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Anyone have any advice on leaving your current home impromptu to live in another state/part of the countrt?
Im really tired of living in my parents house near a big city and id like to leave to a much more quiet part of the country and be alone.
Anyone ever pack their bags one day and take off without looking back?
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>>16504499
how much money do you have in the bank and what skills do you have?
If you don't have any friends or family wherever you're going its extremely hard to start from scratch. If you don't have atleast $10k in the bank I wouldn't even bother. If you have a skill that will allow you to find a job easily like being a cook then you can get away with a bit less.
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Get a seasonal job some where that provides housing. Coolworks.com is a good place to start.
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>>16504505
My plan is to save up enough money and leave to a small town, rent a cheap place, possibly live out of a hotel/motel.
I dont have any special skills though. You think its harder or easier to get a job in a small possibly rural town compared to the city?
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I just need someone to tell me I'm doing the right thing an that it gets better
>GF and I break up
>She dates new guy after mere days
>Try to muster everything in me to keep cool and stay friends and stay in contact
>They invite me over for thanksgiving dinner
>Brought food, everyone was happy and met the bf for first time
>Seems like an ok dude
>After about 20 minutes of me being there, my ex looks at me and to her new boyfriend and says she wants to go lay down for a bit because she didn't get much sleep, he follows
>In living room with her friend watching a show, hear thumping and bed creaking
>Don't know how to handle it, make an excuse and leave
>Keep thinking of how she wronged me and knew what she was doing and how she waited until I got there to fuck her new boyfriend to get me jealous, but I don't know
>Thinking about breaking contact with her
>She hasn't messaged me to see where I was yet
I'm fucking depressed. This sums up just about every relationship I've ever had, and even though I'm trying to tell myself I'm just insecure, I can't help but think this is just a shitty thing in general to do to someone. Someone please give me advice or just help me feel better, I need something.
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>>Try to muster everything in me to keep cool and stay friends and stay in contact
You brought this upon yourself.
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>>16504220
I know I did. Finding decent friends is something that's hard for me, and I thought she'd be one.
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>>16504222
If you know your mistakes and you walk into them willingly, it's not advice you need. It's therapy. You can't advice your way out of depression and weak will.
hello
would pressing ice with salt to my cheekbones leave a scar that makes them appear to be more defined
sort of in like the picture
thank you
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>>16504192
What is that gibberish?
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>>16504192
are you a fucking idiot? you're going to end up going to the hospital. use make up or botox.
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>>16504192
absolutely not
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>live with parents at age 19
>dad is a total dick to me, yelling at me for very trivial stuff
>missed a spot while mowing the lawn -> angry yelling
>left food scraps in garbage disposal -> angry yelling
>that kind of thing, trivial stuff overall
>has been going on for years
>finally get so frustrated i straight up tell him that his constant hostility has eroded any positive feelings for him and that i do not love him
>he walks away in shock, hear him cry a little bit
>haven't talked in days (nearly ruined thanksgiving even)
Am I autistic? Did I do the right thing? I mean making one's dad cry can't be a good thing, I feel really bad about it, but at the same time he's a total dick and I was being honest about how I felt. There are times when he's cool and we talk about TV shows we both like such as Rick and Morty and he's not physically abusive, so I think I went to far, but at the same time... extreme hostility over really trivial stuff, all the time. I don't know how to proceed with this. Any advice?
Also, I know I'm a loser for living with my parents. I'm not ungrateful, though, I told him I'd leave the house if he didn't want me here (basically be homeless) but like I said we haven't spoken since.
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>>16504119
His feelings got hurt, he will get over it.
And no it's not weird to live at home from 18-25, specially if you are saving for something or still in school.
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>>16504136
I'm moving in with a friend across state in 7 months, pretty much waiting for that and not doing anything else.
I was thinking, that he WOULDN'T get over this, actually, like. is there anything more shattering for a parent than to learn their son doesn't... like or love them at all? Well, maybe I'm over-dramatizing it. I feel more awkward than bad at this point, so maybe he's feeling the same.
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>>16504145
Don't worry buddy, you really haven't done anything wrong. You showed him how you feel, and he being the dick he is really deserves it. It doesn't sound like this will effect the bed you sleep in or the food on the table, so you're in a good spot. Just wait for it to pass, hopefully him respecting you more. The relationship with him might become somewhat awkward but really it's positive cause it'll make things calmer.
In any case, best of luck to you anon
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I don't know how to act around men anymore
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After being way to long on the Internet it started to get weird for me around men. I read so much hate towards women on the Internet every single day (not just on 4chan), I never get used to it. It's has started to affect me badly, when I see men I can almost feel how much he resents me. It gotten so bad I don't know how to deal with it. All my male friends come to 4chan, and I know they write comments like "dum cunt" and so on. I bet they look at me as potential cheating lying bastard like their ex girlfriends.
How far is the Internet from reality?
Guys aren't really like that right?
Do you really actually hate women are is it more like venting?
Are they just saying what they don't dare to say in person? Meaning people are more "real" when it comes to their opinions and values online than in "real life" ?
Specially all those comments that justify rape makes me freaked out around men. I'm not afraid they are going to rape me, I'm not that nuts. But im afraid they are going to blame me for it regardless of the situation if it did happen.
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4chan is the pit that spawned Elliot Roger.
If you think Elliot Roger is the norm, your reality is definitely warped.
Most guys (well adjusted guys) just don't really give a fuck and see women as regular people. There is also a large pocket that see women as sex objects, and a large one that sees em as goddesses. Even as pockets they eclipse the fervent women haters of 4chan.
Percentage wise it probably goes like this:
60% Normal, well adjusted
24% Players
14% Awkward, goddess worshipers
2% woman haters
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You got along with them fine before, right? Nothing is different. If they "hated" you before and you didn't mind, you shouldn't mind now.
That said, guys generally don't despise women 24/7, we're just really sick of the few things you do that piss us off because you do them so often.
As for justifying rape, most of the time it's really about justifying not giving a shit when it happens.
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Normal healthy minded men don't hate women.
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How come there are no stories of guys losing their virginity after 30? It just doesn't happen does it?
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Think about it, once you reach that age you're not gonna admit that you were a virgin are you.
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>>16503799
ex was 36. I was 24.
don't lose hope.
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>>16503808
there are plenty of guys that talk about it, but it's nothing but stories of being dumped.
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>Have great bf
>Relationship for more than 3 years
>Subtile engagement plans
>Suddenly fall in love with someone I have 0 chance with, like literally impossible
>He's on my mind too often now
>I don't want this, I just want the comfy life with my bf
How do I get over this crush? Contemplating to tell my boyfriend because we're honest with each other, but that might be unnecesarrily hurting him.
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Cut all ties with the guy and it'll eventually pass. It'll be hard to do but it's worth it if ou really love your bf.
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>>16503771
I don't really have personal ties with him to begin with, but I do run into him often at uni. Now every time I enter the faculty building I get anxious but I can't stop going to uni.
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I'm this close to just straight up killing the guy this is really bad.
Well not really but I do need some advice.
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How do I stop being afraid of men?
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All fears are overcome the same way. You approach the object of your fear little by little and get use to it until it doesn't affect you. It takes a lot of courage and patience but it gives a great feeling of personal growth. What is it about men that scares you?
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>>16503712
Put one in your hand and let him sit there for a while. Face the dear.
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>>16503724
I'm scared they'll get hostile. That I do or say something wrong and one of them decides to break my nose. Or if we're in a secluded place, rape me.
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How do I throw the biggest ,wildest,drug filled party in my state?
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>>16503677
Have it at Sunday School
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it's gonna cost you about 5-10k, if you have a venue, more if you don't.
you need good music, the right kind of promoter, liquor, a place where the police aren't likely to be called at and good sized social network.
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>>16503692
I don't think they allow that at Sunday School
hey /adv/ this is the girl i like, how would you rate her on a scale of 1-10? the pic is from a video on her instagram page that she has since taken down
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eyebrows/10
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>>16503646
>that neck
lol is she 40 or something?
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also she is on the taller side and thin but with a very nice figure
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How does a schizophrenia begin and what are early signs of it? And what happens if it's untreated ?
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The earliest signs are usually very slight & faint auditory hallucinations, like you hearing your name being called or being convinced there is interference/static coming from your speakers or TV even when everything is swithced off. Another early sign is paranoia - suddenly thinking bizzare things like what if your friends are out to get you or what if you're being followed. If left untreated psychosis can take hold and you'll be left a paranoid, non-sensical wreck, totally cut off from reality.
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if you're worried that you may have a psychosis I would recommend seeing a psychiatrist
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>>16503581
I do actually
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My gf decided to become vegetarian last weekend, and has refused to cook anything with meat in it since then. What should I do, /adv/?
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>>16503535
what do you want to do?
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Well, you can cook for yourself or become a vegetarian.
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I'm not understanding your issue.
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To start off, I'm a guy. So this dude I've known is really submissive as has started to ask me to control him. He voluntarily wants to go to glory holes but he wants me to "command"him to do it, then he wants to send me pics of him sucking dicks as proof. He wants me to dominate him and keep the keys to his dick cage. BUT. He wants to pay me to be his dom.
I'm worried that if he sucks dick for money and gives it to me that it'll end up being like prostitution and I don't want to go to jail. He won't leave me alone because he wants to give me his money.
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that's a pretty common arrangement. it's not prostitution.
if you don't want to do it, don't.
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If it's not your fetish then he's dominating you from the bottom, as they say. Look how demanding he is already.
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>>16503458
It's easy money, but something feels weird. Is getting paid to make another guy suck dicks that common?
>>16503461
I can see what you mean. It's not my thing at all, I just want the cash.
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A girl stopped talking to me after we spend most of our time together for months
I pressured her to tell me what was up, and turns out she got tired of me after spending too much time with me.
I lost my cool a little and told her stuff like "that's shitty of you" "it's annoying as fuck" and asked her to meet up to talk it over.
It's been three days since I saw her, and one week since she stopped talking to me. And now that I think about it I think I made a huge deal out of a perfectly normal situation. Now will it play a lot in the process of recovering her, or not ? I'm just afraid I'll have to wait for a long ass time, worse, that it's over forever.
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leave her alone dude
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Millions of girls in the world
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Keeping in mind that, when we saw each other, we kinda laughed it off, like we joked about the situation and ended up saying we'll have to wait until she's not tired of me anymore.
>>16503431
I already did, I stopped talking to her as soon as I understood she "got tired",but I'm still hoping that she'll come back as I made a circle of friends through her and that I like being around her
(I was afraid of these kind of reactions since /adv/ is "just drop this girl" general)
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I woke up to the person I'm seeing scrolling down pages and pages of naked women. I ran out crying and left the house. Needless to say I have some prior emotional issues that contributed to my response. I'm so fucking angry and disgusted and hurt. Why the fuck are you looking at that trash right next to me? When I'm sleeping? In hindsight I would have immediately said "what the fuck are you looking at" and go from there. But I just booked it out of there. Fucked myself over. Now I don't know what to do. I royally fucked up my response and now I have the lower position. Any advice?
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>>16503399
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>>16503399
break up. leave that poor guy alone.
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>>16503399
Yeah, reconsider your notion that looking at pics of naked women is bad.