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Is it possible to stop being shut-in and social retard?Im 19 and i stopped going out of my house since i was 12-13 without counting going to school all of that because i was bullied and now i cant even talk to my parents without feeling awkward.Also people almost always tell that my facial expression is of someone who is really sad even if i dont feel like that at the moment.
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Your only real question is whether going outside and talking to people is possible, even if you haven't done it for six years.
My estimate is yes, yes it's possible.
Start with something easy, where you know people are welcoming towards strangers. Like volunteering at a shelter, something like that? Join a club? Do some life drawing? Idk, are you socially awkward, or are there other reasons for shutting in?
Maybe you are depressed. Depression doesn't equal sadness.
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>>16597145
>Idk, are you socially awkward, or are there other reasons for shutting in?
Yes i am and thats the main reason im shut in
>Maybe you are depressed
Im but lately its better.
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>>16597002
>Is it possible to stop being shut-in and social retard?
Yes, but it takes time. If you can get a friend to help you out on that, it will save you years, but it's hard to find someone willing to cope with our autism.
It took me probably 3-4 years, and I'm still not normal. Here's my experience:
I started being shut-in around 15 and and I hit the rock bottom at 24. At that age, for example: I couldn't even make a phone call to a local store asking for the availability of a product, I was writing "scripts" on paper beforehand so I knew what to say.
Some external events forced me to get out of my comfort zone and it made me realize how I wasted around 10 years of my life sleeping.
I started to try to improve my look (go to gym and pay more attention to fashion). I also started to force myself to go out.
I was fucking ridiculous at first (first time I went to the gym I was just standing there not knowing what to do, same thing for the stuff I said when I started to try to go out, god was I retarded). But I also learned to not give too many fucks about what other people think, because my goal is more important than that.
TL;DR like yourself and people will like yourself as well.
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>caught my mom and her friend lezzing out
i don't want to tell my dad
what do
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Then don't tell him. It's not your place. Do they know you know?
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they know. i walked in on them
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>>16596857
Oh. Did your mom talk to you later about it? Either way, don't tell your dad, she might now that it's out there, I still say it's not your place to.
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As a very pretty, but really shy girl, where do I meet guys? I'm doing online dating right now and I'm getting a lot of attention, but I'm kind of terrified of all of the men on there and I'd really much rather meet someone IRL.
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How do you know you're very pretty?
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>>16596850
Because it's not hard to tell when you're objectively attractive? And I've been told many, many times.
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>>16596850
Uhh... that's online dating. You meet someone online, and if you like each other, you arrange to meet in real life. What's difficult about that?
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How to begin FWB with hot guy? 2015-12-23 16:00:04 Post No.16596716
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How to begin FWB with hot guy?
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TL;DR - I want to be better friends with a pretty good looking guy and establish a FWB. Where to begin?
Ok, so there is this guy I am sort of, kind of, friends with. We went on an interstate road trip and camped together for 3 days with another friend, but we haven't really talked all that often since the trip in September. He's pretty attractive, and I'm pretty sure he is somewhat pursued by girls.
I'm recently out of a long term relationship and honestly, I want to be friends with him and potentially bang him. Hypothetically, if you were a hot guy, or a guy who was semi-desired by women and a semi- cute, 6/10 girl wanted to hang out, how would you respond?
Pls help, I am literally retarded.
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Should I come out and ask him straight up? Should I ask him to coffee, or is that too date-y?
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Ask him to go to your house
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>>16596733
lol I live with my parents
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schizophrenia advice? 2015-12-23 15:51:54 Post No.16596700
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Any fellow anons have schizophrenia I was diagnosed recently any tips advice??? I am thinking "now what" keep going with my life and take meds?, I heard some mixed reviews about Seroquel any alternatives?
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you see any spooky desu?
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>>16596707
I don't understand do I see scary hallucinations? from time to time now yes
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>>16596707
kek
So I'm done with finals, 1 A 3 B's.
Not so bad, the problem is my father, he wants me to get all Aces in everything.
Yes I am responsible for these grades and it's actually good but my dense motherfucking father doesn't appreciate my work, he'll say good but he won't mean it, he have every right to get mad because at the end he is the one paying for the fees but still, I worked hard to get these grades
Since I found out I still didn't tell him and feeling depressed because I hate it every time he gets made and shit.
What should I do?
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>he have every right to get mad because at the end he is the one paying for the fees
If you can't meet his conditions, tell him to stop paying or shut up.
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>>16596677
My dad is the same way, and I'm in the same situation you are.
Honestly, since he is paying, he has every right to know your grades and feel however he wants to feel about them. Telling him to fuck off jeopardizes your funding and not telling him is going to piss him off if he finds out.
DESU, your best route is to tell him and then just accept his getting angry and work harder next semester. 1 A and 3Bs isn't terrible, but honestly isn't that great either.
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>Honestly, since he is paying, he has every right to know your grades and feel however he wants to feel about them. Telling him to fuck off jeopardizes your funding and not telling him is going to piss him off if he finds out.
You're going to have decide if being emasculated and emotionally blackmailed is worth saving a little bit of money. You're actually being infantilized by not paying yourself, too.
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Would you say something? 2015-12-23 15:31:26 Post No.16596674
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IMAGE NOT RELATED, just some random wallpaper I picked because last time I typed some stuff it got vanished because I didn't pick an image.
If you were told, in no uncertain terms there was nothing you could do, your time left was limited.
Would you tell your spouse? Would you tell your family? Friends?
Or would you put on a brave face, keep it to yourself, try to make life as normal and happy filled with as many good memories as possible till you couldn't keep it to yourself anymore?
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>being vague the post
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>>16596684
vague? Do you even know what that word means. Nothing vague in my question but here I'll spell it out for you.
If you knew you were going to die, would you say something. Ex, you're told at best you have maybe 6 months left. Less vague now?
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>The Sequel: Bring Salty the Post
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About a month into a new relationship (both at university). She is a stunning skinny blonde girl, and she is sex obsessed. She has major kinks that I already know about. Anyway. Yesterday, I went to her flat in London (we live in the same halls at uni). I stood outside and heard her having sex - I listened to the door and realised it was her ex boyfriend. I've never met him but I know of him. I heard them fucking, moaning, her gagging (probably from BJ). This turns me on like crazy, I went back a couple of hours later last night and I fucked her, haven't told her I know that she hooks up with her ex. I want to stay with her and I want her to keep fucking her ex. Is it too early to tell her this? Would this scare her off? Halp
In short am beta cuck fag
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>>16596606
Its a safe for work board you idiot
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>>16596606
Fuck sorry how fix
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This is a work safe board you dumbass.
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I've already bought my partner his Christmas present, but I really want to make him something.
The thing is though, I can't think of what to make him. I've looked online but there are so many options that are either too hard, take too long, or the resources are too expensive. And I'd rather hear ideas from you guys.
So /adv/, what can I make for my partner?
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>>16596552
a cool ps4/xbox game both of you like and can play together
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>>16596585
Good idea, however OP wants ideas on handmade gifts.
I'd offer ideas but I'm not creative in the slightest.
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what is your partner into?
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So... there are many articles about not talking to your ex at all in order to get them back. In your experience: is it better to keep waiting until they appear, or should i talk to her in a friendly way to let her know i'm still there for her? I simply don't want to miss a chance..
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>>16596539
MOVE THE FUCK ON, "NOT TALKING TO THEM" ISNT ABOUT GETTING THEM BACK ITS ABOUT FORGETING ABOUT THEM SO YOU CAN MOVE ON... SHIT MAN
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>>16596544
Well I don't think it is so simple... i've usually been in the other side with other girlfriends and they come back after a few weeks not talking to them. It makes them see very weak, and you can do pretty much whatever you want in that position... now the thing is i dont want to look weak, i want her to realize i'm a good shot. Truth is i've never returned with an ex before, and i don't know how it works.
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>>16596544
His wish is to get them back, moron. Don't advice on "How do I get over?" It's not what he's asking.
OP, how long since you broke up? How long have you been on no contacr whatsoever?
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I met this girl online and she lives ln my area and wants to hook up. She sent me multiple pictures of her and I used tineye andand some other reverse image search sites and they found 0 matches. Should I take the chance?
>Pic related
>it's her
If needed I'll post other pictures of her
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>>16596409
She'll probably be disappointed but go for it.
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>>16596409
she looks trashy, prolly has warts and hep C
only fuck shy rich girls under the age of 25 when meeting girls online anon...
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She looks like bad news and crazy.my neighborhood is full of girls that have the same needy psycho smile.
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If you touched your niece innaapropriately , and you are really sorry about it , and worried you could've hurt her or done permenant damage , should you talk to your sister about it?
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You gonna get indicted, playa. Find an attorney and don't talk to anyone about anything ever, Holmes.
I'm fucking serious. Even a single "heartfelt confession" will completely ruin your fucking case.
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>>16596393
How does a 17 yr old aquire a lawyer without attracting unwanted attention?
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>>16596402
Oh damn, how old is the niece?
Depends on how American you are, Holmes.
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Christmas Presents For SO 2015-12-23 10:33:27 Post No.16596264
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Christmas Presents For SO
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What are you giving your significant other for Christmas (if anything), /adv/?
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chastity belt
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>>16596264
A toilet paper sheet with"I owe U another gift" on it, because I wanted to offer flowers other stuff but they won't survive through the mail and we can't see each other before March.
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>>16596264
>comic book of favorite superhero
>wallet
>shirt
Thinking of getting him something else or making him something but I'm undecided.
Any ideas?
We've been together for 1.5yrs, is all that too much?
How should I handle this? My ex is an extremely manipulative and calculating person. Things ended on extremely bad terms due to him being an asshole. I haven't spoken to him in about 3 years. Out of nowhere he posts on my facebook (we are not friends on there and have had absolutely no contact through social media). My rational thoughts are telling me to just delete his post. My possibly overthinking thoughts are that somehow my deleting his post will give him satisfaction because he knows I acknowledged him in some way. And he is weird and calculating like that. I want to never give him any sense of satisfaction. What should I do?
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he sounds like me, so what would piss me off the most is if you completely ignore it
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>>16595994
Sounds like a good way to go about it.
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You are your own problem. Why should you care if he feels satisfaction from your deletion of the post or not? He is not a part of your life and his satisfaction or lack thereof should have no bearing on your own feelings. You are expending energy by maintaining a grudge and hatred against him, which is even evident in the your OP. You need to learn to let go of your hatred or it will continue to be what controls your thoughts and actions.
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Guys, how can I change back the way threads look? I had to reset my settings, and now for some reason my threads look like this.
I want it so that when I click on a reply, it opens up the reply in a new, darker box inside the original post, not this reddit-esque looking format.
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>>16595982
You using 4chanx?
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>>16596022
Yep.
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>>16596026
damn, mine does it on default so you want it to look like t his?