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>>16586386

Write a self-help book.

They also tend to push the idea that if you try hard and take accountability for your problems, everything will suddenly magically go well.

Fact is, a lot of people try in life only to get to upper middle class midlife crisis land.

tell me how to get peace

no matter how much ambitions you have conquered or how succesful you are, if you don't have peace you will suffer like everyone else

people who have it all also suffers

Some people are trying to steer a stationary car, and others are putting the pedal to the floor while the nose is stuck in a ditch.

Do you see a dermatologist?

>>16586368

I don't see any doctors since they are all scammers.
I've always had a bad experience and sincerely prefer to cure myself at home, since a doctor would just give me some autistic suggestion along a toxic cream which just seems to temporarily work.

Also I wouldn't be here if I was seeing a dermatologist.

>>16586372
The creams rarely work. But they do have a pill now called otezla. I have an appointment in January to get on it. Don't have to do the blood tests like you do with the shots/biologics. You could try a gluten free diet. There is a forum for psoriasis with tons of at home remedies and suggestions. Like nationalpsoriasis something...

>>16586359
there is no right time. you're not a personality-less robot. hell some people don't start til they're 30, some start at 16. they're not you so who cares? if you have to, apply to anything. even if it's retail or some other meaningless stuff. a paycheck is a paycheck. do the activities you enjoy and look for classes with them if you wanna meet people. if there aren't classes, get out there and enjoy them on your own, meet people naturally. it doesn't matter that you haven't kissed anyone unless you want to be with a girl who doesn't accept you for who you are. that's why being a virgin when i was about 20 didnt make a difference with my first serious gf

Start putting in applications to places. It's annoying, but easy. Just get a basic job that you'll have no problem quitting when the time comes, like a cashier. It will teach you important lessons in both socializing with people, and hating people. Start putting money away for inevitable car troubles or health issues.

Other than that, I can't help you. I'm still learning to be an adult.

>>16586395
Unfortunately I cannot have a full time job while studying and part time jobs don't exist where I live (3rd world country, imagine all the low paying jobs the mexicans take over there except everyone here is mexican).

>>16586392
Can you share a bit of your experience?

Girls, why do none of you study computer science?

This is not the first time I post this question. I really want to see my wife's sister naked. Preferably her showing me, rather than getting a creep shot. How can I go about doing that without messing up relationships?

>>16586411
I study cs. I even do freelance work and code for an open source game.

my best friend is also female and a programmer

>>16586328
>open your mouth
>stick finger against the inside of your cheek
>close mouth and suck on your finger against the inside of cheek
>move finger in and out
>repeat

It's like that except with your dick in a vagina, and it makes you feel good instead of making you feel like you're a baby again.

>>16586328
their dick getting tingly and/or being able to share yourself with someone. it goes from the first, to both, to the second as you mature.

It varies, dependant on you're attraction to the person and what's going through your mind.

2 l8

>>16586326
What did you do?

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>>16586326
ITT

>>16586285
Well, after listening to your vocaroo, I hav3 to agree with them unless you're totally lying and pitch shifted your voice.

You definitely seem to have the correct deepness in your voice, and it really doesn't seem like you're overly monotone. The fact that you've been offered stuff (but didn't take it?!?!?!) is testament to this. People work their whole lives to get into voice acting, don't squander the opportunity. Once you get into it you might find that you love it.

Frankly I'm pretty jealous. I podcast and want nothing more than to do radio or voice act ( or both).

Give it a shot anon.

>>16586299
Also, you can get a decent Mic set up for like 300 dollars. That's a mount and everything.

>>16586285
do you have any interest in this? for example, if someone has a huge dick they CAN go into porn. alternatively, if you don't have any interests yet - why not while you find them if you'd earn more? it wouldn't be a waste of time, the industry is probably always looking for a voice like yours

So what are some interesting stories, events, topic that I can find info on the internet and write about?

talk about kids on youtube learn lots of money and making a career out of it

>>16586260
let's learn some monies

So I saw my first real homeless guy a few months ago and I decided to drop off a new sleeping bag at his spot while he wasn't there. There's a few things I can hope to get out of that, first it would be nice if I made a good impression, and second it helps make the city a better place.

I don't think it's a zero-sum game, imagine any decent/nice place, it'll have people doing nice things for each other mutually. Doing something which had absolutely no effect on you would be hard because the world is complex. Also there really is no need for it. Like what do you expect, you did something out of pure kindness, *achievement unlocked*, then what.

>>16586245
i can relate because i used to be the type of person to hang out with friends cause I was bored, etc.

it made me think people dont really do anything out of pure kindness either. but i learned that just because you're selfish, it doesn't mean everyone else is. how do you overcome this? you do nice things for other people without expecting anything in return. realize that it's possible and happens, and that you doing it wouldn't be the first time in history (or even that day). you just have to force yourself at first. you'll realize it will make you feel good about yourself while helping others. being nice to others and selfless serves the self, it's a paradox but a good one. eventually you'll start doing it because it makes you feel good. after that, you'll eventually start doing it solely because you want to help that person and know that you feeling good about it means so much less

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>>16586311
>then what
Then nothing. Only, this “kindness” seems an artificial and watered down version of what it's supposed to be.

>>16586333
I am not saying everyone else is selfish; I am saying that, with very few exceptions, altruism -- at least as far as I've been able to see -- is ultimately kinda selfish.
By what you've written, it sounds like -- if you're not naturally inclined to be selflessly nice -- the solution is forcing yourself to do nice things for others until... what, you delude yourself into thinking you like it?

Just find a fat introverted girl on OKcupid.

>>16586204
Hate to break it to you bro, but you're either born a roastie or not. My daughter has had one since she was born. I haven't bathed her since she was 6 for obvious reasons but she was well on her way.

>roasties
the fuck are you talking about.
>I want a girl who has patrician tastes
if you want to meet a rich girl go someplace where expensive things are sold or someplace that charges admission. it's not complicated.
>a stacy with a blown out roastie pussy.
seriously, what the fuck are you talking about?
>It's incredibly hard to find a girl who is into literature/film/video games.
>They're either going out drinking on the weekends or at home watching netflix
>It's incredibly hard to find a girl who is into film
>They're at home watching netflix
retard.
>How and where can I meet women who are worth a fucking damn (if there are any) ?
I don't know what you're even asking, videogames are the plebbiest possible hobby.

>>16586162
yeah and then enjoy your lag and having your battery die in 3 months. get something like a lumia 535 at that price point and enjoy having a decent new phone without blowing all of your money on an overpriced toy that is pretty much dead on arrival.

don't use your whole budget to get a sad Iphone, get a cheap android, like that high spec blu. and save for a nice happy iphone7 in the fall.
>>16586173
>windows phone
get the fuck out.

>>16586205
>>16586173
I need an iPhone for social status

Its the same reason why I buy Jordan's and Ralph Lauren I pay money for status

Is it possible that her period just had extrmely poor timing? That happens sometimes.

If there is no chance of this, though, then see a doctor. There are a few other things that could cause this, and some of them are not dangerous, but some of them are.

>>16586096
I bled like I was having a light period for a few days after I lost my virginity. I'm pretty sure it is natural. Nothing bad happened to me. I read an article that says skin tissue from the hymen and small lacerations inside the vagina are bleeding and comes out as chunky-ish blood like a period. You probably tore her skin a bit too. That is normal.

Wait for her to heal before having sex again. Also try lube and foreplay next time. Get her to relax so the vaginal muscles open up.

>>16586117
How long did you bleed like that? It's been about 3 days now and she's panicking

Your not going to fucking jail hahaha

>>16586094
Care to explain why? I'm sort of freaking out. I've got a great career and I'd hate to have to give it up because I was a fucking idiot.

>>16586094
>Your not going to fucking jail hahaha

If it is your first dui and put weren't going over 15 miles over the speed limit which is considered reckless driving.. Plus you stated you were on an empty road... I've got a little experience... You'll most likely have a fine and license suspension for about 3-6months... Plus if that's you in the photo your looks won't hurt anything

>I've never has a girlfriend or hell, held a girls hand. I think this due to the worry of my penis not being long enough or laughable.
do you? do you really think that? really? is that what you think? that's what you think is the cause? because of that? that's why? that's really why? seriously? you think that? seems right to you?

Mine is six inches and I've never had any complaints. That's slightly -- very slightly -- longer than the average. Not enough to notice, but it's in the top 50 percent. I wouldn't mind it being a little longer, not a lot, but I've been with some pretty tiny girls who would have been uncomfortable with anything more, and yes, I have enough experience to tell the difference between somebody trying to flatter me and a girl genuinely being like, yeah, I'm good, I don't want nothing more jammed in my vagina, please.

Also, girls are terrible at telling length. I've actually had this conversation before:
Girl: "What are you, like seven inches?"
Me: "... no. Pretty average. Six."
Girl: "But you're as big as my ex and he was seven inches."
Me: "And who measured that?"
Girl: "... he did."

Basically six inches is fine and most will probably think it's bigger. You can be a perfectly good fuck with that. Stop watching so much porn.

"It may be short! But it sure is skinny!" Just dont ever act self concious about your penis size. If anything play it off as a joke like my quote there haha. Trust me 9/10 the girl will be like "wow! It's bigger than I expected." Having low self esteem about anything is the biggest turn off for guys and girls.

What did the police say?

if you guys haven't found him in 14 years, it will be unlikely that you will find him now

your grandmother's last wish is unrealistic, you don't have to go kill yourself trying to find him

There is no record of him there, the police here are useless. and there is no death certificate anywhere either. I mean, he is/was a religious person with autism, not one to get in trouble, Last time I heard he was probably in the us, don't know any ways to check that sort of thing though.