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Gf doesn't like giving oral 2015-11-24 03:00:21 Post No.16494964
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I'm a very jealous type of guy.
She has only ever had previous sexual encounters with one person other than myself. No sex before me. I'm always going down on her, but there's never any reciprocation. From a previous conversation with her I discovered she used to do it with the previous guy she was seeing to keep him happy and she done it MORE with him. I can't seem to stop fixating on the fact that she used to give the guy she was seeing before me to keep him happy, but basically flat out doesn't do it with me. Have spoken about this, but virtually nothing has changed.
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>>16494964
How well do you clean your junk? Are the hedges trimmed?
Are you uncut? Maybe give the bits a quick rinse?
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Whatever she did before has nothing to do with you. If you want more oral and it's a dealbreaker, then end it. You should treat this as though you have no idea what she used to do.
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Tried all of them, always trying to keep on top of it so that in the event of it actually ever happening I'm clean.
Yeah, suppose I've never really thought about it like that before.
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I'm 23 years old, in college, and still don't know what job I want to get. What if I never do? Then I'll be stuck with a minimum wage job.
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>>16494956
Well what are you majoring in? That kind of dictates what job your going for. If your one of those undecided, then you better freaking decide or get out of college to save yourself. It ain't cheap.
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What's wrong with minimum wage, you self-entitled jumped up cunt.
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Well I mean, I'm in college right now and I work a minimum wage job at a high end jewelry store.
There's nothing wrong with that. A lot of famous politicians, media figures, etc worked shitty jobs throughout their college career.
Maybe you can get a paid internship too. But I mean, a lot of places are hiring right now for the holidays.
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Alright /adv/
I'm done feeling sorry for myself, I want to come back stronger than ever and rebuild my life. But I need a fucking reason. It's like my eyes were just opened and the world is dark...so fucking dark. I feel hopeless and helpless
To sum up the past few weeks or so:
I was given a 2 weeks notice last week, last day of work will be Dec 3. My degree is in Computer Engineering and I moved to SF just for this job, but I'm finding that I hate object oriented coding...like all parts of it. So fuck, wrong 4 year investment in my life
My dad lost his job and was counting on the money I sent monthly to pay off the bills. I won't be able to do that without my job. I feel like I let my family down
I had a trip to Europe planned for Dec 10 to 20, but now money is gonna short so I wonder if I should just bite the bullet with refunding fees and get my 3k back.
Finally to solidify the fact that the Universe hates me, I found out yesterday this 1 girl I've been dating the past 6 months (she wanted to take it slow), became officially bf/gf with some retail clerk 2 months ago. I got played...hard....I talked to her and wanted to cut her off, but she started crying about how I was the best friend she ever met and wants to stay friends...she didn't tell me since she didn't want to lose me or some crazy shit...I like hanging out with her but fuck... too much on my mind right now.
Honestly, I figure why even try.... the only reason I found to not kill myself was because other people will feel bad. It seems that society is just full of selfish pricks, everyone I know seems like they want to help me just so they can get something, or feel better about themselves.
Why did everything collapse at the same time? I was an honest hard working man that wanted to help his family and work on improving himself...
help me /adv/
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>>16494923
Someday you will see the day when you are success, rich, and your families are smiling because of you.
The day will only come if you keep trying for the sake of it.
Do it to see that fucking day.
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>>16494941
But how...where do I start?
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>>16494998
Were you terminated with or without cause?
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Say that you had half a million dollars in the bank. In reality that's not a ton. What would you do to make yourself into a multi-millionaire? A billionaire? I'd really like to have a company, but not just one doing stupid shit like selling the shamwow.
tl;dr - what would you do to become a billionaire if you had 500,000 to start.
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>>16494908
If I had 500,000, I'd cut each bill into 4 pieces, I'd instantly have 2 million, take that 2 million, cut each bill into 4, bam, 8 million. You're welcome.
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I think you have enough to learn how to trade stocks. Get a degree in Finance and pick up a job as a day trader. You'll eventually learn enough to start playing with your own money. I know I outlined something that'll take a long time, but it's probably the best way you can transform your money.
The other option is to figure out what your passion is and then monetize it. You won't know what it is or how to do it, but someday you will. And you'll need a ball of cash to get started. Maybe you like sinks. Go out there and become the world's greatest sink designer in the world.
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>>16494908
Whatever you did to make that $500k you have in your bank account, you should probably keep doing it.
also
>>>/biz/
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I was with this guy for 2 months he left me 2 days after my birthday because he has a job that requires him to move a lot. He left me because he thought it would be to hard on our relationship and if we were to ever have kids it would be hard for me to take care of them by myself due to my disability. I would have waited for him but he left me. I have been feeling depressed and really upset it has been over a month and I still find myself crying over him I don't know if I can live again. I haven't heard from him again I am convinced that he is the guy for me he treated me so well in our relationship he took us places and showed me love I never got so close to a guy before. Meanwhile my ex boyfriend who I've known for 5 years calls me after 4 months of not talking and tells me the honest truth that he cheated on me he gave me the reason which was that I deserved better than him so that is why he cheated on me. He has said sorry so many times and says he would never do that again he wants another chance. I still love my boyfriend who left me I really really want him back and in my heart I feel he is the right guy for me. I really don't know what to do anymore please help me.
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Forget about dating for a year, cut both of these guys out of your life.
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>>16494732
How old are you Femanon?
In regards to the ex-boyfriends I would greatly consider
>>16494748
Why do you feel that he is the only one for you?
Do you feel like without him you are incomplete?
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>>16494773
Because he made me so happy I feel not complete without him in my life I don't know if I 'm trusts the guy who cheated on me
I just want a normal man. Someone without any weird hang ups or addictions. About 6ft tall, loves sex, has an ok job, funny, optimistic, honest, not a shady coward...
I am usually attracted to introverted guys but they all end up being weird and cowardly...
Do normal guys exist?
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You're not attracted to what you want.
Basic guys are typicallly more cringeworthy than normal introverts.
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>>16494677
I am starting to like someone pretty normal.
My only issue with him is that his ex is still lurking around him, so I removed myself until that shit fest is over with.
I have dated mostly introverted guys and I am left feeling underwhelmed and bored by them. My most recent ex was the weirdest of them all.
This normal guy is very fun and direct, I am finding myself getting more and more attracted to him as time goes on.
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>>16494668
>loves sex
You want a man that want's sex...
THEN WHY DO YOU ALL COMPLAIN ABOUT MEN WHO WANT SEX?
Oh my fuckin' god.
>I am usually attracted to introverted guys but they all end up being weird and cowardly...
Gee, wonder why, mixed fuckin' signals all up in every place with any woman around ever. GOD DAMN.
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Girlfriend Might Be Moving 2015-11-24 01:22:07 Post No.16494643
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2015-11-24 01:22:07
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Hey guys, I know this is an oft treaded topic - but I'm torn with how I feel right now.
I don't often get emotional, or let them show when they're there - but my girlfriend is going to be moving very far away, for the foreseeable future, if the job market ends up being a certain way. It's had me depressed for a couple of days now, because even though I'm very independent (Car, Motorbike, tons of extra income which could afford me a rental place - and a house in a year if I continue to save) and told myself that I wouldn't mourn her 'passing', it's eating me up. It's not a guarantee, but I've never had to potentially deal with this sort of pain. I've been with lots of girls and not cared one bit, but she's been different for the almost 2 years we've been together.
I don't really know what I'm expecting, aside from "The pain will pass." but if there's any sort of advice you guys can give that might help me cope with this, I'd really appreciate it.
Thanks, guys.
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what the fuck is wrong with you
if youre so rich why dont you just go with her
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>>16494649
Being rich =/= being able to drop everything and leave at a whim.
But OP there's not much to say apart from make sure it ends on a happy note, and don't burn any bridges. Leave it on a "We shall see each other again" note. I wouldn't suggest a LDR, just be grown ups and realise your paths separate from here. Hide the pain, and mourn when she's gone.
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>>16494665
That's being work hard rich and not actual wealth.
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Can you tell me if I have a dry socket or an infection?
I don't wanna pay $65 to $75 just for a doc to lay me down, open my mouth, and say "yep it's___" within 7 seconds. The clarity would be worth it but I don't have that pocket change.
I will describe what I'm feeling. Just got my wisdom teeth out on November 20. In my LEFT jaw it just feels like the pain goes down all the way to my jawbone. It's not throbbing. It's just there. A big pain. It hurts more if I drink or eat, as if liquids are getting in my socket? It hurts less if I apply heat to it (especially moist heat). But god it's just so painful that I'm always holding my hand up to my jaw as if I look deep in thought and sophisticated.
Is it just normal post-op agony or an actual problem?
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Oh god I think it's throbbing, this is really weird
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sounds like dry socket to be honest, also i seriously hope you aren't eating solid food this soon after getting your wisdoms out.
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Need help with hairstyle 2015-11-23 23:52:58 Post No.16494454
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I need to find a hairstyle that can suit me which is hard cause I don't think I'm attractive, I think it's getting to long any recommendations?
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When it's not as messy
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Any recommendations would be helpful
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I happen to like your hair. Wish I could get mine to look like that.
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What do you do when your girlfriend is constantly depressed?
They treat you like the enemy when you're only trying to help. They fuck up, feel like shit, and then feel even worse and run away from the problem instead of just talking to you about it.
They try to kill themselves by smothering themselves or freezing themselves or by ODing themselves. You're an asshole and an abuser for keeping them safe, even if its by force. You literally cannot be on the right side, even if all you're doing is following your heart.
It's starting to make me depressed being with her. I don't recommend being in this position to anyone, but love is a powerful fucking thing and I'm starting to resent it, because its destroying my fucking life. What is worse, is that you have to beat down those germinating feelings of resentment that you have for them. Why did you have to end up with someone afflicted with this? Do they just use this as an excuse to bruise around things in a cunning fashion? Are they just using you? A million other bad thoughts flow as well.
So seriously. What the fuck do you do? Psychiatry is expensive. State run programs are garbage don't even bother recommending them, already tried it and it failed.
Besides leaving her, I don't know what to fucking do. It's just not healthy. None of it is. She's claimed in tears she doesn't want me giving up on her, but when I was trying to keep her from smothering herself she hit me really fucking hard in the face with her knee and I just don't fucking want to deal with it. I'm done....or so I'd like to say. But my fucking heart knows I'd regret it.
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get out now. i am the voice of experience, op. this girl, and most like her, are sinking ships that you will go down with if you stick around. she will not change, and this will continue to damage your own mental health as long as youre involved with her. you need to plan this out- make sure you wont have to see her again after you break things off. she will cry, she will probably get hostile/violent, but you have to stick to your guns. you have to take care of you, man.
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>>16494213
Well what I did when she was depressed was stick around and wait for her to get better. She didn't. She simply became more delusional, depressed and psychotic and I became her punching bag for it.
What I should've done was leave. You know that, but are afraid that she will die or harm herself if you leave or you are worried you'll regret it. Maybe you will, but is there anything worse than sticking around with someone as awful as she is? Probably not a whole ton.
What you should do is leave her. You can't fix her. You can't save her. She has to be the one to do that. Even if you made her life full of enjoyable activities, she could still decide to be unhappy. You can't save her. She can only save herself.
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>>16494241
I really wish there was another way. I really fucking do. I feel so hopeless.
What the fuck is causing this? It's not fair.
What would be more practical to learn , french or spanish? and why? (pic unrelated)
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>>16494203
If you're American: Spanish.
If you're Canadian: French.
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>>16494212
...i'm scottish
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>>16494203
french
more of the civilized world speaks french than spanish.
only learn spanish if you plan to live or work around subhuman cockroaches
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Was asked if I was a virgin 2015-11-23 22:15:09 Post No.16494169
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Was asked if I was a virgin
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I met this girl off ok cupid, and we've hung out about 4 times now. I'm a pretty awkward guy and I've just started to feel comfortable around her. We hung out for a couple of hours yesterday and on the way taking her back to her places she asked me if I was a virgin. I am, so I said yes. I'm 21, she's 19. Her asking me that just threw me off. Do you guys think she thinks I ask like a virgin and thats why she asked?
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you probably need more confidence in yourself anon
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It's called a shit test. Yes she was testing your confidence. Honestly if I was in your position I would have lied.
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>>16494169
Depend from what country she is and if she is conservative.
Many conservative girls prefer and value virgin men more. You don't have to feel guilty for answering honestly something that's not even wrong thing.
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My sex drive seems to go down only when I'm with my girlfriend. Why is this happening?
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You may have gotten bored of her sexually. This happens to me, I just need a few days from her and I'm good to go again
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>>16494110
Too much porn? It's always new and exciting rather than your girls same old vagina so happens to a lot of guys. You can loom it up porn enduced erectile dysfunction. Cut out the porn and it will improve. If you don't watch it then maybe you need a new girl
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Try getting a bf?
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quick question, /adv/...
i'm pretty sure i know the answer, i'd just like to get another perspective.
so my girlfriend and i have been living together for 2 years now. we signed another year's lease, so we'd have this apartment until November 2016.. She's having some money issues due to being 26 and not having a full time job (she has 2 part time jobs that equal more or less 40 hours). At age 26 in this state, you can no longer be on your parents' health insurance. So she's afraid of money problems due to having to pay for insurance, and to add to it, we've been fighting a lot lately. not fighting about anything important, but it's still a factor.
we also don't see one another very often, mostly just weekends. she works odd hours, and i work full time (at least 40 hours a week, pretty regularly get stuck with 52) overnight and go to school for engineering (10 credits this semester). so i don't have much spare time.
So she states "maybe i should move back to my parent's place". She says she still wants to date, but just not live together. but wants to move back with her parents.
the thing is, i don't like this. I know that it's a fault of mine that when i get really hurt emotionally, i tend to get angry, and say mean stuff that i normally wouldn't. So i know that i won't handle this well. it feels like she's throwing me away. not "sticking by my side" i guess. it hurts. I was doing this to make a better life for us, and she's going to leave me alone?
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melodramatic, i know. but that's how i feel. i don't want to make her sad because i'll overreact because i'm hurt. ( i know this is my problem, and i'm working on it, but i don't want to take the chance of hurting her feelings).
so i'll be stuck paying for this apartment by myself. which i can do. it'll be tight financially, but i'll manage. but, i don't want to "take steps backward" so to speak. so i told her this morning when i got home that we need to talk when she gets home (in 4 hours now).
i'm going to break up with her. is this a good move? am i being too rash and quick to bail out? should we work on this? or our our schedules/lifestyles just too different to be compatible anymore?
thanks in advance.
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To rash my nigga. If it hurts you so bad she wants to move back in with her parents why would you break up with her? Tell her how you feel, tell her you wish you had more time to see each other let her know you're there for her and her problems. She probably doesn't feel like she being appreciated or is holding you back. You both sound like you need to sit down and talk, addresses the problems, and try to fix them if that doesn't work then you guys should split, but don't give up on love like that if there is still something going on. Shits hard to find man as long as it isn't garbage and the feelings are mutual it's always worth a fighting chance. Don't feel like just because the waters get choppy you need to abandon ship, that only leads to drowning yourself. So talk and find the problems and fix them if possible.
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>>16494108
You don't need to break up yet. But my question is, if you can afford rent on your money alone, how can she be concerned about paying for health insurance? If you can pay the rent and necessities, then her money is just extra income that can be spent on whatever - including health insurance. Important note about health insurance in the states. Because of the ACA (Obamacare), if you make under a certain amount you get insurance credits which makes insurance very cheap. You two probably would qualify for those credits, so it's definitely something you guys should check out. That would basically solve any issues you'd have over paying for it. THANKS OBAMA.
It sounds like she's just getting restless. In fact, I think you both are. Like the other anon said, you two need to sit down and talk about this.
Off topic: How can I learn to be a bear bender?
How can I discern between fatherly affection from someone (who is not my father) and romantic/creepy interest? Or, harmless workplace flirting from something more sinister and serious?
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Nice cabbages.
We're gonna need more detail.
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By separating things into 'perverted' and 'tame' lables.
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>>16494324
Thank you! He is my boss, and a prof I do research with. He has given me extremely kind compliments on my personality (calling me fascinating and intelligent), and always compliments my outfits. He's had me give him a back rub, gently chastised me for smoking, and tousled my hair. We text regularly (almost every day) about not-work, he normally is the first to text. He wants me yo come over to his house so we can do a pottery project together. He is older than my dad by a few years.