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Where do I find girls online who are:
1. single
2. at least remotely interested in video games
3. interested in 3D men
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>>18376364
well theyre not gonna be into paradox games
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Conventions.
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>>18376381
We don't really have this kind of conventions in my country. The conventions here are events where people go to look for a job.

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Ahhh hell
Got rejected a week ago and I still feel like shit. No energy to do anything. No appetite.
Not like this is the first time, but it feels like the hardest. I got on really well with this girl and was pretty sure she liked me too. It's different to past times, I'm sure. It's genuine affection I have for her rather than infatuation. I got caught up imagining how things would go between us. She said she just liked me as a friend. I mean I know I think this every time, but I don't know I could ever meet someone like her again.
I feel I've been utterly defeated. I don't know what to do anymore. I realise I like to think there's always some way to get things to work out the way I wanted. Acknowledging there's nothing I can do now is hard. I've got the idea in my mind of improving myself whatever way I can and trying again in roughly a year's time. But realistically what are the odds of that happening? It's just a coping mechanism.

I had a talk with her a few days ago. She said disappointingly little; it was mostly me telling her what's been going on in my mind. It was good of her to be willing to talk to me like that but I can't say it helped much in any way.

Fuck, I don't even have anything to ask. I don't know what I want - I wish someone could tell me the secret trick to making everything better but I'm well aware there's no such thing.
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>>18376324
https://youtu.be/uBxvNNiv-zo

Hang in their pal
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>>18376324
You're in the friendzone. Take her out of your life and move on. There are other fish in the sea.

Not saying it doesn't suck or it isn't hard but you do no good for yourself if you don't move on.
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>>18376324
I was in this not too long ago and let myself tread those shitty waters for a while, too. It took me months to really get over the girl because like you I thought I had something really, really good going with her and thought we clicked perfectly everywhere, spent a lot of time together, blah blah blah.

Obviously there is no magic pill you can take or sentence you can read that'll make that uncomfortable, anxious feeling going away. Your life will still keep going by one day at a time soon enough you'll realize you care less about it and soon it was just something that happened to you, something you can look back on and remember what went right and what went wrong without feeling anything really about it.

Telling her what's going on in your mind wasn't something I got to do with the one I lost because she moved soon after and I wanted to do it face to face and part of me really regretted not getting that time. It doesn't really matter though, she gets it, obviously, she has liked guys who didn't like her back too I'm sure. You can't "reason" with her into feeling something towards you, anon. In a year maybe you'll be more fit, have a better haircut, and a better sense of style, but that probably won't change her mind. You told her how you feel, she didn't go for it, that's probably over now. Being "just friends" with her now will always feel wrong because you both know that it's not a balanced relationship.

Maybe don't burn that bridge but definitely find a new one. She's not for you, sadly, anon. And god do I know how much that sucks.

Hey.. i'm a guy, 23yo, virgin.

I found a girl, she is nice, very horny, i made lots of sex on camera, but this girl is special. she want me to dominate her. beat her. i mean making my little slave is something she want.

But she is ugly. so ugly because of that she is 20yo and still virgin. and very fat. i have pictures of her, maybe i'll put.

I don't know what to do. maybe you guys understand, i care about my virginity. i don't know... fucking her so easy right now. she is not with me right here but she is in a close city. maybe i can fuck her in this weekend. but i still don't know...

Help me guys...
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Don't do it. There are better submissive girls out there and sex is most fun if there is a bit of romance and love tingling
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>>18376298
i know. that's a good reason. there is always hope. right ??
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>>18376270
Are you ugly? If not, don't fuck ugly fat hoes. It won't be that big a deal if you lose your virginity to a fat ugly bitch, but you might regret it. Virginity isn't really special or important for dudes imo, but if it's someone you can actually be proud of bagging I guess it will be a bit better inherently.
But yeah, you don't have to fuck fat ugly bitches if you are at all attractive, just try harder, be less of a coward, stick your neck out with bad bitches.

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>Girl at work seems interested in me.
>Never make a move due to several reasons, mainly being a faggot.
>However since we rarely see each other due to our shifts never coincide I never get the chance to sperg her out of being interested in me.
>Today she comes and asks me to allow her in because she forgot her house's keys inside her office.
>Later sends a text thanking me and asks me to not tell anyone because we are not supossed to be at the office after our shift.
>I tell her I need payment for my silence.
>What do you want for your silence?
What do I answer?

Pic related, I'm a chihuahua.
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Nothing romantically forward or sexual, because that's more than likely to go horribly wrong and you'll probably come across as a creep.
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>>18376272
I'l thinking on replying with "a beer" but I can't stop considering the chance that she might walk up to my office, put a beer on my desk and walk away.
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Fuck it, I said "a pink unicorn with a rainbow mane" because I couldn't think of anything, wasn't expecting her to ask me what I wanted, I just tought she's offer something like a clip or shit like that.

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It's 3:30 am and I'm in the back of my car. Both of the guys I invited are getting laid. I haven't had sex in 5 months. I'm not close friends with anyone. I'm surrounded by frat culture. I don't know the music, I don't know the references, I don't know the inside jokes they have. I'm incapable of being normal and immediately get outshone by the people I'm around. The girl that invited me began ignoring me in a small apartment with only feet between us. I'm embarrassed and ashamed that I couldn't even have a good time with the guys. I'm lonely and closed off. I don't know what I'm asking. How can I fix years of not socializing? How could I ever learn the cues and social rules they know? How can I ever learn how to be one of the boys without knowing the sports, the games, the music, and things they like? I'm 21 and I've missed so many things. I just want to be normal but I don't know how. I don't fit into nerd culture, nor frat culture. I'm some sort of middle freak that doesn't get along with anyone. I'm self concious and I know I'm awkward. I just wish I could change myself to fit in better.
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Sounds like a case of the aspergers
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>>18376232
>5 months
Wew lad
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>>18376232
Make new friends with whom you do share tastes and cultural references. They're out there somewhere.

Given your tastes,where would you like to hang out? Other people like you are likely to be there. Meet them.

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So I've never really had a strong influence on how a person's race affects how I perceive them as a person, but lately I have been browsing /pol/ and have started hating whites more.

Like I feel threatened, or some form of tension forms when I see whites, and this has never happened before. My best friend is white, and his parents are very close with ours and our families, since we have been neighbors for many years, in fact many of my neighbors are also white and we are close and have lots of potlucks and meetings together, but lately I have been feeling a deep resentment for white people, something I haven't been able to quell.

I keep thinking that some of them are bad mouthing me, even when I haven't had a conversation with them, I've noticed (or maybe I'm imagining) that white people (like from people who walk by me or just random strangers) have been giving me sterner looks and it's just annoying because they haven't said anything and it must be my imagination. I'm getting more anxiety and its seriously starting to piss me off, because I know its not true.

I prefer not to disclose my own race, and I am not black.
How do I get over this?
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>>18376080
Most people of any race are selfish assholes, and/or stupid. In a region with a large white population you're going to run into plenty of uptight people, I wouldn't blame it on the race. There are probably nicer whites out there than the ones in your immediate vicinity.
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>>18376080
This is what a lot of white people feel like when they read the news. Essentially you have been enjoying a form of racial privilege that you have to go to fucking /pol/ of all places to experience this feeling.

So in a sense I sympathise, but in another I do not. Because we're all expected to leave these feelings at the door. But how do you think I feel when people tell me to "learn to live with it" after the nth terrorist attacked linked directly to Islamic immigration? How do you think I feel when my mother and sister are intimidated by Muslims, and politicians pointedly ignore it? How every year, at the start of Ramadan, we have a spate of vandalism and assaults? How some people are openly racist, to the point of wishing us all dead, with zero pushback while white people get arrested for cracking jokes or voicing political opinions?

Maybe you just had your bubble burst, that you can no longer live with the idea that everything is fine and dandy in society. Well, it isn't. Some of those people giving you looks are definitely racist. But they probably became like that in exactly the same way you're doing now.

How you get over it? Well, look at /pol/. Those people didn't. Is that what you want for yourself?
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>>18376080
Why you skin deep anon?

Seek Jesus and know that people will post anonymously about race and sex/gender with complete disregard for anyone else because prejudice is what we are at the core of our human nature. Seek Christ, my anon, and don't be skin deep.

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I was BANNED from my local super smash bros melee scene. They use the local community college to host this and TOLD ME BY EMAIL IF I CAME THERE THEY WOULD NOT ALLOW ME IN. This was out of nowhere so I immediately called the TO, who told me why. He said it was because I was frequently toxic and angry. He said that I yell at players and make them uncomfortable and scared, and that a girl quit because of me. While I DO sometimes get frustrated and vocalize it, so do many other people I am simply being discriminated against my voice is naturally deeper than most. also the truth is a girl never quit that is a complete lie, she was just butthurt that she was worst than everyone there. I'm so fucking irate. I've been a member of this community FOR YEARS and just now I'm a nuisance? I am entitled to a certain level of RESPECT for being a veteran player. I'm looking into finding a lawyer who get me unbanned. There MUST be a law that prevents people from arbitrarily banning others from certain locations without written documents proving it (the TO just SAID I was banned he did not provide any evidence.) The TO isn't rich or anything so I don't think I would have to ask a lot from him, I think he'd break under just pressure of lawsuit.
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>>18376000
How old are you?
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My advice is to go get an official autism diagnosis from a medical professional
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this is a pasta

sage

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Hey guys is there anyone on here who would be willing to send a broke college student some money so he can afford his security deposit and rent?

Preface:
I have 2 jobs and I had all the money I needed for rent and the security deposit on my new place but one of roommates dropped out last minute so the rest of us have to pay more for the deposit and rent. I only need like $100 and I will be able to pay you back in about 2 weeks.

You can add me on kik bballlvr23 if you want to know anything specific. My venmo is awall29.

I hate begging online but I don't have any other options.
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Self bump out of desperation
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Ask ur parents or a friend or get a payday loan or suck a dick in a gas station parking lot or sell something you own
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>>18375895
I'm pretty much out here by myself and I don't anything. Honestly I might have to do something like that because honestly I'm pretty desperate

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I tried via Craig'slist but its not working. I rather be with some older woman, idc if she's 50 something.
>22 years old
My game is poor, bit on the shorter side and I'm basic as fuck. Why not get with someone as lonely and I need of sex as me?
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Hook up with 18-20 year olds instead and use your ability to buy alcohol to get laid
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My game may be poor but I'm tired of getting flaked last minute for dates, rejected and simply lied to.
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>>18375742
Young girls dont want me man. I'd be happy with basic missionary and hear the old broad telling me bout her life, family and past.

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Would you be okay to let your s/o go out to the movies or hang out with the opposite sex alone ?
My bf of one year went to the movies recently with a girl that was in the same HS as me and they have just started talking he said , claiming that they only went as friends but he mentioned that he think the girl likes him and yet still went with her and only told me after it happened.
I felt a little disrespected because that would be considered a date and I feel stupid letting that happen
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>>18375646
>Would you be okay to let your s/o go out to the movies or hang out with the opposite sex alone ?
yeah, no.
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>>18375646
No
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>>18375646

he's an asshole...
if for no other reason than putting you in the position of never knowing what happened between them.

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I need help /adv/. There is a sharp and burning pain on my penis, what could it be? I'm too afraid to go to the doctor. I have never had sex and i have a good hygiene. I wash my dick daily. And my dick looks normal and works fine. The pain can be absent for months and then appear randomly, jerking off sometimes makes it super painful.
What could it be?
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>>18375566
Maybe you jack off too much
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>>18375579
I usually jerk off once a day, but sometimes i might go crazy and jerk off 4-5 times. Maybe i need a nofap?
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>>18375566
Abrasion of the penis. I've had it a few times when I was younger. Eventually your dick just gets tougher and it stops happening. Pretty sure dry masturbation will cause it.

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How do I remove wart? I tried burning it out with about 30 matches and it looked like it worked, but what seemed like a blister grew and I left it alone. The wart must have regrown inside the blister. I was thinking about burning a lit cigarette into it and telling it to fuck off and die, is there any reason I shouldn't do this?
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>>18375529
go to the doctor or dermatologist they will freeze it off

cigarette butt is retarded
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>>18375529
All a cigarette butt will do is hurt wnd leave you with a scar. If you don't want to see a doctor you can buy a freeze kit at any drug stores.
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>>18375529
Buy that silver tape and tape it over. Keep it tape on for 7 days. If it really is wart (not sure from your pic) it will work. The key part is to prevent wart from getting oxygen.

http://www.webmd.com/men/news/20021015/duct-tape-gets-rid-of-warts

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More specifically, I would appreciate some recommendations on how I could support myself financially beyond minimum wage drudgery. I have a 4 year college degree, but it's in liberal arts so it's basically worthless. My only skills are reading/researching academic texts and writing short academic essays. That and what I consider to be a deeper understanding of the human condition are all u got out of higher education. I've been unemployed for about a year, and my only job experience is in pizza delivery, dishwashing, and janitorial work, all of which caused me a fair amount of mental degradation - I would get powerful, sudden urges to hurt myself and others, along with mood swings from rage to suicidal ideation. I took myself out of those situations to prevent anything bad from happening, but now I feel like a lazy piece of shit, and maybe I am. I can't afford a psychologist or anything on my own, and my family doesn't believe in mental illness so I can't use their insurance. It's not a super dire situation or anything, worst case scenario is that I end up as a beach bum somewhere, but I'd like to be able to help out my friends and family and maintain a decent social life.
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What's the degree?
You could always join the military
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>>18375518
The way my college did it, my degree counts as three minors, one in history, one in anthropology, and one in philosophy. I've considered joining the military, but I'd at least want a competent warlord instead of a reality TV star who can't even take the time to proofread tweets. Maybe in 4-8 years.
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>>18375542
*A competent warlord to be my commander-in-chief

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TLDR: Sort of feels like my best guy friend from college has been drifting from me since we graduated last year and I don't know what to do.

Several months after we graduated last year, we would occasionally text and catch up a bit and have friendly conversation. But over the past number of months, nothing. He won't really reach out to me, and I kind of don't want to to bother him even though I'm curious what he's up to. I know he doesn't like facetiming or keeping in touch that much, but still, I figured it's been several months. Anyway, yesterday on his birthday and for some of today, this was our conversation. (My nickname for him is sasquatch)

Me: Happy birthday Sasquatch! Miss you, hope all is well!
Him: Ty!
Me: What have you been up to Sasquatch
Me: Sorry I meant to say that yesterday but got busy at work
Him: Not much. And lol np you're good dude you know I don't care about birthdays
Me: Wasn't asking cuz it was your bday, asking cuz you are my friend duhhhh you ain't that special
Me: Are you working now? Thinking about grad school?
Him: No. Listen I do appreciate you keeping in touch but I really don't want to have a back and forth rn
Me: Okayyy sounds good

Should I just give him space? Does he kind of want to let the friendship fade? Not totally sure how to handle it.
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>>18375235
life happens, people drift apart

you'll have new best friends and you'll see this guy in a few years and reminisce
no big deal
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>>18375235

Relationships change over time. He might just be doing his own thing, he might just want to be on his own.

Give him some space maybe, how long have you known him?
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>>18375235
If you're a guy and this is how you talk to your guy friends, you may have convinced him you're gay and he's uncomfortable with that. The "duhhhh" and "Okayyy" remind me of high
school girls. Just an idea.

Or he's just going through some of the classic post-graduation "Holy shit I'm off the last training wheel and I need to plan the next 50 years of my life ASAP". If so then maybe check in every so often with offering to get beers or something.

The way he just wants to cut off the conversation before it begins also reminds me of how a friend of mine with bad anxiety would handle it, just the lack of understanding they're talking to another human being and just want robotic results of <End Conversation> without knowing how uncomfortable that makes a person feel.

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Should I do it? Do you recommend the morning after pill and does it work well?
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Dude. Either use a condom, or get a prescription for birth control. Plan B works, but it also gives you the worse fucking period of your life.

Don't be a stupid slut.
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Please get an IUD and also use condoms anyway because men are hideous monsters who will give you Herpes
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the morning after pill is not birth control

1. it costs 40 fucking dollars a pop
2. it is only 85% effective
3. it has massive side effects

get the pill or an IUD

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