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Anyways, advice on how i can get this 15 year old to be my girlfriend?

Do high school girls like/date older guys? How common is this?

>>16496221
Nice bait.

>>16496228
Not bait although i obviously know this shit doesnt really go down, but i cant get my mind off her...

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>>16496141
She sounds like a crazy, OP. She's right, find someone else.

The fuck is wrong with her?
It's would like me breaking up with my gf after she had an orgasm that caused her to shit on me at the same time. Stuff like that happens. You're supposed to laugh it off together and regroup for more sexy practice.

>>16496178
Unh uh.You are applying logic to a girl.
Rethink that.Women are absolutely ruled by fear,we arent so we dont get that but if you understan-d that shit,that she is a scared rabbit,her reaction makes sense.
Safety for the cwazy wabbit.All it is.
Tell her its all good,wank for a week and start to gradually reintroduce the idea.
Dont let her use it as a smokescreen to cut sex off cuz theyll use that shit to fuck with you and try to turn your care into a relationship control tool.
Silly bitches.She starts playin that card tell her to fuck off cuz your good intentions were just pissed and shit on non accident like.

ve one of these around the area where my head got cracked open in a fight when i was like 14. im blading but mine is nowhere near as bad as that...
i would also like to know where or what its from...

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>>16496028
I just woke up with this dude. I didn't hit my head or anything. Please someone tell me this isn't permanent. I'm flipping the fuck put.

Swelling due to infection.. see a doc.

Its bad on the outside of the skull but a lot worse if it gets inside!

>>16496009
Don't masturbate

>>16496010

I don't masturbate and don't watch porn.

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>>16496009
>got used to Viagra
You abused a drug that influences your ability to maintain erections? You dumb fuck.

Sorry. You are impot. Good news though. If you learn to suck good dick, you could still develop a healthy gay relationship.

>>16496000
sorta depends on a few things...
looks
family (kid) y/n
personality
hobbies etc....
if you post a pic i could at least tell you what you are out of 10 lol
whats exactly are you looking for in a guy?
i obviously think you could find a LTR worthy guy just depends on what you deem LTR worthy haha.
as for dating game that really depends on WHERE you are as opposed to who you are..
im 26/m/married but before i met my wife (when i was in my early 20's) i dated 30+'s a few times ... nothing serious but alot of fun still took em a few dates to get into me sometimes tho (being only early 20's) my wife is 24 for reference.

Are you crazy?
Blame everything on the dude?
If no pof and tinder work fine.
If kew kew,seek treatment,then get back in the game.
Betas males are disappearing because Gen X and above will no longer tolerate crazy or jail sentences from liars.

Depends where you are. In an urban area with many young professionals? No problem at all. Plenty of quality singles in their 30s. In the boondocks? Consider moving to a big city.

Dont know but there are nuclear engineers driving for uber.
dont know but do know most college students in past 2 decades chose business degrees to go work for wallstreet cuz thats where the $ was.
So brightest minds in the us were ised to do what?Yeah,fuck over everyone else and figure how to to make theft legal.Mensa,the new mob.

>>16495971

Because being a teacher pays fuck all for the amount of work you do, and they'd want high paying STEM jobs.

Being a teacher is one of those jobs you have to want to do 100% or it'll destroy you

>>16495989
Isn't doing research more stressful though? It's publish or perish. From what I know, there is huge competition for tenured professorship posts these days. Also, what about those with only a Bachelor degree working at Burger King/the pub? Scroll down and look at long tall the "bar work“ bar is in that graph: http://www.prospects.ac.uk/options_physics.htm

>>16495876
Sit outside like a boss and wait for her, then go in. Don't do any beta shit like holding the door or paying for her drink.

>>16495876
You can wait outside or just have her get there first so you don't have to worry about it but everyone does things differently.

>>16495876
wow what some people think about... wtf does it matter? just go there, if your on time, text or call her and see if she's already there. if your early go inside and get a table, text her that you're already inside and wait for her. just don't be late!

Jesus talk about overthinking things.

>>16495823
>>16495823
Fuck, forgot tl;dr

>gf of 4 years sexts guy, no nudes, mostly text
>It's because she cracked under pressure and can't manage her stress
>Loved her insanely, now look down on her and can't respect her/love her
>Want things to work because I was very happy with her before, worried she'll always been unable to cope with her stress
>Angry, bitter, lonely and sad so it's hard to move on even though I'm more or less over the original event

Also, it's worth noting that she's talked about how almost losing me made her appreciate me more as a person and made her love me more

blah blah blah

you're approaching this like a woman.

you need to confront the fact that she is sexually attracted to other people. that doesn't mean the relationship needs to end.

stop getting walked all over, stop treating her like a possession, and think about this rationally.

>>16495831

you're getting so keked, bro.

my girl cheated on me, i cheated on her, then she cheated on me a few times during our "break" over the summer. we are back together now. the first time we split up and she got with other people my approach was like yours . . . filled with self pity.

now I have so much more clarity. I love my girl and she loves me, but i'm so unattached in this pussy way that you are describing.

>>16495772
Aside from some slight differences you literally sound like me.

>>16495799
What are my options, other than manning up and offing myself? I honestly don't see myself living out my natural life.

Look, you don't need to off yourself or man up. That's all nonsense, and either way you're not actually going to deal with the problem.

The most helpful thing you can do right now is to ease up on yourself. You're being so much of a mean bully to yourself, and your problems appear far larger than they are. You haven't ruined anyone's life, and anything is possible. I want you to tell yourself and believe that you have chosen to be in this position, even if you feel like it's ridiculous or absurd.

You're really overthinking this, fixating on wanting to kill yourself all the time is draining you of your life. You can think about this for the rest of your life if you want, but it's important to note that you are choosing to think about this all the time.

>I choose to hate myself and think only about killing myself, why do I feel so bad?!

I whack on some funk music in the morning. A bit of Zapp and Roger. 'The devil will find work for idle hands to do'.

ask her about some sex. how hard can it be to ask that question. i mean it's literally the most essential and natural thing in a relationship

>>16495747
>sex is the most essential thing to a relationship
Umm... No. It's important, but not "the most essential".

>>16495745
Op, if you're unsatisfied in the relationship for any reason and the situation hasn't improved after you've made your feelings and desires clear- then it's time to break up and move on.

Don't be afraid of being single. I know it's worrisome when you're so used to having someone to depend on, but you owe yourself better than this. Take some time to work on yourself and see what's out there. Don't settle for mediocrity. Don't use the time you've invested as an excuse to stick it out longer. If anything, the large amount of time you've been unhappy is an indication that you REALLY a need to break up.

>>16495745

Find a girl who will not cu.ck you

Lose 50 lbs and if you're not STEM start being interested into stuff she might be interested. Most of the Chinese girls at your school are probably not into non-chinese people and also most are virgins. Those that are into white guys are into skinnier than fat white guys. If you're not white, korean, chinese, jewish, or japanese, your chances are super slim at getting in her pants btw

Get a melbourne cut. afterwards ask her if you can spare her a cig and say "safe mate"
Try ask her for some Chin-Chin or how it feels to have blackborders on a widescreen vision.

>>16495738

You're kinda heavy, OP. People in China are nearly all very slim by American standards (my wife is native Chinese, and we lived in Shanghai for three years). It doesn't mean you can't get a native-born Chinese gf, but it means it will be a bit harder, because to them, you're going to seem pretty fat. But if you're very friendly and smile a lot, to the point that girls might describe you as a "big teddy bear," then that's not so bad. Also, you're tall. That's good.

As for how to date them, it's not much different than any other girl. One thing that's different is that a native-born Chinese girl might feel uncomfortable talking to someone she doesn't know, so striking up a conversation on the street might not go so well, whereas chatting with one that's a classmate or friend of a classmate would go better. Every girl is different, of course, and so to some girls, chatting on the street might be okay. Just giving you loose guidelines, here.

As others have mentioned, expect them to be virgins, and don't expect it to be *at all* easy to get into their pants. Generally speaking, even kissing is a big deal. Don't expect a kiss before you're bf and gf, and don't expect sex at all unless things get really serious. Again, individuals are all different, you might meet the girl that breaks all these norms.

Overall guideline: Be kind and go slow. If you start dating a Chinese girl, you are going to be the ambassador for all men of your country, and if you're a jerk, she might make negative assumptions about all men in your country. Don't be selfish, and don't be careless with her heart.

>>16495652
Leave it. She's checked out, it's holiday time. Text her next week with a "how was your holiday?" and see if she responds. Take it from there.

Chances are she got her free meal/drinks out of you, and placated you with some follow up texts so as not to seem like such a cunt. Happens all the time.

>>16495657
I only paid for 1 of her drinks, and that's because she bought me some Starbucks as soon as she met me at the train station. Other than that, we split the check. You don't pay for a girl you just met..

So I assume the general sperg consensus is never speak to her again even if the date went well?

Anything does if you're prepared to work for it.

>>16495645
Here, let me save you the bullshit that this thread will become. A pissing match between STEMfags and non-STEMfags who each think they know the world and every possible career's prospects, even though they don't know who you are, what your motivation is, where you live, or how you'd conduct your educational career in such a way that would help you land a job in the first place.

So skipping all the horseshit, go to Google and type "highest paying 4 year degrees in <place that you live>" and go from there.

>>16495645
If you just want decent job prospects and pay you dont even need to go to college, go to trade school and become a machinist or welder and you'll have a solid union career for life.

College is for people with academic interest in a subject. If you don't have that you're going to be here next year making a thread like this:
>in uni
>in __ major
>fucking hate it
>have no interest in it
>no motivation
>grades shit
>lots of debt
>how do i kill self?

We have 5 of those threads a day on this board. Learn something from them, don't become yet one more.

>>16495615
You're a good baby.

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>>16495615

>>16495615

Its good to have goals, even small ones. You build on successes like a sturdy brick wall, and you learn from mis steps, like a rocky road. And there's not only one solution to every problem, you may get better at walking rocky roads, or just learn different paths that are less rocky.

Either way, setting and meeting goals is psychologically validating in ways that are difficult to objectively realise from person to person, but are almost always subjectively powerful in a positive way.

Either way, not everybody is good at everything they do, and some of us WILL have a tough time with more things than the average person, thats why is called an average.

Be more forgiving of yourself. You seem more guilt and angst ridden than actually deranged or anything.

Explain

>>>/k/

>>16495557
Move