18 with ED

>>18385493
Do you watch porn all the time? That can cause ED.

Otherwise, talk to your doctor, they have pills for that

also the usual stuff, eat better, get more exercise and quality sleep

>>18385497
yeah at least once, even when I'm posting pictures. plus I need to scroll past porn in my phone gallery. I tried deleting a lot and blocking porn sites, but I still see it

>>18385497
forgot to mention I'm trying to finish in a month. plus I mistakenly called my doctor at his house to ask for advice on my bent penis and he seemed annoyed. I don't think he likes me.
I need to somehow have sex before I turn 19 or else I'm losing it

>>18385506
it takes time for that effect to go away.
basically, you are desensitized mentally and physically at this point so your dick doesn't care anymore.

Stop looking at porn and jerking off. Try more foreplay with your GF, make her wet, get good at licking her clit.

Get more exercise, improve your diet.. lower alcohol and drug intake if thats a thing.

your problem will go away, but it could take a week to a few months depending on how severe

>>18385519
>turn
stress and anxiety are also boner killers

you gotta chill out dude, sex isn't that big of a deal.
I lost my virginity at 18 and I was hammered when it happened, the sex sucked and only then I realized I was making a big deal out of nothing

>>18385493
>3 days
try a week. even better, go nofap if possible

>>18385493
A lot of this can be stress induced and you sound like your panicked. Stop pressuring yourself with stupid arbitrary deadlines like age. Relax and chill the fuck out. As the other anons said take it slow and work with your gf. Stop fapping and no porn.

>>18385552
>>18385528
you think I should fap to her nudes? I used to be extremely horny for her on high school, but ever since we saw each other less during a temporary break up I masturbated more. maybe I need to be in her presence more as well? if fappjng to her nudes is OK id do it
>>18385534
you're right, when I brought her to my house and got her panties off, I was stressed by my little brother making a big deal out of it and constantly making his presence known (I tried to do it on the bathroom but found no good position. he then blasted undertale music to bother us until we came out, which I already was doing)
>>18385528
I tried jogging fir a few months but fell off that routine in late may. I used to do it daily from match to may. nowadays I do mild weight lifting at my house. I also drink no juice or soda anymore, mostly chocolate milk
>>18385537
yeah I went a week so couple of times, but when I tried to so it SHE wasn't comfortable doing it in the men's bathroom (I don't blame her). I think me and her are a living punchline for a comedy cartoon

>>18385534
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wait hold up you were raped????

>>18385891
no, i just had sloppy drunk sex as my first time

>>18385493

You're just nervous and anxious about performing correctly, which is in turn killing your performance.

Have fun thinking about sex and making her feel good, not "I NEED A HARD DICK TO MAKE HER HAPPY NGNNRNNTGRRGGGHHHH" because all that concentration on trying to stay hard keeps you from anything arousing that'll actually keep you hard.

>>18385821
No, don't fap at all until this problem is well under control

Don't put so much pressure on yourself

Get back into your exercise routine, do more than jogging, do body weight and core exercises too. Its a difficult life change, but will help. Stick to it

Go camping, or get a hotel, or take opportunities when you have your place or hers to yourselves to have sexy time. Just don't force it, and don't forget to really use foreplay, it'll be good for both of you. Massage her, kiss her, play with her clit, let her suck you, then you should be good to go

>>18385905
hmm you might be right.
>>18385908
yeah I'll do that, I'll do my weight lifting as well and try doing my cardiovascular bike tonight.
but if all else fails, should I look at porn on my phone as I penetrate? because I really lose my boner before I penetrate. my dick was lucky the one time I went an Inch, although that time we were trying in the freezing cold at prospect park

>>18386085
No don't watch porn while you penetrate

I think your issue is over thinking it and worrying about it.

talk to your gf about it, take it slow, lots of foreplay, maybe dirty talk would help, maybe her tieing you up and blind folding you, then playing with you as she wants... then penetration just happens when you're hard.

this mostly sounds like your issue is in your head.
you gotta relax and communicate this with your gf

supplement zinc

>>18386124
all that is true and good, one thing I can't do is dirty tall while blindfolded lmao but I might see and try that

>>18386085
stop fapping for a week. If she wants sex during this period feel free to try but really, no porn or fap for several weeks until your problem diminishes.
also relax, pressuring yourself during sex exacerbates the issue and is a huge mood killer for your benis.

>>18386124
Still get morning wood?

>>18387102
I'm on day 4, wish me luck lads
also she sent me a bra pic which hot me hard (but the boner wasn't maintained for long. maybe it's my mind. my kind is used to jumping to different pics and videos in porn)

>>18388154
Keep it up! I believe in you.

>>18385821
This whole thing sounds like a disaster. No wonder you can't get hard. Trying to fuck in a bathroom with a little brother outside blasting music, trying a men's bathroom, fapping to her picture, STOP THE MADNESS!
As another anon said, you need some romantic time together and don't even plan to fuck. Explore each other's bodies and get to know each other sexually in some secluded quiet place with nobody around. Kiss and arouse each other maybe even masturbate each other till you know what turns each other on. Then after you do this a few times without planning it go for it.

>>18388169
yeah ever since she went to college I've saw her less since March. I might see her today. when I saw her everyday I cukdbt stay off her