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>meet a really cool girl while away on an internship
>We click instantly and start hanging out all the time
>She eventually turns me down but we remain tight friends, tell each other everything, flirt here and there but it never leads to anything, I pursue other girls
>months pass and a friend of hers from back home also joins the internship
>They start hanging out all the time
>Eventually she begins to text less and less, never hits me up unless she needs something, I'm always the one initiating conversations
>I confront her about it and she says there's nothing special between them, it's just that she's homesick and he's a friend from home
>they still get closer and we get more and more distant
Honestly I feel...kinda used. It'still not even so much the fact that I like her as it is that I feel completely and utterly replaced by this guy. I've lost a few good friends like this recently...It hurts to lose one more.
Should I let her go? I'm leaning toward it. How do I accomplish it?
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And I realize I come off as a bit needy but she is the exact same damn way with people
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sounds like you need someone to feel validated
thats your problem. you dont like yourself enough
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>>16504914
What makes you say that? I have been told this before but I don't know where or how I would go about starting to like myself
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I'm 23 and already bald. I literally can't adjust to this life. I went from being attractive and always feeling good to hell. I used to date girls that were 8s and had a bunch of girls that liked me and complimented me. It got really bad at 22 and I quit life. Haven't had a job or a single relationship since and I have almost no friends now. I don't do anything allnday. My only option so far is to hope I can get disability and hide from humanity until my shit life is over. All I want is death.
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>>16504882
Adapt! Shave that noggin ;;) rock the shaved head/bald guy persona!
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>>16504882
Go to one of those hair regrowth places like Ashley and Martin.
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Nigga chicks love the bald look if you know how to work it. Play with the cards you've been dealt
So my cat died recently. How do I get over it?
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cry. mope around. eat comfort food. cry some more.
Time will heal it, but crying during will make you feel a little bit better
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>>16504864
I love calicoes. My cat is a calico. Sorry for your loss OP.
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Like all wounds, it takes time to heal. Sorry OP, I love cats too.
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just let us know happy thoughts and what makes you comfy and share 2015-11-27 03:50:30 Post No.16504817
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just let us know happy thoughts and what makes you comfy and share
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just be happy and try to make others happy with happy stories and share people!! pic unrelated unless it makes you happy
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tea makes me happy
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I just really enjoy seeing people smile, it really is a joyous thing, I love seeing people happy, especially when they are down, I'd gladly exchange my happiness to see theirs.
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WHO DOESN'T LIKE TO LAUGH
Hey /adv/
This girl from my work has started to flirt with me. She has been doing it for a while but now she straight up started to hang off me, trying to hold my hand always comes near me when we are out as a group will hug me and run her hands all over me. She will also hold on to me very tight and call me babe and baby all the time.
Its not that I don't like her or don't like her doing this stuff, its the fact that she has and lives with her boy friend and she does this stuff. All though im not encouraging her to do this stuff im not discouraging her from doing it. But she is the kind of person if whom I tell her not to she will get mad and not talk to me but I still want to be friends with her.
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>>16504797
Are u single? If you are.. then that's fine
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>>16504803
I am single but how is it fine, she lives with her boyfriend but flirts with me she doesn't even try to hide it anymore and does it in front of everybody? I may not know her boyfriend but isn't it bad that I allow her to do this stuff with me?
My friends have been telling me that I shouldnt feel bad because she is the one doing it.
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>>16504828
You shouldn't feel bad but I can see why you'd feel uncomfortable. I'd feel uncomfortable too.
I don't know if you should just tell her not to, but you should sit down with her and bring it up. Don't directly accuse her of anything, just say "I feel like lately you've been <whatever> and it makes me uncomfortable because you're seeing somebody. Sorry if I misread things. I really enjoy your friendship".
Maybe she'd get mad at you for bringing it up, but maybe she'll come around eventually too.
If you don't bring it up it's going to keep happening, and being uncomfortable in a friendship tends to make that friendship suck.
Just my two cents.
Really like grill I play LoL with. Won't tell her bc fear of rejection, kinda beta. But just talking to her makes my life better and I want more.
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Bumping for interest
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If she's into you at all, it won't matter. If she's not into you then it won't matter anyway.
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>>16504812
I'm just not 100% sure how to tell she's into me. I've had one girlfriend, and she made it SUPER fucking obvious that she was. But I don't know about this girl.
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Hi /adv/
Been with this girl for a year now, we connect on almost every level. However I'm now having second thoughts and worrying about the future as she has Chrohns disease and I'm not sure if I want to get emotionally attached to a person that could expire at any given moment and cost a fortune to keep alive.
TL;DR: Would you date a 10/10 but with a disease like Chrohns
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Anon I have crohns and are a femon with other disabilities this makes me really sad...
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The life expectancy of a person with Crohn's is only a little shorter than the average person. Any person you date could expire at any given moment.
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What brought me to ask though however is she had to leave thanksgiving dinner today as her surgical scars were opening? I'm still not educated on her conditiom, but from what she told me it doesn't sound good.
Was dumped recently, broken hearted etc., trying to move on. I think dating would be weird but i feel i need to at least start trying soon.
So im trying to think of any girls i may know before i start going to apps and such. Theres one in particular im interested in, but it may be weird to message her. Were 26 now and we havent spoken since early high school. I had the hugest crush on her, and we ended up becoming pretty close friends. I was super beta though and never made a move, and she moved the next year. But we live in the same city now, and i feel more confident. Would it be weird to message her? We didnt keep in touch much when she moved, although we probably have caught up a few times over the years, so it could technically be more random...
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Oops, when i said we havent spoken since early high school, i mean like hang out. Weve spoken since on facebook a few times
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If you don't see her ever, you have nothing to lose, right? I'd go for it, but I wouldn't be too hopeful.
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>>16504738
Yeah, i suppose so. im also kind of wondering how to go about it. I havent asked out a girl in forever, im wondering if i should talk to her a few times or just straight up ask her out. Blah, i guess ill feel it out, unless anyone has any suggestions
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How do you know if you're addicted to porn/jacking off? I think I may have a problem with it.
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how many times you jerk off per day?
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>>16504725
If you do it every day and it interferes with your life, you are addicted.
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>>16504735
Like this guy said, if it interferes with your life and you try to stop, but realize that stopping isn't as easy as simply deciding not to do it, that's when I would consider it an addiction.
Okay, so this is my cat.. his name is Token.
I can't tell anyone his name without them looking at me like I just said the most racist thing in the world. I just think Token is a cute name, and yes I knew that there was a black guy on South Park named token and I understand that reference, but that wasn't why I named him that... I named him after like a game token/coin.
Do I have to change his name or something? I'm so tired of people looking at me like I said something racist when I tell them my cats name... he's not even black. Ugh
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>>16504674
No, you don't need to change his name. Fuck those people, they're just looking for reasons to get offended. Your cat is adorable by the way.
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>>16504681
Thanks, that's what I'm thinking too. Here's another picture of him.
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>>16504681
This to be honest, family. I didn't even think of it until you mentioned South Park in the OP. Never underestimate the ability for people to find offense in anything.
>on phone with grandma
>she mentions wanting to give me her violin because im the next musician in the family after her
>very special violin
>soon hang up
>ask father about violin
>he says "well youre not really going to play it right? Its worth 8000 dollars."
What do? It seems like my dad thinks i shouldnt receive the violin and that he wants to just pocket the money, even though my grandmother told me she wants me to have it.
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Do you even play the violin?
If it's worth 8k then I assume it's a stradivarius or something high end. If you don't already play the violin at a high level, this will be wasted on you. However, if there's some sentimental value, I guess keep it.
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Fuck your dad, play the shit out of that violin anon.
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If you are play the violin I would keep it until you got decent at it, or at least knew enough to take care of it.
If it's not extremely sentimental I guess it would be best to sell it, otherwise keep it. Your dad sounds like a "scave" though, like peasant child tactics are going on, which is weird.
I generally don't bother with the family inheritance thing. I decided to let them do what they do and make my own money, which I do effectively.
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How do I ask my friend to set me up with one of her friends?
I've been feeling lonely and trying to get over this FWB girl I developed feelings for back home.
Background info:
I'm a college student who lives off campus, so meeting new women is a bit harder for me.
I do go out to college/frat parties probably once every 2 or 3 weeks, but I always go with a group of friends and always tend to stick around them for the most part.
I've looked into school clubs but my school only has roughly ~20 clubs and 80% of them are based on majors. The other 20% is shit like the black student union and campus gay pride.
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The mentioned places are horrible places to meet a relationship girl... maybe f***buddies but not a relationship. Try looking for hobbies / clubs / etc outside of school.
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>>16504397
just go ask her. maybe buy her a drink to grease them wheels
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You can casually drop it into conversation when you're talking about stuff to do together. Come up with a fun idea or wait for her to pitch one, then suggest that "maybe she can bring a friend along (wink)."
Not to break your self-esteem but I'd also like to touch on a consideration. If she had suitable friends for whom she also believed you were suitable, don't you think she would have mentioned them by now? People LOVE playing matchmaker.
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Why isn't never having a gf when I'm in my mid twenties? I'm short and I'm the wrong kind of fit. I'm supposed to slave away at a job I hate to support a society that has fucked me over.
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>>16504316
>Why isn't never having a gf when I'm in my mid twenties? Not a reason to kill myself its permanent solution to permanent problem.
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I'm so fucking lonely none will love me.
How can I stop comparing my progress in life to others?
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the first step is to realize that its a biological holdover from when humans lived in tribes of at most 100 people
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To expand on OP's question, how can I forgive myself? I'm so close to achieving inner peace and I've made such incredible progress. But I feel so much shame for ruining my friendship and having to see this girl all the time.
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>>16504315
By not seeing "progress in life" something to compare results about.
It's not easy, but why do you feel the need to compare to others?
Do you feel inferior all the time? or do you think you have to meet a standard, otheriwse you disappoint someone/fail?
>>16504359
Forgive yourself... for what? What do you feel "guilty" about?
You probably still feel guilty or responsible or "you could have done differently"about past relationships, be it with friends or girlfirends.
But elaborating on it should help.
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It's about being too picky or being true to what I like. 2015-11-26 21:52:44 Post No.16503983
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It's about being too picky or being true to what I like.
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There has been a speicifc kind of girl that I've always been attracted to, I guess you could say that for me this kind of woman is my "type" (Closest person I can think of would be someone like Anna Kendrick) they are typically sweet with pleasant demeanor, bubbly at times but still has their head screwed on right. This is the kind of girl that I would like to build a relationship with, now of the past 15 years I've come across maybe 5 girls that fit this profile and it's NEVER panned out.
I'm wondering if it's because I'm being to picky or i'm just being true to myself, other women feel like a compromise and as if I would be emotionally holding myself back.
For example this latest girl is an absolute sweetheart, and now she's dating some guy with a (I kid you know) beer belly, lazy eye, beard and liver cancer survivor. Now I'm not Brad Pitt but I though I would have much more to offer and instead I got shuffled off as nothing more than a friend.
How do I adjust my perspective? Can I find the woman that I would love wholeheartedly?
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>>16503983
respect the beer belly
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>>16503983
1. Knowing most people like you, you just have a crush on Kendrick and want a cheaper copy.
2. You would need to write a thesis for us to be able to tell you whether or not you are delusional or have reasonable preferences.
3. Was the guy with her when they were kids? How old are all 3 of you? Are his parents rich? Are you a kissless vergin? How much do you make? What's your bench? What's your career? What do you do? All these pleb questions have direct bearing.
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>>16503983
Oh btw
>they are typically sweet with pleasant demeanor, bubbly at times but still has their head screwed on right.
>now of the past 15 years I've come across maybe 5 girls that fit this profile
If we go by your posted "profile", this should every 5th girl at most. Why don't you post your actual criteria. E.g. movie-star hot, etc.