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>>16591180
>claiming my new friends are turning me into a "Machiavellian Tyrant"

Well considering you're tryin' to forcibly manipulate her into sharing you're opinions, that sounds like a perfectly accurate description.

Live and let live.
I love it when people claim "progressiveness" but can't adhere to that one simple mantra.

>>16591195
She has a lot of toxic ideals and behaviors. When she talks with her friends she uses the N word frequently. She also uses the word Faggot and the Phrase Sheenee Curse, its grating.

Last date we went on she said "Let's get some Chinaman food" it was gratingly offensive.

>>16591180
>I'm so fucking progressive
>share my views or you're a fucking bigot
Kill yourself senpai.

>>16591178
You need to actually tell each other about whether or not you want children or pets in the future instead of trying to pick up cues from behavior and hoping for the best.

>>16591178
Psychopath

>>16591184
I've always known he didn't want either. I don't want kids or pets right now either. It's more the fact that a person can be actively repulsed by children. Most people can admit they're cute / whatever even if they don't want them, they don't dislike them. Is my boyfriend a sociopath?

>>16591161
I only got one response from a girl last thread but Im interested in what others think.
Could you stay in a relationship with someone who sexually considers you used goods and unappealing but every other aspect of your relationship is perfect.
Or when you guys finally have the sexual history talk and you realize how they feel about your past would you just break it off there.
This could also be interesting to see how guys respond.

girls, is it a bad thing if I didn't manage to read her hints quite properly?

well to put it in a better way, I was giving her hints too, but I just didn't found hers too complicated so I think I gave her mixed signals too because of it.

She just kinda made it slightly more obvious last time we talked, and so did I so I'm thinking of expressing myself when I talk to her next time, (in a day or two)

>>16591242
I just found hers too complicated*

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Just keep practicing and don't zone out. Focus. Remember: a strong independent woman can do anything she wants! And she needs no man to do it.

Just learn it one step at a time. Takes practice, like anything else. Next time, try to JUST focus on keeping your jaws open wide and your lips pulled over your teeth, and let him control the pace & motion.

Once you've gotten used to that, it'll be easier to just do it without thinking about it, and you can start learning some more advanced techniques. But you gotta learn to walk before you can run.

just keep practicing your blowjob with smaller dicks (easier to not use teeth), and add 0.2 inches of girth per week (use tinder and ask for exact measurements when dating a dude)

it works just like Starting Strength, and when you're almost getting to your bf's dick size, consider the ultimate challenge sucking a dick that is +0.8 inches of girth thicker than your bf's. if you can make it, then now you're ready to suck your bf's dick with no problem at all

>female
>only had sex twice
>3 years ago

C'mon this is an anonymous imageboard, you don't have to lie

there's no problem in fucking this dude, no one cares

>>16590927
That's beyond pathetic, that's humiliating

Sounds like an everyone loses situation.

Are you gonna curl up on the couch, watch it together and eat the cookies she baked?

>>16590877
Massive Dick? Medicinal Dildo? Managerial Diarrhea?

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>>16590886

>Fapping lowers the male sex drive
for like half an hour.

>I masturbate badly, meaning I try but I can't orgasm.
that's sad
>Would it be better to not do it at all??
yeah, because it's less sad. It'd be even better to buy a vibrator or dildo or whatever it takes.

>>16590766
then what is all this nofap stuff and advice threads telling guys to quit masturbating?

>>16590645
K? Go do that then.

>>16590645
Because i dont like the idea of other people fucking my girlfriend.
Thats it

>>16590666
you're not getting the point

I fucking hate it as well, but she likes it

I'd love to fuck three girls and the same time, but my girlfriends would hate it

we only do not do it because we would hurt each others feelings

>>16590547
Duct tape and super glue. Don't forget the baseball bat.

Not trying to be rude or push you away, but you could probably find some great beginner's bondage guides on Google, which would suggest things to buy and teach you some basic techniques. better to learn from the experts than to wait around for ideas from random people on 4chan

>>16590547
have been trying to get a gf into this for so long. had two gfs both didnt like it :( youre lucky

0:55 am trying to schedule and organize everything in my mind that i need to still do and buy before christmas, and trying to decide what color to paint my nails

3:00 PM

Thinking about how I should get out of bed soon and all the things I should do today that I probably won't. Not even depressed. Just really fatigued always.

>>16590457
Its 3pm and I'm at work. Trying to deal with the shame of wasting money on strippers/sex acts and my overall rock bottom self esteem.

I have the same problem with being passive* I try to fap only on weekends and I try to stop on weekdays and it has helped with blow jobs and her being on top. Try teasing her alot before going down or fingering her and when it comes to sex I like to put a pillow under her butt when I'm on top. When on top pin down her legs girls like tension. Also you can hold her legs.

Rub her clit while you're fucking her. My gf likes oral but cuts the hardest during actual sex, but it can't just be penetration alone. Keep the clit involved, it's all about the combination, stimulate as many parts of her body at the same time as you can.

For a lot of girls, dirty talk helps a LOT, too. Engage her mentally as well as physically, try out your fantasies/kinks with her, and encourage her to try hers.

Communication is really the key to the whole thing. You're having a hard time summing because you're not really at ease yet. Good sex is all about cutting loose, dropping your inhibitions.

>>16590462

>cuts the hardest
*cums the hardest

>>16590424
My greatest dream is to have a lifelong, loving relationship with my partner and family, and that we will all be happy. That can't really be actualized in a day.

>>16590424
To be thin and healthy.

>>16590424
To not be myself anymore.

>>16590396
Fuck her but don't get attached.

She will spread rumors if you're a dick so treat her well and then it's her fault if it goes sour.

Just get to know her, have fun, and don't get too attached until you really feel like you can trust her. Those things might be "red flags," or she might turn out to be cool. Sounds like you really don't know yet. That's pretty much the exact purpose of dating

Nothing too crazy red flags-wise, but smoking and tattoos are generally signs she's a whore. Also women in europe wear a bra

Real, but overdiagnosed (though not as much as it used to be).

>>16590373

This. And I think it's usually a bad idea to diagnose & medicate young children, unless they're really a danger to themselves and others. A 10-year-old's brain is still developing, and the symptoms of something like ADD are too broad and open to interpretation to be accurately identified in a young child

>>16590332
If it helps you then you should.

I know another guy with fear of dying, and I just don't get it. Dying is inevitable, and so it has always been. Why worry about something you KNOW will happen? You're on earth for a while and then you're not.

>>16590336
I know it's irrational but a friend's older sister died pretty much out of nowhere recently and it's got me fucking paranoid of death. I can't stop thinking about how quick people can go like that.

>>16590287
It's all true. Everyone you know or will ever know will be forgotten the moment they breathe their last. That is nothing new, and in fact is totally natural and right. Wanting anything else is going against nature's course and will undoubtedly lead to continued disillusionment and despair on the part of those who wish to cling to youth, life, and remembrance.

I'd try to realize my ideas of self importance are flawed and that I am as important to others as others are important to me-- that is, not at all. Aging, weakening, degredation of body and mind, and death are all natural things that there is no reason to fear, unless you've developed opinions on those things.

Epictetus said that you should never forget about your eventual death, to always keep in mind the futility of the pursuit of vain and selfish things for yourself. But then, Epictetus also believed that his first lectures should move men to tears of hopelessness and despair, so they may break down their old methods of thinking to find true joy and peace of mind in Stoic thought.