it again or should i just wait
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She doesn't want to talk to you. Move on.
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>>18232066
Unexpected answer
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>>18232067
She'll respond if she wants to, but there's no reason to message again. You didn't give a time frame. Has it been an hour or a week?
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Let's hear it /adv/. First time I'm here. Hope you're not all autists. Give me any advice on dating you think is good. Some female insight would be appreciated.
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>>18232057
Just enjoy yourself on dates and stop trying to please bitches, you betacuck.
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>>18232057
Female insight here.
Don't rush things and have fun and be yourself. Don't act like something you're not cause it will bite you in the ass later.
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Female insight here, too.
Give her the dank /b/ memes
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I'm 30. Am I done for?
>be recently single after several years
>life is in shambles
>unsure future ahead
>afraid to love ever again
Any other anons managed to come back from a lost cause at a later age?
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>>18232001
Yeah it'd easy to bounce back from this. Find somewhere where there is a need for something (such as a product or service) and become an entrepreneur to fulfill that need
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>>18232006
>Entrepreneur
You guys really need to stop using this meme word. "Entrepreneur" was the dream job of people in the 60's and 70's; it doesn't actually exist. You can't just pick up a product and start selling it anywhere. Licenses are needed for everything and getting them isn't the only part of the equation.
Tl;dr you might as well still be using the "cuck" meme
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>>18232001
You realize there is a problem in your life. That puts you ahead of most people, honestly. You're in the perfect position to plan your way out of that hole.
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>women don't need me because they have chad, tyrone, and the government (if not that they would use me as a pit stop)
>companies don't need me because they can always hire a pajeet or a kebab and i will never have exceptional skills
>etc.
How do I stop feeling like I'm worthless? Should I just embrace a selfish lifestyle?
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Get exceptional skills. I'm sorry but that's the only way.
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>>18231991
Just become an entrepreneur. Your self employed, and can't get outsourced. Most people that these companies hire are lazy and too stupid to become entrepreneurs. Also, go to church and try to meet a nice girl there who is insulated from this Chad bullshit
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>>18231995
Are you the dumb?
Skills can be had and -are- had by billions of people. "Getting skill" now just means you were too stupid/ lazy before to get it and therefore are unqualified.
Try again
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>Be 23yo virgin and decide I want to do something about it
>Become /fit/ and try very hard to be less autistic around women
>About a year later, get first gf
>This weekend we had sex for the first time
>Made her cum twice
>However I barely felt anything and didn't
In the meantime I have been deathgrip fapping to porn for as long as I can remember. Read before sometimes that could be a problem but didn't think it would be for me. I want to cum in her really bad not just for me but also because it makes her feel more desirable. Also I was losing my boner as soon as it stopped getting stimulated.
What is the fastest way I can unfuck myself? Current plan is to stop watching porn and fapping completely (but keep having sex obviously). Any ideas?
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>>18231960
Basically what you said, go nofap that's it.
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>>18231960
You don't need any of our advise.
What you said will work perfectly.
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I was in a very similar situation a few years ago, OP. In the end I just needed needed two or three times until it worked as desired. For me the problem was for one the excitement and the fear of not getting it up. But also that the stimulation when having sex is so different from watching porn.
Just stay calm and try not to force anything. Im sure the problem will solve itself after a few more times.
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I'm falling in love with a walking bag of red flags 2017-04-17 12:00:01 Post No.18231914
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I'm falling in love with a walking bag of red flags
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We went out on a partying date a couple of days ago. We had a great time, I blacked out on dat lorazepam and booze, I think we made out. It seems like she's not like the other girls tho.
I feel like she's showing excessive interest for me. She's hot, funny and intelligent, and is going pretty straight forward. She even paid for some of my drinks and shit. I don't even find myself that worthy desu. This is the part of it that worries me the most.
She has a history of getting her hair dyed. Now she rocks her natural color, but she has weared green, light blonde, red and orange, as far as I know. She occasionally does coke.
She will leave the country in September tho, so that's one less chance on getting perniciously hooked.
What should I expect? What should I do?
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>>18231914
I will never understand why ultra-normies post on here. Wow, you consumed drugs and alcohol at a party and made out with a woman. Good for you.
There is no real problem here- you're just boasting of your conquests and demanding validation from randos on 4chan.
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>>18231968
Pretty much this
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>>18231968
With all of the daily threads that get put up, why is there never a, "how many of you came here from reddit" topic, considering most norms are too stupid to lie.
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Quick question: how do you address to someone in the beginning of a formal letter?
English is not my first language, so I am not entirely sure how to proceed.
I've looked it up in Google, but almost everyone insists on using "dear Mr..." but, doesn't that "dear" make it sound like I've got some prior or close relationship to the one I'm writing?
Forgive me for asking the dumb questions, I just want to make sure.
Pic unrelated.
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By the way, is "Greetings" an appropiate way to start a formal text?
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"to whom it may concern" if your interested in coming off as a douche
"Greetings" always works (Germans like that one the most)
"Dear, insert name" not "dear Mr" that shit sounds weird.
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>>18231974
Thank you so much, anon!
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My mum sleeps around, now i'm a fag 2017-04-17 11:49:41 Post No.18231889
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My mum sleeps around, now i'm a fag
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so I have always been attracted to females and all of a sudden my mum started fucking a bunch of guys, she would bring them home and I could hear them fucking in the room next door. one time I was getting a drink of water and she came out the bathroom naked. I cant think about girls without picturing that. These events have caused me to be attracted to men, what the fuck do I do?
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>>18231889
>my mummy is straight
>it made me gay
What kind of advice are you looking for here?
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>>18231889
you see a therapist. you can rationalise your mom's behaviour, but you need to get over your feelings of betrayal and forgive/accept your mother. Good luck anon
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Low quality sir.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-04-17 11:49:00 Post No.18231887
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>*NEW* How do I ask a friend out without it being awkward, ruining our friendship or putting them on the spot?
You don't. Ask them out or don't ask them out, it's up to you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, and fart guy
Fuck off
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First
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Guys
I have been overweight all of my life so I've had no experience with men (obviously) until recently I have dropped 50 lbs. Last night I was at a wedding and there were 2 guys that kept looking at me every time I saw them they were looking. Does this mean they were checking me out?
Because if they were then that's a big motivator for me to lose even more.
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>>18231906
Everyone wants to believe they are being checked out, but 99% of the time they aren't. If you have a pig face they could have been making fun of you. Or they could have been looking at someone neat you. Get over yourself you stupid bitch
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So today I toke the train and got stared by a cutie in her late teens (16-17yo) who was standing just next to her mother.
I'm 25 so staring at a highschool girl was very hard to do at first, and talking to her was out of the equation...
But as we kept exchanging glances I got more and more relaxed.
I started to look not only at her face, but at her tits and legs as well, and that didn't seem to piss her off.
In the end I winked at her once, and that made her smile (which confused her mother btw).
At this point, I got really excited, but what the fuck was I supposed to do considering her mother was with her ?
There was no way to make this work. I kept exchanging glances with her for 5 more minutes, and in the end, just stopped it and toke a book out of my bag. Fucking shit.
It's not the first time this shit happens to me, girl staring at you but staying in their friends / family group ...
How the fuck are you supposed to approach them in such conditions ?
Are these girls just provoking you ?
Do you think that's possible to hit on a girl with her friends or mother next by ?
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>>18231877
no anon. you don't hit on a teenage girl especially when her mother's next to her. and after you're done with not hitting on her you definitely don't feel regret over it. you're 25. you need to get better.
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>>18231918
One one hand I understand your message, on the other, I wonder...
When I was 16yo, if a 25yo girl I found attractive offered me a blowjob, or a relationship, I would be like, fuck yeah...
What makes a girl different ?
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>>18231929
sexual cravings are normal both for 16yo girls and 16yo boys. What is deviant is for the 25yo girl and boy to give into them and furthermore cry over not giving into them and lament their inaction on a Japanese seed drilling website.