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stepfathers are pretty awesome except toward shitty children

Your question isn't vague at all OP.

>>16590248
they're awesome, back the fuck up

It's just random chance. It's not like we wear that kind of stuff on a sign around our necks.

>>16590088

>go to craigslist
>post ad
>be specific about men sending pictures, etc. maybe even link totheir facebook profile so you can see they arent creepers
>pick the hottest one whose ideas of sex match upwith yours

alternatively
>go to the section of mens posting
>theres some qts there
>message them

also

>go on tinder
>swipe right on any guy remotely attractive to you
>speak about your unspeakably sexy ideas

its not hard in this day and age

Like what? Are you looking for a bf or a hook up?

>>16590076
>2/2
And because they seem so conflicted, it implies that they really don't want to go through with it. So I try to appeal to that, and attempt to convince them to just stay friends with her. That's the least they could do, and she's at least entitled to their friendship.

But no, this ends up sparking arguments with even the sweetest, nicest of my guy friends. Hell, I even begged some of them before to at least please, keep her as a friend. I've honestly begged them as deeply and sincerely as I could. Yet not only does this further the arguments, but it has resulted in them cutting *me* off as a friend. Even those who I cared about the most, they still dropped me from the face of the Earth and act like I was never there in the first place.

So why are men so picky and stuck up about staying friends with women? Nothing about this should be so hard and dramatic. Nothing about it is even close to being logical. And yet it's always men overreacting and making such a big deal out women and friendships. A big deal out of something which is really as close to nonexistence as you can get.

>>16590078
Because hanging with other dudes are easier than with the OPPOSITE sex. You don't have to constantly explain yourself. Your bro understands with a simple nod. Kinda like how you can't understand this situation.

Also guys want their own gf/wife, any time they spend with a female who will not be a mate, is time away from finding a mate.

>>16590094
Pretty much this.

Get over it, man. It's basically just a hobby. If he does his job and takes care of his family, it doesn't fucking matter what he thinks about the moon landing. It's inconsequential. Some people just find this stuff interesting and like to read different viewpoints, just let him have his fun

Kill yourself for giving a shit

>>16590063

get over it. has he earned your respect in any other way? perhaps by raising you well, giving good advice, buying you nice things, not treating you like his personal punching bag, etc?

if he brings it up a lot, try to embrace it. conspiracy theories are an interesting topic of discussion, even if you dont believe em. i dont believe the earth is flat, but i bring it up alllllll the fucking time, show people the map, how it would work if it was flat, etc. i love conspiracy theories, even the whacky outlandish ones.

nothing better than a beer and a crazy documentary. i mean no one really believes ancient aliens but we were talking about it nonstop when it was in its prime.

why cant you be that bro for your dad?

What kind of yoghurt? Do you eat something else?

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>>16590047
This kind exactly

>>16590043
It's unhealthy to eat 2 pounds of anything everyday.

Why exactly were you late?

>>16589974
I was closing a deal. Was my fault, I had all weekend to do it. i could just say that I was trying to get a hold of him for days but that's actually true..

>>16589983

What do you mean closing a deal? was this work related? I'm assuming it was. So you procrastinated? what exactly was the reason you waited? I mean bottom line is just try not to postpone things I suppose or get things done earlier. If it was work related and there was nothing you could do to speed up the process at least keep your job informed of what's going on and up to date with current sitreps.

Oooh soo delicate

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1. Buy this
2. Play

>>16589886
Did you play it seriously as in an organized team with practices and games similar to highschool football? The nuances become much more apparent once you've experienced the game for real. That's why I watch football.

>>16589868

>come out to my parents

why tho? your parents dont need to know anything about your sex life.

as for everything else, im sure you'll get over it if you explore it. everyones got some kind of kink and bdsm is the most common. granted idk how extreme you like it, but almost every single person ive had sex with has some sort of kinky fetish in that realm, at the very least they seem to either enjoy slapping/being slapped and talked to condescendingly during sex.

but then again i only fuck dudes, so maybe its a dude thing idk.,

>>16589868
>Came out to my parents recently too, they've been supportive as well
Wait, what? Why are you telling your parents about this? I love BDSM but I'm not going to tell my mom how much I love it when a guy strangles me.

>>16589872
I didn't tell them any details.
Basically I wanted to provide them an explanation because I was obvious I had depression and issues for some time and I felt like shit and didn't know who to turn to besides my GF.

Well, do people get stuff for you?

>>16589742
Yes.

It means you're not emotionally invested in the arbitrary ways that people maintain social connections.

If Hallmark had ever existed and gift giving instead had been relegated to some other randomly chosen circumstances, it would have maintained its social value all the same. Picking a fight with Christmas and birthdays in particular misses the forest for the trees. Try giving people gifts on Eid al Adha and Eid ul Fitr instead.

>>16589715

How about you tell us the traumatic event so we can tell if it actually warrants your behavior or if your girlfriend is actually being callous.

Until you can do that I'm going to assume you're being dramatic and need to man up because that's not attractive to women. Unless it's a woman who wants to boss men around.

>>16589715
>say I should leave the "gay stuff" regarding feelings to her
I was on board with her until this. Everything else she said could be understandable and I was going to say that she just needed some perspective/empathy, but what the fuck. That's an outright cuntish thing to say.

I'd either ignore her completely or break up with her now that she's shown her true colors. You need to focus on you right now.

>>16589715
>Falling for the modern "men should express their feelings" meme

You're a male, you're not supposed to have feelings. Stop being a pussy.

>>16589698
Just eat it all right when you open it.

why no answers?

It's a sign of lack in David Deida's opinion. You lack love to be exact.

>>16589646
Women are irrational. Ask them if you are going to get your dick sucked/fucked as a service fee. You are going to have to tell guys they are all going to bed with you after all.

>>16589646
Basically what >>16589661 said.

>>16589646
Heh, if you would have defended her they'd flip their shit on you for white knighting or thinking she was a possession or something. Girls are fickle. It depends on your relationship with them. Just apologize.

When I stopped giving a fuck and developed strong moral standards, I turned from a kissless virgin into a... well, person who has sex occasionally.

Fake it till you make it and don't stop too early would be my advice. Works with self-confidence, looks, people skills, skills in bed,...

Just never turn into an ignorant asshole. That's why I mentioned the strong moral standards.

>>16589525
Not true. You may want to get a pregnancy test. Also, make a realistic estimation about how likely she might have cheated on you. If ANY reason to be suspicious, make it clear that you are never going to pay for someone else's kid.

>>16589536
Whoops.

>>16589462
The best part of a relationship is communication, you shouldn't best asking us what is wrong with her, you should be asking her whats wrong. If she is still cold and you keep trying to talk with her then just leave her, its hard but you don't want to be with someone who is cold to you and doesn't care that it hurts you
TL"DR Talk it out with her

Beat her.

>>16589462

>"shop some clothes for her trip outside the country tomorrow"

I'm sorry for you. :/
:

Tell her you're not ready for a committed relationship but you're down to bang.

>>16589435
Wouldn't that get very messy, as she's already in love with me?

Don't use her.
Don't go with the "no strings attached banging" either, if she has feelings for you you will hurt her.

Hold out, you'll get laid soon. How long since you last got laid?