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Hey /adv/. I'm 19 and I can't grow a beard. 2 weeks in and I have a cheesy moustache, gay sideburns, and some chin hair, with almost nothing to connect the three. Brother and dad have both had pretty damn good beards since they were 17. I don't have chest hair, but I have a good amount of leg hair and a ridiculous amount of ballfro. I have a pretty good diet, have high testosterone, and exercise a decent amount.
I've read that lavender oil helps, so I just started using that today. I need some good tips for beard growing.
Pic related. It's what I use.
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>>18385840
Rogaine.
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>>18385840
some people can't grow beards dude
I can't stop growing one
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Hope you're not putting that shit straight on your face
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>me, last night
>go out, get somewhat drunk
>decide to go hit on some girls
>see 3 tourist-looking girls sitting on the floor
>as i come closer and prepaare to say hi, ont of the girls gives me the middle finger
>shouts at me and acts like i just killed her mother
>i ask "are you mentally ill?"
>notice she's actually crying her eyes out
>other girl gets up and starts touching my head very angrily, in broken english says "you are mentally ill, her mother just died"
>say the first thing that comes to my mind
>"I dont care, that's not my problem"
I have been feeling guilty about this the whole day, I think this is probably the most sociopathinc thing i've ever said. how do i deal with this feel?
i guess you guys could also post things you feel guilty of here
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>>18385830
It was a mistake. She will move past it. This was a learning experience, and you'll probably avoid being an asshole like that in the future
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>>18385830
There's no way you could have known her mother had just died, and walking around everyone on egg-shells is no way to live. Showing some kindness and apologizing would have been better, but you were drunk and spoke plainly. They also shouldn't have provoked you by being rude. It happens. Be kinder next time.
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>acts like i just killed her mother
>"her mother just died"
top kek
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What are some part-time jobs that are in the evening/weekends that allow time for studying/doing homework? Just looking to be more efficient and make more money.
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Night stocker at a grocery store, maybe?
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Anything in a supermarket.
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>>18385746
You could try to look for a job in coat check. All you do in summer is just sit around, taking in the occasional bag. I'm just derping now at work
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I've recently met this guy and we have become acquaintances, almost friends
I noticed that he often tells me really personal things he never tells anyone else and he said that he trusts me more than once. Does it mean anything like, in a romantic sense?
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>>18385743
Are you a chick or a guy? If you're a chick, yes.
If you're a guy, probably not. You probably have an understanding and non-judgemental personality. You ask the right questions to get people to open up.
If he gives you dream boat eyes though, he wants to put his benis in your putthole
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>>18385761
Oh, I'm a girl and he is a guy...
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>>18385781
probably. almost definitely. however sometimes guys just throw trust at women more because despite them being gossipy bitches we seek women for comfort. even sex is 'comfort' really. no matter how mysognistic any man is, we will go to our designated woman for comfort.
so we see women and trust them easily because they seem so nice and charming and trustworthy and comforting.
also the chicks we know dont talk to the dudes we know, so unless you're directly in his community (like in a class where he has lots of friendsa nd tries to date around) he doesn't have to worry about it leaking anywhere.
but he probably likes you
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How to find a partner who won't cheat on me? Can you even identify people like that with any observable characteristics? Or is it a pointless endeavour
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Look for someone who has no prospects of cheating even if they wanted to. Some quiet, awkward guy/gal who has trouble even finding someone to cheat on.
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>>18385707
You should search for a religious virgin, and DONT bring them to a western country
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to both questions: I dont know. sorry
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Depression fucking sucks anon.
How does one deal with it when the meds aren't working?
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>>18385697
1. exercise, proper diet, good quality sleep, lower drug and alcohol intake. Stick to it or it wont work.
2. Stop giving a fuck (that helped me a ton)
3. find a hobby or passion that is difficult. When you produce results from it it is rewarding and makes you happy. again stick with it, or it wont work
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http://slatestarcodex.com/2014/06/16/things-that-sometimes-help-if-youre-depressed/
Look into this. There's a lot of other options if your meds aren't working or aren't working well enough.
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Stop relying on meds and tell me what's your problem.
t. a person that suffered from depression for over 10 years and managed to finally fight it off
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How do I become the taller? I'm 18 and I'm 5"1 so I'm super short and I don't like it ): picture related of me in a gym bathroom and not even reaching the mirror--
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High heels
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you cant. Most you can do is stretching every day, but it won't add a significant amount to your height.
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What the fuck is wrong with grammar on this board? Accept your situation and do what the fuck you can with yourself
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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>>18385654
spotty polka dot panties kinda turn me on for some reason.
Would it be weird if I bought some for my gf?
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>>18385778
Not really. Just make sure they're the right size. And don't expect her to wear them super often if she doesn't like them. Everyone's got their own thing but I'm glad my guy's not into polka dots lol
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>>18385785
It is not about the panties, but more about what is inside of them.
Ladies, do squats every 2nd day.
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How are people able to figure out you're a virgin even when you don't tell them? It's like they smell it or some shit.
I dress normally, I have good hygiene, I'm not overweight, I'm not a social butterfly but I don't act like a fucking sperg either.
Yet people seem to know. I was talking to a girl (who knows I'm not into her) a few weeks ago and she told me it was pretty obvious I was a virgin; I asked her why and she answered something like "you're unassertive" or whatever.
How do they do it?
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I don't know what it is, but you just get a vibe. There are tiny clues that add up. You can usually tell when someone is inexperienced or otherwise uncomfortable with sex too. It's usually not a definite thing, it's more of a "if I had to guess, I'd guess that Anon is a virgin" rather than "Anon is definitely a virgin"
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>>18385624
Fuck. How do I get rid of that vibe?
inb4 have sex
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>>18385618
You may also display lack of knowledge/experience without knowing it. Think of a bunch of friends talking about sex and someone chipping in to say "What's foreplay/a blowjob/anal/some other thing?", but on a much less blatant level.
You may not exactly be doing that yourself, though. Just going by my own personal experience.
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Throughout my life I have envisioned possible scenarios/conversations inside my head and would reply to them out loud or go through the different scenarios and think about what I would do in each one. Is this autistic or schizophrenic?
Also, sometimes I'll get irked by looking at someone and will imagine they were incredibly rude to me and I get incredibly angry and imagine beating them unconscious and stomping their face in. I have to pace around the room and breathe heavily to calm myself down even though the scenario has never happened. What's wrong with me?
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I forgot to mention the people I was talking about usually look like they would be rude people. And the imagining of the violent situations have really gotten more frequent in I'd say about the last year.
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It happens weekly if I'm being honest
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I feel the need to further divulge that growing up I never really had these violent thoughts but I also was bullied quite a bit. I learned to just laugh it off and sometimes I could make the people who made fun of me laugh really hard but I feel like the holding in of anger has really fucked me up mentally. The problem is there really seems to be now way of "letting it out", each situation of people bullying me in my past or people of recent times just being plain rude to me just really stick inside my head. I lifted weights but it didn't really help, it actually just worsened it, the scenarios became more frequent and violent. I'm kind of worried one day I might just snap over something incredibly trivial and land myself behind bars.
What do /adv/?
>inb4 something that requires money
I can't afford meds or therapy desu
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>still a virgin because of ED
18, going on 19 and can barely penetrate my girlfriend (an inch) because I'm not hard enough
what do I do? I'm about to be 19 in a month and my 7 inch penis is holding me back. I tried not masturbating for 3 days so far. longest I went was 13 days. Apparently 1 inch sex doesn't count.
Am I doomed to be a 19 year old virgin????
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>>18385493
Do you watch porn all the time? That can cause ED.
Otherwise, talk to your doctor, they have pills for that
also the usual stuff, eat better, get more exercise and quality sleep
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>>18385497
yeah at least once, even when I'm posting pictures. plus I need to scroll past porn in my phone gallery. I tried deleting a lot and blocking porn sites, but I still see it
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>>18385497
forgot to mention I'm trying to finish in a month. plus I mistakenly called my doctor at his house to ask for advice on my bent penis and he seemed annoyed. I don't think he likes me.
I need to somehow have sex before I turn 19 or else I'm losing it
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I need love advice...I'm losing it 2017-06-04 09:34:42 Post No.18385483
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I need love advice...I'm losing it
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I love my partner so much that it hurts a lot...
But I can't stand the lack of communication between us recently.
We've been dating 2 years already, and we've change our attitude along the time (very common: we trust each other more now, have confidence in sex, etc). Although it's fine and I appreciate it, I miss the old times where he will pass all the day long talking with me (we used to talk a lot about every kind of topic, politics, social media, series, films, music...). Now we only talk when we see each other (we don't live together yet, so I can only meet him a few times during the week).
I feel so bad...he even would never ask me how's my day going or show any interest in how I am...
I always end asking him first, taking the initiative or we wouldn't talk in days (the worst part is that he doesn't ask me in response, like he doesn't care at all)...
I don't want break our relationship...really
I love him with all my heart, and that's why I'm suffering so much...
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>>18385483
When did you two start dating?
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>>18385524
We were studying at university, back 2 years.
He's 3 years older than me and he's now searching for a job....I'm still studying though...
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This shit happens always
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Am i a shitty friend? 2017-06-04 09:15:06 Post No.18385401
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One of my best friends who i met two years ago was dating this girl
Long story short, they arent dating anymore
But this girl and i are extremely good friends and i was her vent everytime she needed to get some shit off of her mind (Love this dude to death but he isnt a very good boyfriend so her and i talked alot)
Her and i also developed feelings for eachother and have been fooling around sexually behind his back
He says he has moved on from her but i dont know if he really has, i can read him pretty easily
Does this make me a shitty friend by fooling around with this girl?
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>>18385401
Sure does
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>>18385401
I dunno, how long has it been?
Its not like your friend owns her, they aren't together.
If its been like a week, then maybe your shitty, if its been a year, then whatever, stop being a pussy, stop hiding your actions, and go bang your new gf
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>>18385412
He knows about it though and has told me that its okay.
She and i dont mess around anymore being this was a couple months ago, if thats any consolation.
Not to mention he was sneaking around with an ex of mine as well.
Neither of us are upset at eachother
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This all happened within the span of a week
>Hooked up (no sex tho, womp womp)
>was texting with girl and everything going great, because she responds fast
>says we will meet again today at 5 since she cant make it last night, which is ok since I am out and about with the dudes anyways
>text her at 4:25
>imessage does not say "delivered" underneath (which implies being blocked)
>next thing I know I got deleted off snapchat, bumble etc.
Fucking ghosted.
I need to cope, i am shook rn.
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BUMP
pls tell me how to make the pain stop
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>>18385441
It sucks man but all I can say is that it will get better man it always will. If you can hook up with one girl I'm sure you can find another.
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>>18385469
I am now regretting the fact that we didnt have sex right then and there! I was at her bedroom!
Me, a stranger from tinder at her bedroom!
Well because she keeps stopping me and Im really not into rape, but still.
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tl;dr: I cheated, confessed right after, I was forgiven, relationship is back on track but I still feel overwhelming sense of guilt. How to overcome it?
Long story:
Me and my girl are our first sexual partners. Were 26 and we've been together for almost 7 years now, we're engaged, planning wedding for next year.
Two month ago I was drinking with my friend, we've met girls we knew from back when we were students. Long story short, I've ended up in bed with one of the girls.
I regretted this terribly (honestly I've never thought it's going to affect me so much).
I decided I cannot lie to my girlfriend, since we were always honest with each other, so I confessed what I did. I told her that despite I want to fight for the relationship, I'll understand if she decides to leave. She asked me to move out (andI did), but after a week she called me and said that she wants to try again.
Things between us are good since then, actually our relationship works as if nothing happened... but the problem is I still feel guilty over what I did. I think of my infidelity every day and it keeps comming back to me every time I'm having a good time with my girlfriend. I've talked with her about it and she says that she sometimes thinks about it too, but not as much as me.
Question is, how can I handle the feeling of guilt? I know I'll have to live with it for the rest of my life, but ffs, I can't focus on anything else lately, every time I feel happiness my brain is like 'that's nice, but you're still worthless piece of trash'. Sometimes I think that the only way I could feel relief is to break up with my gf, but I love her, I've never wanted to be with anyone else.
Pieces of advice from older anons who's been in similar situation would be greatly appreciated.
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>>18385114
It's called being a male hoe. It's at the early cycle so give it some time. After you run through a couple of bitches you should have the hang of it. Try recording some of these for me please ?
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>>18385114
If you were raised Catholic then go to confession. If you were raised some other way I don't know how they deal with guilt but do that.
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>>18385132
I was raised Catholic, but I've always thought going to confession was an artificial way to deal with guilt, like you're just tricking yourself that what you did doesn't matter anymore.