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How do I stop hating women?
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>>16500349
Bump because I need help with this too.
It feels like they're all vapid and largely disinterested in me so yeah take that for what it is.
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>>16500349
You don't. Unless you're in the top 20% of males then you have received every reason to hate them.
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>>16500349
Why do you hate women? Find the source and work with it, was it your terrible mother? Get over it, was it a shitty gf? Stop generalizing other women for her actions, if she was a shit person that doesn't mean other women are. I know you might not belive this but all women don't cheat and lie. All women don't want the same, what works in one relationship might never work in another. People are different.
1. Why
2. Eliminate the factors
3. Try to forgive
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What advice would you give your 19 year old self?
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stop skipping school and playing wow, go workout, learn for school and fuck bitches you lazy fucking fucktard
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Don't stop taking chances.
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>>16499879
Don't get back with your high school sweeetheart when you reconnect at 23. It was a massive waste of 10 months.
Other than that, I wouldn't change anything. All of the mistakes and choices I made along the way have made it so I am happy where I am today. Each has a consequence which at the time may not have been great, but absolutely influenced subsequent decisions/choices, which ultimately led to my awesome life at 30. So don't be afraid to fuck up. Ten years do wonders in changing you, your perspective and your life.
I wonder is it possible to change our sexual desires, like some men love only big tits, some men big ass, some bbw,skinny etc
When i was child i told my mum that i liked little overweight women, at the moment nothing has been changed i love women little chubby with big asses but i want to change this , i see some of my dudes are dying about skinny girls with low body fat and tiny waists, but i find sexy but they can not move something inside me so can i change this?
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>>16503186
Why? Just because your friends like something different doesn't mean you should change. The world needs chubby chasers.
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>>16503210
Seriously, if that's what you're into just let it be.
You could have much weirder fetishes
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>>16503210
Sometimes i feel disgusting, the reason is i feel there is something wrong on my mind, for example i find sexy a girl if she just have big ass, but on the other hand normal people have different aproaches like they say oh she is fucking beautyful i must fuck her so they related that facial attractiveness with being sexy this is what i am trying to say and i want to get rid of this big ass fantasy if you help me
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While in Uni (2 years ago) I entered a stand up comedy competition on a whim because I am a comedy fan. One thing lead to another and I won the whole thing. I had only done a single gig before entering and had beaten people who had devoted years to it.
Immediately big agencies who signed large comedy names got in touch with me and I had several meetings with them. I am from a small farm in the countryside and it has always been my dream to have a small farm with cows, goats, sheep, etc, and grow old with the person I love. I hate travelling and going away from home. Stand up comedy means travelling from approximately 5pm 5 nights a week and getting home at 2am. The nights you AREN'T travelling you are writing your material. You don't go outside, you don't have free time, it is your entire life.
I do not want that life, I have never wanted it. I like comedy, I entered the competition for the large cash prize and to have a laugh, I surprisingly won, and I wanted that to be the end.
My mother however, does not. Despite making fun of me for entering and urging me not to do it as I'd make a "fool" of myself, she will NOT allow me to quit comedy. She will not talk to me without immediately pushing me to get back in contact with the agencies. This has been every communication with my mum for the past 2 years. I say something like "did you have a good day?" and she will reply "no, because you've thrown away your life" I then explain why exactly I do not want a life doing comedy on the road, and she "disagrees."
I want my mother back. How do I hammer it home that I DO NOT want to sell my soul for money? If it helps, for most of my life I was a suicide risk and she is aware. I am trying hard to have happiness in my life and she says that happiness is not important, only a lot of money. She said you make money to have happiness later.
TLDR: Mum won't talk to me without telling me to commit to an all-consuming lifestyle career that I do not want
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i would stop talking to my mother if i were you, she sounds toxic af
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>>16503082
I love her and its important to me to have a mother figure in my life. I struggle a lot without having a maternal figure
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>>16503089
Then get a girlfriend with an attitude and big titties you kuck
My teen sister has been in a lesbian relationship for some months now, despite our parents attempts to stop them.
Mostly because my sister is pretty much a lil bitch around the other girl and follows her every command, like skipping school and taking the train to another city to visit her and such things. My parents forbade her to see the other girl but they're still together.
At my parents request, I have been reading her DMs on twitter, just to make sure they don't meet anymore and the other girl is pretty much forcing my sis to send her nudes. From their talk it seems my sister has sent nudes before.
I'm at a crossrow and I need to know what's my next step:
1. Confront my sister about it, pretending I found some pics of her on the "House wifi server" (she's computer illiterate so I wouldn't have to worry about her thinking I logged in on her accounts)
2. Show my mom. So far I've been telling my mom some things here and there, but I never showed her the convo because it's too graphic. However my sister is being such a bitch to me lately, and my mom and stepfather still treat her like a lil princess while I'm the blacksheep of the house.
While I'm angry at my mom for the way she treats me, I still feel bad. Would it shock her? I don't want to make her too sad by showing her my sis' sexts.
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your options are
1. meddle in things that are none of your business
2. be a little bitch, as well as a snitch
how bout you go for
3. not be a dick?
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>>16502973
how am I being a dick for caring
what do you think I gain from this
I dont even want to have to check her things, she put herself in this position
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>>16502973
>my sister: lies to me and makes me driver her to see the other girl in another city
>you: well why it's not like :\\ it's your business :\ stop being a snitch it's not like ur sister can ruin her life for sending nudes
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I'm stressing out over Christmas, I can't afford it. I have like $90 in my bank and I'm not wasting it on step-relatives who will probably throw out or never use my gift.
I'm not very creative and can't really make a gift, anything I could make would take more time than I have. What should I do?
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Fuck the holidays. I don't celebrate or stress out about it. It works great
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>>16502824
I wish I could, I hate the holidays but I gotta go through the motions with family and stuff.
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>>16502811
>i have like $90 in my bank
lol
Hey anons, desperately need your advice. So I had been dating a girl for about 5 weeks now, and it was really fun and all. Had that emotional connection that I rarely ever experience. She however just came out of a relationship and thus didn't want to start anything "official", but in reality, we did everything you normally do as a couple. For me it was enough that there was some sort of exclusivity between us, whatever you want to call that.
However, tuesday I made a remark about her underwear, how she always wears grannies and I just made fun of it basically. Out of the blue, she became totally angry with me for saying that, saying how I can't dictate how she should dress etc. She said she had to give it some serious thought. At that point I really didn't realize the extent of my actions.
She called me up this morning, asking me if it would be okay for her to go on holidays abroad to visit a guy she once fooled around with, because she studies languages and she needs to practise her languages. She asked me if I'm cool with that. Obviously I wasn't cool with that, because I wanted to go on a trip with her too and basically: why the fuck would you do that in the start of a relationship? What kind of a weird test was that. Anyways, afterwards, she started saying that she didn't like the dude abroad "more or less" than she liked me, all sorts of non-committing stuff like that. My heart totally torn apart. Then she said that it wasn't my fault but she didn't want to make compromises and the situation, being with me, forced her to make compromises and she couldn't deal with that.
So all of the sudden I'm stranded here. I told her I was thankful for the amazing 5 weeks we had together (which is I think better than a venomous reaction). So now we're basically done before it even started.
What happened? Wtf? What am I supposed to do?
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>>16502809
>I told her I was thankful for the amazing 5 weeks we had together
then you broke up with her, right? there's no other option in this situation, you know she isn't worth your time and did the right thing, don't go back or talk to her, cut all the contact and don't look back, you're in the right path to stop being a beta, don't fuck it up.
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>>16502879
Yeah it was pretty much implied I broke up with her (even though we weren't officially a thing neither).
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>>16502902
Doens't matter if it was official or not, you did the right move, don't let her fool you.
my little sister is getting older, and she's at that age now when boys are becoming important to her.
unfortunately she's started dressing too provocatively, and loosing her common sense, walking alone, hanging out with bad kids.
and it's not just her, a lot of kids are starting to do it, so she thinks it's "normal" and that's hard to counteract
the more I try to stop her, the more she pulls away.
now some of you might think "let her live her own life", all I can say is that if you think that you are a bad person; we have a responsibility to guide younger people to making responsible choices
I don't want to have to see her just keep going until something bad happens to her
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"Stop dressing like a slut".
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When I was 14, I was in love with my best friend.
She kept talking about her dads friend, and I eventually clocked on and knew what was going to happen.
So, I tried to tell her it was a bad idea, this that and the other, everything I could think of.
Long story short, the paedophile used her for sex, cut contact with her when she thought she was pregnant and she cried. Heartbreaking.
This happened repeatedly, and she even ended up with a guy who hit her a few times.
It was then that I learned a valuable lesson; She's never gonna learn, warning them turns something creepy into a "forbidden love" sort of thing that makes women think it's romantic and true love, and the shit cycle will repeat.
You can't stop her from hurting herself, but you can stop her from hurting you - just stop caring. She's gonna fuck up either way, nothin' anyone anywhere can do to change that. But you can stop lettin' it get to you.
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>>16502719
even if I can't stop her making mistakes, I can still break the legs of guys who don't treat her right
Is it possible to learn to like sex if you don't?
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How do you not like sex?
Are you taking any drugs, especially pharmaceutical ones like SSRI's?
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>>16502705
Well the answer to this depends on a lot of factors.
1. How old are you?
2. How many sexual partners did you have?
3. What exactly don't you like about sex?
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I'm not on medication, I'm 20, I have no idea how many sex partners I've had (lost count somewhere past seven), and I don't know what it is. It doesn't hurt when I do it, I just dread it beforehands. Like mondays.
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Have a date with an older girl
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Yesterday there was a free projection of a film in my university. There were just a bunch of old men that always come for the free screenings and a younger girl. I started talking with her before they opened the projection room and she was very interesting. When I went for a seat she followed me to sit together, no the other way around.
I'm 20 in my sophomore year, but she seems older (25-29? no idea, didn't want to specify) and is from another part of my country. Dropped out of college but has a job in here and has travelled 10 times more than me. She says she just goes to every screening she has because she likes to "grab culture from everywhere possible" or whatever, so she seems to have a whole bohemian aura around her.
After finishing the movie we walked together for a while since we live in the generally same direction, just chitchatting already got a few inside jokes going on, and in the end I asked her number. When I arrived home I asked her in text if she wanted to grab dinner this weekend and she said yes.
I'm very nervous because it's obvious we're in very different wavelenghts (I'm still very young in the middle of my major, living with my parents, and she's already working and living very far away from home with a lot of life experience from travelling) and I've only ever dated either girls my same age or a bit younger/in lower education levels.
How do I approach this? What should I think of her accepting the date? When should I try to go for a move (aka kissing) when going out with an older girl, should I just expect her to take the lead if she wants anything? I'm clueless and stuck in the mindset that she's WAAAAY out of my league.
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Dude. She already yes. Relax. Be awesome.
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>>16502632
> coming from a girl dating a younger guy
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>>16502632
I have problems with those instructions. Even if she said yes I already feel like it's some lost battle. Why would a working girl go out with some youngster?
Also what about trying something physically, kiss and so on, should I already go for it on the first date or what. I don't know what kind of expectations are there at those years.
Some friend told me that she'd like that I was bold asking her out with no bullshit texting before and that she might want me as a young fucktoy, but no idea.
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Okay Americans, British, and anyone that eats Peanut Butter. Wanted to try it for the first time, bought Sun Pat Crunchy. Tasted it on bread-terrible. How do you do it? Do you toast the bread first? Could the PB be expired? It was hard to digest, taste was weird. And thought it would be sweet(er). Any advice? Maybe I am just eating it wrong. pic very much related
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I always ate PB with jam, so try something sweet with it.
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>>16502490
I only have it on toast, maybe that'll taste nicer?
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>>16502568
thanks for you both, I will try it again tommorow, this time I will toast the bread first. it is butter after all, so it should melt a little. jam is a good idea too. or bananas
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I fell asleep on the couch for about half an hour watching tv
GF texted during that time and I obviously didn't text back because I was asleep. When I wake up and respond I get a text back saying "Took half an hour, not good enough. I'm going to stop texting you as often now"
What
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>>16502144
It's either a joke or she's crazy.
Did you stick your dick in crazy, anon?
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>>16502144
This sounds like a joke on her part.
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>>16502150
It's not a joke
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What are some good jobs, /adv/?
Requirements are:
>Not an office job
>Little to no contact with other humans, at most a few coworkers, no clients
>Earns enough money to afford a small flat, eat whenever you want and buy some nice things from time to time
>Enough free time to go on small trips once in a while, 'wander the world'
Anything else is fair game, doesn't have to be fancy or glorious.
>inb4 just camwhore/sell drugs/join ISIS/whatever
Bonus points for any job that involves moving around/travelling
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>>16502143
>Not an office job
>Little to no contact with other humans, at most a few coworkers, no clients
First explain why you're so against these two things
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>>16502143
Microbiologist.
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>>16502148
They both suck gigantic cocks. Office work isn't bad, but boring. Dealing with customers and clients is a great constant reminder as to why people are fucking awful in general.
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cheap way to permanently get rid of or remove hair? I hate shaving every week
im male
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3rd degree burns
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>>16502031
Easy mode is nair creams / magic shaving powder.
Otherwise you'll need to have that laser treatment, which is kind of expensive, and sometimes doesn't work perfectly if you have thicker hair.
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Hi guys and girls, i'd really like your opinion on how this little thing i found i the street worth?
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>>16501948
probably nothing, it looks very fake.
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>>16501948
about $3.50
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Did the teeth test and its all gritty and shit. Plus this writing in the back