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>>16501890
How old is she ? Have you even taken her to the vet?

Feed her lots of water then lock her inside the litter box until she pees.

>>16501890

Take her to the vet. Peeing outside of litter boxes is more unusual for female cats than it is for male cats. I had a cat that started to pee in weird places and he died shortly after.

If the vet says everything is fine, then get a pheromone plug in. It doesn't smell like anything to humans, but it relaxes cats and makes then feel like the house smells enough like cat to not need to mark. I have a male cat that has a problem with spraying and it stopped after we got a plug in. We only need it a month, too. I guess it was long enough to change the behavior.

>>16501492
Deal breaker for me

You just need to find someone who feels the same way as you

>>16501495
This.

I'd probably be ok with it. I have the same issues, but I do like cuddling and shit but when I want to sleep I just want to go the fuck to sleep fuck off I'm sweating omg give me my fucking blanket back fuck

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>>16501492
Fun fact: Back in the day they never showed a couple in the same bed. It's uncommon to find someone who likes to sleep in different beds these days. It's not a deal breaker for a few.

>>16501382
It's extremely unlikely

no you child

No, but you might be 16 if you can get off that easily and had to ask a question like that.

>>16500209
Good on him keeping it in the family

>>16500209
has any legal action been taken?

also, take him to shrink so he doesn't flip some day and rape his kids should he have any
no offense.

>>16500209
i am talking out of experience here, just ask him if it still bothers him. ask him if it makes him feel insecure and such things. if you have problems in bed, this might be the cause you know?

Stay away from NSFW boards, and block yourself from porn sites. It'll be a reminder to you if you try.

>>16500084
Why exactly you want to stop?
If it's to improve your sex drive just don't masturbate to porn

>>16500084

There is no marked benefit to stopping masturbation.

You sound like an intellectual person, figure it out.

Right now you sound like this:

"A guy rejected me because he thinks I'm strange, clearly this one guy's perspective is representative of every single male on the planet, therefore I will be forever alone."

Is that logical to you?

>>16495289
Learn to love yourself for you or find a few things you would like to change and try to change it. Do for yourself not others. NEVER cater to anyones standards. Find validation in you.

Youre probably like 18 so you have plenty time to figure you out

Guy probably thinks you're strange because you didn't look like it was easy for him to get you under the covers

>>16494595
Why do you suspect this anon?

>>16494595
Stop being clingy.

>>16494596
GF was busy today. Tried my best no to think about it, or pester her, but ended up leaving her 7 fucking messages.

Any time she doesn't respond immediately I start freaking out, and my head gets full of intrusive thoughts, which are admittedly ridiculous.

>>16494517
shit happens, but the people who get caught up in the shit are the one's who spend their lives forgetting why they are living, which is not to be the Justice of the world. Dont get distracted by some revenge scheme, you're wasting the time you could be spending thinking about other things.

>>16494532
Sorry. It has to be done. And if I don't get help from the wonderful minds of 4chan I'll go elsewhere.

drive it into a swimming pool, it gets so heavy it'll take a crane to pull it out

Old bread >>16458883

i hope that someday i will have hope!

rip ten

>>16502484
That your cousin was a lucky man

your mom has no idea you left school?

did she know you were having trouble

Why do you feel telling her the truth will have a negative impact on your life ?

>>16502315
Maybe your condom was too thick or she was too big/you too small? That's not normal

do you watch porn, do you mastrubate? what you describe is typical for a solid porn education. seek help if you want any kind of relationship long term.

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>>16502320
I didnt wear a condom for a while because I didnt feel the urge to cum, but then realized a little later that I couldnt tell so I put it on. I definitely felt worse with the condom on but still, it didnt...well I dont know what to say since that was my first and only time. I dont know what it is supposed to feel like.

>24
>sharing same viewpoint as a 14 year old

you're just desperate that's all.

>>16502298
No she's been through a lot. It has caused her to mature ahead of her time.
Example: normally when you ask someone what holds a relationship together they answer love.
She answered "commitment, people fall in and out of love every week. When you commit to someone you repeatedly have the opportunity to fall in love."
She said this tonight.

>>16502294
It's just like being gay dude, you can't help who you fall for. Although 4 years is a long time to wait. If you have the notion on your mind that when she turns 18 you two will be a happy couple, if after 4 years of waiting that turns out to be false you may not take it so well and become creepy or just scare her. Plus in highschool (especially from 14 to 18) girls are having sex left, right and center. Can you deal with her having a boyfriend? Her discovering that sex feels good so her and her boyfriend start fucking like rabbits while you're at home, alone, knowing the girl you love has some other guy inside her? what if when she's 18 she already has someone she loves and it's not you? I'd say moving on is the best option here. slowly cut contact with her and start being more social with girls your own age. Plus in highschool people change a lot due to peer pressure and to gain social acceptance. It's not worth it man

To further add on what I mean by what people describe as better is people often say "it gets better" as if time is somehow going to heal the burden of living. I make okay money and I support myself and have enough hobbies to keep me busy. But from my experience, age has only made things worse. Growing older and realizing there's things that are going to happen to your body without your consent, realizing you have to deal with obligation and responsibility, losing your parents, all of that shit sucks really bad and eats me away every single day. I hate the fact I have to get into a hunk of metal and propel myself at inhuman speeds at other hunks of metal for at least 2 hours every single day. I've never gotten over the anxiety of driving. I can drive pretty well, sure, but the anxiety is always there and will never go away. I hate the fact that I'm forever going to be mediocre and never achieve complete mastery at the things I want because I wasn't born into them. I picked them up later in life as hobbies and they will forever be hobbies and nothing special. I've tried to make friends but I come to really dislike most people after a couple months once I see through their fake interest in me. I just really hate reality. How do I fix this?

I'm going bald from the stress here

Who fucking knows, man. I'm going through the same shit right now. So full of hatred it makes me sick. And it's so dumb, because I'm slowly despising everyone.
Just today I went and saw a pal, and not once did she ask how I was. She just kept on singing about her woes. But it's the same with everyone, they're all too fucking wrapped up in their own little world to see other people are hurting. I feel so burdened by everyone else coming to me and telling me their problems when reality is that not once have I ever heard them ask a question about myself. Because it's always, "I, me, mine". Like the damn Beatles song.
What I'm getting at, is there is no hope. No point to anything. Who cares. Go back to opiates. Do whatever helps you cope with it.

Also I should point out, our conversation happened at midnight last night. Didn't get the ILY until 2 the next day

>>16502204
she saying you're her beta

girls say they love each other all the time

It literally means nothing

>>16502213
....I'm a guy....are you saying a girl would tell her male friend she loves him? That's fucking ridiculous, you don't just do that

It's called not having self control. Nothing special, doesn't deserve any special treatment.

>>16502194
What a load of crap.
NEVER listen to a man when he tries to excuse a mistake with "I couldn't help it- Muh desires".
He is a FULLY GROWN ADULT MALE. He should be able to control those "urges". "I couldn't help it" is a statement of weakness

When he married you, he made a commitment to respect you and to make sacrifices for you. If he's not even able to control such a simple lust, the relationship is not built to last.
He should not be allowed to sext other women. Tell him that you're happy to participate in sexting with him and indulge his fetishes, but that You will view him sexting other women as an equivalent to cheating.
If you are in a monogamous traditional marriage, he should not be allowed to look for sexual gratification from other women. The relationship needs to end if he can't control himself.

>>16502194

>sexting fetish

OP. You're retarded because here's where you say "Why not do it with me?" Boom. Fetish fufilled.

Now if he then turns around and goes "b-b-but it has to be with new people!" Then he's a faggot and you should bail.