Hey /adv/ is rhinoplasty worth it?
I have a crooked nose , and deviated septum
when I was a 7 yo I broke it so it got crooked , is not seriously crooked or ugly but I dont like it I want my nose straight like when I was 5 yo . and I cant breath very well too , what can you tell me about rhinoplasty.
Rhinoplasty is a simple and harmless procedure, OP. It's actually so common, you probably know a ton of people who had their noses done and you haven't been able to tell. However, the bruising is pretty ugly after the procedure and it takes a while to heal. If it bothers you and you feel like it could have a positive effect on your self-esteem, there's no reason why you shouldn't fix it.
>>16591549
I'm just a bit scared XD
I know that is very common but you know , sometimes Im afraid to get my nose worse than before.
I will probably do it when I have some cash.
>>16591555
Unless you manage to get a seriously bad doctor, there's very little chance of them messing up such a simple fix. Most bad noses happen because that's actually what the person asked for. Don't worry too much about it. Just.. make sure you can hide somewhere while it heals. It's really awful while it's healing!
I put my right hand on the gas stove when I was 4, my hand is extremely burned, and I feel like people are disgusted by it. I work at Victoria's Secret and people always give me dirty looks when I fold their clothes to put it in a bag, and one time a lady even asked me if I could get another associate to touch her things. I cried in the bathroom for a long time after she said that. And sometimes on the bus or something, you'll hear a kid say "LOOK AT HER HAND, MOMMY"
>mfw
People tell me I'm pretty and stuff, but that's before they see my hand. It's all discolored and well, the skin is so badly damaged.
Should I wear a glove? I seriously feel like it would avoid anymore uncomfortable moments.
>>16591532
You can bring gloves back. There are lots of pretty ones and I wish I saw more people wearing them today.
>>16591532
>Should I wear a glove? I seriously feel like it would avoid anymore uncomfortable moments.
Sure. You either have the option of hiding it or not caring what people think. You're struggling with the latter so go ahead and do the former.
People should learn to fuck off and quick being such pricks.
Next time someone comments on your hand say "HOLY SHIT YOUR FACE"
Hey guys how do you deal with this shit? Was with a girl for 4 years and now that I am alone I don't remember how to pick up girls.
>Match with cute girl on tinder
>started discussing
>bitching about a joke I made
>said to her that I don't need her in my life and if she doesn t know how to speak politely and with respect to me I will end the discussion. that i will not treat her as a princess
>"I like this kind of text, I'm very sorry, was
under anesthetic"
>wtf is her answer
>she's now very kind with me and not
unpleasant
>invited her for a drink
>she's busy and she said that she never move for the first date, the guy have to go see her first
>lost interest in our discussion
>never respond to her
It's been 2 days guys and I don't know what to do to see her without seeming needy. I think I have to reaffirm myself like I made in the beginning of our conversation.
I'm not very comfortable with phone seduction.
Help a man who hasn't get laid since 2months
>"I like this kind of text, I'm very sorry, was
under anesthetic"
Means she's a degenerate druggie, good if you're into that sort of thing.
>focusing on a single girl on an app where you literally reject people with a flick
tinder = volume dating
>>16591531
Was really at hospital saw it on fb
>>16591544
I will take it for a personnal defeat if I can't fuck her because she's an attention whore
Posted this on /an/ but that board is a bit slower than this one.
My Bolognese is making strange little gurgling sounds in her throat and sticking her tongue out at a certain pace. It seems like hiccups, but I want to be sure. She ate some peanut butter and a tiny piece of a treat and swallowed both without a problem, but she won't drink water, won't do even simple tricks for more treats, and is currently just lying down in a corner (she was sitting all hunched up before).
It's a little late so no vets are open right now. /an/ advice?
Yeah, peanut butter isn't a good thing to feed your dog, much like dry bread and other things, it can stick to their air passage and make them suffocate! It will most likely melt on its own, but it can take a while and you should watch her to make sure she keeps breathing. Do not fall asleep until you're sure she's breathing fine again.
>>16591524
She started doing this before the peanut butter though, and I only gave her a lick to see if she still had an appetite. Do plan to stay up though.
>>16591527
So its possible she might have swallowed an actual object? You will need to take her to the vet first thing in the morning, I'm afraid. Even if she does manage to breathe normal again, you might need to check the stomach.
Is self harm just a whiny, depressed teenage girl thing, or does anyone else actually do it as an adult aside from me? I feel crazy embarrassed and alone. How do other people deal with it?
>>16591487
You should suffocate in dat ass
shieeeeeeeeeeet
>>16591487
It's a coping mechanism and an addiction. Releases feel good chemicals.
I've been involuntarily hurting myself due to relationship issues, and it's a little crazy but I understand it to be making emotional pain physical
never done it before in my life
How ugly am I?
>>16591466
On a scale of one to ten, with ten being really fucking ugly, you're about a really fuck ugly.
>>16591471
Hey
>>16591466
From 1-10, with 10 being perfect, you're about a 5. I think you're cute in a sweet, homely way.
Some guy I know (I'm also male) is annoying the fuck out of me, texts on a nearly daily basis trying to be friendly even after I told him I don't like texting that much. He initiates literally 100% of the time and still doesn't get the hint. I'm normally a (brutally) honest person, but I don't know a polite way to get him to fucking leave me alone.
>>16591422
mute the conversation and dont reply
what a weird bloke
>>16591423
Might be the best option. He isn't at pic related level, but it's annoying nevertheless.
>>16591422
>I'm normally a (brutally) honest person
if you are tell him he's annoying
Adv, i badly want to get over this. I always hated my looks with force. I always despised my body. It's my number one enemy. I am absolutely disgusted by it. It is ruining my life. I want it to stop and i have no idea how. Nothing is helping. I try to work on the flaws. I try to not care as much. I try to learn taking a compliment. I try to get my selfesteem up trough other things. It doesn't change a thing. My body is on my mind 24/7 and i don't want this shit anymore. How the hell do i stop this? And yes, i'm going to therapy. It's not helpfull. And yes, i got a bf that tells me that i'm beautifull but to me it just sounds like he is fucking with me. Even tought he is the most sincere and awesome person ever.
>>16591377
Attention whore detected
>>16591380
Thanks for the helpfull advice
>>16591377
Well, what's wrong with it?
What your bf says is irrelevant. What your counsellor says is irrelevant. All that matters is what you say to yourself inside your head. Start working out and exercising (not even to look better, but just to USE your body and realise how fucking sick it is that you even have one in the first place - it releases endorphins too).
I agreed to go out with a girl I don't like because no other girl I like has agreed to go out with me. Does anyone have any tips on how to make this work? She makes me somewhat sick but a hole's a hole. What do?
It won't work. What do you dislike about her?
>>16591334
She's ugly as sin. I hear people fake relationships all the time so I thought I'd give it a try but goddamn is this hard.
>>16591351
You probably won't get any better than her and you possibly aren't that great looking yourself.
Not sure what else to say except lower your expectations.
Is it wrong to want a BDSM relationship? The idea of it sounds so interesting, but would that make me abnormal? The worst part is that I'm a female.
Stop with these insecure threads already anons of 4chan.
>but would that make me abnormal
>maybe. maybe not. who cares?
>next
I don't understand anything in the OP
What the fuck is wrong with that and why does your gender matter, go find someone else who's interested in it and give it a try
Are you looking for people to tell you it's fucked up? 'Cause it's really not.
If bottom:
Of course it can work, but you need to be veeeerrry picky about who is allowed to tie you up and flog you.
If top:
It'll work briefly, but you will rapidly lose interest in men who submit to you. Just go into porn and make as much money as you can.
I'm halfway through my TIG welding certification, I'll be certified in February.
I'm starting to get discouraged....I'm pretty good, but not amazing. I can weld better than the majority of my class, but there's one or two guys in my class that are really good.
One of the guys in my class has been a non-certified welder for ten years, he's only making 20$ an hour. He's taking the TIG welding course to increase his pay.
My girlfriend works at a day spa doing facials and bikini waxes, she makes 11$ an hour plus tips. She makes great tips, she usually comes home with 70-150$ an hour making her wage about 25$ an hour some days.
She didn't have to go to school or anything, and she's making better money than I would probably be making as a certified welder.
Should I just drop TIG welding all together and work at a job that includes tips? The guy in my class who is a welder says a lot of companies require overtime, so they're working upwards of 60-80 hours a week.
I'm starting to feel really shitty about my career choice. I don't know what to do. It's hard to dedicate myself to this when I'm unsure about it.
>go to uni
>no job
>do trades
>no job
WHY IS EXISTENCE PAIN
>>16591315
I don't know man, maybe this existence is another world's hell.
I'm just feeling so lost. Welding feels like something I have to LOVE to succeed at.
:/ I just want to earn a living, I hate competing with everybody. The only reason I'm doing welding is because I need a job. I don't want to dedicate years of my life to something I don't care about just so I can make 11-15$ an hour.
Is it possible to tell if a girl is a roastie by just talking to her?
Are you the guy who posted this same image a day or two ago, also complaining about "roasties"?
Cause if so, you're pretty gross and not in any position to be so picky.
>>16591218
yeah it' me. i didn't get any good advice last thread
also, how am i being gross? me preferring a woman who isn't a roaster is no different than a woman who only dates guys with tattoos or whatever.
You won't get any good advice because your question is fucking stupid. There's obviously no way to know unless you ask her to show you her vagina right away.
Simple question : How do you get yourself out of denial ?
By being open about taking advice and by stopping to feel like a victime and try to blame everything on others and circumstances
>>16591205
Unfortunately , being open could get me in trouble , or make people despise me.
>>16591196
It depends on why you are denying that thing.
Is it a person? A belief? A bad habit?
Girls gather around, your advice is needed
Do girls like kissing a guy with beard, specifically when the moustache is in the way ?
Yes, yes, YES! but for the records, my bf's facial hair is somehow very soft and not prickly at all. Could also be that everything feels like cotton candy when i touch him - who knows
Nope, my father is hairy and I don't have a daddy complex so it's a complete turn off for me. (My father has had a moustache for my entire life (26) years)
>>16591240
So, everything that reminds you of your dad is a no-go? I have bad news about you and a possible daddy-issue...
I think I might be a bit of a creep. How do I effectively stamp out creepy behaviour?
What makes you think you might be creepy?
>>16591215
Well yesterday I walked up to a middle school girl and asked her for a kiss. I'm a 24 year old male.
>>16591185
Creep here.
I got rules. Structure's good.
>Don't speak (to women), unless spoken to, unless you need something (that isn't sexual), like some work-related paperwork or shit.
>Make enough small talk (once they've said "hi" first) to avoid being the creep quiet guy, not enough to be loud and obnoxious.
>Don't ask anything too personal, don't tell anything too personal. Talk about the fuckin' weather. The fuckin' weather is fuckin' great.Or work, talk about that. Or college, depending on where you are. I don't fuckin' know.
>Never ask them about there relationship status. It's basically hinting that you might be interested.
>NEVER EVER EVER SHOW ANY INTEREST WHAT SO EVER. You all intents and purposes, you're a celibate asexual who doesn't even look.
>Remember that whole "You can look but can't touch" rule. Yeah, well, people like us can't even look. Practise not moving your head at all when a gorgeous woman walks by... which reminds me...
>NEVER COMMENT OF THEIR APPEARANCE. No compliments, no insults. Coming from a "creep", it's always offensive. Do not call a woman "gorgeous" or "beautiful". Remember, practise playing the role of an asexual. You have no fuckin' idea if she looks good or not. She's just, a girl... not pretty, not ugly. Just, someone. That's it.
>If any of them ever show any interest, it's a "creep test". They are testing to see if you're a "creep" in disguise. Don't believe it. It's a trap. Any time you find yourself thinking "Hey, she actually seems to like me", slap yourself. She doesn't,and it'll end badly for you. Walk away.
That's how to not be a creep.