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>>16499378
Anyone?

>>16499402
Why not talk to her about this?

Talk to her. If nothing changes, dump her.

/thread

>>16499341
I'm hoping this is bait
BUT

>go to a shrink
or
>find a woman who gets off on being beaten and enjoys rapeplay

>>16499341
go get help! being angry is one thing, getting into fights is another, but raping a woman is the lowest you can ever sink to. you will ruin her life for ever and she probably did nothing to deserve it. if anything you're a selfish self absorbed asshole.
so if you wanna pick a fight with someone go ahead, let them throw the first punch but raping some poor woman because you're angry is just sick and you deserve to get your dick chopped off for that.

hey, maybe even join a boxing gym or mma or what ever. you can throw punches there until you get knocked out.

Bump.
>>16499361
I understand you and I feel the very same way. Yet I can't help but to have this feeling inside of me, which I don't know how to get rid off other than pursuing these desires.

men can't be raped anon.

>>16499294
lol, that's not true. i was raped by a girl.

>>16499296
but that's unpossible, men can't be raped.

Shit son, you do look young but no worries. You're only 18, you still have time to age and you will and that young face can become a plus sometimes later. Everything will be fine and in the meantime just work on yourself and improve yourself. Good luck friend.

as you get older you will find looking young isn't such a bad thing, you'll be fine brah

>>16499291
Dont focus on girls, go to school and earn a solid degree and start your career.

While your doing this many girls will come and go untill your ready to 'settle down'

Are you expecting for Gaia to bless you with worldly success for achieving this?

I can tell you Gaia only deals with the earthy, organic realm of things. At best, she will make some wild carrots pop up in the back of your yard for troubles. No materialistic gifting or any of the such with this.

>>16499262

>Free carrots arent materialistic gifting

>>16499263
Materialistic - "excessively concerned with material possessions; money-oriented."

I wouldn't call sustenance given from Gaia a money oriented endeavor.

>I just don't approve of gay people.

What does this even mean?

>>16499236
take a moment to reflect and explain why you don't like LGBT community
is it just a random feeling?

>>16499241

Not OP here, but I stand with him/her. The LGBT is a corrupted hook-up community disguised under a support umbrella.

Some people can do it.

Personally I would not be able to.

Only if you have a cause to devote your life to. You won't have a happy life despite never having a romantic/sexual partner, nor can it be a sacrifice you give up if you understand what I'm saying.

>>16499213
>if you understand what I'm saying

I don't think I do.

That's rough, anon.
Sorry for your loss.

Take some time. It'll take some adjustment. With time you'll find a way to live again. Don't quit.

>>16499188
Is this movie good?

As a follow up question, would it be unreasonable for me to call things off with my girlfriend because she's harping on my depressive state?

I was prepared to get engaged to this woman but it feels as though she's been patronizing me for the last couple days. I think it's reasonable for me to struggle to get out of bed for the moment. Even my employer understands but my girlfriend seems to put her impatience before my grieving. Is that a sign?

I think I'm just lost right now and could use some kind of anonymous contact.

>>16499123
Did you go to college? For how long?

>>16499123
I also what to know this...

>>16499158
I ment
>>16499152
That

>>16499110
Some people like different things.

>>16499110
I've read once that people who invest in experiences rather than material things are happier. Hope this answers your question.

Fucking hell! This is the Most Autistic post I've read in months.

>>16499090
Hah

>>16499090
It sounds like mental health is going on there. Have you never encountered it before?

>>16499090

Nothing significant.

>>16499033
So what would you like to talk about?

>>16499033
In a nutshell:
>was in a relationship with the love of my life
>shitty job that I hated, but happy when I came home
>she breaks up with me to pursue her career and moves away
>has a new boyfriend in about 2 weeks
>cry everyday for a month, but power through it and apply for a job that might make me happy
>get the job, now I work somewhere that I like, but have nobody to share this feeling with. life is sad when I come home and I feel like I've hit rock bottom.

Not even sure if I'm looking for advice or anything, just an e-shoulder to cry on.

Fuck, making a thread on 4chan was probably a mistake. I just didn't want to use /v/ which is my primary, or worse, use /b/.

Please, yo

>>16498984
That's a stupid opinion and you should stop holding onto it.

That's my opinion.

>>16498998

Like... you don't think it's something I'll regret?

yes

it indicates a lack of maturity, impulse control, and accountability

>>16498928
>Veruca James in latex

MY DICK IS DIAMONDS

you'll be fine as long as you don't post 'lol fucking some random guy rn!" every day on facebook.

try not to leave a trail.

>>16498908
My god, I feel you so much. I am the exact same way, except without the goal part. And that's precisely due to eveything else you just said.
Halp plz

>>16498908
holy shit family

did i post this unconsciously or something?

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>>16498948
>>16498970

OP here. Also, was prescribed Adderall for some years. That stuff helped me get over a lot of things, and helped a lot in the short term for 'just do it'. I didn't waste time on meals because I was so fucking excited to get the next thing done.

That said though, it never really did anything for the overarching problem of waking up late. If I could spend 3 hours a day 5 days of the week, I'd really be somewhere with it. Adderall did nothing to change my decision making on committing to a longer-term goal.

I'm in a position in life right now where this is VERY possible, comfortable, and optimal. I have lots of free time and I can't get a job because of medical stuff. But I can work on skills that will be useful when I get a job. Or I can invest my time into regularly reading classic books, which I really love to do.

I think I've boiled it down to the moment I before I decide to take any 'action-task', or often continue any 'action-task'.

For example, I finish eating and decide to jerk off before starting studies and whoops there goes an hour. Or now, I'm deciding to stay up and post even though I know I probably won't find insight. I recognize that I need to make the decision I know is right, and do so EVERY TIME, not just sometimes like I do now.