Hi all.
I'm a LONG time lurker and I have only ever posted on this site twice and it was many years ago. The first post was a vaguely humerous adaptation of a Lady Ga Ga song that I reworded in "Ye olde" speak. I took a photo of her and painted a stupid top hat and monocle on her with paint. To my surprise it actually got some laughs. The second was a rant about when someone tried to open my car door while I was in it and I wanted to vent.
This will be my third ever post on this entire website and again, its not a constructive one. I'm literally hoping to appeal to someones generosity or maybe hoping for some pity or advice as i've now hit rock bottom. I've got into a fair amount of debt and it's slowly killing me, or has been for a good few years now.
I've lost pretty much everything and everyone through my constant negative attitude towards life. Now i'm expecting alot of people to chuck shit at me which is fair enough. Just to point out, I have a job and I work hard. It's the only reason i've still got my head above water. I pay what little I can towards my debts every month. I'm not idle about the situation, i'm just miserable and it's going to take me many many years to get out of it.
I've tried all I can think of to help the situation and begging for help from strangers is all i've got left.
TL DR I'm utterly skint and miserable, please help me fix it.
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Fuck off attention whore
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>>17460921
t. Norman Bloggie
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>>17460921
Yeah same here. Idk I make it work somehow
My freakin digimon fucking fan boy friend was taking pics on fb of me playing pokemon go, here's the pic. Should i disown him?
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disown the fucker.
>digimon
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>>17460939
will do, damn him.
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Can someone translate OP's post for me in plain english please?
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How do I get my friend to stop trying to convince me Donald Trump is a good presidential candidate?
He brings it up every time we talk about social politics and it's starting to get really annoying.
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Just don't discuss politics.
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>>17460911
The problem isn't that, the problem is he brings up Trump every time we talk about stuff like the Milwaukee shooting.
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>>17460915
stop talking about those things. take ur tinfoil hat off and follow the trump.
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man i gotta this off my chest 2016-08-14 19:54:36 Post No.17460893
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man i gotta this off my chest
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2016-08-14 19:54:36
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hope you're ready for a fucking novel. I deployed to Afghanistan in 2010, and while I was deployed, I got back in touch with a girl that I dated back in high school. She's 3 years younger than me. It was totally coincidence, but when I got back in touch with her, she was breaking up with her boyfriend of 3 years. I went this entire 1 year deployment talking to her with some ups and downs because she was still seeing her ex boyfriend, and she was honest about it. But, I was crazy about this girl. I came home on R&R and I spent nearly every single day with her while I was home. I fell in love almost immediately. Before I left, I told her that I'm leaving my heart with her until I get home, she cried. The next day I went back to the air port to go back to Afghanistan. I didn't talk to her for about 2 weeks while I was travelling back. Once I got back, she tells me she went back to her ex and didn't know what to do. This fucked me up for the next 6 months. When I came home, we worked it out. I won't lie, that was in the back of my mind the entire time we were dating.
Anyway, we dated for about a year until I started to develop some PTSD issues. Mostly anxiety, insomnia, and hyper vigilance. I felt worthless, depressed, and like a piece of shit. My entire life, I've been known as a tough dude. I was an all-state football player, wrestler, and a very very good soldier. I was afraid to show her that I was having issues, so I shut her out and admitted myself to a hospital. I told her that I couldn't date her anymore, and I went through that.
Fast forward a year, and I'm out on a date with a girl. I realized that while I was on this date, I didn't want to be with this girl, and I wanted my ex back. I called her, she didn't answer. The next day, she text and asked what was up, and I told her, and she said that "this isn't black and white anymore, I have to think about this". Turns out she doesn't want me back.
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>>17460893
Fast forward to now.
I have a girlfiend that I've been dating for 3 years now, and all of the sudden, I can't get my ex out of my head. Like, for the past 4 days it's all I think about.
She's married now. I'm happy for her and her husband because he got a girl who is awesome.
Currently, I'm a triathlete, and I'm in good shape. The past week I've been training, all I can think about is how I'm training because I want my ex to wish she had me back. That's my reason, and it's the worst fucking reason why I'm training. But, it's what I think. I realize that I might be fucked in the head, but I don't know.
Anyway, whoever reads this, thanks. I just needed to say it to someone or something. This board has been a great outlet for me in the past.
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>>17460893
Just focus on your training and health, that comes first. If you still feel this way in 3 days, give her a call.
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>>17460916
You really think I could call? I don't know if that's a good idea.
Years ago after getting into a minor car wreck I had this X-ray done on my neck. The chiropractor said in 21 years and 17000 he's never seen this type of bone growth off the neck(just below the head). Does anyone know what kind of specialist I should seek out to examine this further?
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17000 xrays*
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oh my god.
Dad?
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Clan?
I'd love to hear some opinions just say if you're talking out of experience or though.
Listening o some zen stuff got me thinking social awkwardness comes out of believe you are and should 'get better' something like 'the moment you aim at something you miss it'
Is it something you overcome or just let go?
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There's nothing more true than that you regret what you don't do rather than what you do. I have many regrets, all are things I didn't do.
Social awkwardness comes from insecurity about what others think. 99% of all a persons issues come from insecurity. Imagine all the things you're scared to do, awkward about, and avoid, now imagine all humans are dead except you. You will be able to do all of those things, because there is no one to judge you.
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>>17460835
If this is true...
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>>17460849
Love this thought gonna do some stuff that'll increase the 'fuck em'
>>17460861
How do I let go then x.x
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What do you do when you have thoughts of giving up and quitting?
It's getting pretty overwhelming bros
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I remember that only pussies kill themselves because they can't handle reality. If you don't want to handle life and want to kill yourself go ahead it just removes one more weak link from the gene pool or you can man the fuck up and change the factors that make your existence so fucking horrible.
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i think of a happy time in my life and tell myself its ok. i stopped giving a fuck about a lot of things, but some nights i still think about shit.
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Just start doing heroin
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So, things like working out, reading books, etc.
Things that better yourself but no one is depending on you to do it and nothing bad happens if you don't
How the hell are you supposed to bring yourself to do any of those?
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by growing up and learning that you need to do these pointless things to be
>>NORMAL
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http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/
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>>17460800
Because you feel fucking amazing after
>be fat
>be me
>play vidya and eat like shit everyday after class
>decide to eat healthy and join a jiu jitsu class
>a year later I have my blue belt and have lost 40lbs and look completely different.
>my sex life is great, only problem I just want to meet a girl I can have a long relationship with
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I'm 25 and basically stuck between two choices of how my career and life will go on from this point.
1) Option: Get my Masters degree at my current university, stay in my town near my gf / family / friends / hobbies, have the chance for a very good salary shortly after I finish, don't really like this field and will probably end up as some code monkey in a cubicle untill I get fired or sweet death will release me
2) Option: Go to med school abroad for at least three years, take on a huge loan (60 - 80k) which will take many years to pay back, high chance of failing, live like the poorest poorfag for the next decade, will at least have some feeling of purpose and can experience life outside this monotonous routine what I call my life right now.
Deciding this is bugging me for months now. I make spreadsheets and lists to calculate the possible outcomes and determine the best way. But I simply can't choose one option over the other. Of the few people I talked to about this, two are for 1) and one is for 2).
What do?
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Bump, anyone?
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I would say option 2, but you've already mentioned failing. With a change that big I don't think you can afford to have a negative mindset - if that's what you truly want then you should go for but give it 100%. If you go for option 1, at least modify it so you have some chance of being happy later in life.
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>>17460796
It's very likely that you won't like doing medicine either. Grass is always green on the other side. Just saying that it's something to take into account.
How do you socialize at college parties? Most of the time I'm awkwardly standing there with a drink in my hand and it all feels unnatural
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say hi or how is it going to someone.
i like to get shit faced drunk so i just talk, and dont think about what im going to say next. this got me laid lots.
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>>17460808
>yfw OP cries and spergs out when blacked out hammered
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Bump pls help
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Is wearing mild loli dresses every day to school acceptable?
Do guys, especially introverted anime fans like asian girls who dress like that?
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>>17460769
No they like white girls who dress like that.
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Wear dresses with similar silhouettes, patterns, styles that aren't lolita. That dress is really pretty but it's too child-like.
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>>17460769
Gonna need some pics to decide oni-senpai. Otherwise the concept sounds cute af
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Why shouldn't I go shoot a bunch of people and then myself
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Hello mr. fbi
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because u wont be able to troll the people u shot on 4chan
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>>17460776
>his shitpostbot dosen't have a 4chan pass
Not
Even
Trying
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Wiping after the poop
So, often times I find myself with still a bit of a nugget hanging on in the limbo of my asshole, and it's usually in a borderline rush scenario where I'm conflicted between using half a roll of toilet paper to try and scrub clean, or sitting for half an hour trying to wiggle the nugget free.
How could I over all prevent this occurance?
I spread my cheeks when I sit. I adjust posture as it all goes down
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>>17460754
Take a fucking shower instead.
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Get a Japanese style bidet toilet
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So, /adv/, i recently regained the ability to casually talk with opposite sex.
Still suffer from the problem of crushing on an interesting guy for no reason like a highschooler.
>Guys, what's your attitude to inexperienced stuttering kissless virgins, who show disgustingly clearly they are into you?
If she is lame? If she isn't?
>What do you find interesting in girls personality-wise?
I am 20 yo girl it's getting embarassing. I am very bad at talking about myself, because i almost never needed to. Always tell people some self-degrading joke shit like "I just play video games and watch anime all day" and i get away with being secretive. Guys who do neither instantly lose interest, maybe it's a good thing.
But recently one crush asked me about my interests and i fucking realized i have always been a boring nerd, because i never wanted to be different. I couldn't interestingly tell about normal hobbies i have even.
Are speech skills that vital for a woman in dating?
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>>17460724
If you're attractive, you sound pretty much like the pure waifu ideal that everyone pines for. If not, then you're just a typical lonely hikkomori / catlady
Keep in mind that men's taste in female appearances varies all over the place. So even if you're a disgusting legbeard, there will be guys that see you and think you're a 10/10
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It depends.
Is your crush a chad, a robot, or an ordinary nerd, not too much of a weeb, but still no normie.
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>>17460757
Thanks, anon
>>17460759
Embarassingly, i have to admit that i reactively crush on slender anime-tier appearance type of guys. Not stereotypical chads, but guys who are or appear to be sensitive. That media archetype, who is cheerful, funny and charismatic, but goofy a bit, spends many time alone.
I got crushes on overweight nerds too, but they always were either taken or immaturely self-absorbed.
So it must be the latter?
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I'm thinking about getting a credit card /pol/, which one should I get first?
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Hard cold cash.
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>falling for the credit jew
i only use debit
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>>17460684
^this
>fuck credit cards
BUT if you must get a card, get something with a limit so you don't go into debt.