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It's ignorant of you to say. People are allowed to change their mind about their major or career without getting the ok from some guy in the states who probably doesn't have any experience in that field.

It's rude to say because it's not your place. You have no say in his decision making and you shouldn't cause drama about it.

>>16595937
He's thinking about dropping out of college? What can he do besides flipping burgers at McDonalds?
I think he is just being picky, that is all. Can you name a job which does not have a single shitty aspect? Most people dislike their jobs and it's the same worldwide. My friend's brother is nothing special.

Ask her out

>>16595857
So let's say I invite her to a movie/restaurant/whatever. What do I do next? Obviously visiting some public place together doesn't turn her into your girlfriend.

>>16595864
Go out a few times. When you feel it's right and want to make it official just ask her if she would like to be your gf.

Don't over think this shit.

>>16595780
Yes, very important. Moral relativity these days is fucking a lot of shit up.

I guess I'm a Stoic

I'm not even sure how to define morals really. Most of my actions are guided mostly by logic.

She wants to party and sleep around during the cruise and is too much of a coward to break up with you for real.

>>16595800
Really doubt it man, because the cruise thing is not even for sure, is just one option. Besides, she'll be working, so the party hard on the cruise sounds a bit unrealistic.

Also, nice dubs!

>>16595773
>so she'll work in a cruise line for 4 months
Are you really surprised that she wants to break up given this? Think it through a second.

Whatever happened she was already thinking it. What made you ask that? Even though she said no she isn't tired maybe it just hit her all the sudden, that's what I would of thought.

You're done for.

>>16595739
Sounds like it.

in what context did he feel her butt? picking her up or something is okay but if he was touching it intentionally, it's weird and he needs to be supervised around her

>>16595533
Like she was playing with her toys and he just sort of felt it.

>What would you do If you found out your little brother, say 16 nearly 17 felt your 4 yr old daughter's butt just a bit while you were over for thanksgiving ?

That's not a whole lot of context. Could've been an accident.

Weed affects people differently. Either weed isn't for you, or smoke less.

How about you read on the effects of drugs before taking them nigger?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Effects_of_cannabis#Psychoactive_effects

>>16595451


Same thing happens to me. Get dizzy, get panicky, and I freak out. Just can't smoke weed man, sorry. I've tried a million times but its just the same thing.

Serotonin spikes and anxiety disorders just don't mix.

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Happiness (or lack thereof) is not dependent on your external amenities (or lack thereof). It's a brain chemistry thing.

>>16595321
You can't die from jumping into water, as long as you don't hit Any rocks you'll be fine

I want it to kill me

Looks like less than 10 meters.
If you can properly hit the water instead of rock, and the wate ris deep enough, you'll live.
Make sure to assume the correct body position or it could get injured though.

Why do you think it was your fault?

>>16595245
hey now, hold on there. what did you do to cause him to kill himself? hell you tried to calm him down! you did the right thing. you absolutely cannot feel guilty. you did the right thing and should be proud. you can't go back and question if you should have said something differently when you tried your best. that's all you can do, your best. there wasn't a way this wasn't going to happen regardless of what you did. you need to be at peace with that.

i'm not sure who to contact when you can't contact any family. do you have a friend close by?

what a little cunt. i hope you beat the living shit out of that other cousin of yours.

autism

The pillow thing sounds more of a fetish than actual embarrassment.

I guess some chick's are conscious of the faces they make during

I didnt know this was a thing. My gf covers her eyes and doesnt really make eye contact. I cant be that ugly ktgerwise she wouldnt be fucking me

Idk but I actually dont give a fuck about it anymore.

BUUUUUMP

>>16594837
It goes both ways.

>>16594824
Building trust after it was breached is near impossible. It will always be in the back of your mind.

>>16594838
That is so true.
Trust is earned and never forgotten.

Why put the word deeply there? Now it's word porn. This anon is fucking annoying. Get rid of yourself, already.

>>16594692
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>I wouldnt have this problem if I girls thought I was attractive
>Im not cool like you
>Im too short
Like holy shit. He just broke down infront of me one day. I couldnt even try to cheer him up or help him because hed just rant on about how during the emotion sponge period women all talk about how my friends and I are attractive and ignore him.
And holy shit dont let him actually like a girl. Literally everything goes wrong for him Im really tired of listening to how shitty he ends up getting treated.
How do I help this guy. I keep telling him to stop being a faggot that no one actually likes nice guys. Theyre just to use and abuse but he really wants to believe people are good deep down. Then he goes on about how even Im a douche to him but always have his best interest in mind so he hopes others are like that. I literally cant save him from a life of misery and being an emotional sponge.

You can't help him if you think deep down people are not good. That no one likes being treated nicely. If you could help him while believing that, why would you? Unless you imagine you're both separate from the rest of the world. If people only do things for their own benefit, you should stop trying to help him too. You'd prove yourself right and not have to deal with him anymore.
Do you want to help him for your own gain just so you don't need to deal with him? Or do you actually care at all about helping someone?

>>16594697
>>16594692
Might as well go into what happens with women he likes a bit.

Usually its coming across to him that the girls he like and just girls in general hang out with him to get to the rest of the group since hes the most approachable. And I cant even deny that because its partly true. But man when its a girl you like its pretty rough. He doesnt even like bringing the girls he likes around us which complicates things even more for him since we cant even try to be a bro and help him out.
He ask girls (and guys but this is about girls he likes right now) to hang out with him (just him) and spend so quality to time him and he usually just gets blown off unless the girl needs him or wants to hang out with someone else in the circle. When they do its usually him being an emotional sponge, doormat, etc and it literally hurts me to watch such faggotry. But its how he believes people should be treated. I assume this is a girl thing because guys dont really try to abuse him the same way and when they do it by doing something really douche and the rest of the group tells the guy to fuck off. But we cant do that to a girl he likes. Basically he gets used and dump by girls a lot. Any time they start talking about relationships hes subtly let down but in ways that crush his confidence.
>I like taller guys
>I like buff guys
>I think the guy is so hot
Hell he even was just going to confess to this one girl and when he did she basically cut off all connection to him and some other brutal things (she still comes around the group but avoids him like the plague)
It gets better, other girls do this to him as well and when I asked 1 about it she gave me some sob story about how she was afraid he liked her because it would alienate her from the rest of us. Best part is apparently he was around the corner and heard this.

Really Ive been just trying to tell him to stop being a faggot and that he shouldnt be nice to people, especially women but they are quick to abuse.

Not sure how bad they are but they may be comparable to hemmoroids. I would think kidney stones hurt a lot more but hemmoroids hurt like crazy sometimes too.

Just push it out and take the giant hit of pain at once and live with it, going slow would not equal less pain in this siituation I don't think.

It will hurt. A lot.

A woman that I know that has given birth three times swears kidney stones are worse. I've seen it make a man unable to move, throw up from pain, and cry. Drink a lot of water. It will increase the chance of coming out sooner better, and when you pass it you may feel like you are about to pass out. If you have a heating pad place it on your back over the kidney with the stone. Increase blood flow to your kidney will increase the output which will help you pass it quicker.

Good luck.

Uh.. dude.. imagine pushing a small sharp stone down your urethra (out of your p). That's what will happen and how it will feel like.

My condolences.