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get a job, build a career, move out, become independent. Then you can marry whoever you want.

>>18235331
Part of usa culture is to be disrespective to your parents.

We call it ironically land of the freedom, where
>you can get shot from legal weapon from drug addict
>get held indefinitelly in prison by forgetting password to your computer
>die of untreated illness because no health insurance
>mulitate dicks of babies for fun
>get into huge bet while studying crap uni
>swallow andidepresivants and addreal like candy from age 5
but you can also do whatever you want.

If you dont like indian boys, just date somebody else. Find some white dude and live with him.

Ask your dad about his reasons. If he is racists, call him racists and ask him why he hasnt stayed in his original country to "preserve" his race.

Tldr just do this
>>18235331

Why is it you don't like Indian men?

>>18235325
She dislikes you because you show weakness in her eyes. You need to just stop talking to her, stop talking about her and quit acting like a bitch.

You wanna impress her, move on and talk to other people. Build up a repertoire with a lot of people around you to the point where everyone knows your name. And find a woman you feel is right.

Don't be a bitch

>>18235335
I've completely given up that road in my life is closed forever but thanks.

>>18235340
Then why are you posting? If you already given up, then what are you looking for here?

Are you an Athiest or a Believer?

>>18235422
I just don't care about god. If he exists fine, if he doesn't fine too. That makes me agnostic right?

Get a gf

Move on brotha, life can be a bitch sometimes, but that doesn't mean you should become one.

>>18235291
I think you should feel glad you can new move on and find a new gf and she won't be butthurt since she's clearly moved on

>>18235291
Stop thinking, talking, seeing your ex and forbid your friends to tell you ANYTHING about your ex.

She doesnt exist anymore.

STOP THINKING ABOUT IT.

Next time just say:
>OK

Yeah I know life can be scary, but sometimes you need to stop acting like a total bitch.

I was just too scared to tell her yes.

>>18235250
>My crush asked me out. I said no.
>The girl I want to go out with asked me to go out with her. I said no.
Yes, you fucked up.
But you can still save it if you play it right.

Are you sure you aren't the guy from a few days ago asking how to do taxes?

File an extension, not fucked atall

>>18235245
worst that can happen is a small fine and or jail time
you're fine

Nothing wrong with it. Go for it.

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No not at all. When I was 20 I went out with someone that was 31.

>>18235239
>Is it inherently weird
This is more than normal, even expected some decades ago... Fuck this generation

>>18235234
>text her something like
"damn it's lonely without you here, how's the new building?"
>then try to spark up a conversation that leads to maybe weekend plans or something

>>18236636
Dogshit advice as usual 4chan. Don't bother OP, it's over. Massive amounts of studies have been conducted about how relationships form and thrive, and one of the prerequisites is physical proximity. The reduced physical proximity is unlikely to make the relationship form, so you'll be wasting your time. It's one of the reasons online dating is so bad at forming actual relationships as opposed to hookups

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>>18236647
This. Can't you see that they were in close proximity and now that they aren't he can use the lack of proximity to make a move?

Try focusing on your breathing, try meditation.

>>18235220
Are you on some pills?
Do you fap too much?
Do you have troubles with your girl?
Is your gf even attractive for you?
Adopting some kinky play in bed?
Do you even enjoy sex?
Is she starfish?

>>18235226
>Are you on some pills?
No im not takig any medications.
>Do you fap too much?
I fapped frecuently in the past now is not as frecuent 1 pr 2 per week but It happens even when i have days with out fapping.
>Do you have troubles with your girl?
I have somethings that im not confortable with but those are not the kind of things i think while we fuck.
>Is your gf even attractive for you?
Yeah she is attractive to me, just seen her naked give me a boner.
>Adopting some kinky play in bed?
We do some kinky stuff but they are pretty normal for me.
>Do you even enjoy sex?
Yeah i enjoy it even when i domt cum what in the past was pretty common (that i didnt cum) but now must of the time we fuck i cum.
>Is she starfish?
What??
>>18235226

Talk to girls until you stop feeling awkward about it. Not looking in her eyes when you talk is actually more creepy, so try to make eye contact when you're talking around 2/3 of the time

>>18235216
I talk to girls all the time.

But whenever one fits right in as a possible sm I just get awkward.

>>18235233
Stop putting girls that you're attracted to on a pedestal then

I heard tea tree oil is good for it. Try making an egg white mud mask, with lemon juice, then do that.

>>18235202
Thanks dude I'll give it a shot

>>18235205
Make sure to water the tea tree oil down, apparently you can make the acne worse if it dries out your skin.

I don't have acne, I just try to use natural stuff for skin care.

>>18235159
>wrong

What do you mean by this?

>>18235164
If it's something I should feel sad about, or responsible for.

>>18235170
If you're dead, what does it matter?

Do what you're gonna do.

>>18235148
Don't worry, there are women with the same fantasies. It's actually more common than you'd think. As long as you don't actually rape anyone, you're fine.

>>18235148
You have most likely sub/dom fetish. You like the part about having power over the girl, how she is defenceless, how is she immobilized?

That is pretty average fetish. Like when girl wants to call you daddy. Just tell any girl beforehand that you like to pretend that you are in charge (which they love) and you want them to "struggle" a bit. Implement safe word to prevent real rape.

As with the
>cant be in room with a woman
sounds like some inexperience or insecurity. Write something about your life, age, what have you tried to snatch some qties and why do you fear them.

>>18235148

So, basically you're so scared of women you can't even stay in the same room and yet you wonder why you mainly get turned on when they're tied up? It controls your fear, dummy. They seem less threatening and intimidating to you when they can do nothing, so of course your desperate little mind would attach itself to porn like that. Sorta like anyone would run from a tiger in the wild, but feel safe to stare at it and admire it when it's in a zoo behind bars. That's how your mind had come to view women.

filters

>>18235119
By looking confident
Confidence is sexy as heck

>>18235119
Build it through sports and/or the gym

Improve your confidence. Or imagine they're guys.

Grab 'em by the pussy.

Start by uttering words in their prescence.